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22// Leadership Support Missing? How to Grow Your Nursing Career Without It

22// Leadership Support Missing? How to Grow Your Nursing Career Without It

22// Leadership Support Missing? How to Grow Your Nursing Career Without It

Thursday, 9th May 2024
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0:01

In the last episode I introduced the

0:03

Florence Challenge based on the

0:06

book the Florence Prescription From

0:08

Accountability to Ownership Manifesto

0:12

for a Positive Healthcare Culture

0:14

. Yes , you can

0:16

have a positive healthcare culture

0:19

. Challenge reminds us that taking

0:22

care of the sick , taking

0:24

care of our patients , should be

0:26

a mission , not

0:35

just a business , and being a nurse or healthcare professional should

0:37

be a calling , not just a job . Again , I refer back to my

0:39

previous episode I believe

0:42

it was episode 20 , episode

0:47

. I believe it was episode 20 , where I talked about deciphering are you job-minded or are you career-minded

0:50

? But what the Florence Challenge includes

0:52

is being emotionally positive

0:54

, being self-empowered

0:56

and fully engaged . I

0:59

am using this book to bring in

1:02

a twist on how it helps you grow

1:04

your career . Many of us believe

1:06

that our leadership or others

1:08

should help us grow our careers

1:10

. We'd like for that to be

1:12

the case . Their leaders

1:15

would like for that to be the case . They understand

1:17

that that is part

1:19

of it . Sometimes it's not your

1:21

leadership fault , your leadership's fault or

1:24

your manager's fault and

1:26

they're not able to invest the time in

1:28

helping you to grow because , more than likely

1:30

, it's because they may be overwhelmed

1:32

. But to

1:34

some point that is true , but

1:37

will less likely be the case in most

1:39

cases . I've been in

1:41

nursing for over 19

1:44

years It'll be 20 years this

1:46

year in July and

1:49

so I've ebbed and flowed through

1:51

a lot of leaders understanding

1:53

their abilities or maybe

1:55

lack of abilities to support you in leadership

1:58

. Every person can

2:00

grow their careers without nursing leadership support

2:02

, but you have to take ownership

2:04

of the actions

2:08

or inaction , the

2:10

actions that you don't take to grow

2:12

your careers . Nurse

2:26

podcast , where I provide tips , tools and resources for the experienced nurse to

2:28

put in your career bag to help you be a better person , a better leader , a

2:31

better professional and , most of all , a

2:33

better nurse . I'm your host

2:35

, bonnie Meadows , a career coach

2:37

and a clinical nurse specialist with

2:39

over 18 years of experience

2:41

in healthcare and nursing . It's

2:44

my passion to help experienced

2:46

nurses develop their careers to

2:49

impact health care and their communities

2:51

. I

2:57

was at a point in my career

2:59

my nursing career where my

3:02

boss was not helping me grow . In

3:04

fact , she was doing the opposite

3:06

. I had just moved

3:08

from a job in risk management . I

3:11

was good where I was , so going to quality

3:13

was going to be icing on the cake . I

3:16

was about six months from obtaining

3:18

my first master's degree in nursing , with a focus

3:21

in health systems management and

3:23

a job in quality would allow me to

3:25

use it more . Plus , there was

3:28

no upward , there was not

3:30

a lot of room for upward

3:32

movement in risk management , and

3:34

that's what I was looking for . I

3:36

wasn't looking for . I was looking for a lot

3:39

of out , some outward movement

3:41

, but at that point

3:43

my mind was on

3:46

advancement yes , growth

3:48

, because I was doing things that in

3:50

my career that was helping me to grow

3:53

. But I wanted advancement

3:55

and so , like you , I

3:58

desired a little bit more for my career

4:00

and I wanted a change . But I

4:02

was good if I didn't get the job . So

4:05

I made it to my dream

4:08

position as an outcome specialist

4:10

. This

4:15

position was supposed to set me up for a very progressive career path in quality management

