It’s a common misconception that starting porn - whether that’s performing in professional shoots or producing your own content - is a death toll for romantic relationships or future dating prospects. Like any new relationship experience, stepping into porn can require some emotional work and communication, but it can also be a great source of intimacy and romantic connection. 

Hazel Havoc and her husband have both separately performed in porn at different times throughout their relationship. This episode begins with a surprise story new both to the audience and Vanessa! When Hazel’s husband first attended a Cliff Media shoot, it was a big step for their relationship and brought up a lot of emotions. Hazel and her husband dive into the experience, explaining what came up for them at each step of the way, and how they navigated it together, including months later when the porn scenes came out with his many cumshots on display for millions of viewers. 

Hazel’s later foray into pro-domme work led to new stages in their relationship. Through experimentation, they learned to navigate the different compartments of their professional and personal sex lives. They also eventually found that their separate roles in porn have had a positive impact on their relationship and sexual connection. These lessons have broader implications for sustained erotic connection between romantic partners.