How did I get off this week? I DIDN’T. No masturbation, no partner sex, no nothin’.

I went into this week fully expecting to be driven towards finding and attracting a better partner [or partners] and instead, I was so put off by the absolutely shitty sex I had last week that just the idea of pursuing physical satisfaction left a bad taste in my mouth.

Ok, also there was the incident of not seeing the shitty sex partner in person but being propositioned by him via text, attempting to gently decline, tactfully [but vaguely?] answering the questions he asked though shouldn’t have been asking, and then dealing with his subsequent attack/tantrum. That probably turned the taste in my mouth from bad to swamp awful if I’m being honest so let’s say that exchange was the real reason.

Aside from all that, I had an invigorating chat with a listener from across the pond. We started off sharing details and peculiarities of the encounters we have found most rewarding and wound up getting into a passionate discussion about sexuality and politics.

Then today I found out Bella Thorne has directed a porno in partnership with PornHub but as today is really part of “next week,” I shouldn’t say anything more.

Other than that, big secret sexy thing planned for mid-week but it just occurred to me my period might drop in at the same time so pray with me that it won’t, please!

Also! This is the last week of community voting for my bid to speak at SXSW 2020 on the topic of “Using Sex And Porn Online To Change The World IRL” so if you haven’t yet voted, please do! If you already have, please sign up to leave a comment! Engagement with the big is surely a part of it as well, and I would appreciate any and all help… visit the proposal page to vote/comment.

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