4:17

and in other areas of health care . It provided

4:20

me a lot of exposure where , on a

4:22

regular basis , on

4:25

a regular basis , on a weekly basis

4:27

in risk management , I would work

4:29

with CMOs and

4:32

chief nursing officers . But in

4:34

this other position , it

4:37

was not just the hospitals that

4:39

I covered , but it was a system wide position

4:41

. Where it was , there

4:43

were still presidents that I interacted

4:45

with VPs , svps , executive

4:48

vice presidents . So

4:50

it was it was going

4:52

to set me up and

4:54

the leadership support I needed just

4:57

was not there . Other people

5:00

were bullying her and

5:02

it stunned my growth , so much so

5:04

that she suggested

5:07

I look for another job , and I was in

5:09

agreement because it was

5:11

just not . I

5:13

wrestled with it for a while , because as nurses

5:16

we don't give up , and at

5:18

that point in time I'd had my

5:20

gosh . I'd come off of maybe

5:23

like a four-year time

5:25

frame four or five-year time frame where

5:28

my reviews were exceeds

5:30

expectations . So

5:33

, although that job

5:35

was teaching me a lot

5:38

of lessons , one of the things

5:40

that I had to keep in mind is that

5:42

I'm not a bad employee and

5:45

I had to also

5:47

keep at the forefront of my mind the things

5:49

that I needed to work on . But

5:52

I also kept in perspective . This

5:54

is not all my fault , and

5:57

I'm usually one who will take on a

6:00

lot . I take my responsibility

6:02

for those things that I am responsible

6:04

for , and so I

6:07

had held on as long as I could

6:09

to do better in the role . But

6:12

, as one of my colleagues said , oh

6:14

my , we failed you in your orientation

6:16

and I'm so sorry , and

6:19

this was after I'd started looking for

6:21

another job . Even my other co-workers

6:23

were like , yeah , that's

6:26

a great idea . It just

6:28

never got better . But two months

6:30

before I left I got a new boss

6:33

who was more supportive and

6:35

I could tell my growth had

6:38

shifted . But it was too late . It

6:41

was time for me to move on . She kept

6:43

asking me are you sure

6:45

you want to leave ? Now , that

6:48

was a huge pivot in

6:50

my career time because

6:53

I recently had somewhat

6:55

of the same conversation

6:58

from a job that I just left , of

7:00

a new boss coming in and saying are

7:02

you sure you want to leave ? Like we could really

7:05

like you could stay . If you really

7:07

want to stay , you could stay , and

7:09

so I . But back then I

7:11

told her , yes , it's time for me to

7:13

go , and that was the one of the

7:15

best moves I made in my career

7:17

. Nurses stay stagnant

7:20

because they feel like they have no

7:22

other choice or

7:25

this is just the way it will be and

7:28

they just settle

7:30

there and stay miserable , or

7:32

they leave the profession . Leaving

7:35

the profession is not always the answer , because

7:38

there are so many options in

7:40

healthcare than just

7:42

not than just being a nurse . There

7:46

are so many options in healthcare

7:48

, even in nursing . Honestly

7:51

, it's definitely changed

7:53

in my 20 years as far as the options

7:55

that are available . We are

7:57

at a point , though , where

7:59

we are at a crux in the profession

8:02

, where the options are many

8:04

more

8:07

, so that it's much easier for

8:09

the nurse at the bedside to leave the hospital

8:12

or to stay within the

8:14

hospital setting . But do

8:16

something just a little bit

8:18

different in order to contribute

8:21

. But do something just a

8:23

little bit different in order to contribute , and

8:29

so , in this episode , you'll learn how to use the elements of the Florence Challenge of ownership

8:31

to grow your career . Without leadership

8:34

. Ownership is

8:37

when we aspire to

8:40

be committed to

8:42

our core values , especially

8:45

those that match the organization

8:48

. We are engaged in our work

8:50

and with our co-workers , and we take pride

8:52

in our work and in our profession

8:55

, and that ownership

8:57

that we have is a culture

8:59

that is built within us . That

9:02

ownership that we have is a culture that is built within us , so

9:04

I take the culture of ownership with me wherever

9:06

I go , and people can

9:08

see it on me . This

9:16

is one of the major ways that you can show your value to the organization , and it helps you to validate

