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All. There is with Anderson. Cooper is
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supported by Ever North Health Services.
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It's so strange when and how grief hits
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you. I worked all weekend in Los Angeles
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and flew back to New York. Played Sunday
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so I could be home and my kids
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woke up Monday morning. I
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was in the car from the airport. it
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was too am but suddenly I was on
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the balcony and my mom's apartment, replaying the
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last second some my brother's life. It's
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like I was trapped
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suspended in this obliterating
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sadness and swallowed me.
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The. Violence of it. The. Horror of
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it. I felt like I
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might pass out, but I just sat there. Were.
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Tears dripping from my eyes On able to
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move. I'm not
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sure how long exactly I did this in
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the dark in the backseat of the car.
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Finally, I forced myself to breathe
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deeply. He's. Gone
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I thought. All. Of them
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are gone. I'm
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alone. This.
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Is all there is. I.
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Think I'm going to stop this podcast in a week
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or two. I think I need to take a break
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from it. Forbid. I've. Already done in
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interview for next week's episode and the following
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week. I want to finish the season with
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your voices with your calls. I
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ended last season with your messages and I think
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that's how the season should end as well. We've.
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Set up a new phone line for you to
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call if you'd like. Leave a message in her
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voice mail box, let me know if there's something
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that you've learned in your grief that might help
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others. I can't promise we'll use
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your message, but I do promise I'll listen
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to all the messages though it may take
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me some time. Feel. Free
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to leave your name and phone number, but you don't
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have to. The. Number To call Nine
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One Seven Seven Two Seven Six Eight
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One Eight. That's Nine One Seven Seven
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Two Seven Six Eight One Eight. And
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I'll say that again in the end
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of the podcast. Will be
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right back with my gas today! A remarkable
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woman. Really want you to hear from
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Her name is so my name, mom
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issue Harris. All.
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There is with Anderson Cooper supported
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by Ever North Health Services. Last
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day and the cel about the moments
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that change as I just don't think
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I will ever get used to this
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and Stephanie what else and I have
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had one of these moments we all
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have. So let's unpack the chaos that
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is our human existence together. I don't
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believe things happen for a reason. I
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don't believe the universe has a plan.
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Each week I sit down with a
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new guest to explore happy sad stories
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of transformation. as leanings are far
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as. And
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to last. Will
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come back. And I guess today
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is summer. Him: Harris Everyone calls her
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mom issue. She spent twenty
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seven years working as an administrator
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and schools and Michigan's She's a
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community activist, the minister, and a
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mom. And two thousand and
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seven. Her two year old son, Jacoby was
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killed when he was hit by a car
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while crossing the street with his ten year
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old brother, senior Lou. In.
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Her grief mom issue decided to
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try and transform what was a
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rundown block and Highland Park and
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enclave of Detroit into a vibrant
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community she named as Avalon Village.
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In. Twenty twenty one her other sons in
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yea Lou was murdered. He was twenty three
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years old. I sat down with
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mom issue last week. Thank.
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You so much for doing this. How
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did you get that He mom issue So
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in my community were dressed as mama
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or baba which means father in it's basically
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an African is like a handle just
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like Mr or Ms so it's also like
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a form of respect. The shoe is
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sh You is the Egyptian god of the
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air so my name is so my
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team mom issue here is. Your.
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Son Jacoby was killed when
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use just two years old.
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Where. He like. he was two years,
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one month and six days old to
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be exact. Then he was very, very
4:02
smart. I believe he was just a
4:04
prodigy who's a Dj. He would have
4:06
the microphone, wrapping and everything. and he
4:08
would work that turntable and that's amazing.
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Oh yes, it was the buttons and
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everything though. He was just a bold
4:14
little something while he was here. Just
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a special little been. He was and
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is. Would. Happen. No matter. To
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me a loo and Jacoby. Were.
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Crossing the street, they were holding
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hands and they stepped right off
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of the curb. And then they
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was a car that came barreling
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down the street pretty fast and
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hit Jacoby and the and he's.
