Our first episode since before the world turned upside down, thanks for still being here! We're coming back on the scene by hosting a kink contingent July 23-28 at Swingtopia 2022, at our favorite place to get freaky in paradise, with our good

100 Friends Swing By For The Centennial Episode

Aug 18th, 2019 50m 39s

To celebrate our 100th episode, our sexy friends from Life on the Swingset come by to talk shop and swap stories. Show Links: Come play with us at Swingset Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook- Show Website:

Dungeon Night Debrief 2018

Jul 20th, 2019 1h 18m

This show is our annual Dungeon Night Debrief episode, recorded with a live audience at Desire Resort in Riviera Maya (Cancun) This is also the last of the old recordings, so we're caught up! Tune in next time for our centennial episode, when w

Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 2)

Jun 23rd, 2019 1h

In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara,and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 2 of 2 Show Links: Come play with us at SS

Total Desire Recall 2018

Jun 15th, 2019 52m 43s

In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara, Tristan Taormino and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 1 of 2 Show Links: Come

So JV Almost Died Last Year...

Jun 3rd, 2019 30m 29s

After a long hiatus induced by JV almost dying last year and taking months to recover, we're podcasting again! We've missed you, sexy friends! Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

095 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 2) - Desire 2017 Takeover

Feb 11th, 2018 1h 6m

Part 2 This year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity of

094 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 1) - Desire 2017 Takeover

Dec 30th, 2017 51m 18s

This year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity of Swinger

093 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 2)

Oct 2nd, 2017 1h 5m

Part 2 of our post-fair discussion. In the conclusion we talk more about our Saturday night play party (including Sexxypixie signing Shara's ass), vibrators with rolling unlock codes, and everyone gets together to give Gabriella her birthday sp

092 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 1)

Oct 1st, 2017 1h

After Folsom Street Fair, we sat down with our friends to talk about the sights and scenes of the weekend. We talk more about Twisted Windows, especially Saki & Mayu's intense shibari performance, though the word "shibari" alone fails entirely

091 Hotties Under The Collar: The Submissives Record Their Own Episode

Sep 30th, 2017 1h

While we were in San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair, Shara and the other submissives recorded their own episode on Saturday evening while the doms were cooking dinner and otherwise entertaining themselves. They spend a good bit of time unpac

090 Talking Kinky Sex With Tristan Taormino

Sep 4th, 2017 1h 14m

Podcaster, Sex educator and prolific pornographer Tristan Taormino, who also happens to be our guest co-host for our upcoming Desire Resort takeover in November, joins us to talk about kinky sex and how she likes it. This episode was originally

089 Sexy Times In San Francisco and An Erotic Dinner With Our Gourmet Life

Jul 9th, 2017 37m 53s

We talk about some of the highlights of our sexy times in San Francisco, including an excellent evening spent at an erotic dinner hosted by Our Gourmet Life Chef Chris Hubbard Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10%

088 Midori On Using Communication To Make Hot Play Happen

Jun 9th, 2017 55m 33s

While in San Francisco, we sit down with Midori to talk about using better communication to make hot play happen and get more out of it. Topics include turning "no" into something positive and learning to share your desires in a way that empowe

087 Interview With Cooper S Beckett On His New Book "Approaching The Swingularity"

Apr 20th, 2017 38m 41s

Our sexy friend Cooper S Beckett from Life on the Swingset joins us to talk about (and read from) his swinging new novel, "Approaching The Swingularity." Click below to buy directly from his website, or wherever books are sold. Listen to

086 Fetish Club Reviews: Choice Social and Galleria Domain 2

Apr 4th, 2017 40m 7s

We've been doing some traveling this year, and part of that has been visiting new and interesting fetish clubs. In this episode we talk about our time at: Galleria Domain 2 in Chicago Choice Social Club in Rhode Island We were also honored to b

085 LotSS 279 Desire Takeover 2016 Recap & LIfe On The Swingset 7th Anniversary

Mar 18th, 2017 1h 43m

In this supersize episode, Shara and I join our friends from Life on the Swingset to reminisce about our Desire Resort takeover back in November. This is also a special Swingset episode, as it marks the show's seventh anniversary! The content o

084 Interview With Midori (Part 2) On Her Female Dominance Intensive: ForteFemme, Our New Toys From Fetish Fair Flea

Mar 9th, 2017 1h

During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes the conclusion of that interview, in which we talk about ForteFemme

083 Interview with Midori (Part 1) On Kinky Archetypes And The True Meaning of BDSM

Mar 3rd, 2017 1h 2m

During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes most of that interview (more to come next week). We talk about lead

082 PTSD & BDSM

Mar 1st, 2017 40m 43s

Our long-time medical advisor finally joins us on the show to continue a discussion about PTSD & BDSM play that began a few episodes ago with a listener question. Sadly, due to some technical issues, we had to use the Skype recording of our int

081 New Year, New Studio

Jan 5th, 2017 53m 21s

After a crazy holiday season, we ring in the new year with a new studio setup, and we hope you love the new sound as much as we do. Please let us know what you think! This is a laid back episode full of sexy stories about sexy friends, as well

080 Dungeon Desire DM Roundup

Nov 21st, 2016 1h 7m

On November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of several other kinky couples who acted as both dungeon

079 PTSD Triggers, BDSM Play, and The Perils of Looking For Dominants Online

Oct 23rd, 2016 41m 8s

A submissive from Down Under asks questions about navigating the realm of BDSM when you have PTSD from sexual and physical abuse, including looking for a dominant online. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at

078 Orgasms On Command

Oct 6th, 2016 52m 14s

A listener question about orgasms on command inspired an impromptu recording in paradise, which later inspired (and is included in) this episode. Honestly, it was a blast to both record and edit this one. Listen to this episode for a discount c

077 Desire Takeover Special with Jim from Char Travel

Oct 6th, 2016 32m 1s

Jim from Char Travel joins us for this special episode about the upcoming (nearly 100% booked!) Desire Resort takeover in November Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you