In today's episode we tackle a huge concern in the swinging lifestyle & that is "Steering Wheel Couples!" This is a code word to denote a couple that is mismatched in the lifestyle and it's not just about looks. These couples fall into three main categories: Looks, Attitude, Effort. We'll break it all down & tell you what to do when she's a 10 & he's a 2. Listeners are telling us that they are finding it difficult to find a good 4 way connection with other swingers. They want to know what to do; Do we lower our standards? Do we take one for the team? What is going on?   The truth is that finding chemistry with other sexy people can be challenging. We like to party with everyone but only play with a select few. We prefer to have a certain level of attraction to both of them & it's more difficult if the couple is a little mismatched.   Here's some bad news, we will ALL be a "Steering Wheel Couple" to other lifestylers at some point.  Since everyone has different preferences and desires we can't expect to be 100% attractive, all the time, to all people. Nobody is perfect but realizing this early will help your play experiences. The good news is... we have solutions for you. By the end of this episode you'll know how to improve your connections & your naughty dates will get better. This knowledge will help you get some more naked action in the lifestyle.     We’re Isis & Eros, a happily married mid 30's couple from Los Angeles, CA. We lead a secret life as swingers & share our sexual adventures on this podcast. Come listen to our stories of wife swaps & other naughty fun. We started this podcast to help curious newbies understand the swinging lifestyle & navigate it correctly. Having an open marriage, polyamory, & ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Web: https://PriorySociety.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/PriorySociety