On this weeks episode of mate. we discuss the notion of ‘adulting’ and share the moments that, for us, define adulthood and peak maturity. We look at how feeling sorry for yourself and wallowing can become detrimental to how you perceive situations. It can often be hard to separate initial emotional response from the facts and we share the times we have been guilty of creating a self-pitying narrative and running with it. 

On this week’s Mate-to-Mate we answer our listeners question of ‘How do you meet new people in a new city?’

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1. Real Women Share The Moment They Finally Felt Like An Adult – Natalie Gil

https://www.refinery29.com/en-gb/2019/03/227388/what-age-does-adulthood-begin-30s

2. How I Learned To Stop Feeling Sorry For Myself – Celeste Scott

https://www.thegoodtrade.com/features/how-i-learned-to-stop-feeling-sorry-for-myself