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Kind. Of landed over by the street
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lights and the my daughter caffeine
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she was twelve sees ran outside
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and see picture Colby up and
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see was the answer Colby Jacoby
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He ended up being brain damage
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didn't get that much oxygen his
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brain he was connected to the
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tubes and everything but basically his
4:55
his head on hold and on
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and we knew with the inevitable
4:59
was gonna be and the and
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what we decided to do was
5:03
wait until my other daughter Aziza
5:05
got back to Detroit. So but
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she can give him a hug and everything
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and so classy she still had are close,
5:12
was still like have blood on him and
5:14
everything but she sat there in the chair
5:16
or waited until Aziza got there was like
5:18
overnight and she was twelve years old. She
5:21
was twelve years old when she sat there
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and they were so so close they were
5:25
so close to the see state there she
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stayed right there like a big sister and
5:29
waited on other big sisters a com so
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she can basically say to buy what was
5:34
that night like for you. That.
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Night was one of the roughest a night
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I really didn't think I was gonna last
5:40
overnight. Literally I thought I just wouldn't be
5:42
able to make it. You know I thought
5:44
that maybe my heart would stop. Ah, I
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don't know I I I couldn't function no
5:48
more, wouldn't be able to eat. Added know
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what was going to happen because you know
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Anderson. Sometimes me and my friends we would
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hear about things that would happen to other
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families and their children actually died and we
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would have. The was oh my God. I
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would not be able to take it of my
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career would I? Oh my god I was just
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want to crawl into the grave whittam Just those
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are the kind of things that we were saying
6:10
before and so it actually happened to me and
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it was. Even the pain was worse later on
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it didn't get better. It's like the first year
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as says horrible. Just a
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realization that much you got killed like
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I actually lost my two year old
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son, he was actually hit by a
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car old and my other sons had
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an yes it just it just got
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worse. And when I mean by getting
6:32
worse it seems like their first year
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as like almost the first of everything
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you know, the first birthday, the first
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holidays, these first things that you just
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noticed that somebody miss and. I
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heard you say something and I
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found it really moving. Said I
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chose to transform my pain and
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power my grief into glory my
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loss into love. When. I heard
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that I was like wow. Yeah
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cuz one thing it does end up being
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a choice. You. Know sometimes
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we can be in. In. Greece
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so long but at at some point
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we do have to keep it moving.
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Because those loved ones have kept moving. They.
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Move in. Had you do that?
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Man, I'm telling you every single
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things I do right now is
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Greece. This is Greece. It just
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looks beautiful. And
7:23
as the way that I look at it said
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this is grieving your still grieving. Oh
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yes. Every single moment. Every single
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moment. Every single mom with.
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There's not a moment that I don't think
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about every detail of what happened. I've heard
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you say in the past, Jacoby gives me
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courage, just keeps me going. A lot of
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the things we do run children are because
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the him, can you talk about that after
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Jacoby death. Would. Then
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lead you. To. Try.
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To change your community. When I was
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a little girl my neighborhood was beautiful.
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Our talk to the elders and go
7:56
to the store and my school was
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just right around the corner. And everything
8:00
that you needed in want. It was
8:02
right, say earth in the neighborhood and
8:04
I wanted to recreate that Highland Park
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at one time was. One.
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Of the best neighborhoods in Michigan it
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was. It was very beautiful. The City
8:13
of Trees is just was so beautiful
8:15
and does it. Took a hit with
8:17
Chrysler moving out and our school started
8:19
getting close down and I wanted it
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to rise like the Phoenix and be
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beautiful again. a place that is really
8:26
really highly desire to live in. and
8:28
I just started on this block and
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I remember just envisioning it. I don't
8:32
want to leave the hood, a lot
8:34
of people leave, they want to go
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to may be somewhere safer or somewhere.
