Date Smarter, Not Harder Relationships Talk Show!

Since 2008 Ms. HeartBeat (Deborrah Cooper) has been providing outstanding, and hilariously funny insights and commentary on romantic and familial relationships. After careful consideration, the show on BlogTalk will be discontinued, and all fut

Manipulative Things Black Men Do to Make Black Women Jump Through Hoops!

Aug 19th, 2016 8m 6s

In this exciting 25 video series, veteran advice columnist and dating expert Deborrah Cooper (Ms HeartBeat) breaks down dozens of manipulative social policies and mind games used by black males to get emotional and mental control of black women

The Mammy and The Mule and The Good Black Woman Who Gives Her All to Black Men

Jul 19th, 2016 1h 19m

Throughout the black community one will find "the good black woman" who feels the need to give her all and be an all-around giver and supporter of the black men she dates or wants to date. She believes that by proving herself to be "a good blac

Dating Sociopaths Out to Get Young Women by Any Means Necessary

Jun 27th, 2016 1h 30m

This show is about the thousands of men who are making millions with books and programs they claim will help men get more dates with women. In reality, they are teaching manipulation, control, domination, mental emotional and sexual abuse, and

Single Black Women Audition to be a Wife While Single Black Men Don't Do Squat

Jun 15th, 2016 1h 8m

Throughout our lives, women are directed and instructed on how they "need" to be, dress, talk, walk and look to "keep a man" with the hope of keeping him around satisfied and happy enough to propose marriage. Girls learn how to dress sexy (but

Dating and the Non-Religious Black Single

Jun 2nd, 2016 1h

According to research, African American women are the most religious demographic in the United States, followed by black men. Churches around the country are filled with singles hopeful of finding their Ruth or Boaz or their Queen or King for l

The Never Married Black Woman, Husband and Marriage Fairy Tales

May 14th, 2016 1h 23m

Discussion of single, never married black women, and their unrealistic fantasies about the life they will lead if and when they meet "my King." Some of the ideas expressed by these young ladies about marrital relationships are a set up to exhau

The Effeminization of the Black Male - Are Black Men the New Black Woman?

Apr 18th, 2016 1h 31m

The black males of today present themselves as rather weak and effeminate. Do we blame their fathers for abandoning them to be raised under the influence of women? I think that is a large part of the problem. Young men learn how to be men from

Relationships and Women - Societal Expectations, Gender Roles and Male Demands

Apr 10th, 2016 1h 26m

The dream of happily ever after is one many young girls have almost from infancy. Girls dream of falling in love, finding their Prince, getting married, having babies, and living happily ever after like in the fairy stories. But how many of tho

Relationship Baggage From the Male and Female Perspective with Quinton Morgan

Apr 9th, 2016 1h 24m

Baggage is the term used to describe the emotional and mental "junk" from the past that we carry around with us every day. From old childhood hurts like bullying, rejection, and fears of abandonment to the crushing blows of physical, emotional

Going Dutch, Hooking Up and Hanging Out - Why Don't Men Ask Women Out on Dates?

Mar 29th, 2016 1h 45m

Dating seems to have fallen out of favor. The old-fashioned date where you both get dressed up nice, he picks you up, and takes you to some fun, exciting or romantic event or place for a few hours of private time together...and he pays at the e

Eating Vegan and Healthy Soul Food Cooking - Why Vegan is the New Black

Nov 17th, 2014 26m

Can a diet free of meat, milk, eggs, butter and cheese actually taste good? Deborrah Cooper, author of the new cookbook WHY VEGAN IS THE NEW BLACK: MORE THAN 100 DELICIOUS MEAT AND DAIRY FREE MEAL IDEAS YOUR WHOLE FAMILY WILL LOVE says the answ

Unwed Pregnancy - Is the Baby a Blessing or a Huge FAIL

Oct 28th, 2013 1h 32m

Recently, Pastor Marvin Winans refused to allow an unwed mother of a 2 year old boy to have her child blessed in front of the congregation along with the children of married parents. The baby momma is irate and says she "never felt so disrespec

Never Date a Dead Animal with Author Nancy Nichols

Oct 21st, 2013 1h 19m

NEVER DATE A DEAD ANIMAL is a must read for women who date, fall in love with and commit to antisocial personalities. Ask yourself these questions:Are you influenced by a man’s good looks, flattering words, charisma and success?Do you someti

Why It's Stupid to Help a Man be a Man

Sep 30th, 2013 1h 31m

There is a lot of talk in the black community about black women being the "rock" of the family and for their men. Many of the commonly heard phrases amongst black men and women are:I take care of my man! If I don't do it for him, somebody e

Mr Cee and Suspect Sexuality in Black Men

Sep 16th, 2013 1h 30m

You know the story of Mr. Cee, top hip hop DJ who confessed to having numerous encounters with transgender women... men who dress like and live their lives as women because they say they were born in the wrong body.But Mr. Cee is married. He

What Men Do WRONG In Relationships

Sep 9th, 2013 1h 33m

Men worry about falling in love and having a woman abandon them. They worry about a woman cheating. They worry about a woman being loyal. They also worry about a woman taking their children and what they consider to be "their" money.But what

Male War on Women - Stalking and Violence Against Women

Aug 26th, 2013 1h 33m

In this final edition of our four part series on the War Against Women we'll investigate how men view rejection by females, modern dating trends in the "hook up" generation, stalking behaviors, why men murder ex-wives and ex-girlfriends, and bi

Male War on Women - Pedophile Grooming and Campus Assaults

Aug 19th, 2013 1h 53m

We continue the discussion of the war on women and girls being waged by males worldwide.In this broadcast we'll address the ridiculous number of campus sexual assaults and pedophile grooming rings that may be after your child. Can it be that

Pedophilia on the Rise - Male War on Very Young Girls

Aug 12th, 2013 2h 3m

We continue the discussion of the war on women and girls being waged by males worldwide. In this broadcast we'll address the global trafficking of very young girls by adult men, child brides and forced "marriages", child molesters, child abduct

Womb Envy and the Male War on Women

Aug 5th, 2013 2h 2m

Men are waging war on all things female across the globe. Why? Because they have womb envy and fear female power. Men hate women and this is why:#1 Men hate women worldwide and have declared war on the entire female gender;#2 Men hate women

Man Poaching and Side Chicks

Jul 29th, 2013 1h 57m

Have you heard that "husband stealing" is on the rise world-wide? That could mean the fantasy perfect family life you think you will or do have is in danger. After all, nobody wants someone that nobody else wants, right?Research on animal mat

Black vs White Men - Which is Best for Modern Black Women?

Jul 22nd, 2013 1h 58m

Interracial relationships have always gone on in the black community, primarily taking place between black men and women of other races. However, over the past 15 years or so, black women are catching up and marrying non-black men at greater nu

The Mythical Good Black Man

Jul 15th, 2013 2h

All over the country, black women hold out hope of finding the mythical "Good Black Man." This guy is as rare as a Unicorn. Yeah I do know a few (some of them call this show), but reality is that 99.5% of black men are no where NEAR a "good bla

Do Black Men Hate Black Women?

Jul 1st, 2013 1h 32m

The question has to be asked. Looking at the verbally and emotionally abusive language and cruel words used both online and offline - coupled with reports all over the world of atrocities and assaults committed by black and brown men against th