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Staying Safe While Getting Kinky LB012 - Loving BDSM
In episode 12, Kayla Lords touches on one of the most important topics in the D/s and BDSM lifestyle – safety. From alcohol to safewords, she explains her views on what it means to play safe during a scene or whenever you decide to get kinky. In this episode: After enough time together, Kayla and […] The post Staying Safe While Getting Kinky LB012 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
LB005: Submissives Ask if Communication Issues are OK - Loving BDSM
  This week’s episode, hosted by Kayla Lords, addresses some common questions she receives from submissives about communication with their Dominants. Basically, submissives want to know if certain behaviors are normal or okay. Kayla’s answer? It depends. There’s no one right answer when you wonder if being ignored, forgotten, or avoided is “normal” or “OK.” […] The post LB005: Submissives Ask if Communication Issues are OK appeared first on Loving BDSM.
What Does a Good Dominant Look Like? LB003 - Loving BDSM
Kayla Lords hosts the third episode of Loving BDSM. This week’s topic: what does a good Dominant look like? And no, we’re not talking physical features. Instead of focusing on the bad Doms, this episode celebrates the good ones out there. They don’t have all the same traits and everyone wants and needs something a […] The post What Does a Good Dominant Look Like? LB003 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Kinky Sex Toy Fun for Mother’s Day LB034 - Loving BDSM
Kayla Lords hosts episode 34 and with Mother’s Day right around the corner in the U.S., she’s sharing how you can have kinky fun with sex toys – and gift ideas for the kinky mom in your life. In this episode: A personal request regarding Patreon, support, and making the podcast sound great (jump ahead […] The post Kinky Sex Toy Fun for Mother’s Day LB034 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Disconnecting and Reconnecting…and an Announcement LB036 - Loving BDSM
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone come together for another episode together. They keep it short and sweet and discuss a big moment in their lives that created a disconnect and then a reconnect. In this episode: A huge announcement. Big. Major. There is plenty of squealing…or threatening to squeal. Before getting to the good part, […] The post Disconnecting and Reconnecting…and an Announcement LB036 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Building and Maintaining Trust in a D/s Relationship LB031 - Loving BDSM
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are back again for another long, winding conversation. Episode 31 focuses on trust – building it and maintaining it – in a D/s relationship. From the show: Trust issues will rear their ugly head at the strangest times. Consistency plays a large part in building trust between two people. Trust […] The post Building and Maintaining Trust in a D/s Relationship LB031 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
What’s the Difference Between a Daddy and a Sir? LB032 - Loving BDSM
John Brownstone and Kayla Lords team up again in episode 32. This week’s episode takes on a question from a listener: what is the difference between a Daddy and a Sir? In this episode: Kayla announces her next book release: Kinky Love Notes is now available for pre-order and releases on April 14! John Brownstone […] The post What’s the Difference Between a Daddy and a Sir? LB032 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
How to Reconnect In Your D/s Relationship LB028 - Loving BDSM
Kayla Lords hosts episode 28 and discusses the big and small ways you can reconnect in your D/s relationship whether you’ve been apart for a while or your routine has been thrown off for any reason. In this episode: Kayla is looking for kinky patrons! You may need to reconnect with your kinky partner for […] The post How to Reconnect In Your D/s Relationship LB028 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
The Importance of Community LB079 - Loving BDSM
Back for episode 79, Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss the importance of the kinky community. Plus hear more about the new website and the online Loving BDSM community! In this episode: Is the kinky community important? We think so Some people feel like it has to be in real life. Others prefer online communities. […] The post The Importance of Community LB079 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Orgasm Control in D/s Relationships LB076 - Loving BDSM
John Brownstone is back with Kayla this week for a new episode! There may have been squeeing. This week’s topic is all about orgasm control. In this episode: I’m giving away a Crescendo vibrator from Mystery Vibe! Orgasm control isn’t for every D/s relationship. It happens on a spectrum from light to extreme. Forced orgasms […] The post Orgasm Control in D/s Relationships LB076 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Low Energy and Lack of Motivation in Your D/s Relationship LB070 - Loving BDSM
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone talk about feeling low energy and no motivation and how it can impact their D/s relationship in episode 70 of Loving BDSM podcast. In this episode: John Brownstone’s having a sale on his (very vanilla) Etsy shop! We haven’t been motivated to do anything this week (the first week of […] The post Low Energy and Lack of Motivation in Your D/s Relationship LB070 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Understanding Boundaries and Limits LB062 - Loving BDSM
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone discuss boundaries and limits in episode 62 of the Loving BDSM podcast. In this episode: Save 10% on the HUM vibe with coupon code: kaylalords What are limits and boundaries? Is there a difference? Hard limit vs. soft limit. Hard limits can be anything. Twitter friend mentioned tickling as a […] The post Understanding Boundaries and Limits LB062 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Understanding D/s Contracts LB064 - Loving BDSM