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The has a better school system and you
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know just all of these things that they
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feel. Better, better, and I'm like, you know what? I'm Stay
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a ride on this block and I'm just. Gonna come
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Packed! Everything that I want on this block
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and the people want on this block. You've.
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Acquired Forty five lots of land is
8:54
Aaron. Yup, six structures and the rest
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as land. It took about eight years
8:58
to actually clean it up as all
9:00
I'm building a village we have a
9:02
par cause you call Be While Parts
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it has his picture. His headstone is
9:06
actually the i didn't put it in
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the cemetery. I have them delivered here.
9:10
It's a beautiful space. It's real sunshiny
9:13
just like him. Their been weddings there.
9:15
There have been celebrations in that park.
9:17
Yes, Yes, I also do memorials
9:19
and funerals and the park on the
9:22
first similar has you're actually was my
9:24
bonus I had a stop sign. his
9:26
name was P Li. he got killed
9:28
when he was thirty four years though
9:30
he was murdered. made the thirteenth two
9:32
thousand and fifteen cents and I did
9:35
his funeral here in the park. But
9:37
the homework house was the very first
9:39
structure that I wanted to finish and
9:41
it took about five years and some
9:43
change to build actually album workhouses please.
9:45
Kids can go after school do. Their
9:48
homework. And of his
9:50
music studio there yet but they have all
9:52
kinds of says since our class we also
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have a washing machine and dryer of work
9:56
at in a school system or saw a
9:58
lot of children. How
10:00
many? And their clothes were dirty Eve
10:03
I have underwear and socks and all
10:05
of those things uniform serve. Everything is
10:07
all nice and crispy. We have school
10:09
supplies and they get a meal and
10:12
everything so we have to stem lab.
10:14
I was able to get a grant
10:16
for our our science, technology, engineering and
10:19
mathematics are we. We built one out
10:21
of a shipping containers, but there's a
10:23
lot of children unfortunately who have lost
10:25
their siblings, their brothers and sisters and
10:28
uncles through mostly murder, mostly crimes, Like
10:30
that and so we try to have
10:32
support for them. We have support groups
10:35
here at the Homework House. I read
10:37
that the one street lights. On.
10:39
The street was repossessed is that even
10:42
allowed. So anderson they took all of
10:44
the streetlights in Highland Park, all of
10:46
the residential areas. The streetlights got repossess
10:48
back in two thousand and eleven. So
10:50
they actually came and picked up the
10:53
polls and actually took a mills about
10:55
maybe twelve hundred and they took amount
10:57
of all of the side streets. So
10:59
right now Avalon Village and another area
11:01
we did a fund raiser were the
11:04
only very first real it blocks says
11:06
the lights were repossessed so you're the
11:08
only one. was. Like we have six
11:10
solar streetlights five of I'm have wife I
11:12
capability souls. The kids could pull up, do
11:15
their homework, people can sit in a park
11:17
and seal and and sit in their car
11:19
that they need to get on the internet.
11:21
How much has all this call so far.
11:25
Oh my Goodness. Home.
11:27
Ortiz or I probably say may be close
11:30
to a million and a half and this
11:32
is over time. We raise our two hundred
11:34
and fifty thousand and are very first kickstarter
11:37
that we deal with. Apple's likes the first
11:39
big chunk of money that I was able
11:41
to initiate and start the Village Sold. I
11:43
just try to find funding through grants and
11:46
different things like that to build what it
11:48
is that we need an asshole Fish sandwiches
11:50
and stuff to Anderson Yep to the had
11:52
we had bake sales fish sandwiches to buy
11:55
the other by the land. You
11:57
know some of the plan was three hundred
11:59
bucks for the law, the and everything. So
12:01
my goal is to have a nice beautiful
12:04
art that says welcome to Avalon Village like
12:06
when you pull up in those beautiful gated
12:08
communities how it looks what all the beautiful
12:10
shops and and or to have coffee and
12:12
tea and sit and read a book in
12:14
the park and the concerts and different things
12:16
like that. So we're doing all of that. We're doing
12:19
all the that. Mama
12:23
Shoes only surviving son to me a
12:25
loop who was ten years old when
12:27
that speeding car ripped his little brother
12:29
Jacobus Hand from his work security and
12:32
Avalon Village. On. January. Twenty
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Six Twenty twenty one. He was
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shot to death. Every.
