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Where Massive Success Really Comes From - Wealthy Woman Within Series

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0:00

Hey, it's Kathy. I wanted to drop some

0:02

bonus episodes this week and share a few

0:04

pieces from the workshop that we're doing. I

0:06

want to tell you something else that's really

0:08

exciting, which is that I created the

0:11

most epic signature course

0:13

I've ever created. It's a combination

0:15

of all of the programs that

0:17

I have taught that mean the

0:19

most to me. And we have

0:21

a new program called Drumroll, Please!

0:23

Boldly Abundant. Elevate Your Worth, Ignite

0:25

Your Wealth. This class

0:28

is the Guide to Prosperity.

0:30

This is about fully

0:33

understanding the inner work that needs

0:35

to unlock so that you can allow

0:37

riches into your life and also

0:40

what are all the financial opportunities

0:42

available to you. You will

0:44

leave this program understanding all the different

0:46

strategies that are incredible opportunities for you.

0:49

Financial planners will be a part

0:51

of this. You will understand investing.

0:53

You will understand starting a business.

0:55

We will have experts in all

0:58

different fields from career building to

1:00

getting paid more at your current

1:02

job to

1:04

understanding what it is that you need

1:06

to do right now that

1:08

will elevate your wealth. So

1:10

it is both the inner work as well as

1:12

the steps to take. You can

1:15

go to Kathy heller.com/bold. And it

1:18

will be a three month immersion program. There is a gold

1:20

level. There is a VIP level. This

1:23

is the program for women who are ready

1:25

to be bold and fierce and fully allow

1:27

themselves the permission to be rich. And

1:30

what does that mean? It means asking

1:32

for more. It means raising your self

1:34

worth. It means setting boundaries. But it

1:36

also means taking decisive action and having

1:39

that true financial literacy so you

1:41

understand what is available to you.

1:44

Whether you are a 9 to 5er and you want a better job, how do

1:46

you get a better job? If

1:48

you are a 9 to 5er and you want to get more money, how do you

1:50

ask for more money and how do you get that raise? If

1:53

you are on the entrepreneur path, how do you start a business? If

1:56

you are on the entrepreneur path and want to scale your business or raise your rates, how do

1:58

you do that? to understand

2:00

investing and you want to understand

2:02

compound savings and all the different ways that

2:05

you can start to really let money

2:07

work for you, this class is

2:09

going to feel like the most bold decision

2:11

you've ever made in terms of your self-worth

2:13

and in terms of your net worth. Self-worth

2:16

and net worth are intrinsically

2:18

linked. This is the program that

2:20

will set you free so that 2024 is the most

2:22

wealthy, abundant, bold

2:26

year of your life. Go

2:28

to kathylo.com/bold and make that decision

2:30

that you're giving yourself the gift to

2:34

give yourself full permission to be

2:36

the most abundant version of yourself.

2:39

kathylo.com/bold. I can't wait to see you guys

2:41

pour in there and then we're going to

2:43

spend three months together. So today

2:45

I'm going to share this workshop that we did yesterday

2:48

in case you missed it. Take a listen. Welcome

2:51

back. It has been really,

2:54

really such a treat every single time we're

2:56

together. I've enjoyed it so much. I love

2:58

your energy. I love seeing

3:00

you guys supporting each other. I love

3:02

seeing your breakthroughs. It's

3:04

been awesome. So thank you. Thank you

3:07

for being a part of it because each

3:09

one of you has added to the

3:11

collective energy and the experience. So thank

3:13

you. Today I'm

3:15

going to go through sort of an open

3:17

house, a sneak peek of what's

3:20

inside the program and it'll give

3:22

you a sense of not only really

3:24

understanding like, okay, let me like tour the houses

3:26

and really see if I like the living room,

3:28

if I like the kitchen, but also

3:30

like as you go through it, you'll understand sort

3:32

of my method and what it

3:34

is that to me is fundamental

3:36

to actualizing our potential and how

3:38

we stop spinning our wheels

3:40

and actually live that life that comes

3:43

from that higher self. So

3:46

we're going to do that today and I am going

3:48

to stay on to answer questions. And

3:50

then tomorrow is our last day and

3:53

I'll be here literally just

3:55

to coach you and support you.

3:58

So come with your questions. will unmute people,

4:01

people's faces will come up, we'll

4:03

get to just do some, what we

4:06

call spotlight sessions. And I

4:08

think that'll be really interesting. What's typically what's

4:10

personal is very universal. So I think you'll

4:12

find that a lot of the questions that

4:14

people have are the questions

4:16

that you have, you know? And so it's

4:18

very supportive, it turns out. And

4:20

by the way, that's the reason why I

4:22

love to do group coaching because if you

4:25

look at any of the research, if

4:27

you look at what happens in

4:29

groups, it's actually even greater

4:31

in terms of transformation because

4:34

when you are one-on-one sometimes,

4:38

you don't know how to access sometimes

4:40

what the question is. Or sometimes because

4:42

you're having that intimate experience,

4:44

you don't receive it, but if

4:46

you're watching somebody else ask the question that you

4:48

have and then you're watching them get

4:51

an answer, sometimes you actually, your

4:54

defenses are down and so you will actually grow

4:57

from that and then being in

4:59

a collective where people are holding

5:01

a certain level of courage and

5:03

a certain level of compassion and

5:05

a certain level of vision, we

5:08

all grow by that collective conscious

5:10

experience. So I think

5:13

it can be really powerful and I'm

5:15

looking forward to being here tomorrow

5:17

for that. And then we'll wrap up

5:19

and the Facebook group will close tomorrow

5:22

night and enrollment will

5:24

close for the program tomorrow night and

5:26

our first class for those of

5:28

you who are in and so many of you are and

5:30

I'm so excited about it. It really is such

5:32

an incredible thing to do with your time

5:35

is to focus on you

5:37

changing your own station and once

5:40

and for all changing your relationship with money

5:42

and abundance and really starting

5:44

to see so many more potentials pop

5:46

up and starting to see those things

5:49

through synchronicity just be sort of magnetized to you

5:51

because you are no longer at one frequency,

5:55

you sort of change your frequency, right? And

5:57

then taking that right deliberate action. It's really

5:59

such a delicious. So I'm so

6:01

excited for those of you who stepped

6:03

into that and just for me personally

6:05

getting to be on that journey with you

6:08

is very fulfilling. So I'm very happy for

6:10

that. I want to tell you something. So

6:13

Rachel Platten, she

6:15

is a really close friend of mine

6:17

and I want to tell you something

6:19

about her and about that song

6:21

because this really is the message. So

6:24

the story goes that Rachel, that

6:27

song, that exact song, not like

6:29

another song, like that actual

6:32

song, she had

6:34

already gone down the

6:36

road just doing everything

6:38

she could. She had met with every

6:41

possible person in the music industry

6:44

and every label she

6:46

met with said, no,

6:48

I don't hear it. I don't see

6:50

it. No, no. And my name is

6:52

no. My sign is no. My number

6:55

is new and it was a

6:57

no. And she

6:59

was devastated and her

7:02

parents said to her, listen, Rachel, we've

7:04

been trying to help you, give you the

7:06

note, you've been a struggling songwriter, but you're

7:08

really smart and you have a

7:10

really good heart. So why don't you just give it

7:12

up and get your

7:14

life together and go do something good, like

7:17

go to grad school or whatever you want

7:19

to do, but stop it.

7:22

Just stop writing music. Did

7:25

she stop? All right, so here's

7:27

what happened. So what she did is

7:30

she said she literally fell on her knees.

7:33

She got on her knees and

7:35

she was sobbing and she said to

7:37

God in her like little, like

7:39

literally roach infested apartment, like

7:41

no exaggeration. She was like, I

7:44

don't know what the message is.

