Alejohndra are back with tales of their Egypt trip.— (1:25) John and Alexandra recap their retreat to Egypt— (9:05) What about the aliens? / the construction of the pyramids had to be an exercise in presence and intention — (16:23) The femin

BHE 181 - 333w222vs333w444 - JOSHXLOUIS

17 days ago 1h 35m

In this episode of WILTBY Josh interviews Louis.— (4:50) Josh processing his 2-wing and meeting Louis at the zone / the team love vs team truth confrontation— (11:45) 3w2 facilitating and orchestrating connection vs 3w4 distant excellence— (

BHE 180 - POOR THINGS - Al & Ikram

26 days ago 1h 7m

We watched Poor things right before recording our impressions and thoughts. Call the nota4 hotline at (323) 696-0647.— (2:40) Overview of Poor Things and its ode to the head center— (8:40) The surgeon is a 5— (13:22) 6 reactivity leveling th

BHE 179 - FORBIDDEN TIPS AND TRICKS 1 - DGXSTJ

Mar 17th, 2024 16m 3s

They don’t want you to know.— (3:10) Nines are everyone’s least favorite mud cattle— (6:38) Sixes are annoying cult maintainers— (11:13) Sevens are the slutty surprise suicideEnneagrammer — Become dangerously perceptive and skilled at seein

BHE 178 - THE DOGVILLE PRINCIPLE - IKRAM

Mar 6th, 2024 1h 16m

A must-watch for every 9 and 9-fixer. Watch Dogville and then come back to this.— (8:42) Why we’re talking about Dogville / Plot overview— (19:53) The hope of attachment vs the leverage of rejection— (24:30) How things went from bad to worse

BHE 177 - [LIVE POD] HARLEM HEARTS

Feb 13th, 2024 1h 10m

Live from Harlem tunneling thru the catacombs of the heart.Watch here: https://youtu.be/tnkHm0LCX_c— (2:18) Alright.. the heart center live— (6:45) The value of shame / heart-2nd impresisons— (13:15) Josh’s core 3 image and sensitivity to s

BHE 176 - THE LAST HEART

Jan 29th, 2024 1h 3m

New insights emerging on having your heart center last.— (4:22) Alexandra’s new insights about heart-last and image being a cultivated sense of identity — (12:27) Being a social-blind image type / reinforcing who you are to yourself— (16:28)

BHE 175 - why so reactive ???

Jan 19th, 2024 1h 9m

We’re back at it looking at reactive harmonics.— (3:22) Reactive vs frustration / harmonics is how we resolve a situation— (7:16) ‘Hopeful’ better describes what positive outlook is up to / reactive aims to uncover where the other is located

BHE 174 - 2023 END OF YEAR WRAP PARTY

Jan 4th, 2024 1h 21m

Looking back on 2023 with libations. Happy new year you filthy animals.— (2:20) Our impressions of BHE year IV / shifts in the business of the enneagram— (8:31) Why interest in the enneagram is taking a dip — (14:27) Do people know about BHE

BHE 173 - BIG WINTER FLICKS

Dec 17th, 2023 1h 16m

Chatting the enneagram in the movies.— (2:48) Non-romantic sexual instinct in Suspiria / sx-middle teases / Twin Peaks’ weird sp/sx— (10:32) Holy Mountain and Enter the Void as sexual instinct movies— (14:39) Paul Thomas Anderson and attachm

BHE 172 - ASTROCARTOGRAPHY - ODINAKA

Dec 4th, 2023 1h 13m

Od’s with us this week to dive into the interesting world of astrocartography.— (10:12) What is astrocartography and how’d we get into this?— (16:08) Moving to significant areas on your astro map— (21:17) How to create your astrocartography

BHE 171 - PART2.OPS SOCIAL ROLES - IKRAM

Nov 23rd, 2023 59m 22s

Continuing where we left off with Ikram and the Objective Personality Social Types. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram.— (6:16) The sp/so framing of the social roles concept makes it smaller / does soci

BHE 170 - OPS SOCIAL ROLES - IKRAM

Nov 15th, 2023 1h 24m

We’re talking about the Objective Personality Social Types this week with Ikram. We’ve been typed #3 for DG, Alexandra, and John. #2 for Emeka. #4 for Ikram.— (7:55) *Gasp* John is taking responsibility / intro to OPS social roles— (14:18) Wh