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are together again for episode 64 of Loving BDSM. This week, they’re discussing D/s contracts. In this episode: The latest video is available through Patreon or membership to KaylaLords.com! This month we focused on punching. What is a contract? A D/s contract isn’t required in a D/s relationship. A lot […] The post Understanding D/s Contracts LB064 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Discipline, Punishment, and Consequences in D/s LB058 - Loving BDSM
Hosted by Kayla Lords and John Brownstone, episode 58 of the Loving BDSM podcast focuses on discipline, punishment, and consequences for submissives in D/s relationships. In this episode: Buy my books and help send me to Eroticon! Two sides of discipline: the discipline to do what you’re told as a submissive and being disciplined when you […] The post Discipline, Punishment, and Consequences in D/s LB058 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
You Deserve a Healthy D/s Relationship No Matter What Your Issues Are LB052 - Loving BDSM
Kayla Lords hosts episode 52 of the Loving BDSM podcast and discusses low self esteem, trust issues, fear of being alone, and mental health issues and why none of these things should make you think you don’t deserve a healthy, fulfilling D/s relationship. In this episode: At the time the show was recorded, the giveaway wasn’t […] The post You Deserve a Healthy D/s Relationship No Matter What Your Issues Are LB052 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Are There Rules for Being a Submissive? LB043 - Loving BDSM
Kayla Lords hosts episode 43 and answers a listener’s question: what are the rules for being a submissive? In this episode: Kinky patrons are always welcome. Support the podcast through Patreon! The sarcastic answer to the rules question is: whatever your Dominant says. The less sarcastic answer is: whatever you and your partner agree to. […] The post Are There Rules for Being a Submissive? LB043 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Where and How to Find a Good Dominant LB042 - Loving BDSM
Kayla Lords hosts episode 42 and answers a question a lot of listeners have been asking lately: “Where do I find a good Dominant?” In this episode: Want something to spice up your e-reader? Check out the bookstore on my website. Several listeners have sent in the same question: where do I find a good […] The post Where and How to Find a Good Dominant LB042 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Discovering BDSM and His Dominant Self
John Brownstone hosts his first episode of the Loving BDSM podcast. This week’s topic – his personal journey into BDSM and discovering his Dominant self. In this episode: John Brownstone really exists! Where he learned about BDSM: Leather and Roses: A BDSM Resource Site He writes erotica and gets asked if he’s a Dominant. He says […] The post Discovering BDSM and His Dominant Self appeared first on LovingBDSM.
Adding a Tough Love Clause to a D/s Relationship LB009
Kayla Lords talks about a special feature of her D/s relationship with John Brownstone – the Tough Love clause. It’s what allows her to “tell” her Daddy Dominant what she thinks he needs to do in tough or stressful situations. In their 24/7 relationship, he always has the last word but the Tough Love clause […] The post Adding a Tough Love Clause to a D/s Relationship LB009 appeared first on LovingBDSM.
Why Submissives are a Reflection of Their Dominant LB050
John Brownstone joins Kayla Lords in episode 50 to discuss a popular idea in most local kink communities – a submissive’s behavior is a reflection of their Dominant. In this episode: The Loving BDSM One Year Giveaway is next week! Prizes will be from My Nawashi, Twisted Skrewz, Cane-iac, and both of us. The idea […] The post Why Submissives are a Reflection of Their Dominant LB050 appeared first on LovingBDSM.
What Negotiations Can Sound Like LB014
Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are together for episode 14 and doing something a little different. In an unscripted episode, listeners can hear what negotiating changes can sound like in one D/s couple. They’ve never let anyone in on this part of their dynamic before…until now. In this episode: Kayla asked John Brownstone for help […] The post What Negotiations Can Sound Like LB014 appeared first on LovingBDSM.
When Vanilla Life Interferes With Your D/s Relationship LB038
In episode 38, Kayla Lords discusses what submissives and Dominants can do when vanilla life gets in the way and reminds everyone just how normal it is. Everyone has experienced some level of outside interference on their kinky fuckery. In this episode: It’s been a long week and few months with not a lot of […] The post When Vanilla Life Interferes With Your D/s Relationship LB038 appeared first on LovingBDSM.
Effective Communication in Your D/s Relationship LB040
After a week away, Kayla Lords and John Brownstone are back with a big topic. Episode 40 goes over tips and advice on how to effectively communicate in your D/s relationship. In this episode: Thanks to a fellow podcaster’s recommendation, a new mic was found, installed, and is working just fine! The decision to not produce a […] The post Effective Communication in Your D/s Relationship LB040 appeared first on LovingBDSM.
Coasting in Your D/s Relationship LB097
In episode 97, we bare our souls a bit to share how we started coasting along in our D/s relationship only to find we’d coasted in separate directions. We caught it in time, but not everyone does. Hopefully, our struggles with not paying enough attention will help someone else help your own D/s relationship. In […] The post Coasting in Your D/s Relationship LB097 appeared first on LovingBDSM.
Complacency in D/s Relationships LB122 - Loving BDSM
In episode 122, we let a rant from John Brownstone and a question from a listener inspire us. People get complacent when they get comfortable or when life gets in the way. It happens in D/s and vanilla relationships. The important thing isn’t that it’ll happen. It’s what you’ll do about it. In this episode: […] The post Complacency in D/s Relationships LB122 appeared first on Loving BDSM.
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Podcast Details
Started
Aug 27th, 2015
Latest Episode
Nov 29th, 2019
Release Period
Weekly
No. of Episodes
319
Avg. Episode Length
About 1 hour
Explicit
Yes

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