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EP. 247: Breaking Up with Booze and Living Your Best Life with Amanda Kuda

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EP. 247: Breaking Up with Booze and Living Your Best Life with Amanda Kuda

EP. 247: Breaking Up with Booze and Living Your Best Life with Amanda Kuda

Wednesday, 27th September 2023
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Welcome to Gaia's Consciousness Podcast,

0:04

expanding your mind and spirit. Learn

0:07

even more at Gaia.com. Watch

0:10

interviews, movies, and original

0:12

series created to empower the evolution

0:15

of consciousness. For more

0:17

information, visit GaiaPodcast.com.

0:20

Your journey begins here.

0:25

Today we're talking about the human riddle. Because

0:28

truly, how can you know what you're capable

0:30

of if you don't even know who and what

0:32

you are? The human

0:35

species is a mystery to us. All

0:38

of our modern science, all of our advancements,

0:40

have led us to the place where we're still not

0:43

agreeing on what consciousness truly is.

0:47

In some ways, the very instrument

0:50

we're using to answer that question is

0:52

consciousness itself, meaning all

0:55

the tools and the technologies that we use

0:57

to answer these questions are technologies

1:00

to peer directly back into ourselves.

1:03

We are the mystery,

1:07

all the way down to the human body and

1:09

the language that it speaks to us with. Yes,

1:12

it does speak to us, and it speaks through

1:14

our human behavior, as well as

1:16

our spirit, which doesn't speak to us directly

1:19

through our body, but really read between

1:21

the lines of all the behaviors that we

1:23

display through our entire lives.

1:27

So let's begin with the body.

1:29

Why is there no manual?

1:31

Why is there no guidebook to tell

1:33

us exactly what this language of the body truly

1:36

means? And I believe it's

1:38

because we are not a commodity or

1:40

some product that comes with some

1:42

kind of owner's manual. We

1:45

are a riddle. We're meant to seek

1:47

the answer to our own existence. Our

1:51

body is always speaking with us.

1:54

We have chemical messengers that are always going

1:57

through our bloodstream. We

1:59

have electromagnetic... impulses going through

2:01

our neurons. We

2:04

have postures that we hold. We

2:06

have behaviors and movements that we

2:08

display. And all of this has very

2:10

valuable information for us. But

2:13

we typically don't listen to it. And we

2:15

outsource what this riddle is. We

2:18

outsource our questions about this language

2:20

to the doctors and the scientists that are out

2:22

there today. And one reason why

2:24

I believe that modern science is missing

2:27

a huge part of this puzzle is

2:29

because they are only looking at the averages,

2:32

the numbers, the measurable spaces of

2:34

what the body is saying. So if you

2:36

go to the doctor and they tell you, you have too

2:38

high of cholesterol or too high

2:41

of blood pressure, what does this really

2:43

mean? What is it saying? Because

2:46

what is normal for me may not

2:48

be normal for you and vice versa. So

2:51

to truly get at the heart of the human riddle,

2:54

we need to go deeper than just

2:56

science. And

2:58

this is why today to answer

3:01

this riddle, we need to bring in the question

3:04

who we are and why we're here.

3:06

So let's hear

3:08

from Neil Kramer in the initiation

3:11

to a mystical life. The

3:14

physical world

3:15

is a phantom,

3:17

a holographic representation of something

3:19

else. Nothing can be taken

3:21

at face value. Nothing can

3:24

be taken as it is. At

3:26

its very core, the essence of life

3:28

is mysterious, mysterious

3:31

by design. The

3:33

mystery is the teacher.

3:36

The mind can be programmed by

3:39

ourselves to encounter the world more accurately,

3:42

more openly. So

3:47

Neil Kramer said that the mystery is

3:49

the teacher. That's very beautiful.

3:52

Because when looking at the body and

3:54

the mystery is that it presents us, just

3:57

the outer form is the beginning

3:59

or

3:59

the

3:59

tip of the iceberg. If you were to open

4:02

up the body and take a look at all the different

4:04

compartments, all the different organs

4:07

and components, all the different cells,

4:10

all the different life forms that are in there, the

4:12

systems that come together in harmony

4:15

so we can have this experience saying this

4:17

is me choosing to be here, making

4:19

these decisions right now. It's

4:21

truly incredible. And

4:25

we also have trillions of bacterial

4:27

and fungal cells inside of our body

4:30

that have DNA that is not human

4:33

but they still influence us, they still speak

4:35

with us, they add to the overall

4:37

language of the body. So

4:39

what do all of these components in our

4:41

body have in common? The

4:44

language of chemistry. Let's

4:47

just take a look at a chemical compound. Chemical

4:50

compounds are many different elements

4:52

bonded together in a configuration.

