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Hey, it's Kathy. I wanted to drop some
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bonus episodes this week and share a few
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pieces from the workshop that we're doing. I
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want to tell you something else that's really
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exciting, which is that I created the
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most epic signature course
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I've ever created. It's a combination
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of all of the programs that
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I have taught that mean the
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most to me. And we have
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a new program called Drumroll, Please!
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Boldly Abundant. Elevate Your Worth, Ignite
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Your Wealth. This class
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is the Guide to Prosperity.
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This is about fully
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understanding the inner work that needs
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to unlock so that you can allow
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riches into your life and also
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what are all the financial opportunities
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available to you. You will
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leave this program understanding all the different
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strategies that are incredible opportunities for you.
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Financial planners will be a part
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of this. You will understand investing.
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You will understand starting a business.
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We will have experts in all
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different fields from career building to
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getting paid more at your current
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job to
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understanding what it is that you need
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to do right now that
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will elevate your wealth. So
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it is both the inner work as well as
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the steps to take. You can
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go to Kathy heller.com/bold. And it
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will be a three month immersion program. There is a gold
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is the program for women who are ready
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to be bold and fierce and fully allow
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themselves the permission to be rich. And
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what does that mean? It means asking
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for more. It means raising your self
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worth. It means setting boundaries. But it
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also means taking decisive action and having
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that true financial literacy so you
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understand what is available to you.
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Whether you are a 9 to 5er and you want a better job, how do
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you get a better job? If
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you are a 9 to 5er and you want to get more money, how do you
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ask for more money and how do you get that raise? If
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you are on the entrepreneur path, how do you start a business? If
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you are on the entrepreneur path and want to scale your business or raise your rates, how do
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you do that? to understand
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investing and you want to understand
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compound savings and all the different ways that
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you can start to really let money
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work for you, this class is
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going to feel like the most bold decision
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you've ever made in terms of your self-worth
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and in terms of your net worth. Self-worth
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and net worth are intrinsically
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linked. This is the program that
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that you're giving yourself the gift to
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give yourself full permission to be
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the most abundant version of yourself.
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kathylo.com/bold. I can't wait to see you guys
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pour in there and then we're going to
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spend three months together. So today
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I'm going to share this workshop that we did yesterday
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in case you missed it. Take a listen. Welcome
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back. It has been really,
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really such a treat every single time we're
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together. I've enjoyed it so much. I love
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your energy. I love seeing
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you guys supporting each other. I love
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seeing your breakthroughs. It's
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been awesome. So thank you. Thank you
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for being a part of it because each
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one of you has added to the
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collective energy and the experience. So thank
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you. Today I'm
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going to go through sort of an open
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house, a sneak peek of what's
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inside the program and it'll give
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you a sense of not only really
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understanding like, okay, let me like tour the houses
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and really see if I like the living room,
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if I like the kitchen, but also
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like as you go through it, you'll understand sort
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of my method and what it
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is that to me is fundamental
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to actualizing our potential and how
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we stop spinning our wheels
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and actually live that life that comes
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from that higher self. So
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we're going to do that today and I am going
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to stay on to answer questions. And
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then tomorrow is our last day and
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I'll be here literally just
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to coach you and support you.
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So come with your questions. will unmute people,
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people's faces will come up, we'll
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get to just do some, what we
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call spotlight sessions. And I
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think that'll be really interesting. What's typically what's
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personal is very universal. So I think you'll
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find that a lot of the questions that
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people have are the questions
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that you have, you know? And so it's
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very supportive, it turns out. And
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by the way, that's the reason why I
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love to do group coaching because if you
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look at any of the research, if
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you look at what happens in
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groups, it's actually even greater
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in terms of transformation because
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when you are one-on-one sometimes,
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you don't know how to access sometimes
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what the question is. Or sometimes because
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you're having that intimate experience,
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you don't receive it, but if
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you're watching somebody else ask the question that you
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have and then you're watching them get
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an answer, sometimes you actually, your
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defenses are down and so you will actually grow
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from that and then being in
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a collective where people are holding
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a certain level of courage and
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a certain level of compassion and
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a certain level of vision, we
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all grow by that collective conscious
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experience. So I think
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it can be really powerful and I'm
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looking forward to being here tomorrow
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for that. And then we'll wrap up
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and the Facebook group will close tomorrow
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night and enrollment will
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close for the program tomorrow night and
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our first class for those of
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you who are in and so many of you are and
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I'm so excited about it. It really is such
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an incredible thing to do with your time
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is to focus on you
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changing your own station and once
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and for all changing your relationship with money
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and abundance and really starting
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to see so many more potentials pop
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up and starting to see those things
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through synchronicity just be sort of magnetized to you
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because you are no longer at one frequency,
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you sort of change your frequency, right? And
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then taking that right deliberate action. It's really
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such a delicious. So I'm so
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excited for those of you who stepped
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into that and just for me personally
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getting to be on that journey with you
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is very fulfilling. So I'm very happy for
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that. I want to tell you something. So
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Rachel Platten, she
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is a really close friend of mine
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and I want to tell you something
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about her and about that song
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because this really is the message. So
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the story goes that Rachel, that
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song, that exact song, not like
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another song, like that actual
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song, she had
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already gone down the
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road just doing everything
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she could. She had met with every
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possible person in the music industry
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and every label she
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met with said, no,
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I don't hear it. I don't see
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it. No, no. And my name is
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no. My sign is no. My number
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is new and it was a
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no. And she
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was devastated and her
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parents said to her, listen, Rachel, we've
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been trying to help you, give you the
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note, you've been a struggling songwriter, but you're
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really smart and you have a
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really good heart. So why don't you just give it
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up and get your
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life together and go do something good, like
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go to grad school or whatever you want
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to do, but stop it.
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Just stop writing music. Did
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she stop? All right, so here's
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what happened. So what she did is
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she said she literally fell on her knees.
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She got on her knees and
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she was sobbing and she said to
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God in her like little, like
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literally roach infested apartment, like
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no exaggeration. She was like, I
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don't know what the message is.
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I don't know what is happening, but
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I just know this is
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it. Like I give my life to do
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this. I have to do
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this. I don't have anything else. You
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know, Rabbi used to say that. We
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are meant to be who we were meant to
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be. And we talked about, Bronnie
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Ware said that the greatest regret of people
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in their dying days is not having
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lived life on their terms, living the life
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somebody else lived. And my rabbi gave a
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great analogy, which is imagine if you saw
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a guitar, and instead of
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the guitar being played in the
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sort of hollow of the guitar that whole,
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it was being used as like a pot,
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a place to hold a plant. He's
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like, that's just wrong because it's a guitar. It's
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not meant to be a potholder, it's meant to
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be a guitar. And so she
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had one of those moments of like, I
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just know this is all I'm meant to do
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this. There's nothing else for me to do but
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this, write songs. And
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so she fell for
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herself that, oh, I
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get it, instead of waiting for this
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permission slip and doing
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everything that she thought she was supposed to
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do for somebody to like give
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her the green light. She was like, I'm
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just going to go do it. What
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does that mean? She said it meant
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that any opportunity she had to
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play music for other human beings, that
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was what she needed to be doing every day. And
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so she went to Sloan Kettering, which
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is the very highly
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regarded cancer hospital in Manhattan.
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And she said, is there any way here I can play
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for? And she started to play. And
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she played that song. And she would
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come home with such a full heart, so
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much in her heart. And it
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didn't matter that she wasn't sure about
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what the hell was going to happen with her
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career. She felt so full. And
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sure enough, one of the
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nurses was so moved
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by the song. And her brother,
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this nurse, had a brother who was a DJ
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at a radio station. And
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she said to him, you have to play
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this song on the radio because you
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can't believe what it's like. doing for people in
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the hospital. And her brother played the song
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and the rest is history because
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what wound up happening is all
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the record labels immediately called
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and said, we want the song,
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we want to do a record with you. And
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the song went to number one. So here's the
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message, you
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are a force, you
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don't need to wait. The
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most abundant thing that
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happens for each of us
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is when we realize that instead of
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walking around feeling like we're missing something,
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we turn it around and we start to give something.
