Episode Transcript
Transcripts are displayed as originally observed. Some content, including advertisements may have changed.
Use Ctrl + F to search
0:00
These silly hats. Whose idea was this,
0:02
anyways?
0:02
Um, no idea. Hi,
0:05
Alison.
0:06
Hi, Mattie. Oh, for
0:09
the last time this season.
0:11
I know, I know. But,
0:13
we're talking about like a month, right?
0:16
Yeah, not even.
0:18
diddly doing today?
0:20
How's everybody diddly doing? We did dress for the occasion.
0:22
Thank you for noticing.
0:24
Yes? Hello?
0:26
um, well,
0:27
Mmm. Mm
0:29
final episode of ADHd20
0:31
Season 2, Electric Boogaloo. It's
0:35
one more episode than we did >in>>
0:37
Season One, so we decided that would be a good
0:40
place and way to end it.
0:41
Mm hmm.
0:42
We decided to end it with you, some
0:44
of our best friends, our patrons,
0:47
tuning in live. And it's so
0:49
good to have you here. Um,
0:51
we, Matt in
0:54
true form did moments before we
0:56
kick off say, Do we have an outline? Has anybody
0:58
seen an outline? Looking
1:00
high and low for an outline?
1:02
In the truest form. Yeah.
1:04
Yeah. We didn't have one, but that's
1:07
okay. We don't usually have one for this
1:09
show. I mean, that's not true.
1:11
We usually have one, we just usually don't pay it any attention.
1:14
don't look
1:16
at it it
1:17
All the tea on ADHD20 today.
1:20
So we thought that today would be a little bit
1:22
of a retrospective, looking back
1:24
fondly on our first and second
1:26
years as podcast co hosts,
1:28
know
1:31
and
1:31
know. It's been amazing. Yeah.
1:33
This, uh, for those of you who don't know,
1:36
uh, this is a podcast called
1:38
A DHD 20, finds
1:40
the intersection between A DHD,
1:43
and
1:44
TTRPGs.
1:45
That's right. That's right. That's what this
1:47
is. but if if you do not
1:50
have a DHD. Or,
1:52
you do not play
1:55
TTRPGs, you're still welcome.
1:57
Thank you for being here.
1:58
Yeah, well, yeah, great to have you. It's
2:00
really great to have You
2:01
You know, not to not to out anybody,
2:04
but
2:05
Hehehehe.
2:05
several people in the comments, uh, over
2:07
the course of this season, and some of last have, have,
2:10
have shared with us that maybe they
2:12
do have ADHD and just didn't know it
2:14
until they heard the two of us talking
2:17
about, Uh huh.
2:20
it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's,
2:22
it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's,
2:24
it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, it's, is
2:27
that in the last two years, we
2:29
have been diagnosing people non
2:32
stop, and we are not qualified to do so.
2:35
But everything now
2:37
fits into these, these, these
2:39
amazing Uh,
2:42
personal discoveries that you and I have
2:45
in this podcast, everything,
2:47
like, now I think that my wife has
2:49
ADHD, think brother has ADHD
2:52
and all other things, everybody
2:54
that has joined us on Discord now has
2:56
has ADHD. I have autism,
2:58
or am
2:59
autism,
3:00
yeah, yeah, yeah. So
3:01
it just gets better and better and
3:04
better. It's like, no, you know,
3:06
but, but to be fair, I think the other thing that
3:08
we've discovered is that. There's no such thing as neurotypical.
3:11
typical, Not at all. Um,
3:13
so I'm so glad to be, you know, let's
3:15
go ahead and get started. Make our way
3:18
into, like, the clapbacks and callbacks of the
3:20
season. Callback number one
3:22
was the episode we did surrounding Are We
3:24
a Cult?
3:25
Mm-Hmm?
3:28
I mean, I was pretty emphatically no
3:30
back then, but a mere, what was that, like, four
3:33
or five months ago? And I'm now, uh,
3:35
I think we might have accidentally started a cult, Matt,
3:37
and I'm okay with it.
3:38
I mean, I mean, is it, is it,
3:41
again, cults have
3:45
a, a leader. And
3:47
that leader may or may not be sinister.
3:50
So, I don't think we're the leaders of
3:53
the man lit up red. For
3:55
the holidays. For morale.
3:58
la, la, demons, demons,
4:00
demons Demons. Demons. Demons.
4:03
I'll tell you this, we are the holliest, jolliest, jingliest, jangliest
4:06
demons, if that's exact. Charismatic.
4:09
Thank you. Yeah, not sinister.
4:11
Charismatic leader. Thank
4:14
you, Jax.
4:15
Oh yeah, I learned something new. I learned something
4:17
new recently. Uh, all the kids are saying
4:20
it. They're like, she got riz.
4:22
They got Riz. And of course I love
4:25
that because, you know,
4:27
charisma. They got charisma. What is
4:29
your charisma. score?
4:31
a nat 20
4:32
You're a nat 20
4:34
Riz. Yeah, so this is how
4:36
we start the show normally. We just kind of,
4:39
uh, laugh and laugh and laugh at
4:41
each other and then we're like, oh, we'll never,
4:43
we'll always edit that out. And of course we
4:45
never edit any of it out. Uh,
4:48
there's a lot of singing, a lot of
4:51
hunting for windows on
4:53
your
4:53
Speaking of hunting for windows,
4:56
we didn't put this on the but
4:59
shall we roll for one final time this
5:02
season? How many times am I going to do that today on
5:04
the ADHD 100 table? I think it's
5:06
your turn to roll.
5:09
Okay, good. So that means it's your turn to read.
5:11
Yeah. Uh, pack
5:13
And I got it pulled up. Also, the D100
5:16
table might be one of my favorite facets of ADHd20.
5:19
And we give Fitz most of the credit for
5:22
our sweet, sweet D100. I helped like that much,
5:24
but all the good questions came
5:26
Mm hmm.
5:26
our Lorekeeper
5:28
It's really, they're really great. Really,
5:30
really great. Okay. Today's
5:33
number is 49.
5:36
49.
5:37
49 Uh,
5:40
and we, you know what, we have asked the one below
5:42
and above, but
5:43
Oh, dang. Okay, great.
5:45
Uh, what is something that you can
5:47
now attribute to your ADHD
5:50
that you simply thought was a strange
5:52
quirk before your diagnosis?
5:55
Oh my gosh. Oh
5:57
my gosh. Let's see. I'm just gonna go
6:00
look at past episode topics. What was
6:02
the one that was really masking?
6:05
Mm hmm.
6:06
not, I did not factor in masking.
6:09
I did not factor in, I
6:13
didn't even factor in over explaining
6:15
or catastrophizing, to be
6:17
Mm hmm. Mm hmm.
6:19
Those are three major
6:21
things Um, how about you?
6:25
So I'll go big and small. Uh, like
6:27
my big kind of macro one is
6:29
the whole, the fact that I will not walk into
6:31
a restaurant without knowing,
6:33
Mmm.
