Today's guest Shade Ashani has interviewed hundreds of women and discovered 6 archetypes for how the wounded response shows up in our relationships with men. •The CEO•The Savior •Ms. Commitment•The Revolving Door•The Romantic•The Shut DownList

Episode 060 | Sheli Rae Verela Anniversary Rewind: "I felt like screaming sometimes because it was so overwhelming but I never quit."

Sep 2nd, 2019 19m 46s

It is through great emotion and clear vision that motivation is ignited.• Emotion- a compelling instinct or intuitive feeling• Intention-the reason and why of it all • Motivation-the strong desire and willingness As long as you don't give up th

Episode 059 | Elizabeth White Anniversary Rewind: "Half of all American households have no retirement savings at all, that would be 0. No 401K, No IRA, Not a Dime."

Aug 26th, 2019 20m 54s

The solution to our money issue lies in our alertness and in developing our financial intelligence. We can't ignore what is happening, because every step we make or don't make needs to be calculated and taken carefully yet confidently to get to

Episode 058 | Marisa Peer Anniversary Rewind:"This is more than positive thinking, this is collaborating with your mind."

Aug 19th, 2019 12m 8s

We are constantly talking to ourselves. It is through this self-talk that we guide and shape our lives. So, instead of just saying affirmations, you can change your life by changing the entire conversation you're having with yourself. Here are

Episode 057| Lisa Nichols Anniversary Rewind: "I would rather fall flying than live a life on the edge never jumping off."

Aug 12th, 2019 11m 49s

Time to celebrate, InstigateHer Podcast is 1 year old!I am thrilled, excited and grateful to still be here, with you, one year in. Here are the three ways that you can help me celebrate:1. Email me at [email protected] and tell me what y

Episode 056 | Thuli Sithole: "Just as much as you manage your time you've got to manage your money."

Aug 5th, 2019 17m 45s

You are invited to The Mini Retreat & Mid Year Vision Board BrunchHouse of Healing HawaiiAugust 10th 11am-3pmClick HERE for tickets and more information. When you joyfully receive what you are asking for even in the most minuscule form is a way

Episode 055 | Brittany Packnett : "Confidence is the difference between being inspired and actually getting started."

Jul 29th, 2019 16m 41s

You are invited to The Mini Retreat & Mid Year Vision Board BrunchHouse of Healing HawaiiAugust 10th 11am-3pmClick HERE for tickets and more information. It's the lack of confidence pulls us down from the bottom and weighs us down from the top,

Episode 054 | Soraya Chemaly: "I'm sick and tired of women I know, being sick and tired."

Jul 22nd, 2019 17m 23s

I want to help you ROCK the rest of your year!You are invited to The Mid-Year Vision Board BrunchAugust 10, 2019 11am-3pmChinatown Artist Lofts, HonoluluWhy is it considered abnormal for women to display and express anger? It is like the world

Episode 053 | Iyanla Vanzant : "You're never going to rise above where you are until you rise above who you are."

Jul 15th, 2019 11m 10s

Do you need help with leveling up your mindset, ending self sabotage and making changes in your life? Go to danyalethomasross.com and schedule a complimentary discovery session. There are times when we can't manage to do something that we say

Episode 052 | Maria Phalime: "It's a powerful act to put your hand up and say, I'm struggling."

Jul 8th, 2019 19m 5s

Get your complimentary discovery session with Danyale!Searching your soul and questioning your life reveals if we are living the most meaningful life possible. It can be challenging not to allow prestige and the expectations of society to decid

Episode 051| Zain Asher: "Trust your struggle!"

Jul 1st, 2019 17m 58s

Get your complimentary discovery session with Danyale!Believe that no matter what you are going through it is all aligning for you to achieve a deeper understanding and possibly developing a perspective that may have not been available to you b

Episode 050 | Stacy Flowers: "Happiness happens before success."

Jun 24th, 2019 18m 49s

Click & Connect with Danyale Thomas Ross!Happiness unleashes our god given talent so that we can positively influence the world.If we have a major goal to achieve we need to be able to see the possibility before we can solve the problems. The w

Episode 049| Susan David:"Discomfort is the price of admission to a meaningful life."

