This episode of Dear Jessamyn is the last planned recording of the show. Before this possibly long (or never ending) hiatus, a newly fat Deary asks about how to love her new body. We love you all.This episode mentions: Baby News Network; Adipos

Breaking It Down (A Replay)

Sep 27th, 2022 38m 2s

This week, we’re taking a look back at a crucial episode for the show from 2021 - episode 204.We’re keeping it real and breaking [it] down. Jessamyn and ashe review an unpublished recording while answering Carrie’s question, “Were we in fact da

Why Are We In Relationships?

Sep 20th, 2022 55m 8s

Two things: 1. Love you like you know me. 2. Moving onto an RV is anti-dating. ashe and Jessamyn are back on the mic, giving us a solid What’s New In Paradise. HINT: Relationship update. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts a

Play, Parties & Psilocybin: What Are Your Wellness Trends?

Aug 30th, 2022 19m 38s

In the last Summer Session of this year, ashe and Jessamyn discuss their current wellness trends. Inspired by Aidy Bryant and Bowen Yang's Weekend Update bit: Trend Forecasters.Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe d

Producer Talks Back: Have You Ever Been Fired?

Aug 23rd, 2022 22m 27s

Okay, but who is your celebrity crush?? In the fifth summer session, our Producer Kylee C. Roberts joins ashe and Jessamyn to play a short round of We're Not Really Strangers. Got a question? Head to Dearjessamyn.com/queery and you may hear it

Neurodivergent & Terrible Flirt: How Do I Start A Summer Romance?

Aug 16th, 2022 25m 44s

In the fourth installment of our Dear Jessamyn: Summer Sessions, ashe and Jessamyn answer a Deary Queery from a 40 y/o, queer, nonbinary married person who started HRT five months ago. Since starting T, they feel happier and more comfortable i

What Is Your Dream Metamour-Ship?

Aug 2nd, 2022 26m 26s

Record scratch and rewind! ashe and Jessamyn are revisiting a question from season 1, episode 4 of the podcast: What The F**k is A Metamour? They're chatting about their relationship evolution, wants and needs.Got a question? Head to Dearjessam

What Are Y'all Watching This Summer?

Jul 19th, 2022 19m 28s

Summer Session #2: We all have our comfort watches, but if you need some suggestions, ashe and Jessamyn are coming in hot with their recent and favorite shows and movies across streaming platforms.This episode was recorded on stolen Ohlone Land

Were You the Ghost? Or Were You Ghosted?

Jul 5th, 2022 17m 32s

Welcome to the Summer Sessions! In these shorter form episodes, ashe and Jessamyn are stickin' to one topic they've been dying to discuss. This week: Have Y'all Been Ghosted?Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe dange

320 What Are You Doing This Summer?

Jun 28th, 2022 1h 4m

It’s the last episode of the season and we are saluting Virgo rising. For the last time until the fall, our hosts invite in gratitude, share their favorite things and answer a Deary Queery about summer planning in a polycule. This episode ment

319 In A Hetero Relationship, How Do I Connect To My Queerness?

Jun 21st, 2022 54m 18s

This week, Jessamyn and ashe are calling in joy and levity and spirit presence happy good and bright and meant to be and always was and here. Episode mentions: Out of the Closet, Logic, Kathryn Budi, Asha Patel Designs collab, Tenderfire Medi

318 Have You Ever Dated a Narcissist?

Jun 14th, 2022 1h 2m

Have you ever dated someone with an STD? Is it selfish to pursue a relationship with a married person? This week’s Deary is an Aquarius with some impactful queries. Episode mentions: Words of Wisdom by Ram Dass, Dharmacosm, Ekhart Tolle's Powe

317 Does Your Roommate Clap Cheeks In Front of You?

Jun 7th, 2022 44m 42s

Wait, there’s a platypus controlling you? What? ANYWAY. This week, Jessamyn and ashe are diving into their favorite things (RE: the first sentence of this description), giving last week’s trivia answer (hint: Durham native), responding to some

316 How Did This Happen? Eczema, Chick-Fil-A and Janie Gibbs

May 31st, 2022 55m 30s

There’s something in the air this week as Jessamyn and ashe record after the partial solar eclipse. Our hosts review 315’s trivia answer (hint: Cancerian Black genius immigrant) and talk about recent skincare adventures. Also, fu*k the Supreme

315 Can You Enter A New Season Without Your Partner?

May 24th, 2022 55m 36s

Jessamyn answers a DM about her relationship with her other partner, and what it’s like to start a new phase of her life with physical distance between them. Also introducing a new segment…CW: Suicide and suicidal ideations at 5:41 and 10:16.Th

314 How Do You Tantrum?

May 17th, 2022 38m 49s

What does it look like to be luxurious with time? Jessamyn and ashe are here with updates from camper on the East Coast, continuing conversations about conflict. This week we’re also introducing our newest segments: Our Favorite Things and Triv

313 What's Your Conflict Animal?

May 10th, 2022 47m 48s

When was the last time you thought about what makes you mad and what that was actually about? This week Jesssamyn and ashe are individually reflecting on the context of their internal and relationship conflicts, and yes, what their conflict ani

312 Does Your Therapist Know Your Astrology?

May 3rd, 2022 41m 2s

Does your therapist know your Big Three, Myers-Briggs and attachment style? Jessamyn and ashe discuss the importance of openness with your therapist. There’s also some conversation about capitalism. Cue the O’Jays.Dear Jessamyn is produced by T

311 What's Your November?

Apr 26th, 2022 42m 21s

It's April, but we thought we should ask. Jessamyn and Ashe discuss what's new in paradise, all of Jessamyn’s recent travel and answer Tyler The Creator's question; What's Your November? Do you know where you are on your journey?Dear Jessamyn i

310 Can A Monogamous Person Be Wild?

Apr 19th, 2022 54m 3s

Jessamyn and Ashe ponder a question from a Deary: Can a monogamous person find as much adventure and challenge as a polyamorous person can? Upon reflection during What's New In Paradise, Jessamyn also shares that she may be asking for more vul

309 When Fire Meets The Ocean

Apr 12th, 2022 50m

We’re taking some time to spring clean today! It’s time to reflect on the past; think on where you've been and what you're carrying and what you're going to bring forward this season. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are

Replay - 106 Am I Poly Or Am I Bored

Apr 5th, 2022 39m 19s

In this replay episode from May 2020, Jessamyn and ashe ask; Are you dreaming of the day quarantine is over, and you can finally head over to your friend's house so you can ruin your friendship with sex? We are too. What a different world!I mea

308 Where's A Queer Supposed To Live?

Mar 29th, 2022 50m 58s

A fabulous question from “Bi and Large” came through our hosts’ inbox inquiring on the coolest weed-friendly, queer-friendly, dog-friendly places to visit and live. After having traveled throughout a lot of the US recently in their RV, Jessamyn

307 How Much Power Should Your Third Have?

Mar 22nd, 2022 47m 20s

Jessamyn and ashe recount a frustrating, yet sometimes funny, sexual scenario with a third. Dear Jessamyn is produced by Tenderfire MediaYour hosts are ashe danger phoenix and Jessamyn Stanley. Our Editor/Producer is Kylee C. RobertsAngell Fost

306 What Are Our Responsibilities As Friends?

Mar 15th, 2022 52m 15s

Jessamyn and ashe finished the first season of the HBOMax original And Just Like That, and are here to chat to say that sometimes you're gay, and sometimes you have a husband. Our hosts are reviewing the character growth of the cast, and the re