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Fake Wins: What They Are and Why You Need To Elevate Above Them

Fake Wins: What They Are and Why You Need To Elevate Above Them

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Fake Wins: What They Are and Why You Need To Elevate Above Them

Wednesday, 26th July 2023
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1:21

All right, so let's

1:24

see how today's episode

1:26

goes, y'all. Let's just see

1:28

like, can you crawl?

1:31

Into this adventure

1:33

with me. Can you find yourself

1:36

stepping into the magic

1:38

carpet? Can you

1:41

pack for the journey and you don't

1:43

know where we're going? Can you open

1:45

a blank page in your notebook

1:48

and have your pen ready? Can

1:51

you settle on your

1:53

mat in the garden,

1:55

in your car? And

1:59

let's just see what today's experience

2:01

is going to be. For

2:04

those of you who are not watching online and you're

2:06

actually listening to the podcast, I'm

2:08

closing my eyes. I'm playing

2:10

with my hair. I'm settled

2:14

in my bed. but I really want

2:16

it just a cozy space to.

2:19

See what wanted to come through

2:22

as today's message, or this

2:24

week's message, I should say. I'm just

2:26

gonna, talk to you guys, walk you through my little

2:28

process here as we

2:31

climb into bed together.

2:33

Literally, that's pretty funny, but

2:35

I have a little notepad. and earlier

2:37

this week I was getting all these different things

2:40

that I wanted to bring into today's episode,

2:42

but all of that now that I read over, it

2:45

just feels It doesn't

2:47

feel important. I was going to guide

2:49

you guys through taking inventory

2:53

over what you've learned,

2:55

um, about yourself and about your life

2:58

this year so far. Which you

3:00

can still do. Like there's the prompt, right?

3:03

But what feels so rightful

3:06

is to talk about something. I have been

3:08

watching with women

3:10

with us, amongst us but

3:13

it's become so prevalent

3:15

and so loud because I truly

3:18

believe we're in a turning point. We're

3:21

in a turning point in culture

3:24

and. Our womanhood

3:27

and how women are defining

3:30

ourselves, and our feminine

3:32

development and our role

3:35

and perspective in the world. It just seems

3:37

like every time I open social media or

3:39

I meet someone, we've got all these

3:42

different perspectives of womanhood, floating

3:44

around, and I believe that it's making a

3:46

lot of us, a lot of you.

3:50

About your expression of womanhood.

3:53

So let's talk about it. let's

3:56

talk about it. And I think that this is incredibly

3:59

important and potent for me personally, because

4:01

I have seen myself evolve as

4:03

a woman over these last three years,

4:06

and most potently

4:09

in this last 365

4:11

days. my expression of

4:13

my womanhood, my respect for my womanhood,

4:15

my admiration for who I'm as a woman

4:18

and who I'm becoming has and

4:20

continues to evolve. It looks very, very,

4:22

very different than what it did

4:25

at the start of 2021, at the start of 2022.

4:28

And so I wanna bring

4:30

us into this exploration, and I wanna

4:32

talk about the things that I am

4:34

seeing that

4:37

distorts. And

4:40

I wanna say camouflages, but also

4:42

just blinds us to

4:46

the true experience of womanhood.

