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episode today which is all about
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how to create a vision board
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and why decide? make one and
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yeah accept that I'll
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see you tomorrow for a brand new
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podcast of Almost Adulting. Love ya! I
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don't know if you guys ever done this
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but I have talked to my podcast before
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about vision boards and things like that but
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I've never I've never
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actually done one I've done before with
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writing but I kid you not
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I think a vision board I think
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a vision board that's
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visual actually works and I'll tell
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you why I've never been a
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believer in these things ever I've
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done vision boards where again I write
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things down but I
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didn't actually believe in it and then I forget about
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after a while and then eventually when I go back
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to that board and I look and I'm like Mary
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Harry Styles that never
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happened this is bullshit you
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know or I had one on my vision
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board a while back like meet Chelsea Handler and then
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last year felt like everyone
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else met Chelsea Handler except me I
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mean granted though she did follow me
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on TikTok so technically
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virtually I did meet her because she only
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follows like 30 or 40 people
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on TikTok so that was
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a step forward but I did feel like
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everyone else met her last year except me
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so that is why I think
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I believe that
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there is something to a vision board
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and as much as before I thought it was a joke the
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beginning of the year in January I got
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a magazine from Neiman Marcus or
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Chanel I don't know but it was
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a Chanel magazine which I don't even
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know why who sent
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me that or why because I'm not a frequent
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buyer in Chanel like I do not have a
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billionaire husband like I
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am busy paying my mortgage I
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don't go around buying you
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know five six thousand dollar bags but
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I got this magazine from Chanel and I And I
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said, oh, I'll keep this so
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I can look at it and I
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can manifest a Chanel bag. Like
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that's what I told myself. So then
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I ended up putting it kind of in
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front of my bed under
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the TV, this Chanel magazine
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with the Chanel bag on there. And every morning
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when I woke up for a week without
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even doing it on purpose, it was accidental. I
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would wake up and the first thing I would
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look at was the Chanel magazine
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that was in front of my bed
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underneath the TV. And
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within the first two weeks of January,
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I had a brand,
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a brand randomly reached out to me. And
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sorry that I'm laughing, but this is exactly what I'm
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talking about where I just miss misspoke
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a sentence. And I was just like, okay,
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cool. Let me remember the time Sam took
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to cut this out. But then I laughed
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because I'm like, Novi, you said you will
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not do it. It's
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very hard for me. I'm not going to lie
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that I'm going to kill myself. Right?
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Like knowing that I said
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a sentence wrong and corrected myself and that's
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going to stay in the recording is
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killing me. Is that called OCD? I don't know.
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I think it's called being human. Okay.
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Anyway, so in those two
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weeks that I kept waking up, just looking
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at the magazine without thinking twice randomly
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in the first two weeks of January,
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a brand reached out to me and
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was like, Hey, we basically
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have a membership for, for
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designer bags and jewelry
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and diamonds and things like that. We'd love to work
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with you. We would love to send you
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a bag you can keep
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if you work with us. And
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lo and behold, I go on their website
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and they have like 50 pages
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of Chanel bags that they rent out.
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And that if it's available, I can keep
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not all 50 pages, just one.
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And I couldn't believe it because
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that was a very random because
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I just started getting into clothing
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lifestyle type of creator
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stuff. But within
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the first two weeks, maybe even within
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the first week, no,
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maybe the first two weeks, but within
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the first two weeks of January of me
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just waking up and looking at this magazine,
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I ended
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up getting an opportunity where
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someone offered me a Chanel
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bag and ended up picking a
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$6,000 limited edition Chanel bag. That's
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pink and I've posted about it
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before. And that's from
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that brand that I
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didn't, they didn't even know I existed. I don't
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know how they found me, but they found me.
