We’re digging into a new study that found American’s are having less sex. We’ll be analyzing the study, looking at similar declines in things like marriage and hope for the future, take a peek into ours and your sex lives (or lack there of) and

Revolutionary Hoes of the Harlem Renaissance

9 days ago 42m 29s

Sam pops in to tell you about a very special project they’ve produced called “Harlem & Moscow”To listen to Harlem and Moscow in full visit: Apple, Spotify or search “Harlem & Moscow” on YouTube or wherever you listen to podcasts. Harlem an

We Did it, Hoe!

Nov 22nd, 2022 2h 27m

For the past 10 seasons and 7 years, Sam and her lovely rotating co-hosts have had honest, hilarious, and poignant conversations about sex, love, and dating as it pertains to current events in the world, our lives, and yours. And they've all sp

Coffee with Queer Elders of Color

Nov 17th, 2022 1h 2m

For this episode, Akua and Sam took a trip over to Brooklyn to visit members of the GRIOT Circle. GRIOT Circle is a community-based, multigenerational organization serving LGBTQ elders of color. Together with GRIOT Circle members we chatted ab

Compulsory Sexuality Harms Us All

Nov 9th, 2022 59m 1s

This episode we’re talking all about Compulsory Sexuality, or the societal belief that sexuality is something that we are all obligated to participate in and that everyone desires sex within predetermined “normal” amount. We’re joined by the au

A Hoe-listic Approach to HIV

Nov 2nd, 2022 1h

The hoes chat about STIs in the Black American community. Specifically we’re getting into stigma, sequential epidemics or syndemics, the future of STI treatment in America, what the deal with Monkeypox was and much more with Dr. Typhanye Velka

A D*ck in the Hand is Worth Two in the Bush

Oct 26th, 2022 1h 7m

This episode we’re having fun. We’re talking about hoe-rror stories, anal beads, pissing on graves, aggressively horny songs, ex-boss porn stars, and much more.RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTESThe episode with Melahoe: https://pod.link/1057045285/epi

Relationships with ADHD: Sizzle, Fizzle, and Cummunication

Oct 19th, 2022 1h 12m

The hoes chat about the intersection of love, sex, and dating while living life with ADHD with special guest René Brooks. Specific topics include: Societal notions of respect, the stereotypical ADHD avatar, dating apps, rejection-sensitive dy

Sex, Love, and Existential Dread

Oct 12th, 2022 55m 54s

This week we’re getting all philHOEsophical. We’re talking about different philosophical schools of thought relating to existence (and it’s meaning) and how they impact our understanding and experiences of life and joy. Specific topics includ

Add to My Pleasure; Add to My Peace

Oct 5th, 2022 46m 24s

This episode we’re talking to a pro dom, an adult content creator, and a Kink educator. The catch? They’re all in a relationship with each other. Last week we spoke to them all about their relationship. This week we’re talking about trauma-info

Who Sleeps in the Wet Spot: Interview with a Throuple

Sep 28th, 2022 1h 5m

This episode we’re talking to a bad ass queer kinky throuple or as they call it -- thee triarchy. We’re getting into things like: date night for a party of three, jealousy and compersion, who sleeps in the wet spot and much more. Other Topics

PrHOEfessors

Sep 21st, 2022 1h 2m

The hoes school you on some juicy LGBTQ biology and some weird moments in hoe history. Specific topics include: the history of STIs and Mass incarceration, The American Plan, Gay kitties, interesting things people used to do to their balls, p

I Can't Live Without You: Co-Dependency

Sep 14th, 2022 46m 43s

The hoes chat about co-dependency and figure out what the heck it is.Specific topics include: enmeshment, a Caribbean upbringing, conflict avoidance, signs of co-dependent relationships, recovery from enmeshment trauma, “I can’t live without

The C*mination

Sep 8th, 2022 30m 49s

The hoes are back in town! On this episode we spill the tea about our summers and reveal a major announcement. Some specific topics we chat about are: trauma therapy, dating a cishet partner as a queer non binary person, weaning off anxiety and

B*tches is Happy

Jun 1st, 2022 1h 4m

This episode we’re taking a trip down memory lane with ludacris and ursherr baby, talking about some kind of queer salamanders and relationship anarchy, PLUS one of us is a happy ass bitch. This is the last episode of our season 9. We will be b

TBH, I am tryna f*ck some aliens tho

May 25th, 2022 54m 45s

This episode we’re talking about HSV2, STIs and open relationships, misinformation about horny space aliens, alcohol and sex, and words of quote unquote wisdom from ones parents.RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTESWhy NASA Scientists Want to Send Nud

Hoe v. Wade

May 11th, 2022 58m 33s

This episode we’re talking about cyborg sex hands, the constitutions of men who wrote the constitution, a song about masturbation, HSV2 and an open relationship, abortion safe havens, trans affirming health care becoming a straight up felony,

A Curious Case of Rectal Ej*culation

May 4th, 2022 50m 16s

This episode we’re talking about lots of m*sturbation, medical anomalies, revisiting the dancehall classic “It Wasn’t Me” by Shaggy, dolphin cl*ts, exploring some f*ckery in the NYC housing authority and much more!SPONSOR(S)Inner Hoe Uprisi

Performative Polyamory?

Apr 20th, 2022 52m 44s

This episode: questioning possible performative polyamory, interracial relationship shenanigans, indigenous knowledge of gay ass animals, hiding stuff from your spouse, fresh eyes on a freaky song from early aughts and much more!PATREON A

P*ssy Don't Fail Me Now

Apr 13th, 2022 54m 34s

The gene edited virgin mary, having the talk with your kids, the plugs response to anti trans legislation, an analysis of a Missy Elliot throwback, how compulsory romanticism hurts us all and much more.CONTENT WARNING(S)Brief mention of s

Climate Change Exists StripperElla

Apr 6th, 2022 59m 52s

This episode: were uncovering a two part gay dog saga, the jamaican dancehall DJ who has no empathy for young girls, how climate change is pushing folks on the continent into survival sex work, unpacking a TLC song from the 90s, a sugar baby py

Please Fart in Front of Bae

Mar 30th, 2022 2m 21s

Why farting in front of your partner may save your life, entitled orgasms, the gayest mammals, a peak at the shenanigans of dancehall music, why you all keep sharing your business on tik tok and much more.For the low low of $5 a month you c

Is it okay to c*m quickly?

Mar 23rd, 2022 54m 10s

This episode we’re talking about NFT girlfriends, why its not okay to be mean to your sex partners (unless they enjoy it), pansexual tortoises, 702’s problematic song from your childhood and much more. RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTESHow eels repro

Balls in your P*ssy

Mar 16th, 2022 54m 11s

This episode we’re talking about kinky sexigenarians, the black manosphere and divest movement, the dildo that allows for testicle penetration, we’re gonna have a partner reveal party, and tik tok womb land shenanigans and much more.RELEV

Booster Bl*w Jobs

Mar 9th, 2022 1h 4m

Sculptures made of sex toys, your neighbors f*cking loudly, NYC Mayor Eric Adam’s Anti-LGBT staff appointments, an intersex insect, the process of finding a f*ck buddy when your demisexual and much more. SPONSOR(S)This podcast is sponsored