4:49

Now, I don't know about you, but growing

4:52

up I never thought about what

4:54

it meant to become a woman. I

4:56

didn't, and I talked about this in another episode briefly,

4:59

I just knew that you got older. I

5:02

knew I wanted to do certain things in my life,

5:04

achieve certain things in my life, but I

5:06

just felt that womanhood happened to you

5:08

by the fact that you get older, like you're considered

5:11

a woman. You are no longer a child,

5:13

you are a preteen. You go into adolescence

5:15

and teenagers, you become a young adult, and then

5:17

you're a woman and that's it. And there's like stages of womanhood

5:20

like. Middle-aged

5:22

woman, an elder woman, you know, a grown

5:25

as some people would say. But, I

5:27

didn't pay too much attention of these different archetypes

5:29

or stages of life, and I

5:32

don't even wanna talk about it from that perspective either,

5:34

because there are tons of incredible books

5:37

that talk about the journey of womanhood as

5:39

stages, as things that we experience,

5:41

whether you wanna look at that physiologically and what

5:43

happens in our womb and our emotions

5:46

and our mentality and our beauty. Or

5:49

you wanna look at it from an emotional

5:51

perspective and how we usually see ourselves

5:53

and what challenges we have. You

5:56

know, the sandwich effect when you become a mother

5:58

to your children, but also you're kind of mothering your

6:01

parents and nurturing and looking after

6:03

them in their older age. Like all of those things from

6:05

a psychological, sociological

6:07

perspective are out there and you

6:10

can search for them. Like one book that's coming

6:12

to mind is, is it Made into Mother?

6:15

And that journey from being like, Young,

6:17

free and single into a deeper level

6:19

of responsibility for yourself and

6:22

children or people

6:24

you nurture, right? Because it doesn't have to be people that you've

6:26

birthed. and just nurturing yourself,

6:29

right? There's that book in particular is well

6:31

known. Um, there's a lot of books about

6:33

that, like, go on your own journey.

6:35

Maybe we'll have a book, love one day. I don't know.

6:38

But what I actually wanna talk about is,

6:41

Almost like an arrested development

6:43

experience in

6:45

the womanhood, maturation journey that

6:47

a lot of us are in. And I say

6:49

a lot of us, as in those of us who are in our

6:52

thirties, people who

6:54

I consider to be peers, sisters, friends.

6:56

I'll even throw myself in the bucket, right? I

6:59

always teach my living. I will always remind

7:01

you guys that, but this arrested development

7:04

where we are fighting for

7:07

expressing with great. Energetic

7:10

charge and frustration and

7:12

desire and wanting and anger,

7:14

and like all these emotions of what

7:16

we want, but it's from a space of our

7:18

inner child, our little girl. What we didn't

7:21

get or what we weren't given, and

7:23

what we also did not see in our families

7:26

from our own mothers or the women who nurtured

7:28

us. Right? And there's nothing wrong with that.

7:30

Let me just before we even crawl all the way

7:33

in here, there's nothing wrong with that as

7:35

pattern breakers, as the women

7:37

who have been called and have chosen

7:40

to be in our lives right

7:42

now at this day and age and

7:45

our lineages to reclaim

7:47

and bring in, like it

7:49

makes sense that we are

7:51

in this position. Of

7:53

creating what can be and

7:55

longing for what can be because of what

7:57

was not and what has not been for a

7:59

long time. So let, let's just

8:02

get that clear. The whole

8:04

point of my work is to support,

8:06

guide, mentor, inspire

8:09

those of us, whether you're male, female,

8:12

however you identify, who do feel

8:14

called to be the change maker in

8:16

your family, in your community, in the world,

8:18

through your own life. So,

8:21

but what we're experiencing is like

8:24

this arrested development where our

8:27

approach and our belief

8:29

in creating what hasn't been seen or what

8:31

has not been in a long time is

8:33

kind of shackled or wrapped

8:36

up or bound by the.

8:39

Experiences and the energies

8:41

of a lack and of struggle and

8:43

of frustration, right? And

8:46

so the more that we're desiring and wanting and

8:48

trying to create, we're only going

8:50

as far as we continue to

8:52

believe in what has been. I'll

8:54

say it again. Even

8:57

though we're called to create something new in

8:59

our lives and in our lineages, we can

9:01

only go as far as

9:03

we believe and what has already been.