7:46

I don't know what is happening, but

7:49

I just know this is

7:51

it. Like I give my life to do

7:53

this. I have to do

7:55

this. I don't have anything else. You

7:57

know, Rabbi used to say that. We

8:00

are meant to be who we were meant to

8:02

be. And we talked about, Bronnie

8:04

Ware said that the greatest regret of people

8:07

in their dying days is not having

8:09

lived life on their terms, living the life

8:11

somebody else lived. And my rabbi gave a

8:13

great analogy, which is imagine if you saw

8:15

a guitar, and instead of

8:17

the guitar being played in the

8:19

sort of hollow of the guitar that whole,

8:21

it was being used as like a pot,

8:23

a place to hold a plant. He's

8:26

like, that's just wrong because it's a guitar. It's

8:28

not meant to be a potholder, it's meant to

8:30

be a guitar. And so she

8:32

had one of those moments of like, I

8:35

just know this is all I'm meant to do

8:37

this. There's nothing else for me to do but

8:39

this, write songs. And

8:42

so she fell for

8:44

herself that, oh, I

8:46

get it, instead of waiting for this

8:50

permission slip and doing

8:52

everything that she thought she was supposed to

8:54

do for somebody to like give

8:57

her the green light. She was like, I'm

8:59

just going to go do it. What

9:01

does that mean? She said it meant

9:04

that any opportunity she had to

9:06

play music for other human beings, that

9:10

was what she needed to be doing every day. And

9:12

so she went to Sloan Kettering, which

9:15

is the very highly

9:18

regarded cancer hospital in Manhattan.

9:22

And she said, is there any way here I can play

9:24

for? And she started to play. And

9:27

she played that song. And she would

9:29

come home with such a full heart, so

9:34

much in her heart. And it

9:36

didn't matter that she wasn't sure about

9:38

what the hell was going to happen with her

9:40

career. She felt so full. And

9:43

sure enough, one of the

9:45

nurses was so moved

9:47

by the song. And her brother,

9:50

this nurse, had a brother who was a DJ

9:52

at a radio station. And

9:54

she said to him, you have to play

9:56

this song on the radio because you

9:58

can't believe what it's like. doing for people in

10:01

the hospital. And her brother played the song

10:03

and the rest is history because

10:05

what wound up happening is all

10:08

the record labels immediately called

10:10

and said, we want the song,

10:12

we want to do a record with you. And

10:15

the song went to number one. So here's the

10:17

message, you

10:19

are a force, you

10:22

don't need to wait. The

10:24

most abundant thing that

10:27

happens for each of us

10:29

is when we realize that instead of

10:31

walking around feeling like we're missing something,

10:34

we turn it around and we start to give something.

10:36

When we stop

10:38

thinking that we're lacking

10:40

something, and we spend our

10:43

energy and we focus on what we

10:46

can give right now, mountains

10:48

move, every single person that

10:50

I have interviewed, my entire

10:52

journey, right? Did I wait for somebody

10:54

to come along and give me some

10:57

kind of guarantee that if I

10:59

started a podcast, it would lead to

11:01

all these things? No, I just wanted to

11:04

be someone to one

11:06

person. I was like, I'm going to start a

11:09

podcast, probably nobody will listen to it. But

11:11

if three people feel

11:13

better, then I can

11:16

take that to the bank. Because that

11:18

means something. And so

11:20

everything I've ever found

11:24

massive success in comes

11:26

from massively understanding

11:28

that my intention is not

11:31

about an ROI. It's about showing

11:34

up and giving and see, when

11:36

you know that you are a masterpiece, you're a

11:38

piece of the master when you're not playing from

11:40

your spinning limitation,

11:43

false brain, but you're coming

11:45

from your soul, then

11:47

it's go time because you have a lot to give. And

11:50

then you're not waiting, you're not in this energy

11:52

of like, I guess the abundance is in here

11:55

that it's all here. You got

11:57

to show up. You got to go. Right?

11:59

So. So people will say to me,

12:01

well, I'll do that when this happens. It's like,

12:04

no, it's now. Every day you

12:06

wake up, that's a day

12:08

that you're needed. That's a day that you're

12:11

here because you have what to give.

12:14

You have so much to give. And

12:17

you know it. But there's

12:19

this whole trip, this

12:21

whole exhausting waste of

12:23

energy that just puts us back into, I've

12:25

got nothing to give, nothing to share. And

12:29

where is my ROI? I'm

12:31

missing this. I'm missing this. It's like, that

12:34

story that I just told you at Rachel

12:36

Platten, that is the same story in different

12:38

forms that every person who's been on my

12:40

podcast tells. And it's the story

12:42

that I have. It's not very

12:45

different. The technology is when

12:48

you are coming from wholeness and you're not

12:51

sitting there thinking, what am I missing? The

12:53

abundance is already there. And now

12:55

you start to give. Because we

12:57

can't pour from an empty cup. When we

12:59

pour from the wholeness, from the energy, from

13:01

the love, from the empathy, from the passion,

13:03

from the creativity that's inside of us, it's

13:06

just done. It's already been waiting there for

13:08

you. So that's the

13:10

message. That's the message. That's what's

13:12

within. That's what this whole journey was

13:14

about. So for those of you who

13:17

want to take just a look inside what

13:20

I do in this program, I'm going to share my screen

13:22

with you. All right, so this

13:25

is the name of the program. This is our open house tour.

13:27

Come on in. Feel like a realtor. Come

13:29

on in. It's 6,500 square feet.

13:32

Has a great backyard. You might want to

13:34

redo the bathroom. I'm just kidding. OK, so

13:36

we're going to answer some questions. First of

13:38

all, will there be replays? Yes, you have

13:40

lifetime access to the replays. Yes, how long

13:42

is the program? Three months. Why do

13:44

we do that? Let me tell you why. Because

13:46

the studies show that we have 90-day

13:49

cycles in growth. And so

13:51

after 90 days, you actually wouldn't be served

13:53

anymore. You need 90 days. You

13:56

need 90 days to get a new

13:59

sort of level. of yourself and

14:01

then you actually need to build

14:03

from there. So when are the classes

14:06

live we're going to talk about that. Do you see

14:08

the exact schedule? What topics will we cover? We're going

14:10

to talk about that. So you see the schedule. Who

14:12

are the experts? We're going to

14:14

talk about that. Alright so let's keep going. New

14:17

ways of seeing the world obviously and

14:19

what your role is in it. Yep

14:22

and so it's broken down

14:24

into I would say four pieces right. So

14:26

the first piece is truly reclaiming

14:28

your worth. Now we can say those words out

14:31

loud like yeah my worth a lot but like

14:33

what we've done so far I think

14:36

you've gotten a tiny little taste,

14:38

a tiny little tiny little

14:40

change in what you're able

14:42

to access about the real you. Right?

14:45

Your self-worth is the number one

14:48

thing we need to heal because

14:50

when you finally fully allow that

14:52

to boil over everything

14:55

about the life you lead your net

14:57

worth will reflect it. Your net worth

14:59

will reflect it if you just did

15:01

these three weeks. If you just did

15:03

this your whole life will change.

15:06

If you make two degree shifts in

15:08

your life in any area it's massive.

15:11

Massive right. We talked about if you're

15:13

on a boat and you're

15:15

going this way and you change

15:18

by two degrees on the

15:20

dial. If you go out 50 feet

15:22

100 feet you will wind

15:24

up two degrees from where you're supposed

15:26

to be. You'll wind up in a

15:28

different continent. We

15:31

need to change your

15:33

self-identity, your self-worth and bring

15:35

you back to the truth and not

15:37

just have you think about it,

15:40

have you know it, have you embody it

15:42

okay. So we start there

15:45

then we're gonna actually

15:47

deal with well this is

15:49

a little bit more of you understand the

15:52

abundance right. You're gonna start to see

15:54

it. You're gonna be amazed

15:56

at how the world that you saw the day

15:58

before is not the same world. next day.

16:01

You, because your whole radio station will

16:03

be different, you'll hear different music, you'll

16:05

see things that were there that you

16:07

didn't see before, they were hidden in

16:09

plain sight, you will be amazed.

16:11

And people are going to start to say to you, you

16:14

look really good, what did you do? Did you change

16:16

your hair? And you're going to be like, no. You'll

16:18

be like, well, what did you do? Did you like lose a lot

16:20

of weight? No. The whole

16:22

energy is different. Okay.

