Everything is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power. And this applies particularly so to the erotic art of BDSM, an ancient realm of knowledge from which the feminine archetype of the dominatrix is born. Otherwise known as a domme, she enjoys taking control and how to wield her psycho-sexual power.

In this episode, we talk to Papaya Day Truly, a modern domme based in Hawaii.

Papaya Day Truly offers digital domination (or virtual domination) to men who want to improve the quality of their lives and communities.

A self described Creative Domme, Cinematic Healer and Living Goddess, Truly seeks to evoke the divinity within the male collective, celebrate the innate playful creativity within humanity and restore the balance of masculine and feminine energy .

She works privately and 1:1 with clients, only accepting 3 at a year. 

In this episode we talk about:

• My hot take on COVID-19 and community care

• Changing your name and identity

• Chakra Girl Business School

• Professionally and personally pivoting

• Working through sexual trauma

• Virtual domination 

• Fet Life

• Shadow work

• Death as a motivator

• The chakras

• Throat chakras and speaking your truth 

• Sexuality and creativity 

• Cindy Sherman

• What does a domme actually do?

• Negotiating consent within power structures

• Navigating power structures as a WOC

• Street harassment

• Anne O’Nomis 

• Bdsm-test.org

• How to approach a domme as a sub

• Why you need to support your local sex shop

• Ev'yan Whitney 

• Sensual selfies

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