Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Can you separate your gender expression from internalized misogyny? And by you I mean me. Do you remember your first durag? Internet etiquette, that bike story again, and over policing when underpolicing is working too good.

This week’s hotlist - Black nepotism is lit, watch Southside and Sherman’s Showcase, daily affirmations, genderized kids toys, dress codes, sex toys, wear your durag (but not too tight), Allen Iverson, charter schools be wildin, public transportation propoganda and over policing, and mad other ish!Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

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EVENTSSunday November 24th, Join Queen & Vanessa of Vagesteem for their Bad Bitch Affirmations: Affirming Our Sex Lives workshop at Cafe Con Libros in Brooklyn from 6-8pm. RSVP: http://www.msvixenmag.com/2019/10/bad-bitch-affirmations-affirming-our.html

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NOTES & EXTRA TEA

Visit https://www.vote411.org to find out who/what’s on the election ballot in your zip code! If you’re in NYC check out http://whosontheballot.org

#SwipeItForward gofundme: https://www.gofundme.com/f/swipeitforward-back2school

Moment In Black Hair reference link: https://www.thestar.com/edmonton/2019/10/29/edmonton-mother-banned-from-her-sons-school-still-waiting-for-an-apology.html

That NYT article: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/04/nyregion/fare-evasion-new-york-city-subways.html

This week’s closing clip features Cardi B. ad libs from “Pop Off”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=htNidQ_hL2Y

This episode was created, hosted and produced by Janicia & Naima with production support from Emeka Ochiagha

Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.

Libations to Diamond Stylz for our What We’re Watching intro!

Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com

Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/