In this Bonus episode of Incurable - we'll hear the special message that Rhonda asked Clayton to give at her Celebration Service. (This is a snapshot taken out of the Celebration Service - so if you listened to episode 12 you would have alread

The Celebration (Service)

Jul 12th, 2021 1h 25m

In this final episode of Incurable you get to hear the entire Celebration Service of Rhonda’s life (minus the singing – that didn’t record very well). Hear more of Rhonda's story, reflections from her kids, in-laws and grandkids. And there is

Bonus

BONUS: 'Things' & Funeral Preparations

Jul 9th, 2021 5m 18s

In this 5 minute bonus episode we hear in real time what it means to plan a funeral in the days after someone’s passing. And Clayton talks through the first time some 'thing' connects you to the someone who you have lost. Connect to the incur

I Love You… to the end (89-92 days since diagnosis)

Jul 5th, 2021 27m 26s

In the final days of the podcast Clayton shares the moments of regret, love, despair and peace. You will hear Clayton talking about the physical and emotional ups and downs of supporting his own family while also trying to be with Rhonda in he

Delirium, talking to myself (84-88 days since diagnosis)

Jun 28th, 2021 21m 52s

In this episode you will hear (and experience) the deep sadness of Clayton realising Rhonda won’t be able to record or talk on the podcast again. This episode also describes what it means to see death slowly creeping in on someone you love.

Can Faith and Doubt with Jesus exist? (81 days since diagnosis)

Jun 21st, 2021 18m 53s

A deep dive into the aspects of faith and healing. If you doubt – does it mean you can't get healed by God? Rhonda and Clayton talk about their different feelings & experiences in these moments around doubt, trust and healing from God. And R

God is Going to Heal Me (79 days since diagnosis)

Jun 14th, 2021 21m 30s

As Rhonda's voice gets weaker with the cancer taking more of a hold - this episode is all about the understanding of the closeness of death and the opportunity God has (if he wishes) to heal. Rhonda is more hopeful than she has been recently.

Telling Kids about Cancer (77 days since diagnosis)

Jun 7th, 2021 31m 11s

3 big areas covered in this episode: the potential for God to do a miracle, the reality of imminent death and having to tell kids about cancer. Rhonda & Clayton chat through how they are approaching praying for a miracle differently. They look

Is there Purpose to Death? (75 days since diagnosis)

May 31st, 2021 37m 41s

What purpose does Rhonda’s impending death have? What is the best ‘value’ to put on death? This episode we also find out why Rhonda hates the fact people will say, ‘At least she is not in pain anymore’, after she dies. And why the phrase, ‘l

The day it became REALLY real (74 days since diagnosis)

May 24th, 2021 40m 11s

After around 2 months in hospital - Rhonda manages to get home for just one week before she is given the news that she now only has weeks to live. With her liver moving into critical condition, this episode covers the family’s reaction to the n

Identity: Why it matters when you are dying … and living (60 days since diagnosis)

May 17th, 2021 32m 21s

How does going through cancer change your identity? How does it change you as the person? How about other family members? Is there a better way to understand our identity and how we process? And what does it mean to be a third child in regard

Processing cancer, life & death (60 days since diagnosis)

May 10th, 2021 34m 52s

Why is processing cancer (or anything difficult) so hard? Why do we resist processing the big things in life straight away? Rhonda and Clayton explore their tentativeness to process the incurable cancer diagnosis and why. What stage of ‘grief

That OTHER word (32 days since diagnosis)

May 3rd, 2021 18m 8s

Could there be a worse word than cancer or incurable? We discover the word that Rhonda hates in the midst of incurable cancer. Hear from her about making the most of each moment despite her diagnosis. And this episode helps us understand who

THAT Word (32 days since diagnosis)

May 1st, 2021 27m 8s

This first episode introduces the concept of a family dealing with the words ‘Incurable cancer’. Rhonda and Clayton ask each other to react to that news. And they start exploring the difference between thinking through this news and feeling th

Trailer

Incurable - Coming May 1st

Apr 14th, 2021 2m 26s

In your final months of living would you dedicate time to recording down your thoughts, feelings and perspective so others could benefit from it? Rhonda Bjelan did. Coming May 1st is the new podcast, Incurable. Incurable is a real time journey