9:06

So if you keep saying, I wanna

9:08

create this freedom, financial freedom, I

9:10

wanna be in a marriage that, and like whatever

9:12

it is that's externally represented,

9:15

which was just level one. And

9:17

if you keep saying focus on the

9:19

external presentation of what you wanna

9:21

create for the first time in your life and in your family,

9:24

but you keep referencing the fact that it

9:26

has not ever been done, then

9:29

you're moving at the pace of molasses. Cultivate

9:35

what you do desire and make that

9:37

process of manifesting it, embodying

9:40

it, becoming the woman to have it, to

9:42

hold it, to honor it, to respect it, to nurture

9:44

it is to alchemize

9:47

the past so that you have the energetic

9:49

space and fortitude and focused

9:52

energy to cultivate

9:54

what we do want, right? I just

9:56

went into high level teaching straight up.

10:00

Wasn't expecting that, but as I said, ride

10:02

this magic harper. Ride with me today. All right.

10:04

Like, just roll with me today. This is

10:06

good stuff already. and

10:08

the reason why I feel called to talk about

10:10

this is, uh, every time I look out on social,

10:13

I'm seeing these conversations about women

10:15

I respect and love and like who

10:18

are. Sharing their experiences

10:21

with men. in a negative way. You

10:24

know, they're talking about how they held the standard

10:26

and this is what the date was like.

10:28

And um, they're talking about,

10:31

you know, how they have the lux life. It can go on the

10:33

vacations and drink the wines

10:36

and all the things, but are

10:38

also very tormented with the lack

10:40

of love and belonging

10:43

and. trust and vulnerability,

10:46

whether it's with a partner or even with their

10:48

extended family. And

10:50

so I see this whole conglomerate

10:52

as much as so many people talk about hating

10:54

capitalism and all these things.

10:58

I see this, uprising

11:00

or greater evolution of women

11:03

coming into more financial abundance

11:05

in order to ignore

11:08

cover up. bypass

11:11

the healing that needs to happen within us

11:14

first so that it can happen

11:16

in the world around these dynamics

11:19

that we live in in society. So

11:21

how we relate to ourselves, our confidence,

11:23

our trust, our intuition, our spirituality,

11:26

like truly tapping into that vulnerability.

11:28

Truly trusting what you pick up, what you

11:30

feel in the world, being able to walk

11:32

in confidence and love and joy and radiance,

11:35

but instead because we feel unsafe

11:38

in that joy, in that radiance, in that truth,

11:40

in that trusting what you pick up intuitively

11:43

and spiritually. We're like, fuck

11:45

that. I'm gonna hide that and only keep it to myself.

11:48

And instead, I wanna make Bocos amount

11:51

some money and go on these trips and talk

11:53

about how amazing my life is, that I don't need a man

11:55

and I'm a great mom and all these things. Right? But

11:58

at the end of the day, I don't feel that we're

12:00

as happy as we're portraying. I

12:03

don't, I feel that way because

12:05

when I think back in my life last year,

12:08

Even the year before that, my business

12:10

was doing incredible things in so many

12:12

of your lives. It was doing incredible things

12:14

in supporting me and my life. Um,

12:17

I was able to travel how I wanted to, and I've always

12:19

done. I was showing up online.

12:21

I was telling great stories. I was on the greatest podcast.

12:24

I was dating the OSUs men, and

12:26

also there was a void

12:28

inside of me that had nothing to

12:30

do with. The

12:33

money, or the man or the friends,

12:35

or the recognition or the business, or

12:37

even how much I was such an incredible

12:39

impact in so many people's lives. Like all

12:42

that aside, I still felt empty

12:46

and I know that there are again, so

12:48

many books about that, that talk about,

12:50

you know, filling yourself up and

12:52

until you love who you are and to keep your own

12:54

company and be in your own being, nothing

12:57

else matters. Yes, that's true. Maybe

13:00

I've read those books and so many other people haven't.

