Many of us live busy, stressful lives. Instead of a power struggle over who’s the most stressed, being able to destress together is a great tool to have.

The talking stick is the communication tool that ensures a code of conduct of respect.

You can just listen.  There’s no need to think about what you’re going to say because you’re not going to be able to speak until you get the talking stick.

You get to wait your turn.  Too often we want to talk over those who are speaking.  We don’t want to let others get a turn we just want to spew our opinion.

A talking stick can slow down the conversation.  The conversation is not just talking it’s also thinking and listening.  Women tend to be more sensitive to advice-giving. Men are more hardwired to fix or “deal with” the problem. The talking stick will have many benefits to help with this.

Learn how to bring in a talking stick and how often you would like to bring this into your relationship regularly?