On this episode, I speak Misty, a queer poly unicorn who sprinkles magic from every orifice while navigating around the sex-positive communities, dreaming of horse wangs—not attached to horses—and wanting to be thrown against the walls with hands firmly around her throat (say that 3 times).

Misty didn’t have the typical early sexual awakening with odd kinky nuances before puberty that might indicate the future she was about to have. No, Misty didn’t see it coming, but come it did, and she’s been coming ever since with whips and chains and everything in between. She’s a power bottom with an aggressive need to be destroyed…yet, it was through kink that she discovered how to also say no. Misty discusses consent and the importance of taking it seriously despite changing dynamics in a relationship, or changing social climates such as the MeToo movement, which has awakened disturbing realizations for her and altered her ongoing BDSM relationships. Dealing with polyamory, kink, consent, sexual assault, and whatever else life throws at her, Misty opens up before disappearing again into the misty-cal land of the unicorns.

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