16:25

So then the second piece

16:27

of it is really

16:30

and truly getting you this

16:33

deep understanding, deep, deep

16:35

understanding of financial literacy

16:37

in every department. How

16:39

do you make more money? What is your entrepreneurial

16:42

path? What is the next most important

16:44

step you need to take? And

16:47

completely and totally change your relationship

16:49

with money so that you're no

16:51

longer in an abusive relationship with

16:54

this thing. Because we need

16:57

full openness. We have

16:59

so much resistance to something that is

17:01

just such an important resource. Taylor

17:05

Swift has this song, The Man. Do you

17:08

know the song? I'm so sick of

17:10

running as fast as I can. Wonder if

17:12

I get the clicker if I was a

17:14

man. Anyway, it's

17:17

all about how in

17:19

general, I'm generalizing, but there

17:21

is something about the way that

17:23

men show up with money

17:25

where it's just neutral. It's like deal

17:28

or no deal. Do you want

17:30

in or not? No, fine. Let's go play golf.

17:32

Like women carry so

17:34

much more stuff where

17:37

we don't receive it. And

17:39

it's literally available. It's like I

17:41

said the other day, if you

17:44

weren't codependent, and you didn't

17:46

worry about belonging, because you

17:48

belong to yourself, maybe

17:51

you just raise your price. Maybe you'd

17:53

put your offer out. It's just neutral.

17:55

Allow people to be autonomous adults. Allow

17:58

them the autonomy to decide for a themselves

18:00

if they want to spend the money or

18:02

not. It's just money. It's neutral. It's like,

18:04

this is what the market costs. You're just

18:07

telling it how it is. We need

18:09

to have a different understanding of how

18:11

beautiful it is to have all kinds

18:14

of plenty in every good resource. You

18:16

need plenty of Wi-Fi. You

18:18

need plenty of cell receptions.

18:21

You can make the calls you need to make.

18:23

You need lots of oxygen. You need as

18:25

much fire as possible so you can cook

18:28

as many meals as you want. You need

18:30

to have access to an abundance

18:32

of money and to be an amazing steward

18:34

of that in the world and allow

18:37

what comes in to then be if

18:39

you're now a custodian of that. So

18:41

we need to change that. We

18:44

need to heal that and get

18:46

you to understand not only the

18:49

things about money that you don't know.

18:51

You need to take deliberate

18:53

action and what are the

18:55

actions to take. I love teaching people

18:57

how to build businesses. I love teaching people

18:59

how to make that next step

19:02

that changes everything in their life. I have

19:04

thousands and thousands of people at this point who've said

19:06

to me, because you told me to do

19:08

this, everything's different now. I'm like, of

19:10

course it is. You just needed the

19:12

courage and you needed the specificity of

19:14

what's the actual way to do it.

19:18

Don't just go sell something. Understand

19:21

that we build a runway for every

19:23

seven deposits we make with people, human

19:25

behaviors, they just come and ask you

19:27

for the thing. Sales is

19:29

just serving and depositing into

19:31

people and nourishing people, truly

19:34

adding value to people's lives.

19:36

Then you don't have to worry. You don't

19:38

have to worry about where the sales coming

19:40

from. You're just continuously adding the value in

19:42

the way that they can absorb

19:45

it. So we're going to talk a lot about that. So

19:47

now these are our experts. Aren't they

19:49

pretty? This is pretty women. This

19:52

is Kelsey. She is your mentor

19:55

for the whole program. So not

19:57

only are you with me every week, but

20:00

in addition to me, you get

20:02

lots of time and

20:05

she is specifically helping people build

20:07

businesses and she is also a coach

20:09

like you could hire her privately for

20:12

a few thousand dollars a month so you get

20:14

access to her and for the

20:16

VIP level she's doing eight calls with you and

20:18

for the gold level she's doing four calls with

20:21

you so you get that. This is

20:23

my friend Tracy who is

20:25

unbelievable she started as a hypnotherapist

20:27

and then went into teaching people

20:29

how to change, go

20:31

back into your psyche and deeply change your

20:33

relationship with money. This is my friend Kate

20:35

Northrup who teaches you something

20:38

phenomenal which is how to make more money by doing

20:40

less. She's an amazing

20:43

human and she'll teach you how to

20:45

like truly change the nervous system. This

20:47

is Bridget who is all

20:49

she does is teach women about money and

20:51

she's a financial planner but she has so

20:53

much to say to you about owning it,

20:56

learning more about money and financial literacy and

20:58

what's the right action to be taking and she

21:00

speaks on stages and has written books and does

21:02

a lot of private strategy work

21:04

with clients. This is my

21:06

friend Amber who also just

21:09

phenomenal human being who loves to

21:11

talk to people about quantum wealth

21:13

and making big shifts in the

21:15

money that you want to make and she that's what

21:18

she coaches on and teaches and she's also a marketing

21:20

and branding coach. Lauren

21:22

who goes by Career

21:25

Contessa is here to help you guys

21:27

just elevate on the career path

21:29

whether you want to charge more whether

21:31

you want to do better networking on

21:33

LinkedIn. She has a whole training on

21:35

that. She has a lot of resources

21:38

on how to advance your career. This

21:40

is Reese Evans who studied

21:43

NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programming and

21:45

really works with people on manifestation

21:47

and abundance and helps people

21:50

in that way. This is Jacqueline Snyder

21:52

who's amazing at helping people

21:54

start businesses and grow businesses. She has

21:56

a podcast called Product Boss. is

22:00

an amazing coach for entrepreneurs. My

22:02

friend Alexandra Cole is sort of an

22:04

expert in human design and I

22:07

think human design is really fascinating

22:09

and it helps you understand for you what

22:11

are some of the sort of places

22:14

where you might get caught and what are

22:16

the specific things that you might need to

22:19

do on your journey depending

22:21

on your personality, depending on your chart, depending

22:23

on it's just really fascinating. Samantha

22:25

you guys met the other day, she has

22:27

a multi-million dollar business teaching

22:29

breath work, she has her own app, she facilitates

22:32

retreats, she's just an amazing person and she'll be

22:34

with us not only to talk about building

22:36

the business from a spiritual place but

22:39

also she'll do breath work with you.

22:41

Hillary you guys met, she's a

22:44

financial planner, she has a net

22:46

worth that's like multiple eight figures

22:48

and she helps women to understand

22:50

how to make the right investments, how to

22:52

understand their money and how to heal the relationship

22:54

with money and then my friend Kelly Roach who

22:57

teaches business and she will be with us to

22:59

get used to that next level. Like I don't

23:01

know anyone who does it quite

23:04

the way she does but she has

23:06

an amazing amount of knowledge to share. Then

23:09

these are the actual

23:12

topics so we are together for 12

23:14

weeks so starting

23:16

Monday we're talking about self-worth, we're talking about

23:18

what is the mechanism so I'm going to

23:20

be not just talking to you

23:23

on every call we're going to be doing it

23:25

right so there's a meditation practice, there's sort of

23:27

a process and I'll teach you how to do

23:29

this on every call and you'll start to do

23:31

it every day without me. You'll have like your

23:34

three minute, 90 second little things that you can

23:36

do in the morning to help you

23:38

to just turn on and tap in and

23:40

then we'll be talking about okay so how

23:42

are we allowing for more of that net

23:44

worth to show up. We're

23:47

going to have a breath work session, we're going

23:49

to talk about getting to center, what does

23:51

that mean? We're going to start to understand

23:53

how to stop living in the blizzard of

23:55

the mind, how to truly for once and

23:57

for all like move out of that and

23:59

move into center. Then we're

24:01

going to have Kate Northrup come on and

24:03

she's going to talk about your nervous system

24:05

and how it's actually not about doing with

24:08

this sort of hustle culture. It's more

24:10

about coming from these deep downloads and

24:12

by, you know, she said something

24:14

so brilliant, which is if anyone's ever

24:16

worked the land, planted anything, you know that

24:18

you don't harvest every day. Because if

24:20

you want to get the best out

24:23

of the crop, you let it compound

24:26

and compost and deepen. And

24:29

we live in a culture that says you need

24:31

something impressive to post every single day on Instagram.