Jun 17th, 2019 18m 6s

According to Susan David, Emotional agility is a process helps us to better navigate the twists & turns and ups & downs of life. The process isn’t about ignoring the hard shit and suppressing our most difficult emotions and most negative thoug

Episode 048 | Caroline Myss: "Don't look back for guidance, the reason you're where you are is because that part of your life is over."

Jun 10th, 2019 22m 13s

We have no idea when we are making choices which ones are insignificant and which ones will be and life-changing. Every day we are making micro-choices that are the foundation and the very fabric of the quality of our lives, our well being, our

Episode 047 | Sue Morter : " We have to move beyond logic if we really want to healing to happen."

Jun 3rd, 2019 19m 53s

We came to the planet as perfect and whole beings and what happens along the way is we forget about this perfection. The energy of our mind, body and spirit become separated and it's in this separation that illness, depression and disconnected

Episode 046 | Woman To Watch Wednesday | Andrea Jones: "The fears are ever evolving. What I was afraid of 5 years ago, isn't the same thing I'm afraid of today."

May 29th, 2019 20m 24s

Being an entrepreneur and building a business is all in the micro-transactions. Every time you interact with a potential client or customer it is like interviewing over and over again. As an entrepreneur, our fears are ever evolving.What we

Episode 045 | Dr. Aida Gooden: "The journey to worthiness is beautiful and worth taking."

May 27th, 2019 17m 12s

Self-esteem is connected to our skills, our performance, and our accomplishments.Self-worth is an overall sense of deserving to be alive. "Let go of the thoughts we have about how we think we SHOULD be, feel and look."Letting go of the SHOULD's

Episode 044 | Tracy McMillan: "The places where you have the biggest challenges in your life become the places where you have the most to give."

May 20th, 2019 17m 11s

Marrying yourself means you make the vow of until death till you part to you before making it to another person. Because when you marry yourself you are able to love and give to others in a whole new way. Marry yourself for: Richer or poorer, e

Episode 043 | Woman To Watch Wednesday | Tania Fukuda: "You have to have a plan that takes into account life events, there has to be a contingency plan."

May 15th, 2019 22m 4s

Women are financially vulnerable, mainly because of our lack of financial education. We are more subject to not invest because of feeling confused about how to invest and what to invest in. Many women are just plain afraid of getting it wrong t

Episode 042 | Tererai Trent: "Your dreams will have greater meaning when they're tied to the betterment of your community."

May 13th, 2019 19m 50s

There are millions of girls and women around the world who are still denied education. This oppression comes from the fears of patriarchal systems that are threatened by the shine of anyone and anything that is not male. You can find out mor

Episode 041 | Woman To Watch Wednesday | Veronica Very: "A large part of what we deny, suppress, ignore and avoid could actually be the very thing we need to lean into."

May 8th, 2019 27m 34s

The Woman to Watch this Wednesday: A Conversation SeriesToday's featured guest is Veronica Very, a creative visionary leader who loves in truth and speaks her truth in love. She's an inspiring social activist who transforms, heals and liberate

Episode 040 | Elizabeth Gilbert: "Your home is whatever in this world you love more than yourself."

May 6th, 2019 9m 6s

Don't let the fear of failure stop you and don't let success define you. Find the courage to keep doing what you love, regardless of the approval of others and your house will always be built on a solid foundation. To watch the full clip of El

Episode 039 | Woman to Watch this Wednesday | Dr. Qaali Hussein: "Let me try, let me take the steps I need to take and see where I get."

May 1st, 2019 29m 12s

The Woman to Watch this Wednesday: A Conversation SeriesToday's featured guest is Dr. Qaali Hussein, she's a trauma/acute care surgeon, and surgical intensivist who practices in Florida. As a Muslim woman and mother of 6 who respects her religi

Episode 038 | Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie: "I am angry, gender, as it functions today is a grave injustice we should all be angry."

Apr 29th, 2019 13m 38s

In our more primitive past, the person most likely to lead was the strongest person. Survival of the fittest meant a man was most likely the better choice. But humans have evolved and the person more likely to lead is not the physically strong

Episode 037 |Dr. Andrea Pennington: "Be yourself because an original is always worth more than a copy."

Apr 22nd, 2019 20m 44s

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