Leave it to Janet to deliver frank replies/advice. The first question describe a situation I can foresee it in the future, Why? We are currently allowing people to identify as whatever they want, questioning motives or limiting the options provided ( There are 25 !! 25 orientations available ?) , would lead to a barrage of discriminatory accusations. Imagine if 3 friends decided to be one entity; Well .. We are not going to escape this if we continue with allowing everyone including children who can’t legally vote/drink/drive to be called or identified with whatever they feel like it.