Identity. The core of who we are. For some of us, we’re connected to it from our earliest days onward. Our interests may change, but our core never does. For others, identity is more fluid. We may change because of the people we encounter, the things we experience, the lessons we learn. Some of us are never in any doubt about who we are. For others, it’s a lifelong journey to find out. But whichever category we fall into, identity is central to being. Unfortunately, some people never develop their own identity. For them, there is no core; there is no essential “I.” So they tend to be chameleons—whoever you want them to be. They may pick up and discard new identities as easily as some of us put on a new dress. This can make them very seductive…sometimes prone to seeing people as tools to help them get what they want…and sometimes, very dangerous.

Sources:

"Seduced" by Joy Bergmann. Chicago Reader, May 2002.
https://www.chicagoreader.com/chicago/seduced/Content?oid=908545
Oxygen's "Snapped: Killer Couples," Episode "Sienky Lallemand and Lisa Toney"
Investigation Discovery's "Wicked Attraction," Episode "Lust for Life"



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