6:34
like, where people are waiting inside or I'll just wait
6:36
in my car for my friends to get there
6:38
to go in with them. Um, Yeah,
6:41
yeah, that's my big one. Um, that
6:43
once I got diagnosed, I was like, Oh, that
6:45
makes so much sense. Um, my small
6:47
one, it was actually a topic
6:50
that took off in our Discord this week, uh,
6:52
being very particular about flatware. There
6:55
are very specific types
6:57
of forks and spoons
6:59
Whoa, whoa.
7:01
Oh, yeah.
7:02
dude. Are you serious
7:05
right now? I
7:07
serious right now.
7:09
wi I will
7:11
not cannot use the smaller
7:13
forks. I cannot use,
7:15
they're just a little bit
7:17
too small. I can't do
7:19
it. It
7:20
That's That's the right answer.
7:21
out of me. That's An ADHD thing?
7:24
ADHD thing.
7:25
That is such a neuro spicy thing. It I
7:29
have I have I
7:32
act I'm usually a bigger fork girl than smaller
7:34
fork, but I don't get bent out of shape over
7:36
it. My dad gets bent out of shape if I offer
7:38
him the wrong fork. But y'all.
7:41
The love I have for a soup
7:43
spoon over a regular spoon.
7:45
Hells yes.
7:47
Give me a good circular
7:49
round bowl my spoon over,
7:52
you know, kind of the elongated oval one any
7:54
day. I gosh I
7:56
swear it makes a difference in the taste.
7:58
And I will eat non soup things with a soup spoon
8:00
just because the soup spoon is so superior. We're gonna
8:02
spend this whole episode talking about flatware.
8:06
okay, that's fine. dude. I just
8:08
feel so seen
8:11
been season. Thanks, everybody,
8:13
for tuning in.
8:14
yeah, it has been a great, thank you. so everybody. Bye! Oh
8:17
my gosh, I
8:20
only, I only
8:22
All right. Let's get to, let's get it to business,
8:24
to business. Or,
8:26
matt, if you have like a
8:28
favorite, you know, we'll, we'll sprinkle
8:30
in like our favorite memories and
8:33
biggest aha moments and things like that. So if
8:35
you have one at any time, do the ADHD impulsive
8:37
thing and just shout it out. Um,
8:40
But in the meantime, I
8:42
had asked I kind of polled our Discord for
8:44
some of their favorite moments. there?
8:46
Yeah, I wanted to, I wanted to touch on some of
8:49
my favorite memories of the year. So,
8:51
one of my very favorite, I know we
8:54
kind of, last year's recap
8:56
was kind
8:58
of, Oh my gosh, I can't believe
9:00
we, I can't believe we recorded and
9:02
edited and published 18 episodes.
9:05
We were stunned. And, I
9:07
mean, it really started as a
9:09
lark. The whole thing started as a lark.
9:12
So this year I
9:14
am super freaky grateful
9:17
to ADHD20 for becoming
9:20
the cornerstone
9:23
of what is now the Pocket Dimension
9:26
which includes my
9:29
brother Evan and of course Fitz
9:31
and now an
9:33
ever growing community
9:35
of people in
9:37
Discord and beyond
9:39
and so I Um,
9:42
I love that, that ADHD
9:44
20 is a very specific thing,
9:46
it's still a very niche
9:49
tastic thing. But,
9:52
it, it, it allowed us to
9:55
talk to people like Dale Critchley,
9:58
uh, the Accessibility D&
10:00
D Mechanics, uh, gentleman,
10:03
who is Doing amazing
10:05
work, and, uh, of
10:07
course, our friend Sarah Mobley, and
10:09
then Alan Bjorkgren, the
10:12
dungeon coach, came
10:14
on ADHD20, and he was very confused,
10:16
because he had
10:18
met us, we didn't, you know, we kind of talked
10:20
about ADHD a little bit, and then
10:23
we, but he was like, who, uh,
10:25
Bivins Brothers, what's happening? And so,
10:27
we were kind of inspired to come
10:29
up with the Pocket Dimension, and so,
10:32
it's so nice. to
10:34
be able to count this
10:36
podcast as, as the
10:38
thing that started it all. we touched
10:41
on some amazing things this year.
10:43
The concept of dopamining,
10:45
which is a big thing
10:47
for both of us. The ADHD
10:51
tax, which, which
10:53
is, it's amazing because that was one
10:55
of the earlier episodes this year, and
10:58
more and more and more I see these taxes.
11:01
Once I did my taxes, and then
11:03
more and more like, oh man.
11:06
I love, I loved everything that
11:08
you've mentioned so far. Obviously, I'm very
11:10
obsessed with our community, everybody here chatting
11:12
away with us right now. Um,
11:14
one of my favorite standout moments
11:16
from the season was the
11:18
time that you and I got
11:20
to process some
11:22
beef
11:24
Mm hmm. Yeah, you really did
11:26
enjoy that.
11:27
did. That time I called Matt
11:29
to the principal's office and scared him. But,
11:33
for murdering you,
11:34
for murdering me, um, I
11:36
wonder what that would have looked like without this,
11:39
like, would
11:40
I do
11:40
talked about that if we
11:41
I really,
11:42
show and, and, if it hadn't been so applicable
11:44
to, like, what was going on? Um,
11:47
would I have ever addressed that with you or would
11:49
I have just sat and pouted and, you know,
11:51
felt rejected and weird and bad?
11:54
Um,
11:55
Similarly, having my brother
11:57
on now I've, I've known my brother for
12:00
50 years almost,
12:03
and, uh, and
12:06
I was just. gobsmacked,
12:10
um, by a lot of the things that he
12:12
was, he was, he came on
12:14
and talked about, you know, some
12:16
very personal things and things that I didn't
12:18
realize and, and ways
12:21
that he relates to us and, and
12:23
that we relate to him. And I think that,
12:26
I think that our Relationship
12:28
has gotten better since, at least,
12:31
in, you know, not that it was bad, but
12:33
just in a way to,
12:35
to go, right, I can go back to the episode
12:37
and think, oh my gosh, right,
12:40
I did not know that that was part
12:42
of Evan's spicy brain,
12:44
uh, things, right?
12:47
Mm hmm.
12:48
Ah, yeah,
12:50
was also one of my highlights just because,
12:52
you know, he's obviously one of
12:54
your best friends. He's one of my best
12:56
friends. We spent a lot of time together.
12:59
And I just, I loved
13:02
getting to know somebody on a whole new level that
13:04
I thought I knew you extremely well already.
13:07
Uh, Evan, Onion, boy,
13:09
that one, just all the layers and surprises
13:11
and nooks and crannies for cool things to hide inside
13:14
of.
13:15
Layers and layers. And then, and
13:17
then having Sarah on was amazing
13:19
because I only know Sarah in
13:21
a performative, performance
13:24
level, right? I'm
13:26
in a group with her, improv
13:28
group, uh, I didn't
13:31
know the business the day
13:33
to day, I didn't know her day job,
13:35
the business socks, when she puts
13:37
on her business socks, I
13:39
didn't, I didn't know that. She came and she had
13:41
like, freaking printouts,
13:44
it was incredible, it
13:46
was incredible, and I, still
13:48
have those and I still go through them when I,
13:50
when I worry about myself, uh,
13:53
that was, to see, to see her
13:55
mind, uh, was, was an
13:57
amazing thing. Mmm.
