In this thrilling edition we talk about the Swinghub PJ party and find out why Mrs H had to hunt high and low for Mr H. We delve in to the Swindon Social - and touch on how we could get more from going to events and the like. We announce that w

bh177: the black and white ball

18 days ago 1h 8m

In this episode we talk about the Black and White Ball, which we hosted with the Lovely Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. We go behind the scenes to talk about how the event went, run through what it's like being a host and also cover some of the

bh176: life updates, top tv and solo dates

Mar 17th, 2024 54m 2s

In this episode we share an update on what's been going on in our lives lately. We talk about the support we've had from friends in the lifestyle and why things haven't been easy. But don't worry - it's not all doom and gloom - we quickly move

bh175: lads, lads, lads

Mar 3rd, 2024 52m 48s

In this episode Mr H catches up with the marvellous Secret Stag for a chat about life, the universe and everything. From hotwifing and taking Secret vixen out on a date - all the way through to top tips for men - this one covers a wide range of

bh174: Mrs H goes one on one with Secret Stag

Feb 18th, 2024 50m 31s

After taking time out to interview the lovely Secret Vixen in our last episode, Mrs H turns the tables on Secret Stag and interviews him one on one. They delve deeper into the world of hotwifing, cuckolding and stag and vixen dynamics. They exp

bh173: one on one with Secret Vixen

Feb 4th, 2024 1h 4m

In this episode Mrs H goes solo with Secret Vixen for some one on one time and a great conversation. They explore the world of hot wives, what makes SV tick and what she's looking for in a hot date. Mr H and Secret Stag stay out of it for the b

bh172: from red-lines to escalations

Jan 21st, 2024 52m

In this episode we take to X (or Twitter, for the old school) to get some listener questions. We cover a fair few topics including our hard red-lines, how to escalate and if we've ever lost friends in the lifestyle. Don't forget, if you'd like

bh171: glory holes and trouser holes - NYE at Xstasia

Jan 7th, 2024 54m 16s

Hoppy new year! We hope you had a great one and have started the year with a bang!This episode is all about our New Years Eve trip to Xstasia (near Birmingham). We cover what it's like returning to the club (we were last there pre-pandemic), s

bh170: a solo play date

Dec 17th, 2023 1h 14m

In this episode we follow up on our chat about separate dating - and Mr H goes on a solo play adventure. We talk about how this came about, what happened, how we're feeling and what it might mean for the future. Mrs H reveals what she got up to

bh169: the great big UK hotel takeover

Dec 3rd, 2023 51m 18s

This episode is part two (of a two part podcast). The first one is on the Wanderlust Swingers show (https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder) and is called UK Swingers Hotel Takeover. We chill out with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers and talk about the

bh168: a big discussion on dynamics

Nov 19th, 2023 1h 4m

Thanks for downloading our podcast.We take time out to follow up on a discussion we'd started in Miami. For some context, in Florida Mrs H missed out on the opportunity to play with some ladies/one particular lady. This, linked in with some ob

bh167: the Miami PCAP recap

Nov 5th, 2023 1h 4m

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about our recent adventure to Florida and how Miami Podcast-A-Palooza (PCAP) went for us. We cover what it was like at the event, what we got up to and our thoughts on returning. There

bh166: SwingHub and Open House with Olivia and Gage

Oct 15th, 2023 50m 26s

In this episode we speak to the lovely Olivia and Gage about Swinghub (their new lifestyle dating app), appearances on TV (including Open House) and also explore how they met and what they do with their spare time! We have some fun along the wa

bh165: the pre event conversation

Oct 1st, 2023 58m 54s

In this episode we have a chat about some upcoming events and talk through our approach. What are our expectations, some of our rules and boundaries - and how are we going to make the best of our experience. Take a listen to find out how we pre

bh164: Swindon Swingers Club

Sep 17th, 2023 46m 45s

In this episode we have a quick catch-up on Mrs H's birthday and then dive right in to the topic of the day - our visit to Swindon Swingers Club. We give you the basics on how it works, what it's like and try to remember the layout off the top

bh163: masturbation and eye opening moments

Sep 3rd, 2023 1h

Thanks for downloading our show! In this episode we answer some listener questions - from making a great first impression and recovering from an illness - all the way through to an exploration of masturbation (thanks for that one, Mrs H!). We a

bh162: lose yourself in the moment

Aug 20th, 2023 1h 9m

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about some of the sexy times we had on our Going Dutch adventure. From six in a tiny room to a show for two - this one has it all. We cover the naughty times but also deep dive into a

bh161: Fata Morgana and Fun4Two

Aug 6th, 2023 48m 18s

Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about our Going Dutch event with the Wanderlust Swingers. We cover the basics on the trip and explore the two clubs that we visited - Fata Morgana and Fun4Two. We compare the two and r

bh160: the hot summer nights event

Jul 23rd, 2023 1h 9m

Thanks for taking a look at our podcast. In this episode we talk about our Hot Summer Nights event at Penthouse Playrooms (co-hosted with the Wanderlust Swingers) and how it went for us and for special guests HiscockHertail (LV and VI). We cove

bh159: our top three UK swingers clubs

Jul 9th, 2023 39m 24s

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we answer popular listener question - what are our favourite clubs in the UK? So, we talk about our top three and explore just why we'd recommend them, the good, the bad and the ugly. Well, mostl

bh158: our worst experience

Jun 25th, 2023 47m 39s

Thanks for picking our podcast! In this episode we talk about our worst experience ever. We delve into some of the meets that have gone wrong and then into a situation that we'd never want to repeat. We explore a weekend break from several year

bh157: a slutty weekend

Jun 11th, 2023 56m 53s

Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about a rather exciting weekend. From bottomless drinks and hosting friends all the way through to our social event and a very sexy threesome. Sounds like a great weekend to us. Secret

bh156: questions for your lover

May 28th, 2023 1h 5m

Thanks for downloading our podcast. This one is a chat between us - we decided to ask each other some questions that we think everyone might benefit from. So, consider this a lifestyle and relationship check-in. The questions are...1. Why are

bh155: just the twoofus

May 14th, 2023 55m

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we interview great friends the Twoofus (or the Twoofers) - and find out more about how they came to join the lifestyle, their favourite clubs and who they'd have over for tea. There's some fun al

bh154: busting makes us feel good

Apr 30th, 2023 1h 17m

In this episode we tackle some of the great swinger myths - where they might come from, if any of them are actually true and which are just urban legends. Mrs H pulls together a list of her favourites and tests Mr H on the fact or fiction. A f