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When we stop
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thinking that we're lacking
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something, and we spend our
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energy and we focus on what we
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can give right now, mountains
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move, every single person that
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I have interviewed, my entire
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journey, right? Did I wait for somebody
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to come along and give me some
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kind of guarantee that if I
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started a podcast, it would lead to
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all these things? No, I just wanted to
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be someone to one
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person. I was like, I'm going to start a
11:09
podcast, probably nobody will listen to it. But
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if three people feel
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better, then I can
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take that to the bank. Because that
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means something. And so
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everything I've ever found
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massive success in comes
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from massively understanding
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that my intention is not
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about an ROI. It's about showing
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up and giving and see, when
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you know that you are a masterpiece, you're a
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piece of the master when you're not playing from
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your spinning limitation,
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false brain, but you're coming
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from your soul, then
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it's go time because you have a lot to give. And
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then you're not waiting, you're not in this energy
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of like, I guess the abundance is in here
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that it's all here. You got
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to show up. You got to go. Right?
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So. So people will say to me,
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well, I'll do that when this happens. It's like,
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no, it's now. Every day you
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wake up, that's a day
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that you're needed. That's a day that you're
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here because you have what to give.
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You have so much to give. And
12:17
you know it. But there's
12:19
this whole trip, this
12:21
whole exhausting waste of
12:23
energy that just puts us back into, I've
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got nothing to give, nothing to share. And
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where is my ROI? I'm
12:31
missing this. I'm missing this. It's like, that
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story that I just told you at Rachel
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Platten, that is the same story in different
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forms that every person who's been on my
12:40
podcast tells. And it's the story
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that I have. It's not very
12:45
different. The technology is when
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you are coming from wholeness and you're not
12:51
sitting there thinking, what am I missing? The
12:53
abundance is already there. And now
12:55
you start to give. Because we
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can't pour from an empty cup. When we
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pour from the wholeness, from the energy, from
13:01
the love, from the empathy, from the passion,
13:03
from the creativity that's inside of us, it's
13:06
just done. It's already been waiting there for
13:08
you. So that's the
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message. That's the message. That's what's
13:12
within. That's what this whole journey was
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about. So for those of you who
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want to take just a look inside what
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I do in this program, I'm going to share my screen
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with you. All right, so this
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is the name of the program. This is our open house tour.
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Come on in. Feel like a realtor. Come
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on in. It's 6,500 square feet.
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Has a great backyard. You might want to
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redo the bathroom. I'm just kidding. OK, so
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we're going to answer some questions. First of
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all, will there be replays? Yes, you have
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lifetime access to the replays. Yes, how long
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is the program? Three months. Why do
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we do that? Let me tell you why. Because
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the studies show that we have 90-day
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cycles in growth. And so
13:51
after 90 days, you actually wouldn't be served
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anymore. You need 90 days. You
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need 90 days to get a new
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sort of level. of yourself and
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then you actually need to build
14:03
from there. So when are the classes
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live we're going to talk about that. Do you see
14:08
the exact schedule? What topics will we cover? We're going
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to talk about that. So you see the schedule. Who
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are the experts? We're going to
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talk about that. Alright so let's keep going. New
14:17
ways of seeing the world obviously and
14:19
what your role is in it. Yep
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and so it's broken down
14:24
into I would say four pieces right. So
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the first piece is truly reclaiming
14:28
your worth. Now we can say those words out
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loud like yeah my worth a lot but like
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what we've done so far I think
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you've gotten a tiny little taste,
14:38
a tiny little tiny little
14:40
change in what you're able
14:42
to access about the real you. Right?
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Your self-worth is the number one
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thing we need to heal because
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when you finally fully allow that
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to boil over everything
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about the life you lead your net
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worth will reflect it. Your net worth
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will reflect it if you just did
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these three weeks. If you just did
15:03
this your whole life will change.
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If you make two degree shifts in
15:08
your life in any area it's massive.
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Massive right. We talked about if you're
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on a boat and you're
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going this way and you change
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by two degrees on the
15:20
dial. If you go out 50 feet
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100 feet you will wind
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up two degrees from where you're supposed
15:26
to be. You'll wind up in a
15:28
different continent. We
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need to change your
15:33
self-identity, your self-worth and bring
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you back to the truth and not
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just have you think about it,
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have you know it, have you embody it
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okay. So we start there
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then we're gonna actually
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deal with well this is
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a little bit more of you understand the
15:52
abundance right. You're gonna start to see
15:54
it. You're gonna be amazed
15:56
at how the world that you saw the day
15:58
before is not the same world. next day.
16:01
You, because your whole radio station will
16:03
be different, you'll hear different music, you'll
16:05
see things that were there that you
16:07
didn't see before, they were hidden in
16:09
plain sight, you will be amazed.
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And people are going to start to say to you, you
16:14
look really good, what did you do? Did you change
16:16
your hair? And you're going to be like, no. You'll
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be like, well, what did you do? Did you like lose a lot
16:20
of weight? No. The whole
16:22
energy is different. Okay.
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So then the second piece
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of it is really
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and truly getting you this
16:33
deep understanding, deep, deep
16:35
understanding of financial literacy
16:37
in every department. How
16:39
do you make more money? What is your entrepreneurial
16:42
path? What is the next most important
16:44
step you need to take? And
16:47
completely and totally change your relationship
16:49
with money so that you're no
16:51
longer in an abusive relationship with
16:54
this thing. Because we need
16:57
full openness. We have
16:59
so much resistance to something that is
17:01
just such an important resource. Taylor
17:05
Swift has this song, The Man. Do you
17:08
know the song? I'm so sick of
17:10
running as fast as I can. Wonder if
17:12
I get the clicker if I was a
17:14
man. Anyway, it's
17:17
all about how in
17:19
general, I'm generalizing, but there
17:21
is something about the way that
17:23
men show up with money
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where it's just neutral. It's like deal
17:28
or no deal. Do you want
17:30
in or not? No, fine. Let's go play golf.
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Like women carry so
17:34
much more stuff where
17:37
we don't receive it. And
17:39
it's literally available. It's like I
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said the other day, if you
17:44
weren't codependent, and you didn't
17:46
worry about belonging, because you
17:48
belong to yourself, maybe
17:51
you just raise your price. Maybe you'd
17:53
put your offer out. It's just neutral.
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Allow people to be autonomous adults. Allow
17:58
them the autonomy to decide for a themselves
18:00
if they want to spend the money or
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not. It's just money. It's neutral. It's like,
18:04
this is what the market costs. You're just
18:07
telling it how it is. We need
18:09
to have a different understanding of how
18:11
beautiful it is to have all kinds
18:14
of plenty in every good resource. You
18:16
need plenty of Wi-Fi. You
18:18
need plenty of cell receptions.
18:21
You can make the calls you need to make.
18:23
You need lots of oxygen. You need as
18:25
much fire as possible so you can cook
18:28
as many meals as you want. You need
18:30
to have access to an abundance
18:32
of money and to be an amazing steward
18:34
of that in the world and allow
18:37
what comes in to then be if
18:39
you're now a custodian of that. So
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we need to change that. We
18:44
need to heal that and get
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you to understand not only the
18:49
things about money that you don't know.
18:51
You need to take deliberate
18:53
action and what are the
18:55
actions to take. I love teaching people
18:57
how to build businesses. I love teaching people
18:59
how to make that next step
19:02
that changes everything in their life. I have
19:04
thousands and thousands of people at this point who've said
19:06
to me, because you told me to do
19:08
this, everything's different now. I'm like, of
19:10
course it is. You just needed the
19:12
courage and you needed the specificity of
19:14
what's the actual way to do it.