24:33

But the truth is that

24:35

if you stop being a part

24:37

of the race that everybody's in

24:40

and you actually go your own way, you'll

24:42

realize that by going deep and

24:45

finding what's inside and allowing it

24:47

to sort of simmer and

24:49

working from that aligned place, you don't have to

24:52

do as much because the

24:54

being is so palpable

24:56

that when you do take

24:59

action, it's so

25:01

much more impactful. We're

25:04

going to have Bridgette come on. You can read

25:06

through these talking about financial literacy. Then Amber is

25:08

going to come on and talk about growing and

25:10

marketing and branding. And we're going to talk

25:12

about for those of you on that nine to five path or

25:14

even for those who want to understand

25:16

networking from a LinkedIn perspective, we're going

25:19

to talk about that. We're going to talk

25:21

about how to get into practicing manifestation. That's when Reese is

25:23

going to come in. We're

25:25

going to have Hillary come back and talk about

25:27

what it means to consciously spend money and make

25:29

money. We're going to talk about how do you

25:31

deal with the dip, right? When you hit the

25:33

dip, what are your tools? We're going

25:35

to have so much conversation. I

25:37

want to get through these slides because there's a lot

25:39

of them. And then we're going to have

25:42

a whole part of the class where

25:44

for weeks, week after week, together

25:47

there is very specific action that you're

25:49

taking. And together as a community, it's

25:52

easier than doing it on your own, right? Because you have

25:54

the support of one another and we're saying, okay, guys,

25:57

today this is your homework assignment.

26:00

But we want you to post this,

26:02

share this, make this call, put

26:04

this out there. And I think you'll see that that's

26:06

a really powerful experience to go through with other people.

26:09

But we've seen that this is one of the most

26:12

important pieces because we can just talk and talk

26:14

and talk. But there's something about

26:16

being in a group and everyone

26:18

together jumps off the diving board. It

26:21

gives you the courage to do it. And you

26:23

realize, oh my God, it wasn't that scary. And

26:25

you celebrate with each other and you learn from

26:27

each other. And we have that in the program.

26:31

And then towards the end, you start

26:33

to feel what it feels like to

26:36

do something now for somebody else. And

26:38

you might buy groceries for the

26:41

person behind you in line. You might buy the

26:43

Starbucks for someone behind you. You might give a

26:45

little bit to a charity. You might post something

26:47

for someone else. You might start to give a

26:50

testimonial or referral or give a shout out

26:52

or a follow Friday on your Instagram to

26:54

someone else in the group. And that starts

26:56

to do is it really awakens

26:59

in you how much power you have when

27:01

you actually just start to give and think

27:03

about other people, other people's lives, other people's

27:05

businesses. And we're going to see how that

27:07

starts to change what's going on for you

27:10

because what we give comes

27:13

back a thousandfold. And we

27:15

talked about that with the Rachel Plattin story. These

27:17

are the actual calls on the gold level.

27:19

So you can see, you can count them.

27:22

There's 12, right? With me. So

27:24

these are calls February 5th, 12th, 1926, March 4th, 11th, 18th, 25th, April

27:27

1st, 8th, 15th,

27:30

and 22nd. And all of my calls are

27:33

about 90 minutes to maybe a little

27:36

bit longer. And I'll be live

27:38

with you, right? And

27:40

then some of those calls we will have an expert

27:42

come in maybe 30, 45 minutes in. You

27:45

also get four implementation calls in

27:48

addition with Kelsey to really

27:50

help you implement the things that

27:52

we're learning. February 15th, 29th, 14th, and

27:54

28th of March. And

27:57

then on the VIP level, you get everything in the

27:59

gold level. Plus, there's four VIP

28:01

exclusive mastermind sessions with me on

28:03

certain Wednesdays. And then there's eight

28:06

VIP calls with Kelsey for you to really

28:08

sit together and ask those

28:11

questions. And I think it's

28:13

just different, right? On the VIP level, slightly

28:16

different questions. So you can go a

28:18

little bit more inside baseball. And

28:20

then there's gonna be other exclusive calls with

28:22

me and some experts. And then there's Voxer

28:24

Days. Voxer is a free app that

28:27

those of you in VIP will get access to

28:29

me on Voxer. And we will do a

28:31

few days where you will be

28:33

able to hear my voice, and you'll be

28:35

chatting with me. And on those days, there'll

28:37

be several hours where I'm just sort of

28:40

there live. And we'll do some

28:42

meditations, and I'll give you some problems. And we'll go back

28:44

and forth. And it's just a nice experience we found

28:46

that people really enjoy. The difference

28:48

between gold and VIP is where you're at, right?

28:50

And you kind of know your level of

28:52

where you're ready to sort of grow and

28:55

stretch. Stretch. So

28:57

the gold level is for you if you're

28:59

just ready for this next frontier. And the

29:02

VIP level is either you're already alumni of

29:04

ours or you've already

29:06

been down this path. And you have some,

29:09

the water's already simmering, right? There's something going

29:11

on in your business. There's some traction going

29:13

on. And you're like, I need to like

29:16

quantum leap to the next level. I need to level up at

29:18

this point. Then the VIP is

29:20

a great place for you. So

29:22

there is a whole community, right? Not

29:24

only are these sessions live with me,

29:26

week after week, and they're

29:29

happening on Zoom. And people get

29:31

to unmute. I do a lot of coaching in

29:33

the groups. But there's also, obviously we

29:36

will send you the replays if you miss it.

29:38

And then everybody's in a private student community.

29:40

If that feels supportive for you, that is

29:43

a Facebook community as well. And then

29:45

we put you guys, we select and put you

29:47

guys in pods. And we sort

29:50

of give you a way of understanding

29:52

how best to use the time

29:54

together, how to hold space for each other

29:57

and keep each other accountable. And you kind of go

29:59

through this little. practice every time you

30:01

get on a Zoom call with your pod. It's like, where

30:03

are you at with the homework? Where are you getting

30:05

stuck? And you have a group of people there who

30:07

are helping you, in addition, to me

30:10

and to Kelsey and to everything else.

30:13

We also have these bonuses that come

30:16

with the program. There's a bonus in

30:18

the middle here. It says made for

30:20

millions. This was a program that we sold

30:22

for $2,000, which we just added

30:24

so that you get it. These are

30:26

amazing sessions with women who are

30:28

millionaires, who are talking about impact,

30:32

money, success. It's Amy Purdy, it's

30:34

Martha Beck, it's Janet Kutcher, it's

30:36

Candice Nelson. There's so many

30:38

of them. There's actually 20 of these, and

30:40

it was a fabulous program. There's

30:43

other, obviously, bonuses as well, but I wanted

30:45

to call that out. So here's a picture of

30:47

some of the girls that you will be learning from

30:49

in that bonus made for millions, and you'll just love

30:51

that. You'll sit back and feel like that alone is

30:54

worth the cost of admission. And

30:56

then we have a surprise, which is

30:58

whoever enrolls, and obviously enrollment closes tomorrow,

31:00

we're gonna choose four of you randomly to

31:03

give you a spot at

31:05

our next retreat. This

31:07

is what our retreats look like. We've done

31:09

so many gorgeous retreats in

31:11

Malibu. We've done retreats in South

31:14

Florida. We just have an amazing

31:16

time, and there is so

31:18

much transformation that takes place at those

31:20

retreats. If anyone's been to a retreat, you could talk about it

31:22

in the chat if you enjoyed the experience. They're

31:24

quite amazing. And then

31:26

we have a new surprise, which is that our

31:30

guest experts were so generous

31:32

and basically gave, each of

31:34

them pretty much, gave us

31:36

a teaching, a class, a

31:38

bonus, a experience for you.

31:41

And so we've bundled all that together, and

31:43

so you will get a

31:45

piece of their wisdom in addition to

31:47

having them come in. So Career

31:50

Contessa has a 21-day experience

31:52

for you guys. Amber

31:54

has something called Master Your Money Mine.

31:56

Kate has her money breakthrough guide. There

31:59

are just so many. things that they just

32:01

decided to give. S.

32:03

Mathis Kelly has a 21-day facilitator

32:05

journey, which is amazing. So

32:07

many of our students have gone on to be

32:10

a part of her facilitator

32:12

training because they

32:15

want to add that to their life of

32:17

skills, like teaching and running breathwork sessions.