13:58
One of my highlights of 2023
14:01
was meeting Sarah after getting to meet
14:03
her through
14:04
no,
14:05
When, when we were up in Chicago. Um,
14:07
that was super duper duper fun and
14:09
was right before we went to GaryCon.
14:11
went to a Cheese then, uh, we,
14:13
we had a live, we had a live
14:16
show, sort of with Fitz. That
14:18
was really fun, we came back and we,
14:20
we realized, oh my gosh. We talk
14:22
about this thing, but then we get
14:25
there, and we come
14:27
back with COVID, but we
14:29
still love Dungeons Dragons.
14:31
We still love all of
14:33
this stuff.
14:34
And that was like, I mean, that was like a six
14:36
or seven year long dream realized for
14:38
me getting to go to the Mars
14:40
Cheese Castle in Kenosha,
14:42
You can do it. I know you want to do it. Go for
14:44
it. You can do it. I know you want to do it.
14:46
go for Yeah.
14:47
Can I do it. Oh my
14:49
god, the Mars Cheese Castle in Kenosha,
14:52
Wisconsin. It
14:54
is so many rooms of just cheese on
14:56
cheese on cheese. So many kinds
14:59
of cheese curds. You would just not
15:01
believe. Okay, thank you. Thank
15:03
you for letting me. Yeah.
15:04
Yeah. that was good. You
15:05
that out of my
15:05
That was wonderful that was good. You did it.
15:08
That was wonderful. Wonderful. Uh.
15:10
Yeah, I mean, there's so many things,
15:12
procrastinating and catastrophizing
15:15
and over explaining. I feel like I've had the best
15:17
conversations with people,
15:18
Let's, let's dive into a couple and let's
15:20
just, if we think of other,
15:23
uh, memories and favorites
15:25
and not so favorites, blurt them out. Um,
15:28
so our friend Jax, I'm gonna,
15:30
I'm I'm gonna open up with my favorite question
15:33
that she asked. How do
15:35
the holidays affect your ADHD?
15:37
And or, how does your ADHD affect
15:39
the holidays? Do you get overwhelmed or overstimulated
15:42
this time of year? By all the hustle
15:44
and bustle, I know I do, uh,
15:46
she says.
15:47
Excellent question.
15:49
I think my answer to this goes
15:51
along with the spiritual practice that y'all
15:53
have heard me also simultaneously be
15:55
on, which is
15:59
Woo
16:01
Has been all about creating
16:04
healthy boundaries in my life, and
16:06
recognizing what relationships
16:08
and people and things
16:11
I do are serving me and letting the ones that are
16:13
not, you know, kind of float to the wayside. So
16:15
this year for the holidays, I'm not
16:17
going home to Birmingham, Alabama. I
16:19
am still getting to see my family because I do
16:22
love my family. So let's get clear about that.
16:24
I am not throwing anybody under the bus and saying my family
16:26
no longer serves me. But
16:30
all that travel was overstimulating to me.
16:32
In a time, in a year that I've been very
16:34
busy, and I've had a lot going on, and I didn't
16:36
take, I did not take nearly enough
16:38
long rests this year, y'all. I just,
16:40
Yeah.
16:41
all year long. And I'm not sorry about it because I had a whole
16:43
lot of fun. But I realized
16:46
that trying to fit a trip
16:48
to Birmingham for a couple of nights
16:50
would have like catapulted me into
16:52
overstimulation. So finding
16:55
the freedom just to call my mom
16:57
up and not Make excuses
16:59
or pussyfoot around this, but just say, Hey,
17:02
could you come meet me in Atlanta instead? Could
17:05
we do that? Um, so that way
17:07
I can actually have like a relaxing holiday
17:09
that looks like what I want it to look
17:11
like instead of what someone else's expectation
17:14
of, of Christmas should be. I
17:16
just think that feels really good. And I don't, I don't think in
17:18
years past, I would have recognized
17:21
I need that and then been able to verbalize
17:24
my desire for that So
17:26
I 100 percent agree that you
17:28
wouldn't You I
17:30
will say that you you The breaks
17:32
that you did take this year, they did Not. seem
17:35
like long rests. They, they were,
17:37
they were still very social,
17:40
and even you were trying to chill, you were not
17:42
really chilling. So you, you would come back and say, I
17:44
need a vacation. So I think that
17:47
I was so proud of you when you said, I'm
17:49
gonna just Chill
17:52
at for Christmas, and I'm going to,
17:55
you know, just do what I need to do. But I, but
17:57
I also love that you get, you get to see your, uh,
17:59
Mom
18:00
And Dad.
18:01
and Dad.
18:02
Uh, I also get to see Fitz.
18:04
We are going to go take a long rest.
18:06
We have rented a house with nothing
18:08
on the agenda, but walking
18:11
around and eating good food. And that
18:13
is, a long rest.
18:15
Stomping And eating. That
18:18
is how we
18:19
and eatin'. And eatin' and
18:21
stomping. And this is in
18:23
the beach in
18:24
Charlestonian? Yeah. Mm.
18:26
on Folly. Uh,
18:29
yeah, just don't, don't
18:31
accept any socials. Just don't, don't. Don't
18:34
do anything.
18:36
We're not gonna. That's
18:38
how you know you found a true friend
18:41
is like the people that you can just do nothing
18:43
with.
18:43
Yep.
18:44
And Fitz, you're a true friend. We
18:46
ain't gonna do shit that week.
18:48
Ain't gonna do bleh heh heh duh duh. Yep.
18:51
Uh, I also, uh,
18:53
uh, I have a very big,
18:56
a big Christmas coming up because it's
18:59
brand new. Uh, experience,
19:01
uh, Jax. Uh, I'm very,
19:04
I'm very excited about it. Um,
19:06
but it is, like, it involves flying,
19:08
which is, I haven't done in years.
19:10
I haven't done forever
19:13
to fly during the holidays. Uh,
19:15
I mean, it was a choice. It
19:17
makes the most sense, but, uh,
19:21
I will have stress about that. I will definitely
19:23
have stress about flying. I just will.
19:25
That's okay. Uh, and then we're
19:27
going to, we're going to be in a new home.
19:30
We're going to be in Evan's, uh, and his wife
19:32
Elise's home. So that's all going to be
19:34
new. And my mom, that's going
19:36
to be new. And her sister,
19:38
and brother in law, and all these.
19:40
So the good news is that They
19:43
hit a point in the day. They
19:45
They'll just say, hey, it's chilling time. It's
19:48
pajama time. What is it? It's cozy pants o'clock.
19:50
And it's done. Is CozyPants
19:52
o'Clock? And, you
19:55
know, party is over. And I
19:57
am looking forward to that, because they're very good
19:59
at that. And I'm, you
20:01
know, in their own home, I'm sure it's
20:03
going to be the same. So once I get there,
20:06
once I get there, it's going to be fine. Jax,
20:08
thanks for thinking of me. But yeah, it's hard. I
20:10
definitely get packing
20:13
and blah y y y y, but But
20:16
once I get there, it'll be great. It'll
20:18
be great.