12:38
Detail of what happened to. My sons
12:40
and Yale Eu everything is to steal.
12:42
Everything is so vivid. Is this Three
12:44
Years one? Twenty Six Twenty One is
12:47
when he became an ancestor. And
12:50
would happen to him. Ca.
12:52
Lu his name is to nail gab
12:54
to hero so he's out of murdered
12:57
somebody shot him five times. He
12:59
was right across the street, He was sitting
13:01
in his truck and he was doing security.
13:04
I was inside of the house and I
13:06
was on zoom and I'll never forget it.
13:08
I heard some gunshots and us flung open
13:10
the on the front door in. I
13:13
started screaming sing a Lose Name
13:15
I once was hello and as
13:17
ten Ten Ten am us the
13:20
call him about eight nine ten
13:22
times. And are
13:24
actually I saw who killed my
13:26
son. And I
13:28
saw them run. Cindy.
13:30
Lou are he died in. Our neighbors
13:32
right across the alley died in there
13:35
doorway. He. Knocked on
13:37
their do bans on their door and he laid
13:39
out and he died. right? There
13:41
I remember straddling Shinji a Loo
13:43
and are. He
13:47
was, he was bleeding and he was gone
13:49
at that point and I remember just look
13:51
at Adam and I just whispered in a
13:53
mattress remember so he had seized. This.
13:56
Is it? This is the day? This.
13:59
Is that day? You are really
14:01
gone. And
14:03
I just whispers some things in his ear
14:05
and I just got up off of on
14:07
when the ambulance came and everything and I
14:09
saw them work and on him and everything
14:11
but already knew he was god you know
14:14
but they had to do that. By.
14:16
Already knew what it was. Yeah,
14:18
That right is a devastating. It still
14:20
is. That is still just very,
14:22
very fresh. And
14:25
you said to hims this is the day. Here.
14:29
The. Coast. So.
14:33
What I understand about humans as I
14:35
just feel that everybody comes here with
14:38
their own separate journey and the
14:40
love once in the family we never
14:42
know when they decide hate. The.
14:45
Gig as up for me. I've done
14:47
what I've done here on the planet.
14:49
This is it My son to Colby
14:52
uses up in two years, one month
14:54
and six days old and so I
14:56
understood that would see and to I'm
14:58
like wow twenty three Like this is
15:01
the detaching moment from him and us
15:03
and just being here are so. That's.
15:06
Just best way that I felt about it.
15:08
And now Jacoby in Sydney loom because they
15:10
come from me and I'm their mother. They
15:14
still live inside. Of me, this still
15:16
part of me and so a lot
15:18
of the things that are manifest a
15:20
manifest in their memory because they're still
15:23
living inside of. I can't detach from
15:25
that part. But physically
15:27
it's happened so I still feel that I
15:30
raise my children in the heavens. So a
15:32
lot of the beautiful things that we've done
15:34
of the park in my son's name a
15:36
bill Shrines for my son's We have a
15:39
basketball court that we call my three sons
15:41
and a has their faces on the basketball
15:43
court. I. Had it a bit beautiful
15:45
mural so those are like my three boys
15:48
but. Singles a
15:50
shrine is very beautiful. We got some
15:52
other some of his friends they helped
15:54
to build it and as a space
15:56
where they hang out so we have
15:58
our these beautiful lovely spaces or here
16:00
for the boys and in their memory.
16:03
Of heard you say but he became an ancestor.
16:05
Isn't and I'm wondering what that means to you.
16:08
So. Basically the ancestors. for me I believe
16:10
the map. you're physically but all of
16:12
their memories a lot of there's ways,
16:15
a lot of things that they do.