32:19

And it's been amazing. So

32:21

ultimately, though, you're in it

32:24

for this, honestly. Like ultimately, you're in

32:26

it to feel really good, and you're

32:28

in it to live at a

32:30

different frequency and to start allowing

32:32

it to be easy and letting

32:35

yourself just have more synchronicity and

32:37

abundance in what you feel

32:39

moment by moment, the wholeness, the

32:41

sweetness. I love when people tell

32:43

me, I joined the program and you won't believe

32:46

what just happened. You won't believe the things that

32:48

have come into my life. I'm like, yeah, I'm

32:50

not surprised. So it's

32:52

all about that higher self. It's

32:54

all about that higher love. It's all about

32:56

a paradigm shift, truly changing

32:59

the whole paradigm, completely

33:01

swiping left on the screen and

33:03

entering a whole new screen, a

33:05

whole new reality, because you see

33:08

the world differently, you feel differently,

33:10

and therefore the world perceives you differently.

33:13

And I did want to share because I think

33:15

that a lot of times, everything

33:17

comes down to integrity, right? Everything

33:20

comes down to integrity. People can write

33:22

things on websites, but I truly

33:24

am in this because I see

33:28

the value in it, and I want you to

33:30

hear me say, my

33:32

pledge is that I'm going to show up and

33:34

do my part, which

33:36

is to continuously hold for you a

33:39

greater vision so that

33:41

you can see further than you saw and

33:43

you feel what's inside of you, and

33:45

I keep bringing you back to yourself, right?

33:48

All the answers are not in me and

33:50

they're not in your head. They're right here

33:52

in your heart. There's a connection you have

33:55

to such wisdom, and you can

33:57

start to open up, right, and feel.

34:00

much more power is in your hands

34:02

and how much more you can impact the world. And

34:04

so I'm going to be consistently there to do

34:06

that. And if you are most

34:08

successful students, are the students

34:11

that show up and receive from

34:13

it. And when

34:15

you show up, it

34:17

starts to change, it starts to work. So

34:20

now I'm done showing you my beautiful slides.

34:22

I'm going to stop that. And

34:25

if anybody has questions,

34:28

put them in the chat and we'll answer questions.

34:30

And tomorrow we'll come back and do like full

34:32

on coaching and I will, and

34:34

meet people and all of that. But

34:37

I am here to answer any questions.

34:39

And I hope that that was helpful

34:41

so that you've got a little

34:43

tour of what actually happens inside the program.

34:46

Does anyone have any questions? And if

34:48

Eski or Barb want to share anything

34:50

that you think needs to be highlighted,

34:53

go ahead. Sorry, I'm still reading through

34:55

questions. People have live. So give me one second.

34:57

No, you're doing great. She's doing

34:59

great. Isn't she? Can we give it up for the

35:02

dancing, the videos? I

35:04

told you guys a few days ago, I don't even

35:06

know what day of the launch that the workshop it

35:09

was, but I mentioned to you

35:11

that when I first moved to LA and I was

35:13

making very little money, I would

35:15

take a little, not a

35:17

little bit, but a decent amount of it. And

35:19

I would go to the peninsula hotel and my

35:21

friends would say, that's so irresponsible. I can't believe you

35:23

spend money like that. And I'm like, I

35:26

can't believe you don't. Like they were like, you can't

35:28

afford to do it. I'm like, you can't afford not

35:30

to because we are

35:32

conditioned to believe that there is a lid

35:36

and there's a ceiling. When

35:38

you start to see further, all

35:41

of a sudden there's more for you to

35:43

play with, to receive. And

35:48

I'm so sick of women not feeling like they can treat themselves

35:50

truly. And

35:55

so, you know, part of it is,

35:57

and I mentioned this to you in passing, in my

35:59

mom. is such a good sport and she's

36:01

been watching the workshop and I'm so proud

36:03

of her because she's like, it's never too

36:05

late to start meditation and she's really, she's

36:07

starting to like feel that for

36:10

herself. But I mentioned in passing

36:12

that, you know, when my dad, when

36:14

my dad left, my mom was very, very

36:16

depressed and she didn't want to be

36:18

here anymore. And I don't want to go into too

36:20

much of that because it's a very sad, dark

36:23

energy. But I

36:25

guess what I want to tell you is there was

36:27

a part of my life and if you want to

36:29

hear the story, if you listen to

36:31

Emily Fletcher's podcast, I told the story

36:33

in detail at the end, but it's

36:35

actually about my sister and how there

36:38

was a period of my life when I

36:40

was about 15 where I was

36:43

dealing with a lot of serious, serious

36:46

trauma at home. And I

36:49

just wasn't sure if it was worth it. And

36:52

my sister was like, you jump, I jump, so you

36:54

better stick it out. And I say

36:57

that because I think

36:59

sometimes the worst

37:01

things that happen for us wind

37:04

up being the best things. I

37:06

guess it's how we receive them. But

37:08

I say that because when I moved to

37:11

Los Angeles, I had a very different perspective

37:13

than my friends. Like my friends who went

37:15

to like four-year colleges that their parents paid

37:17

for, like that wasn't my life. I

37:20

really felt in many, many ways.

37:22

And if you knew the story, my mom

37:25

even says she's like, when your

37:27

dad walked out and I was in my

37:29

own mess, she's like, I used to

37:32

like pray to God that someone would just make sure

37:34

you were okay because I knew I couldn't take care

37:36

of you or be there for you. And I

37:38

was really on my own emotionally,

37:40

financially, spiritually for a long time.

37:42

So when I came

37:44

out here to Los Angeles and

37:47

my friends were like kind of

37:49

in their little bubble

37:51

of, here's what I do

37:53

and here's what my parents want

37:55

me to do and I'm gonna get this

37:57

job. I was coming back. from

38:00

a different place, which was I was

38:02

looking at my parents at that point

38:05

and seeing their lives

38:09

unravel was such a

38:11

hard thing and also such a blessing

38:13

because what I

38:16

realized was, oh,

38:18

that's a cautionary tale. And

38:21

the late Sir Ken Robinson,

38:23

who is unbelievable, I don't know if any

38:25

of you know him, but he

38:27

used to speak about creativity and

38:30

education and the way

38:32

that schools rob

38:34

children of their genius

38:36

by teaching them not how

38:38

to think but what to think.

38:41

And he said that at

38:43

a certain point, people are about 45

38:45

years old and they're walking

38:47

from the car to the office and

38:50

they say to themselves, is this all there is? I don't

38:52

get it. I did everything I was

38:54

told. I got the job. I got the 401k.

38:56

Why am I deeply unfulfilled?

39:01

I saw

39:03

so many adults when I was growing up

39:05

who were, oh, unhappy, like

39:08

very unfulfilled careers, very

39:10

unhappy in their marriages. And I was like,

39:13

wait, so you go through all this to

39:15

grow up to do that? Like,

39:17

I don't want to do that. And so

39:19

while my friends were like, you can't afford to do that, I

39:22

was like, you guys, you

39:24

can't afford not to do this. Go

39:26

live your life. And my mom, by the

39:28

way, just to give her another shout out, when

39:31

my mom was in high school, she

39:34

was like, literally considered like

39:36

the most talented girl and in

39:38

her senior yearbook, she was chosen

39:40

as like, most talented,

39:43

most witty, she was the lead in every

39:45

play, you know, I'll see you on Broadway.

39:47

And I tell this story that she

39:50

used to tell to me, which is that this

39:52

woman who was my mom's understudy in

39:54

high school, like my mom would get the

39:56

lead and this woman would be in the

39:58

chorus, this woman And when

40:01

they graduated from high school, it was like telling

40:03

my mom, like let's go audition for Broadway. And

40:05

my mom had a belief which was, oh, that's

40:08

not an option. I either get to have a

40:10

career or be a mother. She

40:12

didn't realize, cause she wasn't modeled

40:14

this way, that you could have

40:16

a dream and be a mom and

40:19

have a dream and be a mom. So she

40:21

gave up her dream and she got married to

40:23

a guy who was pretty abusive.

40:26

And she gave up everything because

40:28

she thought that's what she had to do.

40:31

That girl who was my mom's

40:33

understudy, went on to audition

40:35

for a Broadway show called Little Shop of

40:37

Horrors. She got the lead and then they

40:39

made it into a movie and she got

40:42

the lead. So if you've seen Little Shop,

40:44

Ellen Greene who played this role was

40:47

in the chorus and my mom was the

40:49

lead in high school. So

40:52

my mom would be like, oh my God, I knew her. And

40:54

like she was in the chorus and look at me. And

40:57

I used to cry on behalf

40:59

of my mom that

41:01

my mom deeply felt

41:04

the gifts that she was given dying

41:08

inside of her because they were

41:10

collecting dust. And so

41:12

for me, when all of

41:14

my friends were like, I'm gonna go get an MBA.

