On this episode I speak with Ms Vivi Vex, an up-and-coming icon of fashion at the intersections of sex work and mental health. She navigates the sex-positive communities, full-service sex work, modeling, and fashion with invisible disabilities that she’s not shy to make explicit and visible.

What’s it like to navigate sex and sexuality with invisible disabilities? How can the sex-positive communities provide space for people with invisible disabilities to explore and embrace their identity? What’s it like to be a sex worker with autism? Ms Vivi Vex provides insightful information from her experiences growing up with Autism, anti-vax and sex-negative parents, and issues communicating with others while attempting to discover her sex and sexuality. This episode is also a good listening exercise because it doesn’t follow the typical script. Ms Vex explains the issues that people on the spectrum have with communicating while attempting to communicate about her experiences. She asks for patience, instead of pity. Understanding, instead of judgement. Equitable treatment, instead of disregard. And hopefully you gain some insight on how to engage with people with invisible disabilities. Vivi wants to explore healthy and enjoyable sex. To explore her sexuality and to continue doing sex work. She found an outlet to do that in the sex-positive communities and is on her way to world domination though fashion, sex work, and mental health advocacy.

Find Ms Vivi Vex on:IG: @ms.vivi.vex

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