16:17
We can still honor them and I
16:19
still honor them. Whenever we have ceremonies
16:21
are we have parties or we have
16:23
something we want everybody to be there,
16:25
all the family members I do something
16:27
called libations. I have my cup in
16:29
a poor or water. We just call
16:31
out all of the folks who have
16:33
become ancestors, the folks who have died
16:35
in our families and we just bring
16:37
up them and. We. Bring up their energies
16:39
and we want them present. And. Then
16:42
when they get he we say they are
16:44
here and there we go ahead and party
16:46
almost anderson like when you see guys and
16:48
they may poor some wine or say this
16:50
is for the homies vessel we do. Best.
16:54
But a whole knees and for the family
16:56
members that are reside in the spirit world.
16:59
Jacoby. Died in two thousand and seven.
17:01
Yes, on his birthday you do
17:03
still have a big party i i'd heard
17:05
you had of of i have a big
17:07
like reggae concert. Ah yeah
17:09
we do Yes party up a
17:12
storm okay it's and say we
17:14
have the biggest gig up in
17:16
is God Arms Reggae in As
17:18
I said yes I just so
17:20
excited about it of assists that
17:23
so anyway so Jacoby was born
17:25
on Marcus Garvey birthdate ah August
17:27
seventeenth and so we have this
17:29
big old reggae are concert festival
17:31
and we have about four reggae
17:34
band and guess where we party
17:36
own sins birthday to am also
17:38
a when. He became it as as a soul.
17:41
For my boys they have to celebrations.
17:43
They have one for their birthday to they have
17:45
one when they become an ancestor, so on on.
17:48
September. Twenty Third, we have our
17:50
far Equinox bonfire and we also
17:52
celebrate Jacoby crossing over into the
17:54
Spirit world. I'm a minister since
17:56
two thousand and One and the
17:58
As A Pass. The edge in
18:01
the Bible and it talks
18:03
about enduring sadness. Psalms Thirty
18:05
Five is as weeping me
18:07
endure for a night. but
18:09
joy comes in the morning.
18:13
And for me, The joy for
18:15
me and isn't comes in the morning,
18:17
but not in the morning like you
18:19
wake up. It. Comes in
18:21
the M O you are in I
18:23
N g the actual morning and that's
18:25
what I've been able to find with
18:27
my boys and with my loved ones.
18:30
I've been able to find that that
18:32
piece right there so that I can
18:34
keep going and keep it moving here
18:36
on earth. and so the things that
18:38
I create it's morning that's why see
18:40
it as justices Greece but it's It's
18:42
like the beautiful side of Greece. And
18:45
there is a beautiful side of it. So
18:47
I think to be able find joy in
18:49
it would be an extraordinary thing. So.
18:52
Yeah for me to create Jacoby Raw Park
18:54
brought me healing, brought me joy, brought me
18:56
happiness and that's what I saw and I
18:58
talked to a lot of mothers who have
19:01
lost their sons and I saw them how
19:03
they can actually honor their children and create
19:05
shrines and do beautiful art works and what
19:07
did you some like and just to show
19:09
them how to put things together saw try
19:11
to find ways to help them but I
19:14
do tell him that as it gets more
19:16
bearable as you go on. I do say
19:18
that but I am very truthful about it
19:20
and say about this is just some. Ross
19:22
six years on a seal. For.
19:25
A while. You.
19:27
Know. For a while I think
19:29
that one of my own. One.