41:16

I'm like, do you really want to? Well, not really,

41:18

but that's what I'm gonna do cause it's logical. It's

41:20

like, life isn't about that. It's

41:23

about you showing up for the assignment

41:25

called being you. And

41:27

it's so fascinating because all

41:30

of the people I moved out to LA with who

41:32

I knew in my 20s, like I'm

41:34

not saying this to shoot my own horn. I'm just telling you

41:36

a fact. Like I am so much

41:38

more successful than all of those people who did all

41:40

the things that they didn't want to do that they

41:42

thought would lead to results. Like, oh

41:45

my God, no, we are so married to the

41:47

idea that life has to be hard and we

41:49

have to sacrifice. It's like, in the

41:51

Talmud, there's a passage that says that the first

41:53

question you're asked when you get to heaven is

41:57

to answer for every beautiful thing that

41:59

you denied yourself. I think that's

42:01

just an amazing thing that that even

42:03

exists that that thought even exists that

42:05

that we're actually here to take Art

42:07

and go on the hikes and enjoy

42:09

the Sun sets and have the best

42:12

Relationships and like stop this

42:15

denial for ourselves If

42:17

my mom was not designed to

42:19

do the things that her fart was saying she

42:21

wouldn't have those gifts, right? There's a scene in

42:24

chariots of fire Where his

42:26

dad wants him to go on this missionary

42:28

trip to China. I think that's what it is

42:30

and He's so

42:32

afraid of disappointing his father because he wants

42:35

to be in the Olympics and he wants to

42:37

be a runner and at one point He goes

42:39

to his dad and he goes I can't go on the

42:41

trip with you and his dad gets upset and he says

42:43

dad if God didn't

42:45

want me to do this. Why did he make me

42:47

so fast? Like why did he

42:49

make me run so fast and it's

42:51

an amazing moment because it's like if

42:54

you're not supposed To have this

42:56

life that you keep thinking about then. Why do you

42:58

keep thinking about it? Why is it

43:00

inside of you? Why are you good at certain

43:02

things? Why do you have a knack for understanding

43:05

music or technology or why do you love cooking

43:07

so much? Or because you're supposed to make it

43:09

better and be in your genius and study it

43:11

and understand it and put yourself all into it

43:14

so for me It's

43:17

like There's no question.

43:19

You always know what your alignment is

43:22

It's about having the courage to choose it So

43:25

in this moment, you know what your alignment is. You

43:27

just have the courage to choose it so at

43:30

the end of the day, I feel like

43:32

what is bottled up inside of

43:34

working with me is somehow

43:38

some way This thing

43:40

called the courage to show up

43:42

and choose your alignment. It

43:45

just takes place and to

43:47

me that's worth everything and I Guess

43:50

because of the the journey that I went on

43:52

and watching my mom deal with her

43:55

depression It became a

43:57

moral obligation for me to

44:00

remind people not to

44:02

waste their time standing on

44:05

the sidelines of their life. Get in

44:07

the game. And you know, you can

44:09

handle it. Like everything that's telling

44:11

you not to do something because you're

44:13

scared, you've been through

44:16

way harder things than that.

44:19

Way harder. Like the girls who are mean in

44:21

seventh grade, harder. The

44:23

breakup you went through, harder. The

44:26

miscarriage you had, way harder. Meanwhile,

44:28

this is your life. Who

44:31

else's life is it? You gotta choose

44:33

your courage and your alignment. And

44:36

so a lot of times people get to the end of these

44:38

workshops and they're like, I really want to

44:40

do this, but I'm so afraid. I'm like, make

44:42

yourself a commitment that it will be a forcing

44:44

function. If the only thing standing between you and

44:46

this program is $297 a month, show

44:50

yourself that you can be resourceful. And you're

44:52

like, this is going to force me because

44:54

I'm not important and I'm worth it that much.

44:56

And if this turns you on, you're

44:59

going to make that a reality for yourself and

45:01

just tell yourself, of course, I'm going to figure

45:03

that out. I'm going to make that happen. And

45:06

if I'm not your person, and I say that not

45:08

to be fake, like find the person who

45:10

is. But honestly, anything I've

45:12

ever wanted to learn, if it was

45:14

business, I found a mentor. If it

45:16

was piano, I got a teacher, right?

45:18

My mom actually, we had no money

45:21

and she would pay $85

45:23

for me to learn from this guy who

45:25

was a concert pianist because it mattered so

45:27

much to her that I learned piano from

45:30

someone at that level. And you know what?

45:33

Look what I wound up doing with that. You

45:35

know, every song that I wound up writing,

45:37

I'm way made back that money, but we

45:39

didn't know, but she invested in it. And

45:42

it's not about even becoming a concert

45:44

pianist. It's when you're around people who

45:46

make you greater, how that winds up

45:49

playing a role in your life later on,

45:51

it pays in different dividends, but choose the

45:53

right mentor. Choose it. Find

45:56

Somebody else. If it's not me, but don't sit

45:58

it out and think that on your. Oh

46:00

boy, you're gonna be able to use yet.

46:02

Veronica said this to me. Actually, My team

46:04

member. She's like. You

46:06

can't read your a label. From

46:09

within your own jar you. Gonna need a

46:11

trainer? You're gonna need a percent. Right

46:13

when I it's after I am. Started the

46:15

music I was writing music and I when I started

46:17

my first music course I want to write have a

46:19

great of course you know what I did. I

46:22

went to any Porterville that I took her

46:24

class on how to create a course. And.

46:27

Not course, wound up making

46:29

two million dollars. In the first

46:31

year. Because. I wasn't just

46:33

gonna leave d I y it. right?

46:36

Like. If you ask about anything

46:38

and might with my podcast right

46:40

I found myself a mentor. To.

46:42

Mistreat, I was like I'm going to need your help.

46:45

As like whatever is going to cost, Let's

46:47

go on for the first eight episodes season

46:49

with Me. And I am so

46:51

grateful because I was ready to give out. I

46:54

had a question at one point I said to him.

46:57

And like over three episodes and I think I don't have

46:59

anything else to say. He goes on minutes

47:01

each is something that will allow you to do a

47:03

thousand episodes and you'll never run out of what to

47:05

say. I go, go for it. He.

47:07

Said. Every time you do

47:10

a podcast. I want you to think

47:12

about the pain point of the list or. Even.

47:14

If you're one listener, what's in pain points? And.

47:16

We talked about it. And I said

47:19

i think that my list or wants to

47:21

sell that and wants to understand. How

47:23

to overcome their imposter syndrome and had

47:25

a reads for what's gonna like? Break

47:27

them free and allow them to have

47:29

that fulfillment. He goes great. So now

47:32

you can do an incident on an

47:34

episode and every one you interview you

47:36

have that same conversation and will never

47:38

go. Now that

47:40

was worth every saying because see

47:42

our perception or believe is. What

47:44

determines our accent? I thought

47:46

I had to keep saying new things on every show

47:48

and three episodes in a like Tim I don't think

47:50

I can do a because I've nothing else to say

47:53

like a thought about. yeah isn't about that You have

47:55

to say. And. Adam Grant

47:57

said something to me. He said. You.

47:59

don't have to say something new, you

48:02

just have to say something true. He

48:04

said there is no shortage, there's no

48:06

end to how often people need to

48:08

hear the same thing over

48:10

and over and over. How many times do we need to

48:12

hear drink water? How many times do you need to hear

48:15

be mindful? There's never an end.

48:17

He said as long as it's true, you can say

48:19

it over and over again. I

48:22

am telling you that when you work

48:24

with a mentor, you compress decades into

48:26

days. So find one. It

48:28

doesn't have to be me. I have tons

48:31

of friends who some of them are

48:33

in the slideshow. There's incredible

48:35

wisdom out there. But

48:38

really think to yourself, if I don't spend the

48:40

money with a mentor, which you can make that

48:42

decision, what is it costing you? Is

48:44

it costing you another year? Is it costing you

48:46

the whole thing? Is it costing you more money

48:48

because you took four other little things

48:50

that you thought were going to get you there, but

48:52

you actually didn't complete them, you didn't implement them? Then

48:55

that's actually expensive. So

48:58

just think about it. Barb,

49:00

do you have any questions that are coming through

49:02

and then I am going to let everybody go.