4:55

And this configuration is much like a

4:57

key. It fits into a receptor

5:00

site that our body is equipped with. These

5:02

receptor sites only allow those chemical

5:04

compounds in and when they

5:06

do, they unlock biological

5:09

processes within us. Now

5:12

let's go even deeper into chemical

5:15

compounds because if you see all the

5:17

little elements that make up that one,

5:19

every one of them has an atomic weight or

5:22

a resonant frequency, meaning

5:24

a pitch or a tone that they hit. But

5:26

since there are many elements, these are many

5:29

tones happening at the same time, structurally

5:32

bound with one another. This to

5:34

me sounds like music inside the body. When

5:38

a symphony or a chord is struck, the

5:40

body changes its composition and

5:42

goes into different modes, if

5:45

you will. But

5:47

what makes the peaceful balance

5:49

of our body go haywire? I

5:53

believe that it's our modern lifestyle and

5:56

the stressors that come with the type of

5:58

society and culture we live in today.

6:01

These stressors are things that our ancestors

6:03

never had to deal with. These

6:06

are stressors like being in the

6:08

car, in traffic, late for work, or

6:10

the fear of losing our job, or not

6:12

having enough money. The

6:15

fear of not being a good enough parent, or lover,

6:17

or human being.

6:20

These are simply perceptions. They're

6:22

not real threats, but

6:24

our body still responds in that way. So let's go deeper.

6:29

How do our perceptions truly affect

6:31

our body? Let's see what the

6:34

experts in the film Emotion have

6:36

to say about this. Now,

6:38

when we react to conditions in our life,

6:41

there is an emotional component

6:44

that begins to create chemistry in our

6:46

bodies, because the body is interpreting

6:49

an emergency situation. Whenever

6:51

you see something, because the brain

6:54

works in pictures,

6:56

there is a response to that image

6:58

of the sensory impact. If you

7:00

hear a sound that sounds dangerous, your

7:03

body, your brain, will create an emotional

7:05

molecule to get you to respond to that.

7:08

And so the mind does its work very, very

7:10

quickly, and based on the data

7:12

that it is receiving, it forms a truth

7:15

about the present memory or experience.

7:18

Based on that truth, it comes up with a thought

7:21

that tells the self about that memory

7:23

or experience, and based on that thought, we

7:25

generate what we believe is the appropriate emotion

7:28

to match that thought. And as a result,

7:31

our heart rate increases, our immune system

7:33

suppresses, we become more anxious

7:35

because we're not in our fullest potential

7:38

in the moment. The core of every

7:40

symptom, stress and disease are

7:42

emotions and memories, traumatic perceptions

7:45

that are buried in our subconscious mind. So

7:50

I want to remind you what the host said there.

7:53

If we're not living in our full potential, then

7:55

our immune system is compromised, meaning

7:58

baseline health that stays in our full potential. that

8:00

we would like to have throughout our lives comes

8:03

from living to our full potential. So

8:06

why is this not the case today in modern society?

8:10

I'm going to give you an example of a modern stressor and

8:12

compare it to an ancient one. Let's

8:15

imagine somebody almost gets into a car accident.

8:18

They're fine, but they need to pull over the car

8:21

and process what's just happened. These

8:23

tiny little adrenal glands on top

8:25

of our kidneys start pumping out

8:28

a chemical compound or a song called

8:30

adrenaline. And what this chemical

8:33

does inside the body is it shuts

8:35

down all the biological processes that

8:37

do not need to be there for us

8:39

to fight or flight. Now,

8:42

this is a natural response. This goes

8:44

all the way back to the gazelle on the plains

8:47

being chased by a cheetah. So

8:49

the response is very unique and

8:51

is very specific to having this fear

8:54

that we almost got injured. But

8:57

what happens in the distinction between the gazelle

8:59

on the plains and us in the car

9:03

is that the gazelle, assuming that it gets to safety,

9:06

will go into a tremoring state. It

9:08

will begin shaking its body until

9:10

it's done and then it'll get up and

9:12

move on. Why

9:14

does it do this unique dance? Sometimes

9:17

we see people tremoring and shaking after

9:19

a scary incident, but it doesn't always happen.