13:03

I don't know, but it's almost like we

13:05

know this, and yet we're still

13:07

on the hamster wheel. We

13:10

know this, and we're still ignoring

13:12

the fact that the ache inside

13:14

of our hearts, the ache inside

13:16

of your heart, the deeper, greater desire

13:19

makes you Trimble, you know,

13:22

and. What feels so potent

13:25

to share and actually call

13:28

you, to call all of us to is

13:30

to get real with your

13:32

life and get real with who

13:35

you actually are and

13:37

get real on the obstacles you

13:39

must overcome and order to

13:41

step into the peace that is destined

13:43

to you, the peace that you most

13:46

desire, regardless of what. Your

13:48

life looks like, what your external

13:51

experiences are on. And

13:53

when I think about that, for me, I'm

13:55

like, gosh, the realness

13:58

of my life is, I'm in such an

14:00

incredible initiation. I

14:02

just am. As much as I wanna say

14:04

that this is over, it's freaking

14:06

not y'all. It seems like it's been the longest initiation

14:08

ever, but the truth is,

14:11

so many of us are celebrating fake

14:13

wins. I was on a call

14:15

the other day and one of the

14:18

persons was, we were having a conversation about

14:21

fake wins. A fake

14:23

win is, oh my God. I'll give this

14:25

in the context of a. A

14:28

fake win is when

14:30

you got the business revenue, but

14:32

the business actually isn't profitable. Or

14:35

you go online and you celebrate however,

14:37

number of sales

14:40

and cash, you know, sales

14:42

for your mastermind of sales, for your, or whatever. But

14:44

then you don't ever come back and update that with

14:46

how many people churned, how many

14:48

people canceled, how many people

14:51

missed payment, dropped out, whatever.

14:53

The actual ending number for that program

14:56

and the actual ending profit. If it's,

14:58

these fake wins, and like, I know that's harsh

15:01

because we all need to get into the energy and

15:03

the, mindset of abundance and everything

15:05

matters. Everything's working for you. It's true.

15:07

But again, in this online world,

15:10

whether it's online business, online, women's empowerment,

15:13

we are presenting only half of

15:15

the wins, half of the truth. And so therefore, it's

15:17

a little bit fake. It's a little bit one sided. Other

15:20

things that are like fake wins. It's like, okay,

15:23

you made all this money and you're an empowered

15:25

single mom, but you're also burnt

15:27

out. You know, the

15:29

fact that you can't be vulnerable, you don't

15:31

trust people to show up for you

15:33

and your kids, or even just for you as a single

15:35

woman, and like that's not

15:38

a full win. I've also seen it

15:40

where, particularly a relationship

15:42

coach is like, I've worked with so

15:44

many women. And so

15:46

many of them have gotten engaged in married,

15:49

but then she doesn't go and update and say because

15:51

of her way of teaching and her method, it

15:53

actually isn't a sustainable, sure the women got

15:55

married, but they're not spouses.

15:58

They're not in divine union. They're not in sacred union.

16:00

Right? They're married to men

16:03

who let them boss them around.

16:05

You know? Even though it doesn't

16:07

necessarily look like that energetically, that's what's

16:09

really going on. So it's like, it's not, it's a. The

16:14

more I sit in this podcast,

16:16

the more I let 2023

16:20

massage and transform

16:22

and peel back all these layers for me, the

16:24

more that I keep coming back to all

16:27

I want is truth. I

16:29

want truth more and more

16:31

and more. I don't. I don't fucking care

16:34

how it's delivered. I really don't. When

16:38

is delivered with a sting, when

16:40

it makes me uncomfortable. I

16:42

take note of that and I start working on

16:44

why I am squirming

16:47

in my chair or in my seat,

16:49

or why I had such an asshole response

16:51

or a negative response or a complete resistance

16:54

that identifies that there's an opportunity

16:56

for healing and trans and,

16:59

um, I was in a conversation yesterday morning.

17:02

Over breakfast where someone was telling me like

17:04

a little inside little piece of medicine that's

17:06

completely resistant to it. I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah. I

17:08

know that I'm very well versed in

17:10

that, but under

17:13

the circumstances, I am not available for that. You

17:15

know, I was very honest and clear

17:17

where my boundaries were and what I believed, and

17:21

I had to go back to that experience, and I was

17:23

like, why were you so negative?

