Yikes, ever had a life lesson hit you like a bag full of bricks on a slow Sunday morning? That's what happened this past weekend as I FINALLY got something that life has been trying to tell me for- well, forever. 

We know murder is wrong. We know chocolate is good. But actually, chocolate is not good for everyone and not everyone even likes it. So in that regard, very few things are universally "wrong" and "right". Taking the moral approach out of it and down to a sense of wondering if there is a right or wrong way to build our lives, we can quickly see that we have been following a set of rules that do not apply and are actually holding us back from creating the lives we want!