At the end of the day no matter who you associate with, what choices that you make based upon other people who influence you to do negative things, the people who you choose to have relationships with or associate with, and the consequences and repercussions of your actions are still determined by you. At the end of the day it is you that should always come first and is all you have in the end. not everybody's going to have your back and people are going to do you dirty, not appreciate and value you as a person, love and accept you for who you are as a person, are going to feel they're going to be able to treat you any kind of way, have no respect for you, manipulate, use, cheap, take advantage of, and do you dirty and after they're done discard you like you're nothing. There are people that are wolves and sheep's clothing that are not what they say that they are. they are awesome people that are like the boy and girl that cried wolf that all they do is lie. There are vampires that will suck the life out of you and take everything they can take from you and then leave you for dead. And there are sirens that will pretend to be something that they're not and create a fantasy world that doesn't exist.