Trystan Reese imparts to us some incredible language and skills around self-advocacy, educating and communicating with others, healthy relating in partnership and relaxing about parenting. We also go into his emotional experience trans gestational parenting, feminism and pregnancy and all of his work educating the medical and birth communities to support trans and gender-nonconforming folks. Trystan Reese is a trans justice activist, and speaker, a storyteller on stages including the Moth story hour, Out & Equal, Postpartum Support International, the World Domination Summit, and Columbia University. Trystan trains whole companies, schools and organizations on trans rights and inclusion. Trystan is partner to Biff and adoptive dad to Riley, Hailey and birth parent to Leo. Trystan is an influencer at BiffandI on Instagram and writer at BiffAndI.com   This episode is brought to you by  Early2Bed.com with 10% off adult toys with our code "soap19".