9:23

So let's take a look deeply inside the body at

9:25

what's happening when this gazelle

9:28

goes into that tremoring state. All

9:30

of the adrenaline that was pumped out into the body,

9:33

into the tissues, begins to move itself.

9:36

Because of the shaking, it starts to process, move

9:38

itself into the bladder, where it can be eliminated

9:41

from the body. But if you're

9:43

simply sitting in your car and you choose

9:45

to call someone or drive that 15 minutes

9:48

home and talk to somebody and process

9:50

it intellectually, this may be good,

9:53

but it's not processing what's happening to the body.

9:56

The author Brad Fregchini wrote a book called

9:58

Shaking Medicine because he noticed that

9:59

that not only would animals go into these

10:02

tremoring fits to help

10:04

the health and the balance of their body, but

10:06

he would also notice that tribesmen

10:09

and shamans within tribes would

10:11

enter this tremoring state so

10:13

they would actually enter their mind into an altered

10:15

state of consciousness. In

10:19

this state, they were able to bring back information

10:22

for the healing of their community. So this

10:24

is very peculiar. This is an ancient

10:26

method of healing.

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If we look at modern exercises today,

11:01

such as total release experience,

11:04

or the trauma release experience, TRE, you'll

11:07

notice that involuntary shaking is

11:09

what happens when the body starts to

11:11

take over. Some intelligence just

11:14

hijacks our decision making, and

11:16

the body starts to tremor and shake on its

11:18

own. And what seems to come

11:20

from this is a healing response.

11:24

But then ask yourself, why do we need

11:27

specialized practices, when

11:29

this is what our ancient ancestors and

11:31

the animal kingdom does naturally? And

11:35

I believe it's because we come

11:37

now from a very sedentary society.

11:40

At no other time in history have we ever

11:42

practiced the posture of sitting nearly

11:45

this much. We do not move like

11:47

our ancestors did. 15 hours for food. 10, 11 hours

11:50

squatting. We

11:53

do not move through lush, dense environments anymore.

11:56

Our environment is very predictable,

11:59

very flat. and we barely move

12:01

within it. This has massive

12:04

consequences to our body and

12:06

our health. Dr. Stephen Mann said,

12:09

today's children are the least active ever and

12:12

face a ticking time bomb of health issues that

12:15

puts them at serious risk of having shorter

12:17

lives than their parents. That's

12:19

an incredible statement. He

12:21

goes on to say that movement

12:23

has been stripped out of modern living, meaning

12:26

generation inactive, as he calls our

12:28

youth, are driven to school and

12:30

fed a staple diet of sofa play and

12:33

screen time while being starved

12:35

of outdoor activities.

12:40

Now that I've mentioned some of the issues and the problems

12:42

that we face in our modern society, I

12:45

want to tell you that the solutions could not be simpler.

12:48

My favorite practice is an integration

12:50

of body, mind and

12:52

time. When we

12:55

integrate the body and the mind together over

12:57

a period of time, this is truly

12:59

no different than all the movement modalities

13:02

in the ancient practices, as well

13:04

as meditation, and they all still

13:06

exist today and they're just as powerful.

13:09

So let's start cracking into exactly

13:11

how much the body can influence

13:14

our chemical composition and our true

13:16

potential. A social

13:18

psychologist named Amy Cuddy did

13:21

a TED Talks to revolutionize the way

13:23

we look at how we hold our posture. If

13:26

you see behind her there's a runner that must

13:28

have won this race because his

13:30

arms are up above his head in

13:32

victory pose. We're familiar

13:34

with this pose. We see children do

13:36

it when they feel accomplished, when

13:39

they did something that they're proud of. We

13:41

also see people stretching

13:43

with this posture to come out of their seated

13:45

posture that we adopt so often

13:48

in this society. But what she

13:50

found was truly remarkable, that

13:53

just two minutes of putting your arms above

13:55

your head changes your entire chemical

13:57

composition. Testosterone.

14:00

The confidence-boosting hormone raises.

14:03

Cortisol, the stress hormone, lowers.

14:06

And testosterone allows for people to feel

14:08

more confident in their allotted space,

14:11

feeling like they can speak up and truly

14:13

be who they need to be in that moment.

14:16

This is incredible that two minutes of

14:18

a posture can cause this kind of a

14:20

change in our body and in our

14:22

minds. Now let's take

14:24

it deeper. You may have heard of Botox,

14:28

this injectable toxin that pumps up

14:30

the skin and smooths out wrinkles. But

14:33

you may not have heard that it's being called the

14:35

other anti-anxiety or the other antidepressant.