19:32
Of the greatest things here is just
19:34
to enjoy. Things. Right
19:36
now how they are right now
19:39
how beautiful they are right now
19:41
and not to are. Attached
19:44
herself. sold so tightly. Not
19:47
to touch yourself so tightly to to
19:49
work. I had to understand a detach
19:51
from the physical miss of them to
19:54
learn that peace. And know that I
19:56
can still deal with those. Boys on a higher level
19:58
and that's what I do, right? How to
20:00
be able to still be their mother, still
20:02
understand and and be able to a commune
20:04
with their spirits. I know that they are
20:07
gone and know that they're dead or know
20:09
that they're not here. I know that their
20:11
ancestors but are also know that they're still
20:13
here because they're part of me and I'm
20:15
still able to work with those boys and
20:17
I do and I feel them or know
20:19
when they are around and know when they
20:22
have their he in certain things. That happen.
20:24
I just feel it. And
20:27
you still have a relationship with them. Yes,
20:30
I have. A full relationship with
20:32
them for relationship. To.
20:35
Talk To them. I talk to them
20:37
of being a parent because I'm a feel
20:39
in my hear that I'm still a period
20:41
of still appeared but I'm reason these. Boys
20:43
in the Heavens. So I'm I'm still
20:46
connected. That's how I feel. And
20:48
I talk to them hey I'm doing this in
20:50
a certain things that happened that go through and
20:52
I'm like okay that when that would see and
20:55
you know. That. Were numbered. She had that
20:57
the assist you know. What
21:00
I was Jacoby right. there are ways
21:02
know quip always know which one to
21:04
sixty of I'm No barriers that acts
21:06
as a Caesar Zero disease of Signature.
21:10
Oh my goodness When whenever it's time
21:12
for Ra Ra for be to like,
21:14
stand up his destiny, lose. Like
21:17
Mar ah you are to do this and Whoop
21:19
Whoop Whoop that was is that that he would
21:21
have You got to do to whoop they do
21:23
I was like yes I am. Recently
21:26
at out with as you get Admin
21:29
aboard assists. The
21:31
person who was driving the
21:33
car. The. Killed coby
21:35
What happened to that person? So
21:37
jacoby. Just killer. He actually was
21:39
a neighbor. Anderson lived on our
21:41
same street. he got three to
21:44
fifteen years he ended up doing
21:46
three but I he was held
21:48
accountable and basically what happened was
21:50
he left the seem obscene knowing
21:52
he had hit hit your child.
21:54
Yes, And. That's why he
21:57
got three to fifteen years the people
21:59
who killed since. Lou. From what I
22:01
understand one of them is deceased and the
22:03
other one is in jail right now. He's
22:05
a and for another crime so I'm trying
22:07
to work with the authorities. I'm telling them
22:10
I saw what happened, I saw the people
22:12
running away, I saw the mid i can
22:14
it's dinner fi the young man and everything
22:16
I don't know is says really really slow
22:18
and is just dragon and are. That
22:21
right there for me and isn't It adds
22:23
to the grease just as is important for
22:25
you. Goof. Yes,
22:28
it is. Because. I got just
22:30
as with Jacoby but just as for to
22:32
game was really important to me because. Because.
22:35
It just is end up being said he
22:37
should be held accountable. So for me that
22:39
part right there is gonna be solved in
22:42
is gonna be taking care of. His
22:44
or something you've learned in your grief. That.
22:47
Would help others who are listening right now. In
22:50
their grief I was say
22:52
to strive to stay connected.
22:55
Even though the physical bond.
22:58
Has been severed. Because
23:00
those souls have something else to do.
23:03
Still, Just know that their party you. They
23:06
may not seem like it right then and there.
23:08
But. It is a beautiful day. Later on in
23:11
a can be a beautiful thing later on. That
23:13
notion that you can still have a
23:15
relationship with somebody who's died. Is
23:18
something I've I've learned in the first
23:20
season. this podcast from people was talking
23:22
to and he was a revelation to
23:24
me. And I'm.
23:29
It's extraordinary and is It has
23:31
helped me tremendously. that idea and
23:33
sort of opened up my mind
23:35
to thinking about grief and a
23:37
different. And
23:39
sometimes it may even help to even to
23:41
slight daddy. Daddy. I'm here
23:43
right here. This is Fill in this can away
23:46
or mom. Is.