19:18
Don't just go sell something. Understand
19:21
that we build a runway for every
19:23
seven deposits we make with people, human
19:25
behaviors, they just come and ask you
19:27
for the thing. Sales is
19:29
just serving and depositing into
19:31
people and nourishing people, truly
19:34
adding value to people's lives.
19:36
Then you don't have to worry. You don't
19:38
have to worry about where the sales coming
19:40
from. You're just continuously adding the value in
19:42
the way that they can absorb
19:45
it. So we're going to talk a lot about that. So
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now these are our experts. Aren't they
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pretty? This is pretty women. This
19:52
is Kelsey. She is your mentor
19:55
for the whole program. So not
19:57
only are you with me every week, but
20:00
in addition to me, you get
20:02
lots of time and
20:05
she is specifically helping people build
20:07
businesses and she is also a coach
20:09
like you could hire her privately for
20:12
a few thousand dollars a month so you get
20:14
access to her and for the
20:16
VIP level she's doing eight calls with you and
20:18
for the gold level she's doing four calls with
20:21
you so you get that. This is
20:23
my friend Tracy who is
20:25
unbelievable she started as a hypnotherapist
20:27
and then went into teaching people
20:29
how to change, go
20:31
back into your psyche and deeply change your
20:33
relationship with money. This is my friend Kate
20:35
Northrup who teaches you something
20:38
phenomenal which is how to make more money by doing
20:40
less. She's an amazing
20:43
human and she'll teach you how to
20:45
like truly change the nervous system. This
20:47
is Bridget who is all
20:49
she does is teach women about money and
20:51
she's a financial planner but she has so
20:53
much to say to you about owning it,
20:56
learning more about money and financial literacy and
20:58
what's the right action to be taking and she
21:00
speaks on stages and has written books and does
21:02
a lot of private strategy work
21:04
with clients. This is my
21:06
friend Amber who also just
21:09
phenomenal human being who loves to
21:11
talk to people about quantum wealth
21:13
and making big shifts in the
21:15
money that you want to make and she that's what
21:18
she coaches on and teaches and she's also a marketing
21:20
and branding coach. Lauren
21:22
who goes by Career
21:25
Contessa is here to help you guys
21:27
just elevate on the career path
21:29
whether you want to charge more whether
21:31
you want to do better networking on
21:33
LinkedIn. She has a whole training on
21:35
that. She has a lot of resources
21:38
on how to advance your career. This
21:40
is Reese Evans who studied
21:43
NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programming and
21:45
really works with people on manifestation
21:47
and abundance and helps people
21:50
in that way. This is Jacqueline Snyder
21:52
who's amazing at helping people
21:54
start businesses and grow businesses. She has
21:56
a podcast called Product Boss. is
22:00
an amazing coach for entrepreneurs. My
22:02
friend Alexandra Cole is sort of an
22:04
expert in human design and I
22:07
think human design is really fascinating
22:09
and it helps you understand for you what
22:11
are some of the sort of places
22:14
where you might get caught and what are
22:16
the specific things that you might need to
22:19
do on your journey depending
22:21
on your personality, depending on your chart, depending
22:23
on it's just really fascinating. Samantha
22:25
you guys met the other day, she has
22:27
a multi-million dollar business teaching
22:29
breath work, she has her own app, she facilitates
22:32
retreats, she's just an amazing person and she'll be
22:34
with us not only to talk about building
22:36
the business from a spiritual place but
22:39
also she'll do breath work with you.
22:41
Hillary you guys met, she's a
22:44
financial planner, she has a net
22:46
worth that's like multiple eight figures
22:48
and she helps women to understand
22:50
how to make the right investments, how to
22:52
understand their money and how to heal the relationship
22:54
with money and then my friend Kelly Roach who
22:57
teaches business and she will be with us to
22:59
get used to that next level. Like I don't
23:01
know anyone who does it quite
23:04
the way she does but she has
23:06
an amazing amount of knowledge to share. Then
23:09
these are the actual
23:12
topics so we are together for 12
23:14
weeks so starting
23:16
Monday we're talking about self-worth, we're talking about
23:18
what is the mechanism so I'm going to
23:20
be not just talking to you
23:23
on every call we're going to be doing it
23:25
right so there's a meditation practice, there's sort of
23:27
a process and I'll teach you how to do
23:29
this on every call and you'll start to do
23:31
it every day without me. You'll have like your
23:34
three minute, 90 second little things that you can
23:36
do in the morning to help you
23:38
to just turn on and tap in and
23:40
then we'll be talking about okay so how
23:42
are we allowing for more of that net
23:44
worth to show up. We're
23:47
going to have a breath work session, we're going
23:49
to talk about getting to center, what does
23:51
that mean? We're going to start to understand
23:53
how to stop living in the blizzard of
23:55
the mind, how to truly for once and
23:57
for all like move out of that and
23:59
move into center. Then we're
24:01
going to have Kate Northrup come on and
24:03
she's going to talk about your nervous system
24:05
and how it's actually not about doing with
24:08
this sort of hustle culture. It's more
24:10
about coming from these deep downloads and
24:12
by, you know, she said something
24:14
so brilliant, which is if anyone's ever
24:16
worked the land, planted anything, you know that
24:18
you don't harvest every day. Because if
24:20
you want to get the best out
24:23
of the crop, you let it compound
24:26
and compost and deepen. And
24:29
we live in a culture that says you need
24:31
something impressive to post every single day on Instagram.
24:33
But the truth is that
24:35
if you stop being a part
24:37
of the race that everybody's in
24:40
and you actually go your own way, you'll
24:42
realize that by going deep and
24:45
finding what's inside and allowing it
24:47
to sort of simmer and
24:49
working from that aligned place, you don't have to
24:52
do as much because the
24:54
being is so palpable
24:56
that when you do take
24:59
action, it's so
25:01
much more impactful. We're
25:04
going to have Bridgette come on. You can read
25:06
through these talking about financial literacy. Then Amber is
25:08
going to come on and talk about growing and
25:10
marketing and branding. And we're going to talk
25:12
about for those of you on that nine to five path or
25:14
even for those who want to understand
25:16
networking from a LinkedIn perspective, we're going
25:19
to talk about that. We're going to talk
25:21
about how to get into practicing manifestation. That's when Reese is
25:23
going to come in. We're
25:25
going to have Hillary come back and talk about
25:27
what it means to consciously spend money and make
25:29
money. We're going to talk about how do you
25:31
deal with the dip, right? When you hit the
25:33
dip, what are your tools? We're going
25:35
to have so much conversation. I
25:37
want to get through these slides because there's a lot
25:39
of them. And then we're going to have
25:42
a whole part of the class where
25:44
for weeks, week after week, together
25:47
there is very specific action that you're
25:49
taking. And together as a community, it's
25:52
easier than doing it on your own, right? Because you have
25:54
the support of one another and we're saying, okay, guys,
25:57
today this is your homework assignment.
26:00
But we want you to post this,
26:02
share this, make this call, put
26:04
this out there. And I think you'll see that that's
26:06
a really powerful experience to go through with other people.
26:09
But we've seen that this is one of the most
26:12
important pieces because we can just talk and talk
26:14
and talk. But there's something about
26:16
being in a group and everyone
26:18
together jumps off the diving board. It
26:21
gives you the courage to do it. And you
26:23
realize, oh my God, it wasn't that scary. And
26:25
you celebrate with each other and you learn from
26:27
each other. And we have that in the program.
26:31
And then towards the end, you start
26:33
to feel what it feels like to
26:36
do something now for somebody else. And
26:38
you might buy groceries for the
26:41
person behind you in line. You might buy the
26:43
Starbucks for someone behind you. You might give a
26:45
little bit to a charity. You might post something
26:47
for someone else. You might start to give a
26:50
testimonial or referral or give a shout out
26:52
or a follow Friday on your Instagram to
26:54
someone else in the group. And that starts
26:56
to do is it really awakens
26:59
in you how much power you have when
27:01
you actually just start to give and think
27:03
about other people, other people's lives, other people's
27:05
businesses. And we're going to see how that
27:07
starts to change what's going on for you
27:10
because what we give comes
27:13
back a thousandfold. And we
27:15
talked about that with the Rachel Plattin story. These
27:17
are the actual calls on the gold level.