9:18

yourself also at the same time . Like this is

9:20

a give and take , we always think , oh

9:22

well , what's in it for me and , yes , we definitely

9:24

want to know what's in it for us , but

9:27

we also have to understand

9:30

the tangibles and the intangibles that

9:32

we are able

9:34

to provide to the organization

9:37

. And

9:39

so , with ownership , there

9:41

are three things under ownership

9:43

, under the big umbrella

9:46

of ownership , that we can really

9:49

focus on , and

9:51

then under that , there

9:54

are ways in which you can

9:56

incorporate ownership

9:58

. So that's more so the

10:00

how are we going to do this ? With

10:03

ownership , we are focused on our

10:06

commitment to our

10:08

values , our own

10:10

vision and mission and the organization's

10:12

vision and mission , and we're

10:15

making sure those two line up at

10:17

all times . And so , even

10:19

though someone , I

10:21

would challenge

10:24

you that , if you are in a difficult

10:26

situation within

10:29

your job , your nursing job , go

10:32

back to find the

10:34

company's vision and mission

10:36

and you read that and

10:38

you look at that , because if that's what they're saying

10:41

but they're not doing it , then

10:43

we we need to have some conversations , because

10:45

I can guarantee you that somewhere in that organization

10:48

, someone , some leader , is carrying

10:50

it out , and sometimes

10:52

you need to make a move . Or

10:55

if you feel like the entire organization

10:57

is opposite of what they're saying

10:59

their vision and mission is , then

11:01

you have some decisions to make . But

11:04

back to ownership , commitment

11:07

to your values , vision

11:09

and mission and the organizations . That

11:13

looks like engagement , and so I talked

11:15

about being fully engaged , being fully present

11:17

physically and

11:19

emotionally , and then having a

11:21

passion , loving your work and

11:23

letting it show . And I

11:25

listen , you're not going to have a passion for everything

11:28

that you do , but anytime

11:30

you get to do those things that do

11:32

bring you joy , you

11:35

find ways to do it . Find

11:37

ways to do those things

11:39

within your work that do bring

11:42

you joy . So , if it's

11:44

working on a project , if it's teaching

11:46

, if it's rewriting

11:50

a policy , if it's doing

11:52

clinical inquiry and doing

11:55

analysis of data , like any

11:58

of those things , if it's patient education

12:00

, if it's mentoring another

12:02

nurse , find ways to

12:05

insert your passion into

12:07

your everyday work so

12:09

that you're not always focused on

12:11

what's not going right

12:13

and what you don't like about work . These

12:19

are the ways , these are the elements of ownership that you

12:21

need in order to grow your career , because

12:24

when you get some of these things

12:26

lined up , then you're

12:28

able to have

12:30

a better vision about where you want

12:32

to go and you're able

12:34

to start journaling

12:38

, writing down , understanding

12:41

your value , and then you're able

12:43

to articulate that to others . Okay

12:46

, so here are some other tangible

12:49

ways to incorporate

12:52

ownership or to be an owner

12:54

of your career

12:56

growth process . The

12:58

first one is being an owner and not

13:00

a renter . No one changes

13:02

the oil in a rental car , so

13:05

anytime you say that's not my

13:07

job , or you walk by

13:09

a patient's room where the call light is on , you

13:11

don't stop pick up a piece

13:13

of paper on the floor when

13:15

your hands are empty

13:17

. You're renting a space

13:19

in the organization . You're not taking

13:22

ownership of

13:24

your work , and then

13:26

that shows to others

13:28

. There are people all

13:31

around you . Shows

13:36

to others . There are people all around you . You're always interviewing

13:38

. From the moment you step foot on the floor to however many years

13:41

you have been in nursing , you

13:43

are always interviewing . And

13:46

so even in the

13:48

places where you

13:50

might just be there for a short period of time

13:53

, you can take on a spirit

13:55

or culture of ownership . Even

13:58

in the short period that you are there

14:00

, you do that by taking

14:02

. You do that by stewardship . You're

14:05

stewarding the resources that are around

14:07

you . People tend to be better

14:09

stewards of things that they own

14:11

than of things that they rent

14:14

, and you don't want to rent out

14:16

your career to someone else . You

14:19

don't want to rent out your growth to someone

14:21

else by expecting someone else to

14:23

do those things . You

14:25

want to be an owner and

14:27

say it's my job to do these things

14:29

. And then that way , you

14:31

show up in an interview 15

14:34

years later in front of someone who

14:37

you knew 15 years

14:39

ago , clear across the country

14:41

, and they say , ah

14:44

yes , this person . They

14:47

might've been in the float pool or , although they were