23:48
All right to say out loud and of
23:50
that's what I do sometime Like Sienna. Sometimes
23:53
I'm I'm I'm So does I Do
23:55
Like six weeks you just say their
23:57
name, say a three times. Watch
24:01
Daddy What's that are? You know I'm going
24:03
through. This is all right to see it
24:05
like that. I have lights conversations just like
24:07
that. I. Do. That.
24:10
Taught him just like he's here right now
24:12
when I'm begin our gym shoes for Real.
24:17
You need his advice. Oh
24:19
my goodness, See and Aziz sweet or
24:21
not, use. Assistant at
24:23
a said i do an ama tell you
24:25
up and I become a gym shoes or
24:28
he had since him because I'm telling you
24:30
see love Jordan's all kinds of stuff whenever
24:32
Rcmp he had see it would like these
24:34
objects nice boys is a see me and
24:36
I just i get him so now I'm
24:38
like oh my god I'm fifty eight he
24:40
got this whole gym sue clause in his
24:42
status as a but as the so much
24:44
fun because because s was stay in the
24:46
moment and when Jacoby says things is usually
24:48
over my. right? Shoulder. Lemme
24:51
tell you this one quick thing, right? quick.
24:53
When we were raised and money initially for
24:55
build in the village and we did this
24:57
kickstarter, my team was like fifty thousand dollars
24:59
less. Raised Fifty thousand dollars on my city.
25:01
Thousand dollars I got to get us nowhere
25:03
merryman but a roof and I remember here
25:05
and Jacoby see and big. Big
25:08
big, That's all I heard
25:10
over my shoulder some like okay I
25:12
said no, we're gonna go to Forty
25:14
one Nine Hundred Two hundred and Forty
25:16
One Thousand Nine Hundred dollars s the
25:18
amount of that's our arms goal And
25:20
we ended a raise. And to Forty
25:22
Three Six Ninety One. In. Thirty
25:25
Days. And I
25:27
was a soul. So happy! But when he
25:29
said go big I was like a year
25:31
ago base and now less the way I
25:34
think to you know where I'm not gonna
25:36
small change nothing Anderson some going for it
25:38
sheds a call the have made me go
25:40
for it's a real is it. Don't play
25:43
around with this mass big big since this
25:45
so whenever I think I'm I'm small and
25:47
Marcel for what it is that I'm doin
25:49
and everything I'm like no big and he
25:52
what he was a little short saying you
25:54
know but yes I remember nice as hear
25:56
him speak and I'm speaking. Of
25:58
loud and clear. Yeah,
26:01
so that's what keeps me going to
26:03
that's Greece to Glory. Yes, that's Greece
26:05
to Glory. Mom issue Thank
26:08
you so much. You. Welcome Anderson Thank
26:10
you and peace and love to you and
26:12
your heart. Mom
26:16
Issue continues to raise money to
26:18
expand and improve Avalon Village. You'd
26:21
like to contribute to her dream
26:23
or find out more information in
26:25
go to her website the Avalon
26:27
village.org or follow her on Instagram
26:29
at the Avalon Village. And
26:33
reminder: We set up a new phone line
26:35
free to call if you would like to
26:37
leave a message inner voice mail box. Let
26:39
me know if there's something you've learned in
26:42
your grief that might help others. I can't
26:44
promise we'll use your message Bride Do promise
26:46
I'll listen to all of messages. Feel free
26:48
to leave your name and phone number but
26:50
you don't have to The number to call.
26:52
Nine one seven Seven to Seven Six eight
26:54
one eight and snowing. And seven Seven to
26:56
Seven Six Eight one eight. I'll
26:58
be back next week with a new episode
27:01
of All there is an remember wherever you
27:03
are in your Greece you're not alone. All.
27:10
There is is a production of seen an
27:12
audio. The show is produced by Grace Walker
27:14
and and Bloom or senior producers are Haley
27:17
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27:19
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27:21
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27:23
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27:35
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