17:26

Like, why were you so resistant?

17:28

I was like, the medicine that that person was

17:30

giving you is true.

17:33

It's exactly what you needed. You

17:36

are just associating it with an old

17:38

version of that same medicine, not

17:40

working for you. So lemme give

17:42

you a little mini lesson Inside of the lesson. Inside of the lesson,

17:46

you can hear something that you already know. You

17:48

can be given a dose of medicine that did not

17:50

work under the circumstances you were in, in the

17:52

past, but a hundred percent for

17:54

you right now. Sometimes you're given

17:57

medicine right now that. Again,

17:59

work in the past and don't work right now. Like it could

18:01

be either or. But if you're not very

18:03

present in your process intent,

18:06

that program is still available. If

18:09

you're not present in your process, you won't even

18:11

pick up on which is

18:13

appropriate for you. And

18:16

so when I left breakfast, I was

18:18

just, I put a pin in it. I just made a note

18:20

that I had an adverse response to

18:23

that. I came back and journaled

18:25

about it. I processed that great. I meditated on

18:27

it, and I had to go back to that person. I was like, I'm

18:29

so sorry, because that medicine was for

18:31

me. I know why

18:33

I was resistant to it. That was an old version

18:35

of me that was resistant, and I know why she was.

18:38

I dealt with it. I needed to come back and honor

18:40

this and get right, so the

18:42

medicine that flows through can give a full

18:44

win. Not a fucking fake win, you

18:46

know? This year just

18:49

feel like it's packed full of lessons.

18:51

It really does. It's such

18:54

a beautiful, I

18:58

was sharing some things with a family member and

19:00

they were literally like, yo, every time I talk

19:02

to you, it's another teaching, another lesson.

19:04

Like you are moving through things that I

19:06

know people who have been studying this stuff,

19:08

living this stuff. It's taken

19:10

them years to get where you've gotten literally like

19:13

three, four months. And I'm like, I don't know what

19:15

to tell you. I don't know. It just feels, I'll

19:17

tell you guys, um, there's

19:19

certain places in the world like

19:21

Bali, Hawaii, Tulum,

19:24

I think they're, oh, Sedona, Arizona. Mount

19:27

Shasta I think is one of them. There's

19:30

certain energy points in the world

19:32

where, It brings up all your

19:34

karmic, as some people would say, karmic

19:36

loops. All your past life stuff, all your deep childhood

19:38

things, all of your like, it just speeds

19:41

up time and energy. And to me,

19:43

2023 feels like a year of that.

19:46

There's something about the energy of this year

19:48

that is just moving us deeper

19:50

and deeper and deeper into the truth and bringing us

19:52

higher and higher, higher to the surface of like,

19:55

here's your next point. Here is the next

19:57

opportunity. Here's the next truth that you need

19:59

to. Look at face

20:02

metabolize, heal, transmute,

20:04

and body, and grow beyond

20:06

I, I really do. So I'm gonna

20:08

talk a little bit more about fake wins. Fake

20:11

wins can show up in so

20:13

many ways. Essentially, a fake win is anything

20:15

that you are celebrating that does not

20:18

empower you to be in your most expansive,

20:20

empower, authentic. True

20:22

self, right? The path person

20:25

that you're called to be, and

20:27

life will get us into fake wins easily.

20:30

For example, if you

20:33

are meant and desire to live an abundant life,

20:35

to get free of financial debt, to

20:38

be able to go and calm, to

20:40

feel easeful, but you're

20:42

celebrating when you get a discount,

20:44

when you have hustled your way into a discount, that

20:47

is a fake win. Don't get me wrong. Everyone

20:49

loves, you know, a deal. Don't get, I,

20:51

I love a deal. I love when I'm like, oh, that was great.

