Ella Dawson joins Ginger, the Professor, and Dylan to discuss reactions to people with / without COVID-19, and how it may affect public discussion surrounding STIs and stigma surrounding people living with STIs. Ella Dawson gave a TED

SS Special – Sex Is Fun Interviews The Swingset

Jul 24th, 2010 1h 9m

Sex Is Fun, the best sex podcast out there, interviews Dylan and Cooper to discuss swinging in a very enjoyable interview. Check it out!

SS 010: It’s Naked Time with a Live Nude Cast

Jul 18th, 2010 42m 2s

In Episode 10 of Life on the Swingset the cast is naked! Not that it matters, because you can't see them. But just think of their sexy naked bodies....This episode is about being naked and all that goes with it, the nervousness and fun, the exc

SS 009: Ins and Outs of Swinger Parties

Jul 4th, 2010 34m 26s

In Episode 9 of Life on the Swingset, we discuss attending a swinger party, Kylie admits her nervousness about them and asks questions, and Sasha proves herself to be a swing party guru and gives her hostessing tips. There's strapon play, stadi

SS 008: Looking For Fun & Friends on Swinger Websites

Jun 21st, 2010 42m 19s

In Episode 8 of Life on the Swingset, we discuss three major swinger dating websites, Adult Friend Finder, Swing Lifestyle, and our personal favorite, and Lifestyle Lounge. We discuss how to decide which site is right for you (despite being bia

SS 007: Swinging Couples, Taking One For The Team, & Erectile Dysfunction

Jun 7th, 2010 36m 44s

In Episode 7, we discuss the difficulties inherent in finding a four way connection between two couples, how taking one for the team and playing with someone you're not interested in can do more harm than good, and going on solo dates. Cooper

SS 006: Those Are The Rules – Defining Your Rules as Swingers

May 24th, 2010 36m 7s

In Episode 6, the team discusses the importance of having rules in the swinging lifestyle, what's allowed and what isn't, what needs to be discussed beforehand and what doesn't. We also talk about what to do when rules are broken, and how to d

SS 005: Soft Swap VS Full Swap

May 10th, 2010 35m 15s

In Episode 5, we talk about the two major terms in the swinging community, soft swap (play but no intercourse with the opposite partner) or full (everybody gets laid) and discuss the complexities in defining each, and the pros and cons. Sasha

SS 004: Compersion VS Jealousy – Swingers Deal With Jealousy

Apr 29th, 2010 36m 54s

In Episode 4, we discuss compersion, the term that finds you experiencing pleasure because your partner is experiencing pleasure, versus jealousy, a term we all know. The Swingset gang discusses how to overcome jealousy in many situations, all

SS 003: Sad State of Affairs – Swinging in America

Apr 14th, 2010 41m 4s

In episode 3 we discuss the sad state of affairs American conciousness is at regarding sexuality, from the RNC's new lesbian-bondage-strippergate, to sex ed, to the pros and cons of staying in the closet as swingers, to sex toys, and the fact t

SS 002: Birds of a Feather – Finding Other Swingers

Mar 18th, 2010 44m 44s

In our second episode, we continue our logistics of getting into the lifestyle with a look at finding friends and admitting to them and yourself that you want to...well...have sex with them. We discuss first dates, where to go and most importan

SS 001: Dipping a Toe In – How To Start Swinging

Mar 4th, 2010 46m 6s

In our first podcast we discuss the very beginnings of what to do when you think you may want to have an open relationship. We talk in detail about dealing with that idea yourself and deciding if opening up is right for you. We also deal with t

SS 000: Swinging For Dummies I – Realizing You’re Non-Monogamous

Mar 1st, 2010 1h 1m

Realizing that our first episode doesn't deal with the first thoughts about non-monogamy nearly as well as episode 59, released two years later, we thought we'd rejigger the episodes up and add a Swingset Zero episode. On this episode we talk a

