Asking for something  and not getting it is one of the hardest things you will face. It takes a lot fo courage to step out there and  tell someone  what you want, what you think you’re worth. To spill your guts and share your dreams… but just because your courageous or think you deserve or have worked and earned something doesn’t always mean you willl get it… we’ll at least at first. This was a very hard and painful lesson for me to learn. In my eyes I was  crushing it financially. In my eyes I was crushing the stability and providing game.  To  my future father in law, well, I was a bloody joke. Listen to how I responded and my life was forever  changed.