49:05

I will remind you that tomorrow we're going to give

49:07

away $1,000 and headphones and all you

49:10

have to do is you need to

49:12

review the podcast. The podcast

49:15

reviews help other people find the

49:17

podcast. And so I love the

49:19

reviews because I love seeing new people who've

49:21

never heard this content go, thank

49:23

you, you opened my heart. I love that.

49:26

And we need you to just share one of my reels

49:28

on Instagram and enroll my closest tomorrow.

49:30

I want to see all of you

49:32

say yes to yourself. Get in there. And

49:35

I also want to tell you that the Facebook group

49:38

closes tomorrow. Yes, I have a

49:40

question. Okay, go for it.

49:42

I'm going to lower my hand. All right,

49:44

pods. People are wondering about the pods. Can you

49:46

talk about them just for a minute? Or do

49:48

you want me to share when I think you

49:50

can share? I've shared a lot. I think people

49:53

are just sick of hearing me talk. But get ready.

49:55

We're going to spend a lot of time with me.

49:57

It's fun. I've spent like 44 years. There's

50:00

is pretty cool. I've really grown into a shell

50:02

a good morning lot of time. We.

50:04

Should we humans should show that video that we. Made

50:06

in our sweaters and Florida when it was

50:08

ninety eight degrees. No, please don't sell. And

50:10

actually, but we're like time. We. Don't

50:13

have on hand time. We. Already

50:15

using said rain and his last, The

50:17

Love Letter. Amount of hop. On

50:20

and off Empty cup of coffee.

50:22

Thoughts: And. Pretending do this

50:24

gets from satellite which we assume

50:26

watch together cause we had no.

50:29

Real parenting. So we just. Watched.

50:31

Television when illegally and receivers but

50:33

had silver spoons when family ties

50:35

know that detachable. That's guess because

50:38

we only have bathing suits. On

50:40

and a fluttered his it's like I live only

50:42

I had. With. Israelis and bags

50:44

as easy. Again, I will. I

50:46

weighed like seven pounds. And

50:48

we're noses at a big because of me. Which.

50:51

Is Oh My God you guys! She broke my nose and I

50:53

was twelve. And I'm not at the my

50:55

a violent present. A really not. Always as

50:57

them the yeah me. I. Deserve

50:59

you and I still. Have.

51:01

Our do a bill that ago. I talk

51:03

of unload evil, bad. He. Did. Is

51:05

worse for you, Them for me. Ah

51:08

that. say she's very forgiving

51:10

and Atlanta was an accident.

51:13

Was as severe accident okay was it like

51:15

the mean girls and boys and will remain

51:17

front of of and we we and sibling

51:19

rivalry with Kate Hudson and I'll or as

51:21

an hour them have been on a loves

51:24

eyes so detail so I'm. Gonna put

51:26

I may accountability advocate. Hydrant

51:28

now and I'm gonna talk to the person is

51:30

on here who's like if ominous sign up for

51:32

this our my money's worth. I

51:34

am that person. I'm different than Kathy.

51:36

I'm the Taipei older sister. That.

51:39

Sees The Millionaire. But anyway, seriously,

51:41

think about it. I wanna

51:43

get everything. Out of it's I'm Zoc of Youth

51:45

is your ally. Do. You. Wanna

51:47

show up for your pods when we put you in

51:49

there? And by the way and only it's hit with

51:51

a couple weeks so we get to know you a

51:53

little bit. but Israel pod. You. May not

51:55

like it at first. Because it's. We are sensitive

51:58

people so we want to make sure the. Yeah,

52:00

I that works. Real woman is applied. It's

52:02

basically between. I've seen them with. Two people.

52:04

I've seen it with eighty both as in the with

52:06

ten people and southern of them if. You're one

52:09

of the Superbowl Nsl. In the

52:11

comments that you're still meeting after

52:13

like three years as a so

52:15

this is your Girl Scout. Troop.

52:18

This. Is the the trip that you go to

52:20

when you're like oh my God did use your

52:22

ally? Recap: Is it A Did you understand this

52:24

part of I a loss for I really get

52:26

this and here's how I'm doing in a my

52:28

business you white to. Huddle. With

52:31

those people at least once a week for

52:33

this whole wheat and the navy longer. Okay

52:35

so that's pods and if you don't like

52:37

the group the are in, guess it. You

52:39

have agency over that you can email less. On the

52:42

third of were as we can be like i don't like

52:44

this group or. I like it but I want something

52:46

that's one of my time zone. Curse of of you are

52:48

spread out a little bit. We will help you with that.

52:50

This email us let us know. If

52:52

you're gonna do Vip and I highly. Highly.

52:55

Recommend Vip for people who are sure

52:57

about what they're already doing. This on

52:59

a scale, their business. You don't have to

53:01

be a millionaire to. The and and I got

53:03

three of laws as as I'm not making

53:05

seven figures so it's such thought that seen

53:07

it. Yet. But.

53:10

If you want to be. And

53:12

there's something about either saying I want

53:14

more accountability. I want more I don't wanna do.

53:17

Just that I want us isn't smaller group the

53:19

closer the A Vip is that if you're certain

53:21

about what you're doing and you're already so you

53:23

make a little money at it or your he

53:25

started a you fail the little bit you want

53:27

a niche down a little bit and get clearer

53:29

that's a Vip. As for it, but it's

53:31

are people who are certain that they know

53:34

what they wanna do with it, and that

53:36

group is an extra pod for you. Like

53:38

minded entrepreneurs who might be do a

53:40

little butter the new? That's okay. And

53:43

you're gonna learn from each other. And I wanna

53:45

tell the fairly quick. As I tell all the time. There.

53:48

Was somebody wanted us and of. Her Vip the first time

53:50

we offered it. And. We we didn't know

53:52

what have as many as one of the kathy's

53:54

like brain and child things and were like oh

53:56

that sounds so cool cause it can it be

53:59

done her business So. off and

54:01

somebody called me after the first voxer day

54:03

and she said to me I still have

54:05

an MIT answer She's like Barb if

54:09

this first voxer day was

54:11

all I got with VIP It was

54:13

completely worth the entire single payment. I

54:15

just made I'm dropping that because

54:17

I don't make things up I wish I could I'm

54:20

a good actor, but I'm a terrible liar.

54:22

I asked my sister. I'm not coot Okay,

54:24

I can't not tell the truth that

54:27

is something she actually said and I never

54:29

forgot that So if you're thinking

54:31

about VIP gate, just go for it. It's really worth

54:33

it. Okay, some of you are

54:35

mentioning Overwhelm overwhelm Kathy's giving me

54:37

two much. What if I can't

54:39

keep up? Okay if you feel

54:41

like you can't keep up try because

54:45

We have someone who was in the program

54:47

the VIP program a couple of years ago or a

54:49

year and a half ago and she said She

54:52

only used like 20% of

54:55

the VIP program and she said

54:57

I'm still working through Some

54:59

of the curriculum and guess what I got

55:01

my money's worth within the first month and I

55:04

didn't have to be there for all Of it.

55:06

It's just a suggestion Would I the type a

55:08

kind of person show up for every meeting every

55:10

live be there with bells on Do a meditation

55:12

before and after writing my journal and get all

55:14

the good stuff out of it Yes, I would

55:16

and when I show up for my pot it'd

55:18

be the leader of it and email everybody be like you better

55:20

be there It's MBL on yes, I would

55:22

but you might not be like Barb. You might be more

55:24

like how do you like? Coming as

55:26

a lot. That's gonna come later. I'm gonna

55:29

make sure my puffy's ready pat

55:31

my cat Leave to go

55:33

to the bathroom for 20 minutes. Check my

55:35

phone come back for the live You might

55:37

be a Kathy person and that's okay, too.

55:39

Just hear me hear me. Listen to

55:41

me You're one of those

55:43

people that's like but I can't come to the

55:46

whole life. They work nine to seven Come

55:48

to part of it have to ten minutes of it

55:50

and I and then you're saying but how will I know what

55:53

ten minutes? That is I don't care what ten

55:55

minutes is but you know if you're sitting

55:57

here on this right now There's something about

55:59

being here In his energy that

56:01

makes you in, live in and. And.

