Pandora's Box with Kaleah

We often have such an activated nervous system in relationships where we don’t feel safe. We interpret that activated nervous system from abusive or neglectful relationships as excitement. Your draw to that person is a draw to excitement beca

The Good Karma Path

Oct 1st, 2015 29m 17s

Karma is the Universal Law of Cause and Effect. But how does that show up in our lives? Do we really reap what we sow? Do people really get away with cruelty and dirty deeds towards others? In this episode of Pandora's Box Kaleah talks about

Loving Yourself in Relationship to Others

Sep 17th, 2015 26m 5s

Relationships can be challenging for anyone and if we don't have the skills to work through relationship challenges we will never have strong relationships with others. In this Episode of Pandora's Box, Kaleah talks about how relationships com

Self Image; Part Nine "From Self Loathing to Self Loving

Sep 2nd, 2015 34m 10s

In part nine of "Self Loathing to Self Loving"Kaleah delves into the topic of "Self Image" and how your beliefs effect how you feel about yourself. More powerful tools for those recovering from narcissistic abuse and also those who are simply

Are you a Perfectionist? Being Perfectly Imperfect!

Aug 19th, 2015 24m 47s

Perfectionism is the curse of dysfunctional society. As humans we are far from this thing we call perfection. We may bake the perfect cake, write the perfect letter, make perfect grades in school, achieve perfection in some kind of performanc

Loving How You Feel; Even When You Don't Feel Good

Jul 22nd, 2015 30m

We often equate feeling bad with feeling we are bad. When we are angry, sad, depressed, confused, and dealing with a lot of intense emotions it is easy to feel there is something seriously wrong with us. Especially when everything feels wrong

Loving Yourself When You Feel Hated

Jul 14th, 2015 59m

In my work with victims of narcissistic abuse I notice how difficult it can be for those who have been devalued and discarded by a narcissistic personality to pull themselves back up and find love again.People who are very loving, compassiona

Why Do I Keep Picking People Who Treat Me Badly?

Jun 23rd, 2015 49m

Why Do I Keep Picking People Who Treat Me Badly? This is the most common question I am asked in my counseling practice. Although the majority of my clients come to me to heal from a damaging relationship I am fortunate to be working with so m

Alone! Confronting Loneliness and Hopelessness

Jun 9th, 2015 56m

Part 5 in the Series “From Self Loathing to Self Loving.”Loneliness can be one of the most painful conditions in our society. With our world becoming more and more a virtual reality we experience even greater disconnection from each other. T

Transitioning the Inner Judge

May 26th, 2015 46m

We have been talking about the different aspects of our personality and how to get them working together for our highest and best good. One part that always gets in the way is the inner judge. This is the part of us that finds us guilty, ofte

From Self Loathing to Self Loving Part 3; The Inner Child and the Higher Self

May 12th, 2015 48m

Part 3 of From Self Loathing to Self LovingIn this episode of the series "From Self Loathing to Self Loving" we will be talking about the relationship we develop with both our inner child and higher self and how it affects our over all sense

From Self Loathing to Self Loving Part 2; The Witness; Detached Observer

Apr 21st, 2015 45m

Most people go about their daily life very unconscious about how their actions and behavior are creating their reality. They are on autopilot not really paying much attention to the choices they are making on a daily basis. When you learn to e

From Self Loathing to Self Loving Part 1

Apr 7th, 2015 42m

From Self Loathing to Self Loving begins a new series on Pandora’s Box where I explore this very important topic of how we stop treating ourselves poorly and begin to really love ourselves. It is easy to say “I need to love myself more” but sel

Finding True Love

Mar 24th, 2015 40m

There is so much information out there on what it means to find true love. Is finding true love about finding our soul mate? Is it to find that person we can join our lives with and live happily ever after? Or is finding true love more about

Parasites and their Host

Mar 10th, 2015 1h

Parasites don’t just show up in our lives as worms and bugs but also as human’s who take energy. Narcissistis, borderline personalities, sociopaths and addicts are examples of people who take energy from others for their survival. For every p

The Power Struggle

Feb 18th, 2015 45m

The power struggle on an energetic level looks like two energy fields competing to take energy from the other or one energy field trying to take energy and the other trying to keep it. We often get caught up in the drama's of relationship incl

The Hero's Journey

Feb 4th, 2015 55m

Mythologist Joseph Campbell talked about the Hero's Journey as the inward journey one embarks on to uncover his/her authentic self. It is often filled with deep, soul awakening challenges that come in the guise of death, divorce, illness and l

Was it Medicine or Scalar Energy Pathogen Cleansing That Healed Ebola Victims?

Jan 21st, 2015 59m

Can People Be Rid of Their Virus’, Bacteria, Fungi and Protozoans Via a Remote Process Using a Photograph? Tom Paladino Picks Up Where Nikola Tesla and Galen Hieronymus Left Off Their Scalar Energy Research, Creating an Instrument that Can Dis

Walking Through Pain

Dec 17th, 2014 44m

When it deep emotional pain it is one of the most challenging places to be. Our society has very little to offer someone suffering on an emotional level other than medications and cognitive therapies that change the way you think but don’t addr

The Female Narcissist

Dec 10th, 2014 45m

The female narcissist! She may be your wife, your lover, your sister, your Mother, your friend or your co-worker. Whoever she is, she is bound to make your life crazy. Is she really a narcissist? Or is she a borderline personality? Or both

Waiting on Forgiveness

Dec 3rd, 2014 40m

You might know intuitively that you need to forgive the trespasser in your life for his or her wrongs against you but how do you get there? What does it actually mean to forgive and how will coming to forgiveness help you? We often find ourse

Thanks Giving and Black Friday; Opposite Ends of the Spectrum

Nov 26th, 2014 35m

Thanksgiving is coming up and so is Black Friday, long considered the shopping “kick off” for Christmas. It is ironic how we give thanks for what is good in our lives right before we go on a mad rush of shopping that often involves standing in

The Wounded Part: Healing the Deeper Self

Nov 5th, 2014 39m

Each of us has within us a wounded aspect that seeks healing. We are not that wounded part but we can unconsciously allow that wounded part to direct our lives. The more we can understand ourselves and care for and nurture our own wounded part,

Becoming More Narcissistic? A Discussion on Healthy Narcissism

Oct 14th, 2014 45m

If you have ever been involved with a narcissist you might have wished at some point that you were more like him/her. Maybe you feel you are too empathetic, too compassionate, you care too much for the other person, you are not confident enough

Banishing the Crazy Maker; A Tough Love Approach to Regaining Your Sanity

Sep 30th, 2014 52m

Crazy Makers. Who are they? They are those people in your life who drive you crazy. I mean literally drive you crazy. They are the narcissists, the sociopaths, the borderline personalities and other people who confuse reality, project their