What we think is going to be a success versus how it really happens, when colognes smell good but don’t work for you & our favorite colognes, being at the point in life where responsibilities set in, whether partners should get a pass for being

BotM 245 - The Penultimate

Feb 12th, 2020 1h 39m

Looking back on trends and music we grew up with, the cast RuVeal of season 12 of RuPaul’s Drag Race and our first impressions of all the new queens, and much more!

BotM 244 - Squeezing the Meat

Jan 25th, 2020 1h 5m

The joy of flatbread, whether dick pics are par for the course or offensive on Grindr, the value of random gifts from your parents as an adult, Aneesh gets squeezed into bottle service, waiting for the new season of Drag Race, & more!

BotM 243 - Tea All Over the Computer

Jan 18th, 2020 1h 14m

Our thoughts on AJ & the Queen, Nikkie Tutorials coming out, Aneesh spills coffee on his computer and has a man telling him one thing and doing another, & much more!

BotM 242 - Fancy Home in the New Year

Jan 8th, 2020 1h 26m

Celebs with and without taste on Architectural Digest as inspo, Oprah not knowing the words & other meme moments in pop culture, Aneesh got a hotel room and a smooch for New Year’s Eve, gay PDA, the importance of taking good nudes & having phot

BotM 241 - Trolling for the Holidays

Jan 1st, 2020 1h 17m

The things we love about Costco, why Jews eat Chinese food on Christmas, Aneesh’s story of getting no Christmas gifts and someone in the friend circle deliberately trying to be a troll, how bubbles form on the internet and lead to people believ

BotM 240 - A Raise for the Holidays

Dec 23rd, 2019 1h 9m

Aneesh doesn’t want to talk about his birthday, got a holiday wish come true at work, thoughts on people turning up at work, Sacha’s got no time for the straights, when work is too much but you’ve got to get it done, & more!

BotM 239 - Wax It Off

Dec 18th, 2019 1h 14m

Aneesh was renamed Denise and is the queen of phone cases, our worst stories of phones breaking, thoughts on Trixie’s documentary Moving Parts, the tea on those viral videos of men getting waxed, & much more!

BotM 238 - Thanks-Gifting

Dec 10th, 2019 1h 36m

Going rogue and buying an illicit washing machine for your apartment, a laser hair removal update because it actually works, a big thank you to a lovely listener who gifted a game, Aneesh talks about this year’s Thanksgiving & family time, & mu

BotM 237 - She's Not Humble

Dec 3rd, 2019 1h 3m

The great toilet paper vs wipes debate, Aneesh has a cold and sells his breakfast nook to a white man who asks the “where are you from?” question, Flame Monroe lights up a debate with a terrible interview on trans pronouns, the finale and our w

BotM 236 - Disney Minge

Nov 26th, 2019 1h 30m

Disney+ is here to hit us in the sweet spot of nostalgia, our thoughts on Pokemon Sword and Shield, the makeover episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race UK is here, & much more!

BotM 235 - Extra Salty Water

Nov 19th, 2019 1h 24m

Aneesh gets sloppy and says just a little too much to his date, straight handymen helping with interior design, the gehls sell their own bottles of water on RuPaul’s Drag Race UK, & much more!

BotM 234 - Dress Up, Bye Bye

Nov 11th, 2019 1h 13m

Rent’s due, our thoughts on dressing up for Halloween, buying too much clothing, Aneesh hacks a deal ordering in, when spa treatments turn into brand deals, the girls get split into groups on RuPaul’s Drag Race UK, & more!

BotM 233 - The Wrong View

Nov 3rd, 2019 1h 36m

Drag queens sucking up to daytime TV Republicans, people’s obsession with not rewearing things, how we really feel about Halloween and costumes, people not paying attention when talking shit, the RuPaul’s Drag Race UK girls take on Snatch Game,

BotM 232 - Stir Shit, Get Messy

Oct 24th, 2019 1h 31m

Sacha explains just what exactly was going on in Barcelona’s protests, Aneesh has a disaster hosting a drag show in an aquarium, Tatianna gets a mugshot, gay men being catty to others who work in certain fields, how wealth works, an actress pro

BotM 231 - No Debt, Much Better

Oct 21st, 2019 1h 16m

Our thoughts on RuPaul’s Drag Race UK episode 2, our thoughts on shacking up with people with debt, money management and living within your means, and more!You can get our merch at teespring.com/stores/botmainstream! Whether you’re a Professi

BotM 230 - Her Tuppence Is Showing

Oct 14th, 2019 1h 36m

Aneesh goes to Vegas & the heterosexuals are nagging him to go out to the gay bars, our thoughts on the impeachment inquiry, a determined Judy playing matchmaker, the first episode of RuPaul’s Drag Race UK is here, & much more!You can get our

BotM 229 - Knee Jam for the Gram

Oct 6th, 2019 1h 14m

Revisiting the vaping ban, flavored cigarettes & teenagers smoking, people’s eyes not matching their face, getting work done on your face, thin lips & fillers, Aneesh busts a knee for the ‘gram, getting the best photos on accident, & much more!

BotM 228 - Vape and Grind

Sep 25th, 2019 1h 32m

Vaping coming under scrutiny versus smoking other stuff, guys who have impossible expectations about how you’re supposed to talk & meet on the apps, Aneesh has an experience with a straight man at a salsa bar, power and privilege dynamics, Werq

BotM 227 - Rats & Heels

Sep 22nd, 2019 1h 30m

Rats in the city, language and culture for second-generation immigrants, Aneesh challenges himself to wear heels, the neighbor’s porn was on blast, the top 4 challenge of season 6 of RuPaul’s Drag Race, & much more!You can get our merch at te

BotM 226 - Don't Settle Too Soon

Sep 15th, 2019 1h 29m

Trinity preaching the good word about taking your time before getting it on and not getting taken advantage of young, Aneesh goes to a housewarming party and feels out of place among all of the settled down gays, what it means to have interests

BotM 225 - Bat Wing

Sep 9th, 2019 1h 15m

Aneesh discovers a whole new world of wangs, goes to a Chippendales show and saw a lot of man, the importance of the fantasy versus the reality of who you hook up with, sussing out whether someone you meet might be gay too, the wedding makeover

BotM 224 - The NSFW Episode

Sep 6th, 2019 1h 21m

It’s too hot for anything in Arizona, how it feels to come to terms with your clothing size & shopping for new clothes, guys who insist they need to use Magnums & their size complexes, whether and when size really matters, what to do when the D

BotM 223 - Boycott Silent Letters

Aug 28th, 2019 1h 27m

The struggle for the perfect night cream, Drita doesn’t have time for two Gs in eggs, all the gays boycotting Equinox and the reality of corporate political donations, Aneesh has a wild Friday night walking in on cheating about to happen, the l

BotM 222 - I Wish I Didn't Know That

Aug 25th, 2019 1h 20m

Sacha gets singed at his laser hair removal, that feeling when someone tells you just a little too much & everything is ruined, white people adopting a whole new personality around people of color, Aneesh rethinks an Insta post of the Trump Tow