27:19
So you can see, you can count them.
27:22
There's 12, right? With me. So
27:24
these are calls February 5th, 12th, 1926, March 4th, 11th, 18th, 25th, April
27:27
1st, 8th, 15th,
27:30
and 22nd. And all of my calls are
27:33
about 90 minutes to maybe a little
27:36
bit longer. And I'll be live
27:38
with you, right? And
27:40
then some of those calls we will have an expert
27:42
come in maybe 30, 45 minutes in. You
27:45
also get four implementation calls in
27:48
addition with Kelsey to really
27:50
help you implement the things that
27:52
we're learning. February 15th, 29th, 14th, and
27:54
28th of March. And
27:57
then on the VIP level, you get everything in the
27:59
gold level. Plus, there's four VIP
28:01
exclusive mastermind sessions with me on
28:03
certain Wednesdays. And then there's eight
28:06
VIP calls with Kelsey for you to really
28:08
sit together and ask those
28:11
questions. And I think it's
28:13
just different, right? On the VIP level, slightly
28:16
different questions. So you can go a
28:18
little bit more inside baseball. And
28:20
then there's gonna be other exclusive calls with
28:22
me and some experts. And then there's Voxer
28:24
Days. Voxer is a free app that
28:27
those of you in VIP will get access to
28:29
me on Voxer. And we will do a
28:31
few days where you will be
28:33
able to hear my voice, and you'll be
28:35
chatting with me. And on those days, there'll
28:37
be several hours where I'm just sort of
28:40
there live. And we'll do some
28:42
meditations, and I'll give you some problems. And we'll go back
28:44
and forth. And it's just a nice experience we found
28:46
that people really enjoy. The difference
28:48
between gold and VIP is where you're at, right?
28:50
And you kind of know your level of
28:52
where you're ready to sort of grow and
28:55
stretch. Stretch. So
28:57
the gold level is for you if you're
28:59
just ready for this next frontier. And the
29:02
VIP level is either you're already alumni of
29:04
ours or you've already
29:06
been down this path. And you have some,
29:09
the water's already simmering, right? There's something going
29:11
on in your business. There's some traction going
29:13
on. And you're like, I need to like
29:16
quantum leap to the next level. I need to level up at
29:18
this point. Then the VIP is
29:20
a great place for you. So
29:22
there is a whole community, right? Not
29:24
only are these sessions live with me,
29:26
week after week, and they're
29:29
happening on Zoom. And people get
29:31
to unmute. I do a lot of coaching in
29:33
the groups. But there's also, obviously we
29:36
will send you the replays if you miss it.
29:38
And then everybody's in a private student community.
29:40
If that feels supportive for you, that is
29:43
a Facebook community as well. And then
29:45
we put you guys, we select and put you
29:47
guys in pods. And we sort
29:50
of give you a way of understanding
29:52
how best to use the time
29:54
together, how to hold space for each other
29:57
and keep each other accountable. And you kind of go
29:59
through this little. practice every time you
30:01
get on a Zoom call with your pod. It's like, where
30:03
are you at with the homework? Where are you getting
30:05
stuck? And you have a group of people there who
30:07
are helping you, in addition, to me
30:10
and to Kelsey and to everything else.
30:13
We also have these bonuses that come
30:16
with the program. There's a bonus in
30:18
the middle here. It says made for
30:20
millions. This was a program that we sold
30:22
for $2,000, which we just added
30:24
so that you get it. These are
30:26
amazing sessions with women who are
30:28
millionaires, who are talking about impact,
30:32
money, success. It's Amy Purdy, it's
30:34
Martha Beck, it's Janet Kutcher, it's
30:36
Candice Nelson. There's so many
30:38
of them. There's actually 20 of these, and
30:40
it was a fabulous program. There's
30:43
other, obviously, bonuses as well, but I wanted
30:45
to call that out. So here's a picture of
30:47
some of the girls that you will be learning from
30:49
in that bonus made for millions, and you'll just love
30:51
that. You'll sit back and feel like that alone is
30:54
worth the cost of admission. And
30:56
then we have a surprise, which is
30:58
whoever enrolls, and obviously enrollment closes tomorrow,
31:00
we're gonna choose four of you randomly to
31:03
give you a spot at
31:05
our next retreat. This
31:07
is what our retreats look like. We've done
31:09
so many gorgeous retreats in
31:11
Malibu. We've done retreats in South
31:14
Florida. We just have an amazing
31:16
time, and there is so
31:18
much transformation that takes place at those
31:20
retreats. If anyone's been to a retreat, you could talk about it
31:22
in the chat if you enjoyed the experience. They're
31:24
quite amazing. And then
31:26
we have a new surprise, which is that our
31:30
guest experts were so generous
31:32
and basically gave, each of
31:34
them pretty much, gave us
31:36
a teaching, a class, a
31:38
bonus, a experience for you.
31:41
And so we've bundled all that together, and
31:43
so you will get a
31:45
piece of their wisdom in addition to
31:47
having them come in. So Career
31:50
Contessa has a 21-day experience
31:52
for you guys. Amber
31:54
has something called Master Your Money Mine.
31:56
Kate has her money breakthrough guide. There
31:59
are just so many. things that they just
32:01
decided to give. S.
32:03
Mathis Kelly has a 21-day facilitator
32:05
journey, which is amazing. So
32:07
many of our students have gone on to be
32:10
a part of her facilitator
32:12
training because they
32:15
want to add that to their life of
32:17
skills, like teaching and running breathwork sessions.
32:19
And it's been amazing. So
32:21
ultimately, though, you're in it
32:24
for this, honestly. Like ultimately, you're in
32:26
it to feel really good, and you're
32:28
in it to live at a
32:30
different frequency and to start allowing
32:32
it to be easy and letting
32:35
yourself just have more synchronicity and
32:37
abundance in what you feel
32:39
moment by moment, the wholeness, the
32:41
sweetness. I love when people tell
32:43
me, I joined the program and you won't believe
32:46
what just happened. You won't believe the things that
32:48
have come into my life. I'm like, yeah, I'm
32:50
not surprised. So it's
32:52
all about that higher self. It's
32:54
all about that higher love. It's all about
32:56
a paradigm shift, truly changing
32:59
the whole paradigm, completely
33:01
swiping left on the screen and
33:03
entering a whole new screen, a
33:05
whole new reality, because you see
33:08
the world differently, you feel differently,
33:10
and therefore the world perceives you differently.
33:13
And I did want to share because I think
33:15
that a lot of times, everything
33:17
comes down to integrity, right? Everything
33:20
comes down to integrity. People can write
33:22
things on websites, but I truly
33:24
am in this because I see
33:28
the value in it, and I want you to
33:30
hear me say, my
33:32
pledge is that I'm going to show up and
33:34
do my part, which
33:36
is to continuously hold for you a
33:39
greater vision so that
33:41
you can see further than you saw and
33:43
you feel what's inside of you, and
33:45
I keep bringing you back to yourself, right?
33:48
All the answers are not in me and
33:50
they're not in your head. They're right here
33:52
in your heart. There's a connection you have
33:55
to such wisdom, and you can
33:57
start to open up, right, and feel.
34:00
much more power is in your hands
34:02
and how much more you can impact the world. And
34:04
so I'm going to be consistently there to do
34:06
that. And if you are most
34:08
successful students, are the students
34:11
that show up and receive from
34:13
it. And when
34:15
you show up, it
34:17
starts to change, it starts to work. So
34:20
now I'm done showing you my beautiful slides.