20:18
it's gonna be great. Overstimulated
20:21
at the holidays. That's us,
20:23
But, not really.
20:23
it is but I but for
20:25
that reason That was my point for that reason Lindsay
20:27
and I took Thanksgiving off
20:31
We we rented a place we
20:33
went out On our own.
20:35
We did not see anybody. It was just the dogs
20:38
and us We had we had your Charleston
20:40
and on a marsh in
20:42
Michigan So I think that
20:44
allowed me to kind of be
20:47
totes goods. Toast
20:50
goods.
20:52
which no one says. Yeah, there.
20:55
Evan says, cozy pants, pimento
20:57
cheese. What else do you need? Three
20:59
question marks. It's true. What
21:01
else do I need, brother? Dinging.
21:05
glad y'all have each other. that we
21:07
have both of
21:08
Me too, me too.
21:10
Uh, Fitz, add pimento cheese
21:12
to the shopping list for our week,
21:15
please.
21:15
me Yeah, man. Okay,
21:17
what
21:18
Um, So, uh, Mike,
21:21
another one of our, uh, pocket pals,
21:23
he said, I think for me, the aha moment was
21:25
somewhere within the first five episodes of Season
21:28
One. Here I am listening to this podcast
21:30
and realizing that a lot of the weird things I do aren't
21:32
really weird at all and are in fact fairly common,
21:34
like having strong preferences for forks.
21:37
Um, he didn't add that last part that I just did, but
21:39
it fits here. And, and Mike was definitely part
21:41
of the, the Great Fork debate. So yes,
21:44
we see you, we hear you, we honor you,
21:46
Mike. Um, and as for
21:49
the question, what's next for ADHd20?
21:52
What are the crazy, outlandish, super
21:54
exciting goals that you have for the podcast
21:57
and as a follow up, how can we help y'all
21:59
achieve those goals?
22:02
Well, you already are. number one. Uh,
22:05
We have lots of goals for this year. We
22:07
had a meeting yesterday. God,
22:10
you've got all kinds of sparkly, delicious
22:12
things. Um,
22:19
uh, what was I just saying? We
22:21
had a meeting yesterday where we started to talk about
22:23
these goals. Uh, it is, it is
22:25
a member of of the Pocket Dimension
22:28
has a very big birthday, so
22:31
that is high, high on the
22:33
list, is celebrating this birthday,
22:36
because AK's Mine was
22:38
celebrated last year, um,
22:40
by meeting together. It
22:42
was kind of the origin of
22:45
our home brewed world,
22:47
and, and many, many other things.
22:49
Just playing together for the first time,
22:52
and I feel like we just learned and grew.
22:54
A lot. So, that's definitely on the books,
22:57
but as far as, as far as,
22:59
uh, what we want to do with ADHD20
23:02
and the POC Dimension, there's
23:04
so many things. There's
23:08
so many things. I still, I still
23:10
have a, uh, I have a short
23:12
list of people that I really want to get
23:14
on the podcast, and I do
23:17
I was serious when I said before, I think
23:20
that it, you
23:22
know, the more that we go out
23:24
there, the more cons we go out, the more
23:26
people we meet, the more Dungeon
23:29
Coaches we meet, the, you know, the,
23:32
you know, we're going to find those connections. So
23:34
I, I don't want to give up on
23:36
that. Uh, and it really
23:38
just kind of like, go to these things,
23:40
meet these people. They're all so amazing.
23:43
So I would love to hear, for
23:45
this podcast, I really would. I think
23:48
in our first episode We had like a dream
23:51
guest list and I want to just
23:53
keep getting closer to that because,
23:55
because then we can find, you know, more of the friends.
23:57
we, we, we love, the
23:59
community, we, we want to keep
24:01
it small enough for us to still get
24:03
to like know everybody and play the games
24:06
and things like that. But yeah, it wouldn't
24:08
hurt our feelings to grow the channels a little bit more.
24:10
Um, we have room, We have room in our hearts and minds,
24:13
um, And at our fingertips for a few
24:15
We do. And it's funny,
24:17
because we, I would like to
24:19
know whether self promotion
24:22
or the difficulty
24:25
in self promotion is some
24:27
kind of neuro spicy trait, because
24:29
it is, you know. I,
24:33
I am a YouTube content consumer
24:35
as well, so I know that
24:38
when people say, hey, like and subscribe,
24:41
uh, at first it was deeply
24:43
annoying, and it's something to make fun
24:45
of, right? It is going to be I've
24:48
said it before, I think that there'll be,
24:50
in the future, there'll be so many
24:53
people making fun of the YouTube
24:55
videos. So many. And making fun of
24:57
us. Unfortunately, right right
24:59
now in 2023, if
25:02
we hit 500, then
25:04
a lot of things change, and then it kinda,
25:06
so it's, I get it now, you
25:09
know,
25:09
Yeah, I am convinced.
25:13
I am manifesting this live on the air, friends.
25:15
d
25:16
We're, we're going up and over 500
25:19
in 2023.
25:20
Yeah. 504.
25:24
Five.
25:27
Maddie? Keep going.
25:32
I'm not even putting a number on it. I am just expanding
25:35
our reality
25:36
Uh, so yeah, that and
25:38
then I think, I think a dream
25:40
of mine still, I think we had it last
25:42
year. Uh, this year was our
25:45
go out into the world of TTRPGs
25:48
and see if we still like it for real,
25:50
like, on that level,
25:52
and we did. We absolutely do. So,
25:56
I do want to sit
25:58
down at a panel of
26:01
a Con. Within the next five
26:03
years, I want you and me to
26:05
sit down. want to be, I
26:07
want to hang out.
26:08
Yep. So
26:10
y'all are already, I love that you asked
26:13
that Mike, that you asked like, what can y'all do? And it
26:15
really, truly, you were already doing it like
26:17
being here. know,
26:19
I know that things like Discord can get overwhelming.
26:21
I know that there's a million creators a minute asking
26:24
for your social currency
26:26
in the form of attention and your dollars.
26:29
So the fact that any of you guys are here all in our Discord,
26:31
much less plugging away on Patreon.
26:34
And that is actually one of my other, uh,
26:36
asks that I do have of anybody tuning in both
26:38
live and later. What,
26:41
like, makes you want to support somebody
26:43
on, you know, with both your attention and
26:46
your, uh, and your dollars? What
26:48
can we offer to patrons? We've talked about,
26:50
um, Tabletop Phoenix had a great
26:52
idea for us kind of building a pantheon. It's
26:55
always been one of my dreams to make a platform
26:57
for people who want to play on live streams to get
26:59
that chance. Um, and so we've
27:01
talked about this world, um, you know,
27:03
that is our homebrew world of Sigea. Opening
27:06
it up and having some of y'all come and playing it with us
27:08
would be super fun. And you're
27:10
already doing that on the, the one shots,
27:12
but let's do some live streaming together too. But
27:14
what, what, what makes that investment
27:16
worth it? It's an open conversation.