14:38

And it's being called this for a very unique

14:41

reason. Because this

14:43

toxin has been known to paralyze key

14:46

facial muscles. So the people

14:48

who get Botox cannot show the

14:50

expressions or the emotions of

14:52

happiness, joy, depression

14:55

or anxiety. If

14:58

we're not able to use these muscles,

15:00

then the body does not respond by

15:03

changing the chemical composition, putting

15:05

you in those moods and those emotions.

15:08

Meaning,

15:09

our body and the way we use it

15:11

can literally make you happier.

15:14

But

15:15

what does this say about fulfillment?

15:19

Our greater life's purpose? What's

15:21

the pose or the posture that allows

15:24

us to feel fulfilled? Well,

15:26

I don't believe that it actually comes from our body. I

15:29

believe it comes from our spirit. I

15:32

believe that spirit is much like the narrator

15:34

of the story of our lives. The

15:37

one who has a higher perspective on who we

15:39

are, what direction we're heading and

15:42

why we should end up where we're going. But

15:45

spirit also has a good understanding

15:47

of how our inner world affects the

15:49

world around us. So now

15:51

let's take a look at a show called Missing

15:54

Links with Greg Braden. A Gaia

15:56

special as he dives in to

15:59

tackle that question.

16:04

In the original texts, the Aramaic

16:06

translates

16:08

to ask without hidden motive

16:10

and be surrounded

16:13

by your answer. Be enveloped

16:16

by what you desire. And those are the key

16:18

words. Be. If

16:21

you are being surrounded by your

16:23

answer, if you are being enveloped by what you

16:25

desire, it means that you are

16:27

having the emotional experience

16:30

as if those things are already present.

16:33

And this is a very, very powerful concept.

16:36

There is a huge difference between

16:39

working toward an outcome

16:42

and beginning as if that outcome

16:45

is already present. Think about this. Think

16:47

about it for your own healing. Think

16:49

about it for your own relationships. Think about it for the abundance

16:52

in your life. If you

16:55

are asking for them to be present,

16:57

it means they are not present now.

17:00

If you are giving thanks

17:02

for what already exists, you are

17:05

claiming that it is present

17:07

in this moment. You are changing

17:09

the biology of your body. You're changing

17:11

the chemistry of your body as it interacts

17:14

with your physical environment so

17:16

that that reality may be present.

17:18

Remember, the field

17:20

is a mirror

17:21

for what we claim to be true within.

17:28

So what Greg

17:29

showed us there in that clip is

17:32

that deep within us, our inner

17:34

nature knows how

17:37

to be the change we wish to see

17:39

in the world. And that this ancient

17:41

scripture in the Old Testament mirrors

17:43

what Gandhi said, be the change you

17:45

wish to see in the world. Just simply wish

17:48

for it, be it, live it. And

17:50

in this way, as we've seen before, the

17:53

chemical composition and everything about

17:55

the body starts to reflect what

17:57

we would like to see in the outer world. And

18:00

it literally starts to become just

18:02

that. But why don't we use this

18:04

gift? Why have we lost this

18:06

gift to time? Well

18:11

if you look at our modern society today, we

18:13

are in the business of pushing nature out

18:15

of our habitats. Any nature

18:18

such as plants or animals, even

18:20

the people that live within these groups,

18:23

are domesticated, living on a societal

18:26

form of terms, rather than the wild

18:28

teacher of nature. So

18:30

what are we losing by living in this

18:33

modern society in the way that we do?

18:36

Are we experiencing a mass forgetting,

18:38

a collective amnesia?

18:41

Because

18:43

truthfully, the body is speaking

18:45

to us, spirit is speaking

18:47

to us. And

18:50

they have ancient, very important messages

18:52

for us. But

18:55

if we've forgotten how to use it, then

18:58

we're not able to tap back into the

19:00

messages that have been left by all of our

19:02

ancestors and all of these scriptures. So

19:06

I've been mentioning a lot today about how

19:09

modern lifestyle stressors are unlike

19:11

what our ancestors had to deal with. And

19:14

this is true, but what am I really saying

19:16

here? Should we throw away all

19:18

of our advancements, try and return

19:20

to hunter-gatherer times, live purely

19:23

off nature, go spear-fishing, throw

19:25

away all of our technology? Of

19:29

course not. This would be silly.