34:22
I'm going to stop that. And
34:25
if anybody has questions,
34:28
put them in the chat and we'll answer questions.
34:30
And tomorrow we'll come back and do like full
34:32
on coaching and I will, and
34:34
meet people and all of that. But
34:37
I am here to answer any questions.
34:39
And I hope that that was helpful
34:41
so that you've got a little
34:43
tour of what actually happens inside the program.
34:46
Does anyone have any questions? And if
34:48
Eski or Barb want to share anything
34:50
that you think needs to be highlighted,
34:53
go ahead. Sorry, I'm still reading through
34:55
questions. People have live. So give me one second.
34:57
No, you're doing great. She's doing
34:59
great. Isn't she? Can we give it up for the
35:02
dancing, the videos? I
35:04
told you guys a few days ago, I don't even
35:06
know what day of the launch that the workshop it
35:09
was, but I mentioned to you
35:11
that when I first moved to LA and I was
35:13
making very little money, I would
35:15
take a little, not a
35:17
little bit, but a decent amount of it. And
35:19
I would go to the peninsula hotel and my
35:21
friends would say, that's so irresponsible. I can't believe you
35:23
spend money like that. And I'm like, I
35:26
can't believe you don't. Like they were like, you can't
35:28
afford to do it. I'm like, you can't afford not
35:30
to because we are
35:32
conditioned to believe that there is a lid
35:36
and there's a ceiling. When
35:38
you start to see further, all
35:41
of a sudden there's more for you to
35:43
play with, to receive. And
35:48
I'm so sick of women not feeling like they can treat themselves
35:50
truly. And
35:55
so, you know, part of it is,
35:57
and I mentioned this to you in passing, in my
35:59
mom. is such a good sport and she's
36:01
been watching the workshop and I'm so proud
36:03
of her because she's like, it's never too
36:05
late to start meditation and she's really, she's
36:07
starting to like feel that for
36:10
herself. But I mentioned in passing
36:12
that, you know, when my dad, when
36:14
my dad left, my mom was very, very
36:16
depressed and she didn't want to be
36:18
here anymore. And I don't want to go into too
36:20
much of that because it's a very sad, dark
36:23
energy. But I
36:25
guess what I want to tell you is there was
36:27
a part of my life and if you want to
36:29
hear the story, if you listen to
36:31
Emily Fletcher's podcast, I told the story
36:33
in detail at the end, but it's
36:35
actually about my sister and how there
36:38
was a period of my life when I
36:40
was about 15 where I was
36:43
dealing with a lot of serious, serious
36:46
trauma at home. And I
36:49
just wasn't sure if it was worth it. And
36:52
my sister was like, you jump, I jump, so you
36:54
better stick it out. And I say
36:57
that because I think
36:59
sometimes the worst
37:01
things that happen for us wind
37:04
up being the best things. I
37:06
guess it's how we receive them. But
37:08
I say that because when I moved to
37:11
Los Angeles, I had a very different perspective
37:13
than my friends. Like my friends who went
37:15
to like four-year colleges that their parents paid
37:17
for, like that wasn't my life. I
37:20
really felt in many, many ways.
37:22
And if you knew the story, my mom
37:25
even says she's like, when your
37:27
dad walked out and I was in my
37:29
own mess, she's like, I used to
37:32
like pray to God that someone would just make sure
37:34
you were okay because I knew I couldn't take care
37:36
of you or be there for you. And I
37:38
was really on my own emotionally,
37:40
financially, spiritually for a long time.
37:42
So when I came
37:44
out here to Los Angeles and
37:47
my friends were like kind of
37:49
in their little bubble
37:51
of, here's what I do
37:53
and here's what my parents want
37:55
me to do and I'm gonna get this
37:57
job. I was coming back. from
38:00
a different place, which was I was
38:02
looking at my parents at that point
38:05
and seeing their lives
38:09
unravel was such a
38:11
hard thing and also such a blessing
38:13
because what I
38:16
realized was, oh,
38:18
that's a cautionary tale. And
38:21
the late Sir Ken Robinson,
38:23
who is unbelievable, I don't know if any
38:25
of you know him, but he
38:27
used to speak about creativity and
38:30
education and the way
38:32
that schools rob
38:34
children of their genius
38:36
by teaching them not how
38:38
to think but what to think.
38:41
And he said that at
38:43
a certain point, people are about 45
38:45
years old and they're walking
38:47
from the car to the office and
38:50
they say to themselves, is this all there is? I don't
38:52
get it. I did everything I was
38:54
told. I got the job. I got the 401k.
38:56
Why am I deeply unfulfilled?
39:01
I saw
39:03
so many adults when I was growing up
39:05
who were, oh, unhappy, like
39:08
very unfulfilled careers, very
39:10
unhappy in their marriages. And I was like,
39:13
wait, so you go through all this to
39:15
grow up to do that? Like,
39:17
I don't want to do that. And so
39:19
while my friends were like, you can't afford to do that, I
39:22
was like, you guys, you
39:24
can't afford not to do this. Go
39:26
live your life. And my mom, by the
39:28
way, just to give her another shout out, when
39:31
my mom was in high school, she
39:34
was like, literally considered like
39:36
the most talented girl and in
39:38
her senior yearbook, she was chosen
39:40
as like, most talented,
39:43
most witty, she was the lead in every
39:45
play, you know, I'll see you on Broadway.
39:47
And I tell this story that she
39:50
used to tell to me, which is that this
39:52
woman who was my mom's understudy in
39:54
high school, like my mom would get the
39:56
lead and this woman would be in the
39:58
chorus, this woman And when
40:01
they graduated from high school, it was like telling
40:03
my mom, like let's go audition for Broadway. And
40:05
my mom had a belief which was, oh, that's
40:08
not an option. I either get to have a
40:10
career or be a mother. She
40:12
didn't realize, cause she wasn't modeled
40:14
this way, that you could have
40:16
a dream and be a mom and
40:19
have a dream and be a mom. So she
40:21
gave up her dream and she got married to
40:23
a guy who was pretty abusive.
40:26
And she gave up everything because
40:28
she thought that's what she had to do.
40:31
That girl who was my mom's
40:33
understudy, went on to audition
40:35
for a Broadway show called Little Shop of
40:37
Horrors. She got the lead and then they
40:39
made it into a movie and she got
40:42
the lead. So if you've seen Little Shop,
40:44
Ellen Greene who played this role was
40:47
in the chorus and my mom was the
40:49
lead in high school. So
40:52
my mom would be like, oh my God, I knew her. And
40:54
like she was in the chorus and look at me. And
40:57
I used to cry on behalf
40:59
of my mom that
41:01
my mom deeply felt
41:04
the gifts that she was given dying
41:08
inside of her because they were
41:10
collecting dust. And so
41:12
for me, when all of
41:14
my friends were like, I'm gonna go get an MBA.
