I understand Sandra’s daughter anguish, but she can’t claim her father indifference without stating the same about her sister’s as well. Be her own account, Sandra missed an outing with her nephew and a subsequent outing with her sister. Both missed outings didn’t general a worried reaction from her sister and other siblings. Also, when her mother missed out on play date for her grandson and another outing with the anguished daughter, this daughter didn’t raise the alarm, especially when she said that such a behavior is out of character. This begs the question, did Sandra have a history of going out unannounced and missing out on outings? I’m not blaming the victim or question her, but Sandra’s daughter literally states that her mother raised them kids as her father worked tirelessly so I’m perplexed, Why would the other siblings question and accuse their father as she is doing now? Also, she is literally defaming him - Her father- with no evidence to back her claims because of his statements to the police according to her and his behavior with throwing his wife belongings or calling it junk or garbage? I think there are many layers to this investigation, but it is an ongoing investigation after all. It will be ridiculous for the police to name someone without evidence and the daughter is not helping with name calling.