A TheyThem (Parenting) Journey

Ongoing confusing, what has the gender binary been like for me lately, what is possible, and what category I would choose for myself if I had to.NOTE there's a show announcement at the end. E-mail me at [email protected](I'm using an altern

S2 Episode 12 - Abortion Adoption and Boxes

Oct 2nd, 2018 9m 12s

This episode is hard to describe but some words are abortion, adoption, and boxes. Music: Our Hearts Like Gold by Groenland

S2 Episode 11 - The Workplace

Sep 11th, 2018 6m 40s

A reflection on what it has been like over the past year to change pronouns at work. Important fact not mentioned in the episode - NYC's employment law states that employers must use preferred pronouns for their employees. Music: A Heart is N

S1 Episode 10 - Victim Binary

Jun 11th, 2018 10m 50s

C/W Sex work and survivor/victim descriptionsMy first and most painful, private life binary: the victim binary. Am I a victim or am I not?Music: Tomorrow by Miner

S1 Episode 9 - Pronouns and my relationship

May 21st, 2018 10m 19s

I talk about how my changing gender pronouns has impacted my cis-hetero-male partner, our relationship, the way we are exploring having children. How it has connected us, and separated us. How it's all beautiful and confusing.Music by Sturgil

S1 Episode 8 - Why

May 12th, 2018 5m 9s

I realize I've never really answered the question "Why change your pronouns". I attempt to answer, or evade, the question.Music by The Dø, Bohemian Dances

S1 Episode 7 - An Ode / Hate-Poem to My Moustache

Apr 29th, 2018 6m 51s

My most vulnerable poem - addressed to my moustache that I decided to leave in place before I even considered changing my pronouns.Music: Dom La Nena's cover of the Nationals Start a War

S1 Episode 6 - Logistics and Family

Apr 23rd, 2018 7m 29s

It's not all exploration, some of it is telling people about my theythem pronouns. This one discusses the logistics, or non-logistics, of my family.Music by Agnes Obel, Words Are Dead

S1 Episode 5 - Bodyless

Apr 17th, 2018 5m 30s

An update from episode 4 - what sex was like, trauma, foster care, breaking binaries.Note: this episode goes into tiny details about me having sex if you know me and don't want to hear it!Music: Against the Odds by Groenland

S1 Episode 4 - Sex. Not/and gender

Apr 8th, 2018 5m 19s

How could my gender inhibit me, or free me when having sex. (This one is my favorite one so far)Music: River by IbeyiTrigger warning: This episode revolves around the theme of sexual trauma, without going into any specifics.

S1 Episode 3 - Confused list

Apr 2nd, 2018 7m 3s

A list of random things I keep thinking / worrying about with gender pronouns, me, womanhood, and what it means to claim identity.Music: Let It Fall by Leyla McCalla