#401 - Kissing is Taboo Again? - Elevator Speeches & Safety

Dec 24th, 2023 1h 6m

How did kissing become so complicated... again? Swinger culture still features a choice, to kiss or not to kiss, that other non-monogamous folk don't usually make. These days, the stakes around kissing are higher, and that's complicated things

#400 - ReEmergence

Dec 3rd, 2023 1h 4m

Dylan, Ginger, Tonia, and Prof get back together to properly toast Life on the Swingset's 400th episode! The crew invites back Lunabelle, Tyler, and Tonya, and welcomes D into the fold to discuss ReEmergence and discovering intimacy… again

SS 399: We Go Meta on Swinging and Making the Sausage... and talk Sex Toys - from Friday Night Delights from February 5th, 2021

Sep 1st, 2023 1h 14m

Ginger, Prof, Tonia, and Dylan get together on a normal Friday in February 2021 to plan a podcast about swinging… and almost fall into the trap of talking about swinging. Swingset gets meta, discussing swinging as a verb, swinger as a noun, new

SS 398: Swingset as a Place... with Princess Vi

Apr 13th, 2023 49m 27s

Princess Vi and I talk about what it means to build pop-up inclusive, welcoming, and sex friendly communities, and we wander about discussing what goes into that secret sauce… and what it feels like when you get it right, and … when you do

SS 397: ...and at least one amorous bird on this resort. - Swingset Takes Desire 2022, Part 2

Nov 27th, 2022 46m 44s

Continuing on from Part 1 of our live podcast on our trip in Cancun, Ginger initiates a tonal shift, Keeley makes sure everyone knows that more than gang bangs happen, Cooper talks about birds, Prof shares more deep thoughts, Tonia shares

SS 396: ...what sets us apart, brings us together. - Swingset Takes Desire 2022, Part 1

Nov 22nd, 2022 42m

Swingset is a place, at least that's how we think of it today. We created the Swingset Community for the tenth time at Desire Resort in Cancun, QR, MX, and gathered our attendees to listen to Keeley, Cooper, Ginger, Tonia, Ryan AKA The Pro

The Trouble with Tribbing, a Sexy Story Share

Nov 1st, 2022 1h 2m

Ginger, The Professor, Mike Joseph, Tonia, and Dylan get together for a Friday Night Delights recorded on June 25th to share some sexy stories and talk about growing relationships and sharing managing multiple identities, Also… big gong energy

SS 394: Camp Swingset Live! - At the Half-Baked Homestead

Aug 1st, 2022 1h 1m

Tonia and Dylan sat down at the Half-Baked Homestead, lovingly put together by Rapunzel, Colin, and Oengus, to talk about what Swingset gatherings mean (if anything) and what we try to do when we put temporary community together. Talk touches

SS 393: Swingset Takes Desire 2021 LIVE in Cancún!

Mar 17th, 2022 1h 29m

SS 392: Personal Stories on Changing Intimacy Over the Last Two Years - A Friday Night Delights Conversation with Catherine

Mar 2nd, 2022 48m 54s

We continue the conversation from SS 388: The Power of Witness in Relationship Therapy, by sliding into how intimacy has changed over the last couple of years. Dylan, Ryan, and Ginger continues to welcome Catherine of Expansive Connection

SS 391: The Desire Mid-Week Check-In, featuring Co-Hosts Mike Joseph and Keeley!

Mar 1st, 2022 58m 7s

We made it to Desire in 2021 and decided to take the temperature of the room… the very, very hot room that we couldn't turn the air conditioning on in because it would have ruined the recording environment. Cooper, Dylan, and Tonia along with

SS 390: "Things can be messy, but things don't have to be toxic."

Jul 6th, 2021 1h 18m

With this episode, we emerge from our reduced pandemic release schedule where our focus was on virtual Swingset community events to connect and sustain us through challenging times, and refocus on the podcast. We invited Eve, Marissa, Celeste