14:49

a traveler , I liked

14:51

their work ethic . They

14:53

are our owner . They took ownership of

14:55

their patients . They took ownership of the

14:57

work that they did . Now I'm

14:59

not saying be a

15:01

doormat . I'm not saying

15:04

you say yes to everything Again

15:06

. That's where boundaries come in . That's

15:08

where we think about the essential things that

15:10

take us to the next level Stewardship

15:14

, being an owner and not a renter

15:17

. And how do we do that ? We apply

15:19

stewardship and we just

15:21

become a better steward of the things that

15:24

we have , those things that are around

15:26

us . That helps to

15:28

develop a culture of ownership

15:30

within yourself . Do your part . We're

15:33

always looking at what others are not doing

15:35

. Make sure you do your part

15:38

. And sometimes that can be hard

15:40

in health care , because you are doing your part and

15:42

then you're doing 50 other jobs at the same

15:44

time . But if that is happening

15:46

, there are ways to set boundaries

15:49

and say no without

15:51

harming your patients . But

15:54

you know that if you just

15:56

focus on doing your part , you

15:59

can actually change your growth for the better . And

16:03

then you bring

16:05

others in around you to

16:07

help them to do their part . So you

16:09

start delegating to them and

16:12

creating this sense of

16:14

belonging , because

16:16

belonging is one of the parts

16:19

of creating a culture

16:21

of ownership where you work . But

16:24

then it creates a level of ownership

16:26

within each individual to

16:29

create a collective ownership

16:32

. Again , doing your part

16:34

shows teamwork , it

16:36

shows that you know how to work well with others and

16:38

it shows you know how to lead . Next

16:40

point , number three take initiative

16:42

even when you don't have

16:45

a title . I

16:47

am what I

16:49

would say . What

16:51

others would call me is an influential

16:54

leader . I have

16:56

been in several leadership

16:58

positions and not

17:00

a management position

17:03

. But does that make me

17:05

not a leader ? No

17:08

, it doesn't , because

17:10

I still lead people and I

17:13

would argue that my job as

17:15

an influential leader is harder

17:17

than a nurse manager's job

17:19

, because I have to make

17:21

you move , I have to help , encourage you

17:23

to move on this

17:25

thing and I don't sign your

17:27

check You're just going

17:29

off of . I trust them , I

17:32

trust what they're saying to me , so

17:35

I'm going to do it . And so , even

17:37

though you may have been looking

17:40

for jobs where you want to

17:42

grow as a manager , or

17:45

whatever the case may be , sometimes

17:48

growth looks like going into leadership

17:50

positions , and not necessarily

17:53

manager positions . So open

17:55

your open your eyes to that

17:57

. But you

18:00

can practice it where you are right now by

18:02

taking initiative , even when you don't

18:04

have a title . And when you

18:06

do that , you you see what needs

18:09

to be done and you take action

18:11

. You proceed until apprehended

18:13

. So you see something that's wrong on the unit

18:15

and you say , okay , I want to do a project on

18:18

that . Or you go to your nurse

18:20

leader and you say I see

18:22

this as an issue . Can we do a project on such

18:24

and such and such ? More

18:26

than likely they will say yes . Or

18:29

they will say , okay , well , you can partner

18:31

with me on this . I

18:34

had someone ask me once before

18:36

, like how do I let

18:39

my manager know that I want to be involved

18:41

in more projects ? You

18:43

ask them what they're working on . Or

18:45

you see an issue and

18:48

you try to solve it . But

18:50

there are two ways to do that . You

18:52

either take initiative on something that has

18:54

been a problem , that you see that

18:56

your manager might be having a struggle getting

18:58

their arms around and you partner with that manager

19:01

, or you get nosy

19:03

about what they're doing and what

19:05

they're involved in and you ask questions

19:07

and then you pick and choose

19:09

on what you want to get involved in . They

19:11

have a laundry list of things that

19:13

you could take initiative on but

19:16

proceed until apprehended . That

19:19

is how you grow , that is how

19:21

you take ownership , and not waiting on

19:23

someone to come to you

19:25

and say , hey , can

19:27

you , would you ? No , you

19:31

do it , take ownership . And

19:34

then , lastly , you create

19:37

a spirit of ownership where

19:40

you hold people accountable

19:42

for showing up on time and

19:45

for fulfilling the terms of

19:47

what they are supposed to do , what they have

19:49

committed to do . How

19:51

do you do that ? You're like how do I

19:54

do that ? I don't , I can't hold anybody accountable

19:56

. I can't . Yes , you can . Peer-to-peer

19:59

accountability is huge . It's

20:02

huge . I worked in

20:04

a unit where we had strong

20:07

peer-to-peer accountability

