World famous pornstar, and AVN’s 2019 Director of the Year, Kayden Kross is our guest today! Is there such a thing as "too pretty for porn?" How does someone in such a public relationship remain such an enigma? Where do rape fantasies come from? What is intimacy? Has the # Me Too movement affected the porn industry? Which award is more of a curse: Performer of the Year, or Director of the Year? How does intelligence play into being a porn performer? What is it like to live next door to your husband’s ex? Also: Kayden has possibly the worst first porn scene experience I’ve ever heard of, and it was with her husband. Also also: remember when Ass to Mouth was a big deal?