56:03

It's the only program that I've

56:05

seen so far that does it

56:08

this off then and holds you

56:10

accountable. If the sorry as only to preacher. Ellison

56:12

a cane a lot the the band really

56:15

into the. House. So. Solicitor

56:18

get offered up. His

56:20

even sledding. Men: Upon no

56:22

not yet. We have guns so an

56:24

overlapping so if you show up. For.

56:27

Even ten to fifteen minutes of every

56:29

live and made you promised me. He

56:32

I promise me now that you will watch

56:34

the replay with. In two days of

56:36

a being posted. Guess. What

56:38

We've found that those people who make sure to

56:40

watch the put in their down and blow ups

56:42

of bull reply. Within. Two days

56:45

I'm gonna set to the full life. And.

56:47

Then they post one thing a week in the

56:49

facebook. Group just one and then. Do.

56:51

A little commenting and supporting. Other people of

56:53

is the group I know the don't like facebook

56:56

scientists join it to service. And then they

56:58

shop for their pod. Guess what? Major.

57:00

Transformation that's a little bit. But as

57:02

you tell me, why pay the money?

57:05

And. And i went to one live and then

57:07

i got really busy and the my girlfriend had a

57:09

heart attack and i was really no brainer soup others

57:11

as. If. You do that. The.

57:13

Program this. paying the money is not gonna do

57:15

anything. You have to promise me you're going to

57:17

show up for at least. Part of it you

57:20

when you present when do the cathy i fear

57:22

of an unrelated segments of it grew back by

57:24

you into the barber you there every second. Either

57:27

way, he does have some. You're going admit I was.

57:29

It with my notes. the. Maze

57:31

and. So then

57:33

money informative, And. Even a five

57:36

on the of. Mosaic. And as a say

57:38

I was gonna say that. Lives. Gilbert

57:40

has a. I think it

57:42

was gilbert. Village. People either say when

57:44

lives gelber. Nelson Mandela people attribute

57:47

everything. Just people. Anyway,

57:49

I think it's hard that says that. we.

57:52

Start. To see scenes in our

57:54

life. When we finally get

57:57

sick of our and bulls. And I

57:59

feel. there comes

58:01

a point where we start

58:03

to get radically honest and we're like,

58:05

okay, it's not enough

58:08

to just keep burying my head in

58:10

the sand. Like I deserve better. And I

58:12

want to live that

58:15

life now. Not next week,

58:17

not next year. And a lot of

58:19

times you heard me say this yesterday, people will

58:21

look me straight in the face and tell me

58:23

they will argue for their limitations like they

58:25

are like an attorney. And they'll tell

58:28

me I don't have time. I don't have

58:30

this. And I'm like, I said

58:32

this yesterday. I'm like, give me your phone. How

58:34

much time are you just scrolling, looking for

58:37

what? What are you looking for? And

58:39

honestly, when they do the research to see why

58:41

people scroll, it's like we have a little craving.

58:43

We're looking for something. We're looking to be entertained.

58:45

We're looking to be fulfilled. We're looking for inspiration.

58:48

All of that is in you showing up.

58:50

You want to get really inspired? Step

58:53

in. You want your

58:55

brain to not focus on like crazy

58:58

limited stories it tells you.

59:01

Give it a cooler thing to focus on, which

59:03

is asking a better question. How am I going

59:05

to grow this business? I'm

59:08

going to spend money on this program. My new question

59:10

I'm asking my brain is, how am

59:12

I going to make that money in the three months? Oh,

59:15

what's the next question? What

59:18

courage do I need? What's the

59:20

next question? What clues are around? Kathy

59:22

says there's clues everywhere. What am

59:24

I picking up from every single session that

59:26

I'm going to go implement? How is that

59:28

going to spark inside of me a feeling

59:31

of courage? You know that feeling when you do

59:33

something you're scared to do and you get off

59:35

the stage after you speak or you go on

59:37

the roller coaster, you can take

59:39

that to the bank, right? We went

59:42

to Disney World. We went to Disney

59:44

World and my daughter finally went

59:46

on Thunder Mountain and she was scared and

59:48

she deliberated and she was like, oh, there's not going to go. The

59:51

feeling she felt and the

59:53

look in her eyes when she got off that roller

59:55

coaster, what was that? She was

59:57

proud of herself. Why? She went further. then

1:00:00

she thought she could go. She had a

1:00:02

limit on her courage. She showed herself, I

1:00:05

got that. And there's nothing better.

1:00:07

Like there's no gift I could give her that would

1:00:09

make her feel that good. It's your own

1:00:11

satisfaction of being like, whoa,

1:00:14

I was so afraid to say that to that person. I said

1:00:16

it. I was so afraid to charge that I did. I was

1:00:18

so afraid to post that I did it. And

1:00:21

you know what happens when you start to

1:00:23

do the things that are in your best alignment, you

1:00:26

start to make different kinds of friends. You

1:00:29

start to sit at a different lunch table. All

1:00:31

of my friends, I'm like, oh my God,

1:00:33

the cost of admission to these really amazing friendships

1:00:36

was choosing my alignment. Like

1:00:38

the life that's on the other side

1:00:41

of that exhilaration, it's

1:00:43

just something that can't be matched. So it

1:00:45

doesn't even matter what the ROI is, right? It doesn't

1:00:48

even matter what the results are. It

1:00:50

matters that you show up. And

1:00:53

when you start showing up in that way, you feel

1:00:56

unstoppable, right? If you

1:00:58

watch Rocky or any movie, we're

1:01:01

all seeing ourselves in that character who's told, forget

1:01:03

it, it's not going to work. And there's a

1:01:05

part of each of us that sees ourselves in

1:01:07

that character that says, show yourself,

1:01:11

show yourself and show everybody else.

1:01:14

They underestimated you. And

1:01:16

it doesn't matter if he gets the trinity, right?

1:01:19

They say that when people win an Oscar, they

1:01:22

feel a little depressed the next day because

1:01:26

what they all say is

1:01:28

the win was the journey. There

1:01:30

was nothing in the Oscar. You don't

1:01:32

really want the result. You want

1:01:35

who you become. And so

1:01:37

they've all realized the

1:01:39

win was the day they went

1:01:41

to the audition. The win

1:01:43

was going to work with this

1:01:46

director who they were like intimidated by and

1:01:48

they showed up, forget the Oscar, it doesn't

1:01:50

matter. It doesn't matter at that

1:01:52

point. It matters that they

1:01:54

push through, right?

1:01:56

So there are so many

1:01:59

opportunities for us. and this

1:02:01

is not the only opportunity. There

1:02:03

are so many other places where you

1:02:05

can have that kind of experience. There's other

1:02:08

mentors, there's other retreats, there's other places

1:02:10

for you to go to get to that

1:02:13

next frontier, but this is one of those. And

1:02:15

so if you wanna do this here, you

1:02:17

can get in, we start Monday, and

1:02:19

then you know, okay, this is

1:02:22

my insurance policy that the next three months are

1:02:24

gonna be different. And

1:02:27

I'm gonna call you up from your highest and best self.

1:02:29

So I'm gonna call you up from that place, and

1:02:32

I'm gonna be looking at you from that part

1:02:34

of you that has full potential and

1:02:36

so much strength, and I'm

1:02:38

going to expect that person to sit

1:02:40

in the seat. And you're gonna start to

1:02:42

feel it. And you're gonna start to

1:02:44

say things and do things that you can't

1:02:47

believe that you're doing. And that's how

1:02:49

things start to shift. So we'd love

1:02:51

to see you in there. First class is Monday.

1:02:54

Thank you to my team. Thank you

1:02:56

to everybody for being here. Tomorrow we just coach. If

1:02:58

you want me to coach you, if

1:03:00

you wanna talk to me about how you can't choose

1:03:02

your business, if you want me to talk to you

1:03:04

about your money shit, if you want me to

1:03:06

talk to you about where you're at,

1:03:09

in any of these things that

1:03:11

we've talked about spiritually, your vibration,

1:03:13

meditation, let's go. We're

1:03:16

doing that tomorrow. I'm here, we'll get to

1:03:18

see some people on camera. We'll call you

1:03:20

up. Looking forward to it. And

1:03:22

thank you.

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