On today's episode I first discuss the power of manifesting and how I manifested my current life.I then have Kristina Schulman on, as she opens up about her childhood as an orphan in Russia and being adopted by an American family that took her

Bad B*tch Bootcamp - Game Changer

Jan 15th, 2021 39m 19s

CONGRATULATION BADDIES!!!YOU'VE OFFICIALLY GRADUATED FROM DUMB BISH TO BAD BISH!!!! I'M PROUD OF YOU.I start this episode with the first 20 minutes discussing, my booty hole, anal bleaching, I reminisce on how I started Daddyissues, how I was

Surviving A (Friendship) Breakup

Jan 11th, 2021 34m 8s

On this episode we discuss friendship breakup, why we struggle with them, and how to cope with losing a friend. We start with a Q&A on feeling lost, letting go, and a weird habit of mine that no one knows about. We then dive into how to spo

How To Win An Argument

2 days ago 29m 11s

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading from Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power - Law #9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Arguments. Discover why winning through your actions rather than arguments can

Law of Attraction: Make Him YOURS

7 days ago 34m 43s

Hey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch.GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to

20 Signs You're Doing Better Than You Think

9 days ago 23m 28s

Hey Besties! Today is another Benson Book Club Tuesday! Let’s take another look at 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Ever catch yourself thinking, "I do

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How to Handle Conflict

10 days ago 14m 20s

Hello and welcome to my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Today you will get a glimpse from Saturay's premium podcast episode where we discuss how to handle conflict, especially for people who struggle with it. Hope you enjoy!To listen to the FULL episode and

Law of Attraction: Attract SUCCESS

14 days ago 38m 44s

Hey Besties! Today, we discuss the PSYCHOLOGY, the SCIENCE, and the SPIRITUALITY behind Success along with a few calls to actions to make it happen for you!!Let’s listen to some life lessons about what success truly means and unravel the parado

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P DIDDY & RAYA - Violetta's Diary

15 days ago 8m 10s

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts or CONFESSIONS with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each othe

Get People to Like You Instantly

16 days ago 26m 8s

Hey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking,

The Psychology of Self-Sabotage – Why Do We Do It?

21 days ago 46m 8s

Hey Besties! We're diving headfirst into the complexities of self-sabotage. Why do we often self-sabotage? How do we snap out of the self-defeat funk? Embrace the beauty of failure, kick negative thinking to the curb, and discover 18 tips to bo

When to Have S*x

23 days ago 25m 4s

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading a part of Chapter 19: When To Have Sex from the book Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L Lambert, and will be sharing her thoughts on when to take things to the bedroom

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4 Confidence Hacks To Transform Your Life

25 days ago 17m 12s

Hey Besties! Welcome to episode TWO of Dating University available ONLY on the PREMIUM podcast.Violetta is going to get real about everything from pimple patches to our 'pick me' girl pasts. It's all about embracing your fabulous self, finding

What Your Attachment Style Says About You w/ Sarah Baldwin

28 days ago 1h 2m

Hey Besties! Today, we get to listen to the second half of Violetta’s conversation with Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reacti

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INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS

29 days ago 15m 57s

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.Today we dive

From Lovers to Strangers - What Went Wrong?

30 days ago 33m 5s

Hey Besties! Welcome to another Benson Book Club Tuesday! It’s been a favorite so we will discuss another chapter of 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. V

5 Signs Your Friendship Is Toxic w/ Jordyn & Alex (Mean Girl Podcast)

Mar 14th, 2024 1h 24m

Hey Besties! Let’s welcome Alex Bennett and Jordyn Woodruff, the duo behind the Mean Girl podcast. In the show, these two come together for honest conversations about sex, friendship, mental health, and living in the big city as outsiders.Viole

Use a Man’s Mind Against Him

Mar 12th, 2024 36m

Hey Besties! In today’s Benson Book Club, Violetta will take inspiration from Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L. Lambert - a manual on how to stop manipulation, command attention, and be seen as a must have by any man. Let's take a look int

The Nervous System Explained w/ Sarah Baldwin

Mar 7th, 2024 1h 7m

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are n

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BE SUCCESSFULLY DELUSIONAL

Mar 6th, 2024 13m 45s

What Motivates Men to Commit

Mar 5th, 2024 35m 37s

Hey Besties! Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray. The book provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowled

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Why He Doesn't Want You

Mar 3rd, 2024 9m 36s

Loving Those Who Can't Love Us Back

Feb 29th, 2024 29m 25s

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book Club session, we’re going to dive deep into Why We Hold On Tightest on the Things That Aren’t Meant for Us from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Violet shares her candid insigh

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Feeling Ungrateful

Feb 29th, 2024 11m 48s

She's a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules)

Feb 27th, 2024 57m 5s

Hey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relati