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So it's kind of like the whole thing with
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manifesting that we all say is bullshit. Sometimes it's
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really not bullshit because a lot
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of times when we want something, we think, well,
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how am I going to get there? Like that's
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impossible. How would I even get a million dollars
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in my bank account? So you start to think
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about the how versus you just keep telling yourself,
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I will have this. I have
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this. And what I did was I just kept looking
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at a Chanel bag. I wasn't thinking how will I
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get it? Do I need to make
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money to get it? Do I need to trick a
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man into falling in love with me from to buy
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it for me? Like how do I get it? But
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instead it was just, oh, I guess the other thing I
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was doing, I was looking on, on he used
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websites like the real real and
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other sites for Chanel bags just
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online window shop. Like
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I wasn't actually planning on buying anything, but I
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would heart the bags that I liked with no
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intention of buying them. I wasn't even trying to
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spend even even $500 on a Chanel bag, which
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would be fake, by the way. I
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wasn't doing that. So I was hurting them. So
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I was doing that and I was
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waking up every morning seeing the Chanel magazine. And
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two weeks later, I someone
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offered me a Chanel bag. So it
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happened. And With that being
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said, now we are. And. In February
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which is so insane to me. makes me
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wanna die. I
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he how January goes. I
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so slow and the next
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thing you know it's a
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thing April and another year
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has gone. I don't know.
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Anyway we are ending Siberia,
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entering March and. I.
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Don't want to do the same Were
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already forget of a my goals or
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whatever I want. Or.
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I don't believe that I could achieve
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anything to them like how Leven achieve.
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that sounds like how do I guess
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there are No one asked the in
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between so I decided why not actually
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try to create a vision board? I've
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had a now my to do list
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for the last couple weeks. And.
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I constantly put it in the back
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of. My. To do list and I'm
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like why of other things to do but today said
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no. Just
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start a small part of
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this. Here's what I did
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First, I went on Amazon
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and on Etsy and I
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googled vision board clip art
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and picture books vision board
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book. It
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Burrow, vision board things like that.
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So Ill and I went on
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centrists and on fentress. I wrote
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a different key. words said the
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type of this report I want
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and.give me tenants for a sense
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But then I will say I'm
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surprised by going on Etsy and
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Amazon be literally have if you're
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not as creative. As
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myself when it comes to things like this because he
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i don't know some as under know where to start
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or how. On Amazon
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and as Cbd genuinely have like these
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books and they're filled. With
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six hundred. Or
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more pictures. And A
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for me since. and words, the mostly
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pictures. And then you know. You.
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get to cut out the things that you
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like and you get to put on your
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vision for center of purchase of this and
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ford on amazon my only issue is,
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and I've never learned my lesson, is that
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I never look at the measurements of anything.
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So as usual, I guess
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what I think measurements are, and I
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order my vision board, thinking it's
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going to be like a small
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square, because I don't really have
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that many dreams, I'm not gonna
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lie. And it's like, it's
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the size, it's half of my wall,
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like it is so large, I
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don't understand why I did that to myself.
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I always do this, I order things, furniture,
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they're like too small or too big. And
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I did that with my vision board. And
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you think it would be so simple, I
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can just Google, what is this
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inch? This times this actually mean?
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What does that look like? No, I don't do that.
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Because I always I'm like, I'll figure it out when
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it when it comes to me. And
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then it comes to me and I'm like, shit, it
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is way too big. Said
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no girl ever. Just kidding. I'm
10:57
sure some girls have said it. Not me. Not
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me. All right,
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and we are gonna stop right there.
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Before I take it too far, if
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you want to hear the rest, you
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have to go to my premium almost
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adulting podcast, which is on supercast.almostadulting.com. And
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you can find the link in
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my bio and in the description
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of today's episode. But I do
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encourage everyone, not
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only to date guys with big
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penises, but to also try
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doing a vision board with me. I'm just slowly
11:32
starting. It'll be cool if we all did it
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together. I would love to hear
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your thoughts. And I would love to
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hear about your process. So DM me
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I'm Violet Benson. Okay, love you besties.
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Bye.
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