41:16
I'm like, do you really want to? Well, not really,
41:18
but that's what I'm gonna do cause it's logical. It's
41:20
like, life isn't about that. It's
41:23
about you showing up for the assignment
41:25
called being you. And
41:27
it's so fascinating because all
41:30
of the people I moved out to LA with who
41:32
I knew in my 20s, like I'm
41:34
not saying this to shoot my own horn. I'm just telling you
41:36
a fact. Like I am so much
41:38
more successful than all of those people who did all
41:40
the things that they didn't want to do that they
41:42
thought would lead to results. Like, oh
41:45
my God, no, we are so married to the
41:47
idea that life has to be hard and we
41:49
have to sacrifice. It's like, in the
41:51
Talmud, there's a passage that says that the first
41:53
question you're asked when you get to heaven is
41:57
to answer for every beautiful thing that
41:59
you denied yourself. I think that's
42:01
just an amazing thing that that even
42:03
exists that that thought even exists that
42:05
that we're actually here to take Art
42:07
and go on the hikes and enjoy
42:09
the Sun sets and have the best
42:12
Relationships and like stop this
42:15
denial for ourselves If
42:17
my mom was not designed to
42:19
do the things that her fart was saying she
42:21
wouldn't have those gifts, right? There's a scene in
42:24
chariots of fire Where his
42:26
dad wants him to go on this missionary
42:28
trip to China. I think that's what it is
42:30
and He's so
42:32
afraid of disappointing his father because he wants
42:35
to be in the Olympics and he wants to
42:37
be a runner and at one point He goes
42:39
to his dad and he goes I can't go on the
42:41
trip with you and his dad gets upset and he says
42:43
dad if God didn't
42:45
want me to do this. Why did he make me
42:47
so fast? Like why did he
42:49
make me run so fast and it's
42:51
an amazing moment because it's like if
42:54
you're not supposed To have this
42:56
life that you keep thinking about then. Why do you
42:58
keep thinking about it? Why is it
43:00
inside of you? Why are you good at certain
43:02
things? Why do you have a knack for understanding
43:05
music or technology or why do you love cooking
43:07
so much? Or because you're supposed to make it
43:09
better and be in your genius and study it
43:11
and understand it and put yourself all into it
43:14
so for me It's
43:17
like There's no question.
43:19
You always know what your alignment is
43:22
It's about having the courage to choose it So
43:25
in this moment, you know what your alignment is. You
43:27
just have the courage to choose it so at
43:30
the end of the day, I feel like
43:32
what is bottled up inside of
43:34
working with me is somehow
43:38
some way This thing
43:40
called the courage to show up
43:42
and choose your alignment. It
43:45
just takes place and to
43:47
me that's worth everything and I Guess
43:50
because of the the journey that I went on
43:52
and watching my mom deal with her
43:55
depression It became a
43:57
moral obligation for me to
44:00
remind people not to
44:02
waste their time standing on
44:05
the sidelines of their life. Get in
44:07
the game. And you know, you can
44:09
handle it. Like everything that's telling
44:11
you not to do something because you're
44:13
scared, you've been through
44:16
way harder things than that.
44:19
Way harder. Like the girls who are mean in
44:21
seventh grade, harder. The
44:23
breakup you went through, harder. The
44:26
miscarriage you had, way harder. Meanwhile,
44:28
this is your life. Who
44:31
else's life is it? You gotta choose
44:33
your courage and your alignment. And
44:36
so a lot of times people get to the end of these
44:38
workshops and they're like, I really want to
44:40
do this, but I'm so afraid. I'm like, make
44:42
yourself a commitment that it will be a forcing
44:44
function. If the only thing standing between you and
44:46
this program is $297 a month, show
44:50
yourself that you can be resourceful. And you're
44:52
like, this is going to force me because
44:54
I'm not important and I'm worth it that much.
44:56
And if this turns you on, you're
44:59
going to make that a reality for yourself and
45:01
just tell yourself, of course, I'm going to figure
45:03
that out. I'm going to make that happen. And
45:06
if I'm not your person, and I say that not
45:08
to be fake, like find the person who
45:10
is. But honestly, anything I've
45:12
ever wanted to learn, if it was
45:14
business, I found a mentor. If it
45:16
was piano, I got a teacher, right?
45:18
My mom actually, we had no money
45:21
and she would pay $85
45:23
for me to learn from this guy who
45:25
was a concert pianist because it mattered so
45:27
much to her that I learned piano from
45:30
someone at that level. And you know what?
45:33
Look what I wound up doing with that. You
45:35
know, every song that I wound up writing,
45:37
I'm way made back that money, but we
45:39
didn't know, but she invested in it. And
45:42
it's not about even becoming a concert
45:44
pianist. It's when you're around people who
45:46
make you greater, how that winds up
45:49
playing a role in your life later on,
45:51
it pays in different dividends, but choose the
45:53
right mentor. Choose it. Find
45:56
Somebody else. If it's not me, but don't sit
45:58
it out and think that on your. Oh
46:00
boy, you're gonna be able to use yet.
46:02
Veronica said this to me. Actually, My team
46:04
member. She's like. You
46:06
can't read your a label. From
46:09
within your own jar you. Gonna need a
46:11
trainer? You're gonna need a percent. Right
46:13
when I it's after I am. Started the
46:15
music I was writing music and I when I started
46:17
my first music course I want to write have a
46:19
great of course you know what I did. I
46:22
went to any Porterville that I took her
46:24
class on how to create a course. And.
46:27
Not course, wound up making
46:29
two million dollars. In the first
46:31
year. Because. I wasn't just
46:33
gonna leave d I y it. right?
46:36
Like. If you ask about anything
46:38
and might with my podcast right
46:40
I found myself a mentor. To.
46:42
Mistreat, I was like I'm going to need your help.
46:45
As like whatever is going to cost, Let's
46:47
go on for the first eight episodes season
46:49
with Me. And I am so
46:51
grateful because I was ready to give out. I
46:54
had a question at one point I said to him.
46:57
And like over three episodes and I think I don't have
46:59
anything else to say. He goes on minutes
47:01
each is something that will allow you to do a
47:03
thousand episodes and you'll never run out of what to
47:05
say. I go, go for it. He.
47:07
Said. Every time you do
47:10
a podcast. I want you to think
47:12
about the pain point of the list or. Even.
47:14
If you're one listener, what's in pain points? And.
47:16
We talked about it. And I said
47:19
i think that my list or wants to
47:21
sell that and wants to understand. How
47:23
to overcome their imposter syndrome and had
47:25
a reads for what's gonna like? Break
47:27
them free and allow them to have
47:29
that fulfillment. He goes great. So now
47:32
you can do an incident on an
47:34
episode and every one you interview you
47:36
have that same conversation and will never
47:38
go. Now that
47:40
was worth every saying because see
47:42
our perception or believe is. What
47:44
determines our accent? I thought
47:46
I had to keep saying new things on every show
47:48
and three episodes in a like Tim I don't think
47:50
I can do a because I've nothing else to say
47:53
like a thought about. yeah isn't about that You have
47:55
to say. And. Adam Grant
47:57
said something to me. He said. You.
47:59
don't have to say something new, you
48:02
just have to say something true. He
48:04
said there is no shortage, there's no
48:06
end to how often people need to
48:08
hear the same thing over
48:10
and over and over. How many times do we need to
48:12
hear drink water? How many times do you need to hear
48:15
be mindful? There's never an end.
48:17
He said as long as it's true, you can say
48:19
it over and over again. I
48:22
am telling you that when you work
48:24
with a mentor, you compress decades into
48:26
days. So find one. It
48:28
doesn't have to be me. I have tons
48:31
of friends who some of them are
48:33
in the slideshow. There's incredible
48:35
wisdom out there. But
48:38
really think to yourself, if I don't spend the
48:40
money with a mentor, which you can make that
48:42
decision, what is it costing you? Is
48:44
it costing you another year? Is it costing you
48:46
the whole thing? Is it costing you more money
48:48
because you took four other little things
48:50
that you thought were going to get you there, but
48:52
you actually didn't complete them, you didn't implement them? Then
48:55
that's actually expensive. So
48:58
just think about it. Barb,
49:00
do you have any questions that are coming through
49:02
and then I am going to let everybody go.
49:05
I will remind you that tomorrow we're going to give
49:07
away $1,000 and headphones and all you
49:10
have to do is you need to
49:12
review the podcast. The podcast
49:15
reviews help other people find the
49:17
podcast. And so I love the
49:19
reviews because I love seeing new people who've
49:21
never heard this content go, thank
49:23
you, you opened my heart. I love that.
49:26
And we need you to just share one of my reels
49:28
on Instagram and enroll my closest tomorrow.
49:30
I want to see all of you
49:32
say yes to yourself. Get in there. And
49:35
I also want to tell you that the Facebook group
49:38
closes tomorrow. Yes, I have a
49:40
question. Okay, go for it.