27:19
You don't have to answer it right now, but anytime either
27:21
drop us, you know, a private message if you
27:23
don't want to post it publicly or go
27:26
into any of the channels and discord
27:28
and start a discussion about, I'd
27:30
really love this. This would, you know, uh, this,
27:32
or my friends and I were talking and they would be interested
27:34
in this. Um, we want to hear from you
27:36
cause we have our ideas, but y'all's are probably better.
27:39
Um, all right, let's move on to some more questions.
27:41
These are so great. Thank you guys
27:43
so much. Um, I
27:45
love this question from Galaxy Fox in
27:47
our Discord. How does being neurodivergent
27:50
impact character creation
27:52
for tabletop role playing
27:54
Mmm. Oh my
27:55
already mentioned Dale and that was
27:57
so cool. I don't even have
27:59
the words for it. To have somebody
28:02
who is so invested in the space
28:04
of inclusion and accessibility and TTRPGs.
28:07
Um, so, it makes
28:09
me want to help lift his voice
28:11
and others in the room like him. For
28:14
me, I think that you know, we've talked
28:16
about this a lot before that
28:18
every character that you create is in
28:20
some way tied to you, whether
28:23
you intend for them to be or not. So it really is
28:25
this like self exploration tool. Um,
28:28
and God, it was so neat to begin,
28:31
you know, Chimericals, the, the character that I've played
28:33
for the longest, she's now the one that's died
28:35
at Matt's hands. Um, love
28:39
you. Oh,
28:41
And she will die
28:43
again. Okay.
28:46
You guys. Wow!
28:48
I'm sorry, I don't know what, I don't know what that was.
28:51
demons.
28:52
Demons! Demons!
28:55
Totally just lost my train of thought on that. Anyways,
28:58
but it, like, once I realized,
29:00
like, the, the problem with her,
29:02
not a problem, but, you know, like, what was going on,
29:05
problem.
29:05
The problem... with
29:06
What what we, ADHD 20.
29:09
The podcast where we wonder what
29:11
is our What
29:13
is our problem.
29:14
What is our
29:19
But realizing that both Alison the player and Chimerical the character was having this, like, hard
29:21
fought internal battle just
29:23
lit up by RSD. And so,
29:26
and I, so I do to that,
29:28
to your kind of question, Galaxy
29:30
Fox, on that note, now,
29:33
as I've been spinning up new characters,
29:35
it's forced me to think Like,
29:37
when I spun up Benni, you guys all
29:39
made fun of me because I picked Charisma, because
29:41
I always pick Charisma, because I think it's fun to play
29:44
Charisma. I love that Riz, yo. Um,
29:46
ew, that felt weird to say, I didn't like that, I'm not gonna say
29:48
that again. Um, But
29:53
what does Charisma mean, and how do we not be
29:55
boring, because Charisma doesn't always have
29:57
to be the face, and how do we find these
29:59
levels and make it exciting
30:01
and interesting. That one shot
30:03
was, you know, kind of our debutante
30:06
ball of coming into the
30:08
live play, actual play world. So
30:10
I kind of in the back of my brain knew I wanted
30:12
to play something that was not only fun for me, but
30:15
might also be interesting for other people to watch.
30:18
And so I think that my neuro spiciness
30:20
helps with that when it comes to character creation.
30:23
Yeah. I mean, The more comfortable
30:25
you, you get in
30:28
your skin as a human being, I don't care
30:30
who you are, the more comfortable you are,
30:32
the more that you understand, the more that you
30:34
realize you're not alone. These
30:37
are all things that
30:39
you want to, I
30:41
think, you would want to put into
30:44
a character. So it, like, invades
30:46
your play. Because I could, I could see
30:48
where you would You
30:51
know, if, if you have a,
30:53
a feeling of disappointment
30:56
in yourself or shame, you could
30:58
use roleplay to try to get away
31:00
from that, but I don't know. I feel
31:02
like it was a really fun episode this year to
31:04
talk about Chimerical and go, Oh my
31:06
gosh, you know, not
31:09
Not realizing some of these things that
31:11
we do and we live with, uh, are,
31:14
are already in them.
31:16
I mean, I think any character I've ever created,
31:19
they just have to have ADHD. There's no, because
31:21
I don't know any better. I don't know, I
31:24
don't know what else to do. And I love that.
31:26
I love that. You know? Um,
31:29
and this, this podcast has helped with that. So that's,
31:31
that's what I think.
31:32
So Fitz question number one. I love
31:35
this one, Matt. Where
31:37
do you find the line between an ADHDism
31:39
trait to accept and
31:41
accommodate with a badge of pride, and
31:44
a trait that you attempt to change
31:46
or mask intentionally?
31:51
Where do you find the line? So
31:54
answering the first part of that question, I
31:57
don't find the line. There are things that I am
31:59
absolutely proud about and be like, Nope, that's how
32:01
I am. Take it or leave it. Um,
32:03
and then there are absolutely things. So
32:05
not forcing myself to treat
32:08
everything on an equal plane, I
32:10
guess would be the first part of that answer. Um,
32:14
my, I will share, since I
32:16
just said that I don't have a line, thing I
32:18
still wish I could change, there's
32:20
two, um, One
32:22
I'm actively working on, one will probably
32:24
never change, um, the one I'm actively
32:26
working on. But
32:29
what I'm actively working on is the whole impulsive,
32:31
interrupting, listening to
32:33
understand instead of to respond. Um,
32:36
It's a tough one.
32:37
because That would make me a better friend, it would make me a better player,
32:40
it would make me a better GM, it would, it would be
32:42
part of everything I want to be. Um,
32:45
so yeah, actively working on that. Um,
32:48
don't like that I do it. Don't think it's cute.
32:52
Don't want to do it anymore. Um, and
32:55
messiness. I'm just a messy
32:57
human. And sometimes
32:59
it's funny to be like, Oh, my God, here comes Alison, the hot
33:01
mess. Haha, I'm such a trash panda. But
33:04
like,
33:12
Oh my god. Is
33:15
that what you say? Oh my god.
33:17
Or is that what your friends say? Oh god.
33:20
definitely the internal monologue. Trash
33:25
pandemonium, baby. Um,
33:27
Yeah,
33:28
I don't like that. I don't like that, like, when people come
33:30
over to my and all of my friends are like, Alison, stop
33:33
apologizing. Like, we know you. Like,
33:35
the jig's up, baby. Like,
33:37
but I still feel the need. Like, if you and
33:39
Lindsay were gonna come visit me, two people
33:41
that I love, that I know love me, I would
33:44
Like, turn myself inside
33:46
out with fear of like, Matt and Lindsay
33:48
are going to walk into my house and see how messy
33:50
it is and turn around and walk out. Um,
33:54
the fix there is to just be less
33:56
messy, but
33:58
Yeah, I know. I,
34:01
I'm the same. I really am.
34:03
I get it. I really do. I get
34:05
it. It's hard. It is pandemonium
34:08
it
34:09
but I,
34:10
trash pandemonium.
34:12
uh, I love your answer. Is that, is that your final
34:14
answer?