20:55

But if you are constantly going to go and haggle

20:57

with friends and family, when

20:59

you are looking for opportunities

21:02

to stay in the safety of

21:04

your constriction and

21:06

the safety of your lack to

21:09

make it useful because you believe in

21:11

that more than your ability to expand.

21:13

That's a fake one. Another

21:15

example is when you're celebrating

21:18

being a single wealthy

21:20

mother. Where your

21:22

business is supporting you and you're like, I don't need

21:24

a man, and I'm outta my divorce and da, da, dah,

21:26

dah, dah. That's a fake win because we

21:29

all know that while we women can do

21:31

it all, we weren't meant to do it all. We're

21:33

meant to be in community. We're meant to be in partnership.

21:36

Whatever the partnership looks like for you, we're

21:38

meant to be held. We are meant to

21:41

be supported. And so short

21:43

term, that could be something that you're

21:45

proud of because. The

21:50

families we're from the structure, we're from what's happening

21:52

in the mantle sphere. Not

21:55

to go into all that, but you know, I'm

21:57

grateful that we have the skills

22:00

to step in, to

22:02

survive and to be, and to thrive, and do it beautifully

22:04

and elegantly. And at the end of the day,

22:07

your true hearts desire is not to

22:09

be a single mom. It is not to be the sole

22:11

breadwinner, you know, it

22:13

is to be. A

22:15

beautiful union relationship. So

22:17

that's a fake win. It's a short term win,

22:19

you know, any kind of standard

22:22

that keeps you from

22:24

dropping into the vulnerability and truth of your heart

22:26

is also not a win. And this usually manifests

22:29

as like women being

22:31

very, very entitled in the way that they're dating.

22:33

I'm actually guiding quite a few women in their

22:35

dating experiences right now,

22:38

having been in the dating world

22:40

for a while. And there's so

22:42

many things that I learned in the last three, four years

22:44

about dating and relationships, and

22:46

so. I, I talk

22:48

about cultivating standards

22:51

and having a certain

22:53

blueprint that is rightful for you and your

22:55

life as a queen, as an empowered, super

22:57

valuable high class woman,

23:00

as all of us are in certain ways in

23:02

our own ways. and if those

23:04

standards and blueprints and expectations

23:08

are. Protecting you or keeping

23:10

you out of your vulnerability or keeping you out

23:12

of your heart, or preventing you

23:14

from truly being

23:17

open and present with a

23:20

man prospect and

23:22

with your beloved, or with your,

23:25

you know, a man that you wanna be with your life or

23:27

you're exploring. If you wanna be within your life, then that's

23:30

a fake win. Those standards

23:32

are actually not serving you in the way that they could

23:34

be. If you were connected

23:36

to your truth, your heart, your openness,

23:38

and your expansiveness, so

23:41

message of the day is we've

23:44

gotta get beyond fake wins

23:46

and into the truth,

23:48

the realness of our lives about who

23:51

we're, what we're carrying, what

23:53

we're overcoming, what we're bringing forth,

23:56

and stop drinking the

23:58

Kool-Aid. This

24:00

year is about facing

24:02

the music y'all And

24:05

sometimes it's high pitched or

24:07

it's mellow, dramatic and low tone.

24:10

But once you get into it, it is

24:13

music to my

24:15

ears, music to your ears, and a hundred

24:17

percent. I don't know. I'm getting

24:19

the visual of us like skipping down the yellow

24:21

brick road to music right now. Um,

24:24

there's challenges on the road, but

24:26

when we face the music, it's so worth it. It's

24:28

so, so, so worth it. This whole

24:31

idea that empowered womanhood is

24:33

about what you

24:35

gain in your life and

24:38

what you get from the world

24:40

or from a man is just not true. Empowered

24:43

womanhood is not about the boundaries

24:45

that you hold and the standards that you keep

24:48

empowered. Womanhood is truly about

24:50

the relationship you have with yourself.

