First time ever, I've let a guest name their own episode!  I'm really hoping you buy her book! ;-) It will help you--I'm sure. I know it.

Do the hard things. Do what scares you. Be strong. Fight for yourself. Fight for what you need. Be a proud, boss-bitch who gets things done. Like Holly! A true SHERO!

Holly Tarry is a writer, coach and activist specializing in helping women dismantle the patriarchy in their own lives and minds. Through a very intense period of personal change, she confronted a childhood full of gender roles and polite racism, joined a grueling public fight to have an elected official expelled from office for sexual harassment, remodeled her marriage, and built a totally new relationship with herself.

She lives in Fort Collins, Colorado, with her husband, son and 4 adopted pets.

She is very reachable:
https://www.instagram.com/hollytarryauthor/https://www.facebook.com/HollyTarryAuthor
Holly Tarry(she/her/hers)Author & Coach HollyTarry.com | Own Your PowerPower Boundaries: Book | Bootcamp | CoachingIt’s time to feel seen and understood as your true self.
Her book via my link: https://bookshop.org/a/8901/9781951692087And check out her resources in the back of her book. Holly invested the time to list all of the important books to her as well as music she's citing. I respect that!Things we talked about:Amazon vs NYT:
https://www.wsj.com/articles/amazon-changed-search-algorithm-in-ways-that-boost-its-own-products-11568645345
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_New_York_Times_Best_Seller_listhttps://www.npr.org/2019/12/03/784553266/what-bestseller-lists-really-tell-us-about-a-books-popularityhttps://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/media/gop-book-deals/2021/04/15/154f3820-9ca5-11eb-b7a8-014b14aeb9e4_story.html
Ineta's Facebook group Grow the Love: https://www.facebook.com/groups/growtheloveThings we recommended to each other:
https://www.craftedleadership.com/
Doing the work: https://bookshop.org/a/8901/9780063012097
Leaving isn't the Hardest Part by Lauren Hough: https://bookshop.org/a/8901/9780593080764
Yellow House: https://bookshop.org/a/8901/9780802149039Adam Grant, AGAIN!! This particular article: https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/19/well/mind/covid-mental-health-languishing.html