34:15
That's my final answer.
34:19
Uh, I, I
34:21
would say it's such a good
34:23
question, Fitz, that
34:26
I really think that between. Coaching,
34:29
ADHD coaching, and
34:31
this podcast, and then
34:33
other people that I have met and
34:35
talked to. Between all of these things,
34:37
and the more that I discover that the
34:40
reason I don't like the small fork is possibly
34:43
something happening in here, you
34:45
know? The masking
34:48
parts, I work the hardest on
34:50
because I realize they can hurt other
34:52
people, right? Or they,
34:54
uh, annoy, or, or,
34:56
or, or make other people's lives
34:58
more difficult, or Whatever.
35:01
So, yes, I can
35:03
easily say, oh well, I have ADHD,
35:07
ehhh, right, like, but, I
35:10
think the trick there is to say,
35:12
I do have this, so this is going to happen,
35:15
so you're okay. That's okay.
35:17
Cause you can't stop it. However,
35:20
how can I be
35:22
even more aware of where I am and
35:24
who I'm with? And, not
35:27
mask, like be, find
35:30
that, find the, that actual line,
35:32
you know, and ride that line and say,
35:35
this is why it's happening, but
35:37
I want it to
35:40
be, I want
35:42
to make this an easier experience
35:44
for people I'm around too. Two.
35:47
Right? For myself and for them. Right? So
35:49
that's a big thing. And then, and then
35:51
the thing that I really, really, really, really would
35:53
love to work on this year, for real, is
35:56
just the. My
35:59
inability to
36:03
voice the
36:05
things that happen in my head as,
36:07
as succinctly as they are in here as,
36:10
you know, I would like to finish sentences
36:13
more. The difficulty is that,
36:16
in my head, I've already finished
36:18
that sentence and I'm on to the next one. And
36:20
I, I, I think that's okay with people,
36:23
around people who love me. I don't love
36:25
it when I'm a Game Master and it's happening.
36:28
That's where I really, really want to work on
36:30
it, right? I want to be more focused.
36:33
I want to, to find the ability
36:35
to say
36:38
what I mean and say it clearly.
36:40
And so, yeah, Breaking down the sentences in my
36:42
head in a slower fashion
36:44
and forcing myself to kind of, uh,
36:48
make sure that everyone around me understands
36:50
what I'm saying. That's what I want.
36:53
Yeah. I loved.
36:55
Well, and I love that you touched on the
36:57
first part of Fitz's question, which is where do you
37:00
find the line?
37:01
Mmhmm.
37:01
I think that delineation, like, it's fine if
37:03
I'm out here, like, screwing myself
37:06
over. I don't want this
37:08
to hurt other people. I don't want this to have a negative
37:11
effect on my, you know,
37:13
and that's, that's the thing about growth,
37:16
right, is that it's on
37:18
one hand, boundaries are good. This is I
37:20
am how I am. I is what I is. But
37:24
if that's your answer for everything, and you're like, sorry,
37:27
deal with it. I'm just a saucy
37:29
bossy lady. Like,
37:33
it's okay to be an ass kicker and in certain
37:37
ways, but like, maybe you could soften
37:39
some edges here And there. Um,
37:41
And you don't want, you don't want people to,
37:44
you don't want people to make
37:46
you feel like you need to apologize for yourself
37:48
if you don't believe that either. That's,
37:51
that's not, that's not it. But yes,
37:53
we know those people who are like, Hang
37:55
on, I'll just deal with it. This is who I
37:57
am. I don't know why they always
37:59
have a bobble head,
38:02
but you know, they usually have a bobble
38:04
head. And yeah, so I
38:06
think, I think that's, that's
38:08
great to know yourself, but also,
38:10
yeah, there are other people. Put
38:12
yourself into other people's shoes. That's,
38:15
is tough for
38:18
some people who have not thought
38:20
about this the way that we have. Because
38:23
I'm not saying they're wrong.
38:25
I'm saying I don't share that.
38:28
I don't share that belief. It could be correct
38:30
for you, it's not correct for me.
38:32
So believe
38:35
it or not. I know it's
38:37
hard, it is hard to believe, it
38:39
is so hard to believe, but I do not
38:41
feel the same way, I don't, I just
38:43
don't, I don't know, you know, Yeah.
38:45
so that's, whee,
38:47
Insert, uh, Real Housewives
38:50
meme here. That's my opinion! Um,
38:54
sorry, sometimes I like to be a walking meme.
38:56
take it,
38:57
There very few things that are black and white in
38:59
this world, and it's like right, wrong, one answer.
39:02
back, yeah,
39:03
Um, yeah, you're right, that I
39:05
can think one thing and you can think it, oh wow. Now
39:08
we're just openly laughing at each other about everything. Fitz's
39:14
final question, um, which I really
39:16
liked and would be a good ending
39:19
punctuation, uh, mark.
39:21
What was your favorite one shot
39:23
or even just a regular game session
39:26
this year? What about it?
39:28
Stood out above all the rest.
39:35
I think we each get two answers.
39:37
one as a DM and one as a player.
39:40
Play a play for
39:41
It's my podcast and I'm making up
39:43
the rules.
39:44
Thank you for having me on your podcast. by the way.
39:46
I don't tell, I don't tell you that enough. Thank
39:48
you so much.
39:49
Thank you for
39:50
Mm-Hmm,
39:50
me on your podcast.
39:51
Yeah, of course. Okay, so go.
39:54
What are your two answers?
39:55
so as a DM, um, my
39:58
kind of turning point this year
40:00
Because I had done very little DMing coming
40:03
into 2023 and, and
40:05
Yes.
40:06
didn't actually like it all that much.
40:08
Um, or so I thought, and you
40:11
have all changed my opinion about
40:13
it. Um, I did learn
40:15
and I had this realization and verbalized it for
40:17
the first time just a week or so ago. I just
40:19
think I'm more of a, one shot
40:21
DM like I kept trying
40:24
to fill these campaign sized
40:26
holes as a DM and it just kept not
40:28
feeling good in my body and once
40:30
i realize like i just am a one shot girly
40:34
everything kind of clicked for me. But
40:36
i think the very first one shot session
40:39
That, like,
40:42
I had a, like, I felt like I got
40:44
it. I got
40:46
this, like, I felt confident in what I was
40:48
doing, was the
40:50
Harmony of Discord one
40:53
shot. I did two sessions of it. Um.
40:57
I had done, I think the very first one that
40:59
I had done was Battle for the Hottie Hive. If
41:01
you were in that one shot, I am sorry. I had no
41:04
idea what I was doing. And
41:06
I was so like, I had spent hours and hours
41:09
and hours preparing for that one and still
41:11
felt woefully unprepared and like I just
41:13
wasn't delivering a good enough product.
41:16
The next one was the Journey to the Forbidden
41:19
Vault. And that one was pretty fun.
41:21
Like, that one I was like, okay, like, this is starting
41:23
to click. It's cool to, like, play with strangers.
41:25
That's less scary than I thought it was
41:27
going to be. But, like, Harmony
41:30
of Discord was the one shot where I felt
41:33
empowered enough to, like, make my own decisions.