20:09

, but what it takes is

20:11

one being in fellowship

20:14

, being a friend and having

20:16

friends at work or

20:18

having a good rapport . So it doesn't . You

20:20

don't necessarily have to be friends , because things can get cliquish

20:22

, but you can have a good rapport

20:25

with people without being friends , because

20:28

you're open , you're ready to

20:30

help , and then you

20:32

have pride in your profession and

20:34

where you work and yourself . And

20:37

having pride means

20:39

working to stay on top

20:42

of whatever is the newest literature

20:44

, making

20:47

sure that you're coming to work in a professional

20:49

manner and having a professional thought process

20:52

. All of these things

20:54

help you to take ownership of your

20:56

career so that

20:59

you can grow . They

21:01

may be intangible , but they

21:03

help your mindset

21:05

to grow beyond

21:07

where you are , and then you end up taking

21:10

that with you when you go

21:12

on a job interview . So then

21:14

they start to see your leadership

21:16

skills . You can

21:18

then better articulate what value

21:21

you bring to the position , which

21:23

then leads to you getting the

21:26

job . But here's

21:28

another bonus point All

21:31

of these things help

21:33

you to get clarity on

21:35

your next step . How is that , bonnie ? Because

21:39

when you do these things

21:41

, you start to tease out what

21:43

you like , what you don't like , what you have a passion

21:45

for , what you don't have a passion for , and then you start to tease out what you like , what you don't like , what you have a passion for , what you don't have a passion for

21:48

, and then you start to think

21:50

, okay , I want to do more of that thing . Or

21:53

sometimes you might have five things and then you just

21:55

got to make a decision on

21:57

the route that you want to pursue

21:59

. But we're always going to have

22:01

many options for

22:04

whatever route we want to

22:06

go . But taking

22:08

ownership of

22:10

your career and

22:12

your career growth starts with

22:15

being an owner and not a renter . Doing

22:18

your part , taking initiative

22:20

even when you don't have a title , and

22:22

then you creating a spirit of ownership

22:25

within yourself and where you

22:27

work , and you will be surprised

22:29

at how your growth

22:32

will accelerate from there . Thanks

22:34

. Thanks

22:38

for joining us this week on the Ambitious

22:40

Nurse Podcast . To review

22:42

the show notes and any links mentioned

22:44

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22:46

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22:49

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23:01

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23:07

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Nurse Podcast . I look forward

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to chatting with you the next time . And

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remember you don't have to grow your career

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alone . As iron sharpens

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iron , one person sharpens another

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. Thank you for letting me sharpen you

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as you take this knowledge to sharpen

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the next .

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The Ambitious Nurse | RN, Nursing Career, Nursing Job Opportunities

Are you feeling stuck in your current clinical environment? Maybe you want a change because you're too exhausted, burned out, or ready for different leadership. Do you want to make a change in your clinical career, but you're not sure what to do next? You're in the right place. This podcast will help you get the clarity you need to grow so you can have the flexibility and autonomy you want while leveraging your voice and expertise. I'm Bonnie Meadows a Board Certified Clinical Nurse Specialist, Influential Leader, Career Coach & Well-Being Coach. Since being in the nursing & healthcare profession since 2004, I have found myself ready to make the next step but felt stuck. I got to a place where I dreaded going to work. I felt burnt out and unmotivated. I knew deep down I always wanted something else. But I had no clue how to even with the hope of a graduate degree to advance me. I finally realized that growing in nursing is about the journey and not the destination. I finally stopped looking for a specific job to fill my cup. I developed a framework I frequently implemented to get the clarity I needed for my career and catapulted me into areas of nursing and healthcare I never imagined. I am sharing it all with you. If you are ready to find career strategies crafted as an experienced nurse using your gifts and abilities, A guide to help you get clear on your next career steps, Contentment and joy in your work-this podcast is for you!!So get ready to kick off those Crocs, pop in those earbuds, and let's chat!!

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