Damon Lawner, who now calls himself "Father Damon," is a spiritual leader and tantric love instructor at the club The Sanctuary. He is best known as the owner of the sex club Snctm, which he founded in 2012 and sold in 2019. Lawner is a former realtor. He was also a singer in the rock band "Fader." Lawner received his B.A. in Economics and Political Science from Yale University and is a graduate of Harvard Business School.