Okay now, sit down... I am one of the people referenced in this podcast. I was friends with Spencer for about 8 years. After he separated from his first wife, we hooked up a few times. During these times, he confided to me that he was attracted to young girls. I was really into the kink scene in Atlanta at the time, and proposed Daddy/daughter roleplay as a safe alternative. I am pretty sure that I am the person that he asked to punch him, but I don't have emails to confirm that. I know that we talked a lot on a chat app as well as texting and emails. Honestly, the young girl thing creeped me out. He was very focused on it. I think that the thing about him wanting partners to call him "Daddy" was a part of that. I think that he may have asked me to do that. I'm foggy on that, but I wouldn't have had a problem with it. My point is that the while podcast ( so far, on ep 3) is focused on, "How could my husband have been living this secret life that I wasn't aware of? Poor me!" Well, you've got an email I sent him with a quote from "Lolita," referencing his fantasies. This is from 2010-ish. What exactly do you think that is referring to? Point here is that Jenifer Faison has my name and that email, yet she never contacted me to inquire about it. I think that this is because it doesn't fit her narrative of how Spencer was vicitimizing everyone, and we all had "no idea!" What else could you expect from someone who produced "Jersey Shore." Look; the real story is that this is a teacher who groomed and sexually abused his students, not a dude who was living a "secret life." I can understand the feelings of betrayal, but the real story is about these kids that he sexually abused, not you, Lady. And so far the podcast really minimizes this. And, once again, I can tell you that he told me way back in 2010 that he was sexually attracted to younger girls but that doesn't fit the narrative, so these interactions were not included. I find it repellent that Ms. Faison has made a self-indulgent podcast about the breakdown of her marriage, when the real issue here is a man who abused his position as a teacher to manipulate, groom, and abuse his students.

The series started off well, after the first few episodes I was totally engaged. However the series goes downhill and fast. During one episode a comparison is made between one of the adult women who engaged in an affair and of the victim of child sexual exploitation and I couldn't bring myself to listen to the last episode after the speakers rambled on and implied that this man was a victim of sex addiction.

I thought this podcast was exploitative of the s.a. victim. Why did she need to speak to the abuser’s wife? Why record it? Also, it’s particularly uninteresting and unhelpful to hear someone whine about how their husband betrayed them and how tough their life was when he was arrested. Then she supported him for some time. Also someone says the wife was not like the women her husband was texting, as if she’s somehow above them for some reason. I listened to 2.5 episodes and I’ll never get the time back. I thought I’d hear about her becoming an advocate for abuse victims but that wasn’t the case at all. All around icky. We get it she was a successful producer (they beat that post Mortem horse) so if it happens to her it can happen to peons like us?? AVOID!