41:36
To, like, come up with these kind of weird
41:39
things to throw at my players. Um,
41:41
I had, knowing who was playing in
41:43
that session, like, I had put in some, like,
41:45
funny little things to taunt
41:48
y'all with. Um, And
41:50
I remember your feedback, Matt,
41:52
specifically, and it made me go like, Oh,
41:55
I should do more of this, was around
41:57
strong start,
41:58
Mm.
42:00
that's important in a campaign and a one shot to kind
42:02
of come out of the, it doesn't necessarily mean
42:04
come out in a combat,
42:06
but you had also remarked that since I am
42:08
the self proclaimed combat gremlin, I
42:10
had come out of the
42:13
gate swinging in that one. And it was fun.
42:15
And it kind of showed you guys immediately
42:17
what you would be fighting against. Um,
42:20
so yeah, so I think that was my favorite, like, okay,
42:23
like, I can do this. And every one shot
42:25
that we've done since has been a little bit easier
42:28
for me.
42:28
Yes.
42:29
Um, Honorable Mention was the one
42:31
that you and I co wrote. It was fun
42:33
to partner with you on that,
42:35
Mm hmm.
42:36
Anything we do together is going to be more fun than
42:38
anything I do on my own. Um,
42:41
and had this idea of like, maybe we could start producing
42:43
one shots and put them out for the world in
42:46
an ADHD friendly fashion
42:48
so that people like
42:50
us can feel empowered to do more themselves.
42:54
Um, do you want to answer your
42:56
DM? One or do you want me to go?
42:58
Well, that, that was actually going to be mine.
43:00
The Spice Willow, Haunting of a Spice Willow
43:02
Manor, for those reasons, uh,
43:05
I don't, I, I would not, you know,
43:07
I, I know it's not a perfect, uh,
43:09
it's not a perfect module, it's not a perfect one
43:12
shot, but Working
43:14
with you, I saw that we could,
43:16
we could make something happen.
43:19
We really could. You are, who just
43:21
said this? Jax.
43:23
You are a great DM, and
43:25
you're a really great one shot
43:29
DM. You know, we haven't played a campaign together, so
43:31
I wouldn't know, but you are
43:33
so You're so good
43:36
at, at organizing
43:38
a three to four hour experience,
43:41
and so I loved having
43:44
those guidelines
43:46
and then adding weird,
43:48
darker stuff here and there
43:51
and plot and, and things that
43:53
I'm gonna, so I really hope
43:55
in 2024 that we work
43:59
on, and maybe even release,
44:01
uh, a first, like, ADHD
44:04
friendly one shot, you
44:06
know? I I I think that would be amazing,
44:08
and you had some amazing ideas of
44:10
how that would be, so that, yes, that was my GM one. Ahem.
44:13
Good answer. Good answer. Players always
44:16
surprise you. It's always the thing you throw
44:18
in there that they are like, tell me more
44:20
about this chair.
44:21
Mm hmm. Yeah.
44:22
Um, my favorite, I've had a lot
44:25
of hits, uh, uh,
44:28
playing. I've had a lot of great moments.
44:30
Um, but I'm going to give, and maybe
44:32
cause I'm, I'm the type of person that like, you know,
44:35
like. My favorite
44:37
thing is whatever I'm, have
44:39
consumed most closely, you know,
44:42
um, I loved
44:44
playing in especially part two
44:46
of the Shadows Cast in Ember Tide. Um,
44:50
I loved the idea.
44:52
So first of all, for those of you who have been paying
44:54
attention for any amount of time, you know that I am the one
44:57
that hates newness. I
45:01
get so scared.
45:02
Yeah. Heh
45:04
for anything new and, and, and, and
45:06
was nervous about TTRPGs Picking
45:08
up a new game and, you know, and
45:11
playing it for presumably the world
45:13
to see. all the world, the whole
45:15
wide world. Um,
45:17
heh heh heh heh
45:18
You know, and we wanted to do, we wanted to do DC20
45:21
and Coach justice. We also, it was,
45:23
you know, like our first time really getting to
45:25
show off our world, um,
45:27
in a, in a more public way. Uh,
45:30
I loved building characters from
45:32
scratch on camera and
45:34
like letting be part
45:36
of that process. That was something that I
45:38
had a hunch was gonna be fun. And it was way more
45:41
fun than even I thought it was gonna
45:42
Yeah. Yeah.
45:43
Um, and you know, part one, I think
45:45
we were all kind of like finding our rhythm
45:47
and we were all like a little bit nervous and getting
45:49
into it, but man, I felt like
45:51
by the time we get into part two we were just
45:54
like sprinting at that point. We
45:56
were soaring. Um. And
45:58
it just felt really good to, to share
46:00
our world, to share our characters that we had
46:02
created live, and then just to
46:04
share our antics, to let people see,
46:07
like, that really is what it's like to play. Like, Evan
46:09
is like That That is how Evan plays.
46:11
Yeah. That's it. Right.
46:13
What Fitz does when we play. Um,
46:16
you know, and so.
46:17
And, and, that is, you
46:19
know, whenever, whenever somebody says, Why,
46:21
why are you not just writing a book, reading
46:24
a book, watching a movie? Why are you spending
46:27
four hours playing a game? It's
46:29
because Evan is at the
46:31
table, Fitz is gonna go try
46:33
to kill some, uh, mutant, uh,
46:35
raccoons, and then,
46:38
and then, dice are rolled,
46:41
dice are rolled, that change
46:44
everything. That can change every
46:46
single thing. But yeah, I mean, just,
46:48
that, it just, it adds,
46:51
I mean, that is life, right? Life is random,
46:53
life is chaotic, but to
46:55
be able to have that little capsule
46:58
of, so maybe that's my favorite thing. Maybe
47:01
that's my favorite thing is just
47:03
for those three hours, good game, bad
47:06
game, whatever it is, you're kind
47:08
of, you're kind
47:10
of like putting the best of you
47:12
into that thing with all the
47:14
randomness and
47:16
Mm hmm.
47:17
Amazing. So fun. gonna
47:19
go I'm gonna go with the first time that we
47:21
played DC20 with Coach, uh,
47:24
the Dungeon Coach, and I'm not saying that because,
47:27
like, it was, you know, immediately
47:30
the best game we had ever experienced, it
47:32
was one of them, certainly, but like, uh,
47:35
it was just such a, I had heard
47:38
about him online, and he seemed
47:40
like a swell fella, and then going
47:42
there, and I just, we had
47:44
played a bunch of really bad games, and
47:47
I just wanted to end it. Gary
47:50
Con on a high. And we
47:52
sat down, and, the, the environment
47:54
was correct. It was not too loud.
47:57
It was later at night and just
48:00
watching him, his brain
48:02
kind of open. He is a great dungeon master. He
48:04
really is. And, and watching his brain kind of
48:06
open up and share this thing I
48:09
thought was going to be another
48:11
Tales of the Valiant, another sort of 5e
48:14
thing, which I You know, like
48:16
I've said, it would have been great, but
48:19
I think that that was
48:21
very fun and I enjoyed it. But
48:23
then what it then meant for us
48:25
all as a team,
48:26
Mm hmm.
