Becoming engaged should happen once you both have decided your lives align enough that you want to spend the rest of your lives together and solely with one another and no one else. If either of you aren’t sure, then it isn’t time.
If you mean just -talking- about it, honestly, any time is good and the earlier the better. You aren’t asking them to marry you up front, but it’s always good for both people to know what their hopes and dreams are when it comes to building a relationship. If you are in a committed relationship with someone enough that they are your boyfriend or girlfriend, you should both be able to talk about your lives, what you want in the eventual long term, etc. You can acknowledge you are just dating for now, but if one person eventually wants to settle down, have 3 kids, and get married, even if that’s years away still and even if you are just trying out the relationship, that should be known.
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