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In episode 02 of The Cocktales Club, Losing My Religion, I am joined with Freda Collins, who is a Coach, Lifestyle Blogger, and Founder of Boundary Babe. Freda coaches spiritual, people-pleasing millennial women to become leaders of their own lives through building better boundaries through her 1:1 program and through Mentorship calls. She is also a Human Resources Major with a decade-long background in Psychology and Mentorship. Check out BoundaryBabe.net to find out more. In episode 02 of The Cocktales Club, Freda and I talk about sexual shame and how being a former Jehovah's Witness shaped some of her ideas and feelings towards sex. Join us as we go in-depth about what sexual shame is, how and why it happens, and how you can make the changes necessary to have a healthy (and sexy) sex life! Simply put, The Cocktales Club has got you covered, baby! 

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to better follow along with this episode, here are some helpful timestamps: 

- intro | 0:01

- what being a jehovah's witness is like; basic rules | 3:00

- what happens when the elders find out you're being sexual | 15:00 

- freda's traumatic public reproval (definition above) | 16:20

- two witness rule (and all of its catastrophic bs) | 18:10

- losing her virginity | 25:00

- midroll | 37:00

- what it's like to be "physically in, mentally out" | 38:00

- shenanigans and sex talk | 43:00

- closing thoughts | 1:08:00


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