48:27
Moving forward. To
48:30
have him on this show, to be able to
48:32
reach out and to say, Well,
48:35
look, we are, we are doing what
48:38
we want and we set out to do
48:40
in 2023, which is get out
48:42
there, go to these conventions, see if we like
48:44
it, meet people, you know, get
48:47
to know people who are as crazy
48:50
passionate about this world as
48:52
we are. And he is one of those. You
48:54
know, he is one of those people. And so, I
48:57
think that was a high for me. And it, plus
48:59
it was a really great one shot. I will say this,
49:01
it was, it was a better one shot than, than
49:03
the, the subsequent one. And the one
49:05
that's in the Alpha. I'll just, side note.
49:07
That's a spicy take. But, his first,
49:10
that was a really fun thing.
49:13
It was, it, it had a lot of, Dimensions
49:16
to it. We were kind of in this forest thing.
49:18
There were, there were running goblins
49:20
on wolves and stuff. So it
49:22
was swinging from trees.
49:25
I would say that that's, that was, that was a
49:27
highlight for me this
49:28
Yeah. Fitz says that game was the
49:30
origin of a lot of what
49:31
Exactly. Thank you. That's a way
49:34
better, of course, way better way
49:37
of putting it than this over explained
49:39
mouth, but yes, it was
49:41
the origin of a lot of things that came. Y'all
49:44
out there came, we
49:46
would not know you if that game hadn't happened,
49:49
um, we would not
49:51
have been as inspired to do what
49:53
we did this year, yeah. That
49:55
win for me.
49:56
Everything that you said. All
49:58
of it.
49:59
Mhm.
50:00
great. All of it wonderful. Um,
50:02
and also, it scratches
50:05
one of my, like, cornerstones
50:07
of my spiritual philosophies,
50:10
which is What is meant for you
50:12
will not pass you by. You
50:14
don't have to chase anything. Like it's
50:16
all just coming to you. And, and
50:19
when I think back about that, there was no
50:21
reason that that session should
50:23
have caught your attention. It wasn't
50:25
particularly well labeled. The,
50:28
the, we've talked about this, the
50:30
UX of the Gary Con signup
50:32
was abysmal. And
50:35
how on earth
50:37
Yeah. How
50:37
you managed to both see
50:40
that it was happening, I saw
50:42
your wheels turning because you and Fitz and I were all
50:44
on Zoom trying to make this happen, and,
50:47
and there was space and we were able just to slide
50:49
right in when everything else was such a like heated
50:52
grab to get seats at any given table
50:55
proves to me like we are moving
50:57
in the direction you that
50:59
we are supposed to be moving in. We were
51:01
always supposed to meet Coach. We were always supposed to
51:03
meet our new friends here. We were always supposed
51:05
to do this weird shit together. Um,
51:09
and like, to exactly what you
51:11
and Fitz just said, it was the origin of kind of like
51:13
what was to come after that, that
51:16
really shaped the rest of the year
51:18
Yeah.
51:19
for me slash us.
51:21
So let's keep it up.
51:23
Okay. Do you
51:25
like wanna come on my podcast some more next
51:27
year?
51:28
Yeah, could I, may I co
51:30
host this podcast with you next year? A couple
51:33
of times maybe?
51:34
maybe? all of the time
51:35
Oh, I'll have to
51:37
check my calendar, dude. I'm
51:40
a very busy person.
51:41
are
51:42
Oh yeah,
51:43
Very busy and important. I
51:49
yeah, yeah. I want, I just
51:51
want more. I mean, I, I truly, last,
51:54
last year was, and the last
51:56
year's podcast, The Farewell,
51:58
was like all these things we wanted to do. I
52:00
just want more of what we did this year. Bigger
52:03
and more and, and, and I
52:06
think there's room. I think we have room in our hearts and I
52:08
think we have room in our, in our, in our
52:10
schedules. We'll make room for it and
52:12
we'll So, yeah, I
52:15
want to meet more people like y'all,
52:17
And that's the thing, like going back to the question about like,
52:19
how can y'all help? Like, yeah, this would be
52:21
the goal that this becomes our
52:24
focus. Like, you know, one
52:26
thing that made me sad is I was looking back
52:28
through Patreon and realizing, like, we
52:30
just haven't had the capacity to do like a blooper
52:32
reel lately, or Yeah. Morning
52:34
announcements, like we want to get back to doing
52:37
more of that stuff, but sometimes like
52:39
we got to actually do client work And stuff like that too. Um,
52:42
so,
52:43
that we're lucky. We know that we're super
52:46
lucky, and we've said that we
52:48
would still be doing this podcast even if we,
52:50
if we never make a dime for it. And
52:52
that's totally true. But
52:55
yes, please, but please, but please.
52:58
Uh, let's all work together to,
53:00
to let this be a
53:02
I'm not saying I want the like, we need
53:04
to make all the money in the world doing it. but I am saying I want
53:07
to do more of it. And in order to be able to do more of it,
53:09
we have to replace some,
53:11
some income with some different
53:13
streams.
53:14
that's cool.
53:15
And yeah I would love it if we could put
53:17
these out, you know, like, what if next year we could have
53:19
like, 24
53:21
episodes of ADHD 20. And
53:24
I would that well that's the goal we did 18, 19
53:27
next year we are on on par
53:29
for especially if we start recording in 2023.
53:32
man what a favor we are doing to 2024
53:34
Matt and Alison yeah
53:40
but I want a bonus reel to
53:42
go with every episode
53:44
do do do do do Yeah,
53:53
those of you who are listening back now. Um,
53:56
for, for, for liking
53:59
this podcast and, and listening to
54:01
it and, and then, you know, thinking
54:03
about it with us and, uh, it's just
54:06
so great. It's the best life.
54:08
Yeah.
54:10
I agree.
54:11
Yep. So, thanks.
54:12
See you in a 2024.
54:15
See you in
54:16
see you next week, but the rest of
54:17
and then in 2024,
54:20
coming, coming at you,
54:21
fireworks And the
54:22
the thing, and it's sneaking through the grass,
54:25
it's gonna get you, it's gonna
54:27
but the silly hats didn't fit
54:29
on our heads with our headphones
54:31
So silly hat.
54:34
ADHD20 is a creation from
54:37
the Pocket Dimension, a multiverse
54:39
where we explore neurospice,
54:41
rolling dice,
54:42
and so much more. Come
54:45
chat with us in our Discord server, open to
54:47
all. The join link is in our show notes.
54:49
Ready to level up your support? Check
54:51
out The Pocket Dimension's Patreon, where
54:53
you can get access to bonus content, be
54:56
the first to hear new episodes, and even
54:58
play TTRPGs with us and our
55:00
friends.
55:01
The best way you can help us, though, is just
55:03
to share the gift of ADHD20
55:05
with the people that you think will like it.
55:07
We love that you're here. Thank
55:09
you for entering The Pocket Dimension.
Podchaser is the ultimate destination for podcast data, search, and discovery. Learn More