Tis the season for giving, and we're giving you a whole lot of love! You asked, we're answering!! It's another Listener Advice episode, where we chat when coming out to family doesn't feel like an option, how to focus on yourself and the love y

Episode 78: Dads ft Brandon Shypkowski

Dec 3rd, 2020 1h 20m

No, no, no, no. Not "Daddies". DADS. We're talking Pops, your old man, father figures and the relationships us queer folks have with them. To help us do that we have writer/actor Brandon Shypkowski (@brandonshyp)on the show to chat about his ph

Episode 77: Cults ft. Lola Blanc

Nov 19th, 2020 1h 21m

Greetings from your fearless leaders! Do you think you could never be susceptible to a cult? Think again! This week Haley and Zack are joined by writer, director, musician, actor, and podcast host Lola Blanc to talk about her experience in a cu

Episode 76: Throuples ft. Brandon Renfroe

Nov 12th, 2020 1h 20m

We're back! And what better way to return from our long break than a discussion about throuples featuring our good friend Brandon Renfroe! We chat about how similar throuples can be to couples, how communication is vital to a throuple's success

Episode 75: Sex Toys

Sep 24th, 2020 1h 13m

Let's talk about sex toys, baby! Haley gives us an in depth look at the sex toy industry from jade butt plugs to steam-powered vibrators and beyond! Then Zack has a little surprise in store a la an unboxing of some brand new toys courtesy of Ca

Episode 74: Hobby Gays ft Ted Biaselli

Sep 10th, 2020 1h 11m

Now that we're all stuck indoors there's no time like the present than to immerse yourself in your hobbies, so we're talking with Netflix exec and action figure collector, Ted Biaselli. We chat about how he got started, why queer people tend to

Episode 73: Britney Spears ft. Seth Rabinowitz

Aug 27th, 2020 1h 10m

This week, Haley and Zack are joined by returning guest, actor and social commentator Seth Rabinowitz. We talk about Britney Spears' conservatorship, the pros and cons of the #freebritney movement, conspiracy theories, and more!We're Not Toge

Episode 72: Trans Non-Binary ft. Kaek Mx

Aug 13th, 2020 1h 36m

This week, Haley and Zack are joined by activist Kaek Mx to talk about their journey as a trans non-binary individual, chat about some common questions trans non-binary folx run into, and help us write our new YA novel "Monday's Epilogue". #Tea

Episode 71 - "Bisexual-Lesbian" ft Emily Pearse

Jul 30th, 2020 1h 2m

It's a pansexual pow-wow!! Zack and Haley discuss the hotly debated term "bisexual-lesbian" with our special guest Emily Pearse. We speak on where it came from, why it gives some people pause, and why some others care to use it. We also chat wi

Episode 70: Listener Advice #8

Jul 9th, 2020 58m 10s

We're back at it again with another listener advice episode! We're answering YOUR questions on relationships during Covid, dog ownership, how having super powers is probably weirder in practice, and more!Don't forget to message us with more q

Episode 69: Racism In Theater ft. Heath Saunders

Jun 25th, 2020 1h 21m

This week, Haley and Zack are joined by singer, songwriter, composer, writer, and actor Health Saunders to talk about their retrospective article on the use of black bodies in theater, redefining the "neutral", and why dads love Kohl's. Check

Ep. 68: The Stonewall Riots

Jun 4th, 2020 1h 8m

Zack and Haley are outraged by the murder of George Floyd (and many, many others), and will not remain silent. BLACK LIVES MATTER. Today, we discuss The Stonewall Riots, an important milestone in LGBTQ history. Bricks were thrown, property was

Episode 67: After the Breakup ft Josh Smooha

May 28th, 2020 1h 9m

We talk with our friend, comedy writer Josh Smooha (twitter.com/joshsmooha), all about breakups, and specifically how the advice straight men are usually given is so toxic. We chat about what happens when someone isn't taught how to use certain

Episode 66: It's Jay Jurden Y'all

May 21st, 2020 1h 21m

Zack and Haley chat with comedian Jay Jurden (https://twitter.com/JayJurden), named one of the Timeout New York's Comedians to Watch of 2019. We talk about his debut comedy album "Jay Jurden Y'all", growing up queer in Mississippi, which celebr

Episode 65: Chasing Chasing Amy ft. Sav Rodgers

May 14th, 2020 1h 20m

On this week's episode, Zack and Haley are joined by director and filmmaker Sav Rodgers(http://savrodgers.com/) to discuss how important, and sometimes life-saving, queer representation is in media and his upcoming documentary, Chasing Chasing

Episode 64: Delayed High School Experiences ft. Laura Ansill

May 7th, 2020 1h 25m

Zack and Haley chat about how queer people sometimes miss out on the stereotypical high school experience and end up acting out those experiences later in different ways. To do that we sit down with one of Zack's best high school friends, write

Episode 63: Straight Queer Icons? ft Drew Droege

Apr 30th, 2020 1h 5m

What is it about certain straight celebrities that elevates them to queer icon status? We love our Judy Garlands, our Golden Girls, our Britney Spears...es. Zack and Haley chat with comedian and writer Drew Droege about this phenomenon as well

Episode 62: Listener Advice #7

Apr 23rd, 2020 1h 2m

How do you define romantic love? Is sex needed in order to validate one's queerness? And when is the first season of Seven Dog President finally coming out? Zack and Haley answer all of YOUR questions and more today on a brand new advice episod

Episode 61: Gaysian AF ft. Chris Renfro

Apr 16th, 2020 1h 1m

Get ready to laugh! This week Zack and Haley are joined by actor/comedian Chris Renfro (https://www.instagram.com/themeatskeleton/) to talk about the Asian American experience in the LGBTQ community, Gaysian AF at UCB, and re-cast Smaug in a ro

Episode 60: Theater ft. Andrew Barret Cox

Apr 9th, 2020 1h 19m

This one's for you theater kids! Zack and Haley chat with writer-composer-choreographer Andrew Barret Cox (https://www.instagram.com/andrewbarretcox/) to talk what theater means to queer people, discuss his show OSCAR at The Crown (https://osca

Episode 59: Porn (Part 2) ft. Sonia Harcourt & Erik Todd

Apr 2nd, 2020 59m 18s

Let's talk about sex, baby! We're sitting down with adult performers and real life married couple Sonia Harcourt (twitter.com/soniaharcourtxx) & Erik Todd (https://twitter.com/eriktoddxxx). We discuss being bisexual in the adult film industry,

Episode 58: Horror (aka "We're Not Filth") ft Michael Varrati

Mar 26th, 2020 1h 2m

Third time's the charm! It's yet another We're Not Together/Dead For Filth Crossover with our very special guest, writer/director Michael Varrati (www.twitter.com/michaelvarrati). In light of these quran-times, we're talking global issues and

Episode 57: Listener Advice #6

Mar 19th, 2020 44m 51s

Zack and Haley are back at it again - special quarantine edition! We're answering YOUR questions! Questions on how to spend your time during quarantine, if "turning" is a real thing, AND the return of Homo Robo!Email or DM your questions for

Episode 56: Health ft Adam Winney

Mar 12th, 2020 1h 12m

Zack and Haley are coming to you live from their end-of-the-world bunker to talk health in its many forms with comedian/performer Adam Winney (https://www.instagram.com/adamisdiabetic/). They talk the pressures to be fit, the prevalence of alc

Episode 55: Listener Advice #5

Mar 5th, 2020 56m 22s

Zack and Haley are back at it again! We're answering YOUR questions! Questions about when to start talking about sex when you're dating, about queer film and who can tell queer stories, AND (possibly most importantly) the pros and cons of being