49:42
I'm going to lower my hand. All right,
49:44
pods. People are wondering about the pods. Can you
49:46
talk about them just for a minute? Or do
49:48
you want me to share when I think you
49:50
can share? I've shared a lot. I think people
49:53
are just sick of hearing me talk. But get ready.
49:55
We're going to spend a lot of time with me.
49:57
It's fun. I've spent like 44 years. There's
50:00
is pretty cool. I've really grown into a shell
50:02
a good morning lot of time. We.
50:04
Should we humans should show that video that we. Made
50:06
in our sweaters and Florida when it was
50:08
ninety eight degrees. No, please don't sell. And
50:10
actually, but we're like time. We. Don't
50:13
have on hand time. We. Already
50:15
using said rain and his last, The
50:17
Love Letter. Amount of hop. On
50:20
and off Empty cup of coffee.
50:22
Thoughts: And. Pretending do this
50:24
gets from satellite which we assume
50:26
watch together cause we had no.
50:29
Real parenting. So we just. Watched.
50:31
Television when illegally and receivers but
50:33
had silver spoons when family ties
50:35
know that detachable. That's guess because
50:38
we only have bathing suits. On
50:40
and a fluttered his it's like I live only
50:42
I had. With. Israelis and bags
50:44
as easy. Again, I will. I
50:46
weighed like seven pounds. And
50:48
we're noses at a big because of me. Which.
50:51
Is Oh My God you guys! She broke my nose and I
50:53
was twelve. And I'm not at the my
50:55
a violent present. A really not. Always as
50:57
them the yeah me. I. Deserve
50:59
you and I still. Have.
51:01
Our do a bill that ago. I talk
51:03
of unload evil, bad. He. Did. Is
51:05
worse for you, Them for me. Ah
51:08
that. say she's very forgiving
51:10
and Atlanta was an accident.
51:13
Was as severe accident okay was it like
51:15
the mean girls and boys and will remain
51:17
front of of and we we and sibling
51:19
rivalry with Kate Hudson and I'll or as
51:21
an hour them have been on a loves
51:24
eyes so detail so I'm. Gonna put
51:26
I may accountability advocate. Hydrant
51:28
now and I'm gonna talk to the person is
51:30
on here who's like if ominous sign up for
51:32
this our my money's worth. I
51:34
am that person. I'm different than Kathy.
51:36
I'm the Taipei older sister. That.
51:39
Sees The Millionaire. But anyway, seriously,
51:41
think about it. I wanna
51:43
get everything. Out of it's I'm Zoc of Youth
51:45
is your ally. Do. You. Wanna
51:47
show up for your pods when we put you in
51:49
there? And by the way and only it's hit with
51:51
a couple weeks so we get to know you a
51:53
little bit. but Israel pod. You. May not
51:55
like it at first. Because it's. We are sensitive
51:58
people so we want to make sure the. Yeah,
52:00
I that works. Real woman is applied. It's
52:02
basically between. I've seen them with. Two people.
52:04
I've seen it with eighty both as in the with
52:06
ten people and southern of them if. You're one
52:09
of the Superbowl Nsl. In the
52:11
comments that you're still meeting after
52:13
like three years as a so
52:15
this is your Girl Scout. Troop.
52:18
This. Is the the trip that you go to
52:20
when you're like oh my God did use your
52:22
ally? Recap: Is it A Did you understand this
52:24
part of I a loss for I really get
52:26
this and here's how I'm doing in a my
52:28
business you white to. Huddle. With
52:31
those people at least once a week for
52:33
this whole wheat and the navy longer. Okay
52:35
so that's pods and if you don't like
52:37
the group the are in, guess it. You
52:39
have agency over that you can email less. On the
52:42
third of were as we can be like i don't like
52:44
this group or. I like it but I want something
52:46
that's one of my time zone. Curse of of you are
52:48
spread out a little bit. We will help you with that.
52:50
This email us let us know. If
52:52
you're gonna do Vip and I highly. Highly.
52:55
Recommend Vip for people who are sure
52:57
about what they're already doing. This on
52:59
a scale, their business. You don't have to
53:01
be a millionaire to. The and and I got
53:03
three of laws as as I'm not making
53:05
seven figures so it's such thought that seen
53:07
it. Yet. But.
53:10
If you want to be. And
53:12
there's something about either saying I want
53:14
more accountability. I want more I don't wanna do.
53:17
Just that I want us isn't smaller group the
53:19
closer the A Vip is that if you're certain
53:21
about what you're doing and you're already so you
53:23
make a little money at it or your he
53:25
started a you fail the little bit you want
53:27
a niche down a little bit and get clearer
53:29
that's a Vip. As for it, but it's
53:31
are people who are certain that they know
53:34
what they wanna do with it, and that
53:36
group is an extra pod for you. Like
53:38
minded entrepreneurs who might be do a
53:40
little butter the new? That's okay. And
53:43
you're gonna learn from each other. And I wanna
53:45
tell the fairly quick. As I tell all the time. There.
53:48
Was somebody wanted us and of. Her Vip the first time
53:50
we offered it. And. We we didn't know
53:52
what have as many as one of the kathy's
53:54
like brain and child things and were like oh
53:56
that sounds so cool cause it can it be
53:59
done her business So. off and
54:01
somebody called me after the first voxer day
54:03
and she said to me I still have
54:05
an MIT answer She's like Barb if
54:09
this first voxer day was
54:11
all I got with VIP It was
54:13
completely worth the entire single payment. I
54:15
just made I'm dropping that because
54:17
I don't make things up I wish I could I'm
54:20
a good actor, but I'm a terrible liar.
54:22
I asked my sister. I'm not coot Okay,
54:24
I can't not tell the truth that
54:27
is something she actually said and I never
54:29
forgot that So if you're thinking
54:31
about VIP gate, just go for it. It's really worth
54:33
it. Okay, some of you are
54:35
mentioning Overwhelm overwhelm Kathy's giving me
54:37
two much. What if I can't
54:39
keep up? Okay if you feel
54:41
like you can't keep up try because
54:45
We have someone who was in the program
54:47
the VIP program a couple of years ago or a
54:49
year and a half ago and she said She
54:52
only used like 20% of
54:55
the VIP program and she said
54:57
I'm still working through Some
54:59
of the curriculum and guess what I got
55:01
my money's worth within the first month and I
55:04
didn't have to be there for all Of it.
55:06
It's just a suggestion Would I the type a
55:08
kind of person show up for every meeting every
55:10
live be there with bells on Do a meditation
55:12
before and after writing my journal and get all
55:14
the good stuff out of it Yes, I would
55:16
and when I show up for my pot it'd
55:18
be the leader of it and email everybody be like you better
55:20
be there It's MBL on yes, I would
55:22
but you might not be like Barb. You might be more
55:24
like how do you like? Coming as
55:26
a lot. That's gonna come later. I'm gonna
55:29
make sure my puffy's ready pat
55:31
my cat Leave to go
55:33
to the bathroom for 20 minutes. Check my
55:35
phone come back for the live You might
55:37
be a Kathy person and that's okay, too.
55:39
Just hear me hear me. Listen to
55:41
me You're one of those
55:43
people that's like but I can't come to the
55:46
whole life. They work nine to seven Come
55:48
to part of it have to ten minutes of it
55:50
and I and then you're saying but how will I know what
55:53
ten minutes? That is I don't care what ten
55:55
minutes is but you know if you're sitting
55:57
here on this right now There's something about
55:59
being here In his energy that
56:01
makes you in, live in and. And.
56:03
It's the only program that I've
56:05
seen so far that does it
56:08
this off then and holds you
56:10
accountable. If the sorry as only to preacher. Ellison
56:12
a cane a lot the the band really
56:15
into the. House. So. Solicitor
56:18
get offered up. His
56:20
even sledding. Men: Upon no
56:22
not yet. We have guns so an
56:24
overlapping so if you show up. For.