24:53

The intimacy, the knowing, the openness,

24:56

the I have a plethora

24:58

of tools in my toolkit as an empowered

25:01

creation woman that I can use

25:03

at any given moment that is

25:05

rightful in the moment.

25:08

I am not just running to being

25:11

hard and strong and resilient every

25:13

situation. 'cause every situation doesn't call

25:15

for that. Sometimes it calls for your softness. Sometimes

25:18

it calls for your patience. Sometimes it calls

25:20

for your ferocity and your, I don't give

25:22

aness. Sometimes it calls

25:24

for. Collaborating

25:26

with someone who have harmed you or hurt you, sometimes

25:29

it falls for you having a ha. No, absolutely

25:31

not. And there's so much more, I'm just going

25:33

to the two polar extremes, but

25:35

empowered womanhood is so much

25:38

more than just the lifestyle or your relationship

25:40

to the opposite. But I want

25:42

you to walk away. With thinking

25:44

about what this

25:46

year is calling you to face,

25:48

and what music you are

25:51

listening to and what medicine

25:53

you need to go ahead and swallow

25:56

and let it transform you

25:58

and transform your life. If

26:02

you know that you need help with identifying

26:04

fake wins and what is

26:07

the rightful way to navigate it into real

26:09

wins, right? Not to, I'm

26:11

not trying to knock the goodness that you have done

26:13

and how you've been resilient and how you

26:15

have maneuvered in your life. Rightfully so,

26:18

and I know that we're all cultivator. I know

26:20

that there is more for you this year just

26:22

like it is for me. So

26:24

if you wanna be with other women

26:26

who are answering this call, who are leveling

26:29

up in this way, the level Up

26:31

is going within. That

26:33

is what the Elevating Women's Retreat is

26:35

for, and that's what we're going to be doing

26:38

over four days together and

26:41

Cosing Lucas, Mexico over US

26:43

Labor Day weekend. When I say I'm

26:45

excited about this retreat, it is such an understatement.

26:49

This retreat, I actually sent an email

26:51

about this, um, where I was talking about

26:54

every retreat has a theme, and

26:56

most time that theme is like money

26:59

or beauty or bliss

27:01

or relaxation or finer

27:03

womanhood and elegant life, or even

27:06

creative retreats, right? Or sex and sensuality

27:09

retreats. Like it's usually you doing something

27:11

or wanting something. We don't

27:13

go to many retreats where the theme

27:16

is you. And that's

27:18

what the Elevating Woman Retreat is, is the theme,

27:20

is you. How are you showing

27:22

up? Where is your life calling

27:24

you to go? What's blocking

27:27

you? What fake wins do we need to

27:29

honor and move beyond? How

27:31

do you need to be held? How do you need to be

27:33

seen, and how can we get you over

27:36

your obstacles, the repeating patterns,

27:38

and into the authority of

27:40

your expansion? If all

27:43

of that is speaking to you, then this is the retreat

27:45

that you need to get into. Payment plans

27:47

are available, and it would be an honor

27:49

to have you join us, right? So

27:52

I'm gonna wrap up today's episode. With

27:54

that, I wanna call you

27:56

into your real self, into

27:58

your real life, into your real path.

28:01

And to explore what empowered

28:03

womanhood really, really

28:05

means for you. Not

28:07

what's on social media, not what

28:10

some other author has said, but for

28:12

you, not even what I'm saying. And I'm, those

28:14

of you on the video can see me like using my microphone

28:18

stand as a wand. Here.

28:21

We want to see empowered

28:24

women through your lens,

28:26

through your energy, through your es essence,

28:28

through your calling and your beauty. All

28:31

right. I'm sending you lots of love wherever

28:33

you are as you move forth in

28:35

this day. I hope that you do it with courage

28:38

and compassion. and

28:40

don't forget to leave a rating or review if

28:43

this episode speaks to you. All

28:45

right. I'll see you guys next week.

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