BHE 169 - [LIVE POD] GOATS AND MODELS IN THE BACKROOMS

Nov 5th, 2023 59m 34s

Live from Brooklyn backrooms answering your questions.Watch here: https://youtu.be/WlHQcWEglks— (2:32) How important is trifix order?— (12:10) What feels like boring chores to the sexual instinct?— (17:31) How DG experiences his lines of co

BHE 168 - THE SHAME

Oct 17th, 2023 1h 15m

The wet heart types. Live pod this weekend. Be on the lookout for details.— (4:35) Assertive hexad types being out of touch with their shame— (6:26) Shame is not a great word for what the heart types are experiencing / identity needing to fee

BHE 167 - THE RAGE

Oct 2nd, 2023 56m 25s

The fuming and stewing gut types.— (4:03) Alexandra wants to be led when she’s in the mood— (9:05) David is very angry at the sun— (16:49) And the plague of bread people— (20:35) Alexandra finally admits she has a rage problem— (30:30) Eme

BHE 166 - THE FEAR

Sep 25th, 2023 1h 18m

Delving into the fear and anxiety of the head types.— (3:57) 5 fear of being contaminated— (10:40) Avarice is a sense that personhood isn’t robust enough to be fully exposed in the world— (11:30) The 8 line to 5 and the 2 line to 8— (16:30)

BHE 165 - S O C I A L Instincity

Sep 17th, 2023 1h 8m

— (8:25) Riffing on new terms for social / resonance and frequency— (15:08) Social as a 3D matrix / What is the big deal with what social types are looking for?— (20:15) We feel social chemistry with those who we feel regulated by— (23:17) S

BHE 164 - ** FOURFOURSTRATION INTENSIFIES ** - JOHNXJOSEPH

Sep 2nd, 2023 1h 8m

A sexual 4w5 and a social 4w3 walk into a bar.— (4:21) Vulnerability and sensitivity as a 4— (7:21) The difference between 9 sensitivity and 4 sensitivity— (10:55) Type 4 is over-individuating to express singular identity— (13:30) Joseph wo

BHE 163 - THE SP/SX & SX/SP ROASTATHON - Courtney Joseph & Kristen

Aug 25th, 2023 1h 35m

A horde of social types attempt a roast of the social-blind legends.— (7:55) Let the roasts begin — (10:50) Creeps and Homewreckers— (13:19) The limited personas and channels of engagement of social blinds— (14:33) Joseph’s social 4 impress

BHE 162 - SOCIAL PAIN AND HEARTBREAKS - Ikram & Kristen

Aug 17th, 2023 1h 40m

We’re joined by two social types, Ikram & Kristen, to explore the pain and suffering of the social instinct.— (12:33) Post-zone reflections on social pain and longing— (16:44) Potential dangers in social space— (22:48) The naivety of social-

BHE 161 - THE ATTACHMENT SUPPORT GROUP - Josh Lavine

Aug 5th, 2023 1h 8m

Introducing the attachment support group, brought to you by Alexandra and Josh.— (12:36) Why do attachment types need support?— (14:18) A brief overview on what attachment types are— (20:17) What accountability means for attachment types / w

BHE 160 - THE SO/SX & SX/SO ROASTATHON

Jul 29th, 2023 1h 11m

We’re back roasting the crackhead and lovebomb babies of the enneagram.— (22:17) Why do we call self-pres blinds babies? / Overly dependent on the attention of other people— (26:24) Self-pres is self-regulation and self-containment. Not just

BHE 159 - [LIVE POD] AN ORAL HISTORY OF BHE/EU

Jul 21st, 2023 1h 49m

Watch the live pod on youtube:https://youtu.be/lhaDNCSuwW4— (18:41) What we’ve contributed to the enneagram as a group— (23:18) Josh leads us through piecing together the history of the group— (37:44) DG’s instinct cards and the birth of th

BHE 158 - THE INSTINCT STACKING ROASTATHON - SP/SO & SO/SP

Jul 2nd, 2023 1h 14m

— (10:40) Welcome to our roast of the sx-blinds— (15:52) so/sp are way too serious and stuck-up about relational categories and context— (21:40) so/sp’s do it with their gloves on in the museum — (25:57) The power drive of so/sp / lineage an