56:27
Even ten to fifteen minutes of every
56:29
live and made you promised me. He
56:32
I promise me now that you will watch
56:34
the replay with. In two days of
56:36
a being posted. Guess. What
56:38
We've found that those people who make sure to
56:40
watch the put in their down and blow ups
56:42
of bull reply. Within. Two days
56:45
I'm gonna set to the full life. And.
56:47
Then they post one thing a week in the
56:49
facebook. Group just one and then. Do.
56:51
A little commenting and supporting. Other people of
56:53
is the group I know the don't like facebook
56:56
scientists join it to service. And then they
56:58
shop for their pod. Guess what? Major.
57:00
Transformation that's a little bit. But as
57:02
you tell me, why pay the money?
57:05
And. And i went to one live and then
57:07
i got really busy and the my girlfriend had a
57:09
heart attack and i was really no brainer soup others
57:11
as. If. You do that. The.
57:13
Program this. paying the money is not gonna do
57:15
anything. You have to promise me you're going to
57:17
show up for at least. Part of it you
57:20
when you present when do the cathy i fear
57:22
of an unrelated segments of it grew back by
57:24
you into the barber you there every second. Either
57:27
way, he does have some. You're going admit I was.
57:29
It with my notes. the. Maze
57:31
and. So then
57:33
money informative, And. Even a five
57:36
on the of. Mosaic. And as a say
57:38
I was gonna say that. Lives. Gilbert
57:40
has a. I think it
57:42
was gilbert. Village. People either say when
57:44
lives gelber. Nelson Mandela people attribute
57:47
everything. Just people. Anyway,
57:49
I think it's hard that says that. we.
57:52
Start. To see scenes in our
57:54
life. When we finally get
57:57
sick of our and bulls. And I
57:59
feel. there comes
58:01
a point where we start
58:03
to get radically honest and we're like,
58:05
okay, it's not enough
58:08
to just keep burying my head in
58:10
the sand. Like I deserve better. And I
58:12
want to live that
58:15
life now. Not next week,
58:17
not next year. And a lot of
58:19
times you heard me say this yesterday, people will
58:21
look me straight in the face and tell me
58:23
they will argue for their limitations like they
58:25
are like an attorney. And they'll tell
58:28
me I don't have time. I don't have
58:30
this. And I'm like, I said
58:32
this yesterday. I'm like, give me your phone. How
58:34
much time are you just scrolling, looking for
58:37
what? What are you looking for? And
58:39
honestly, when they do the research to see why
58:41
people scroll, it's like we have a little craving.
58:43
We're looking for something. We're looking to be entertained.
58:45
We're looking to be fulfilled. We're looking for inspiration.
58:48
All of that is in you showing up.
58:50
You want to get really inspired? Step
58:53
in. You want your
58:55
brain to not focus on like crazy
58:58
limited stories it tells you.
59:01
Give it a cooler thing to focus on, which
59:03
is asking a better question. How am I going
59:05
to grow this business? I'm
59:08
going to spend money on this program. My new question
59:10
I'm asking my brain is, how am
59:12
I going to make that money in the three months? Oh,
59:15
what's the next question? What
59:18
courage do I need? What's the
59:20
next question? What clues are around? Kathy
59:22
says there's clues everywhere. What am
59:24
I picking up from every single session that
59:26
I'm going to go implement? How is that
59:28
going to spark inside of me a feeling
59:31
of courage? You know that feeling when you do
59:33
something you're scared to do and you get off
59:35
the stage after you speak or you go on
59:37
the roller coaster, you can take
59:39
that to the bank, right? We went
59:42
to Disney World. We went to Disney
59:44
World and my daughter finally went
59:46
on Thunder Mountain and she was scared and
59:48
she deliberated and she was like, oh, there's not going to go. The
59:51
feeling she felt and the
59:53
look in her eyes when she got off that roller
59:55
coaster, what was that? She was
59:57
proud of herself. Why? She went further. then
1:00:00
she thought she could go. She had a
1:00:02
limit on her courage. She showed herself, I
1:00:05
got that. And there's nothing better.
1:00:07
Like there's no gift I could give her that would
1:00:09
make her feel that good. It's your own
1:00:11
satisfaction of being like, whoa,
1:00:14
I was so afraid to say that to that person. I said
1:00:16
it. I was so afraid to charge that I did. I was
1:00:18
so afraid to post that I did it. And
1:00:21
you know what happens when you start to
1:00:23
do the things that are in your best alignment, you
1:00:26
start to make different kinds of friends. You
1:00:29
start to sit at a different lunch table. All
1:00:31
of my friends, I'm like, oh my God,
1:00:33
the cost of admission to these really amazing friendships
1:00:36
was choosing my alignment. Like
1:00:38
the life that's on the other side
1:00:41
of that exhilaration, it's
1:00:43
just something that can't be matched. So it
1:00:45
doesn't even matter what the ROI is, right? It doesn't
1:00:48
even matter what the results are. It
1:00:50
matters that you show up. And
1:00:53
when you start showing up in that way, you feel
1:00:56
unstoppable, right? If you
1:00:58
watch Rocky or any movie, we're
1:01:01
all seeing ourselves in that character who's told, forget
1:01:03
it, it's not going to work. And there's a
1:01:05
part of each of us that sees ourselves in
1:01:07
that character that says, show yourself,
1:01:11
show yourself and show everybody else.
1:01:14
They underestimated you. And
1:01:16
it doesn't matter if he gets the trinity, right?
1:01:19
They say that when people win an Oscar, they
1:01:22
feel a little depressed the next day because
1:01:26
what they all say is
1:01:28
the win was the journey. There
1:01:30
was nothing in the Oscar. You don't
1:01:32
really want the result. You want
1:01:35
who you become. And so
1:01:37
they've all realized the
1:01:39
win was the day they went
1:01:41
to the audition. The win
1:01:43
was going to work with this
1:01:46
director who they were like intimidated by and
1:01:48
they showed up, forget the Oscar, it doesn't
1:01:50
matter. It doesn't matter at that
1:01:52
point. It matters that they
1:01:54
push through, right?
1:01:56
So there are so many
1:01:59
opportunities for us. and this
1:02:01
is not the only opportunity. There
1:02:03
are so many other places where you
1:02:05
can have that kind of experience. There's other
1:02:08
mentors, there's other retreats, there's other places
1:02:10
for you to go to get to that
1:02:13
next frontier, but this is one of those. And
1:02:15
so if you wanna do this here, you
1:02:17
can get in, we start Monday, and
1:02:19
then you know, okay, this is
1:02:22
my insurance policy that the next three months are
1:02:24
gonna be different. And
1:02:27
I'm gonna call you up from your highest and best self.
1:02:29
So I'm gonna call you up from that place, and
1:02:32
I'm gonna be looking at you from that part
1:02:34
of you that has full potential and
1:02:36
so much strength, and I'm
1:02:38
going to expect that person to sit
1:02:40
in the seat. And you're gonna start to
1:02:42
feel it. And you're gonna start to
1:02:44
say things and do things that you can't
1:02:47
believe that you're doing. And that's how
1:02:49
things start to shift. So we'd love
1:02:51
to see you in there. First class is Monday.
1:02:54
Thank you to my team. Thank you
1:02:56
to everybody for being here. Tomorrow we just coach. If
1:02:58
you want me to coach you, if
1:03:00
you wanna talk to me about how you can't choose
1:03:02
your business, if you want me to talk to you
1:03:04
about your money shit, if you want me to
1:03:06
talk to you about where you're at,
1:03:09
in any of these things that
1:03:11
we've talked about spiritually, your vibration,
1:03:13
meditation, let's go. We're
1:03:16
doing that tomorrow. I'm here, we'll get to
1:03:18
see some people on camera. We'll call you
1:03:20
up. Looking forward to it. And
1:03:22
thank you.
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