19:32

What we really need to do is

19:34

honor all the advances that we've made

19:36

as a species.

19:38

But

19:39

we really need to respect where we've come from.

19:42

And let me put this to you in a very scientific way.

19:45

Hunter Chris Kresser, a functional medicine

19:48

practitioner, wrote a book called An

19:50

Unconventional Medicine.

19:52

And in that book, he said that

19:54

only roughly 5% of

19:57

our DNA has updated since hunter-gatherer

19:59

times. What does

20:01

this mean? This means

20:04

that we are holistic creatures. We

20:06

need to respect our forward progress,

20:08

but we also need to respect where

20:10

we've come from and why we are here

20:13

in the way that we are today. And

20:15

if we do this, we'll truly

20:17

understand how to listen to the body,

20:20

listen to what it's saying, and listen

20:23

for that thing called spirit speaking

20:25

to us in between the lines of

20:28

all the greater things that we do in our lives. Now

20:34

I'll leave you with a challenge so you can

20:37

actually employ what I'm talking about and

20:39

feel the changes in your life. So

20:46

the first one was from Amy Cuddy,

20:49

lifting the arms up above the head

20:51

for two minutes. Do

20:53

this in front of the mirror. Take a

20:55

look at your posture as you do it. See

20:58

if there's any asymmetries. Try

21:00

and even them out. Try and breathe

21:02

naturally and find a way to enjoy

21:05

this next two minutes, which might

21:07

get a little intense. And

21:09

as you do that, as it comes to a close,

21:12

softly bring your arms down, regulate

21:15

your breathing, close your eyes, and

21:18

just feel what kind of difference that made. While

21:24

you're in front of the mirror, you might want to try smiling

21:26

for a couple of minutes. You might even notice

21:28

that smiling inauthentically produces

21:31

much different change than smiling very

21:33

authentically. So try

21:35

to give your most authentic smile for

21:38

two minutes. And then again, stop. Meditate

21:41

on how it actually changed the way you

21:43

feel. And

21:47

the best body-mind-time

21:49

integration tool is meditation.

21:52

So I would advise you to meditate every

21:54

day because this is one of the most important

21:57

body-mind-time integration

21:59

tools. that we have. It's the best

22:02

way to answer that question. Who

22:04

are we? What is the human riddle?

22:11

And if you do this every single day until

22:13

I see you next, you will have linked your

22:15

body and mind that much more, which

22:18

is going to be very important as we set off

22:20

on this journey to discover our deepest

22:23

human potential. Thank you so

22:25

much for joining me and I'll see you next time.

22:28

Thank you for listening to this episode

22:30

of Gaia's Consciousness Podcast. Learn

22:33

even more at gia.com and

22:35

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22:38

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22:40

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22:43

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ADHD for Smart Ass Women with Tracy Otsuka

I have NEVER met an ADHD woman who wasn't truly brilliant at something! **This podcast with over 5 million downloads is for smart, high-ability ADD/ADHD (diagnosed or suspecting) women who see their symptoms as more positive than negative. If you want to fall in love with your ADHD brain and discover where your brilliance lies, this podcast is for you! **ADHD for Smart Ass Women is globally ranked in the top one-half percent of all podcasts in the world on any subject. It's streamed in more than 160 countries and is downloaded by more than 150,000 listeners every month.**I’m Tracy Otsuka your host. I'm a lawyer, not a doctor, a life-long learner and a certified ADHD coach. I’m committed to changing the conversation around ADHD. **When I was diagnosed eight months after my son, my entire life suddenly made perfect sense but all I heard and read about was everything that my ADHD brain SHOULD be struggling with when in fact I would come to learn that my ADHD is responsible for some of my greatest superpowers. **One other thing, we constantly hear about all the successful ADHD men, but no one talks about the women. This podcast is here to change that dynamic. ADHD women are my people, and I’m here to acknowledge, support and cheer them on.***THE CONTENT IN THIS PODCAST IS NOT INTENDED TO BE A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MEDICAL ADVICE, DIAGNOSIS OR TREATMENT AND DOES NOT CONSTITUTE MEDICAL OR PROFESSIONAL ADVICE. NEVER DISREGARD PROFESSIONAL MEDICAL ADVICE OR DELAY IN SEEKING IT BECAUSE OF ANYTHING YOU HAVE SEEN OR HEARD FROM TRACY OTSUKA OR THIS PODCAST.

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