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BMW tailgates me hard, so I
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trick him into chasing me over
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a tall bump that sends him
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flying. Here's what happened. Subscribe
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bell for notifications. I'm
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driving to work a few months ago
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and getting close. I have two turns
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remaining until I turn into the building.
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It's just a few blocks away. All
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side streets, no highways involved. This guy
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behind me is in a black BMW
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and he's on my butt the whole
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time. I see him checking his phone,
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then making angry faces at me and
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getting closer and closer. I speed up
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a bit thinking it might calm him
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down. 5 over. Nope, anyway,
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I make the first turn and am now
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on the street where my building is. Maybe
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600 yards up ahead. The Jerk is
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still behind me, driving inches from the
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back of my car and obviously ticked
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that I'm still going the speed limit.
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I see 35 on this street, so I speed
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up a bit and see he does the same.
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I drive an 8 year old Toyota truck, not
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one of the big huge ones, but not one
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of the small ones. I
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do have all terrain tires and I've
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certainly driven through pastures, over rocks, popped
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a curb or 10 in my time.
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My suspension is in good shape and
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I have no problem treating my decade
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old truck like a truck. Well, as
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I get closer to my building, there's
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a large speed bump in the street,
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effectively to get people to slow down
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as they approach the parking garage entrances.
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I look back and see Jerk is
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still riding my bumper. I remember thinking
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to myself, I need to slow down
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for this speed bump, and looking back
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and thinking, if I hit my brakes,
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this guy's gonna hit me. The plan
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takes shape in my mind, and I
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speed up. I'm doing about 45 when
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I hit that speed bump, and yeehaw!
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I did a bit of a jump
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and land, never once touching my brakes,
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didn't even tap them. I gave him
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zero warning for what was about to
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happen. I'm watching my rearview mirror intensely
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during this, because because I wanted to
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see his reaction. He was cradling his
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cell phone between his ear and his
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shoulder when he hit. His hood buckled
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up behind me, then slammed into the
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ground. I see him go flying out
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of his seat straight up. He slams
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his head on the roof of his
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BMW and his head rolls sideways from
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the impact. He then slams back into
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his seat violently. He has a total
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what the heck was that look on
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his face as he grabs the wheel
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with both hands to recover. And
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yes. He slowed right down after
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that. You know
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I get that you're in a hurry some days
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but it still comes down to other people's safety.
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You gotta be leaving enough space between you
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and the car in front for reasons like
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this. Our original poster didn't feel
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safe hitting the brakes going over the speed
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bump. Sure there may have been a little
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bit of maliciousness involved here as well, but
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the alternative would have been to hit the
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brakes and let him slam into the back
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of you. Then both of you have damaged
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vehicles. Nobody wins. At
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least this way the guy who deserves to get his
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car wrecked gets his car wrecked and our
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original poster can't be blamed for the
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way it happened. You
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can submit your own stories to be featured
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the background, check out EZ mode, also linked
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below and don't forget to subscribe. Karen
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keeps trying to make noise complaints about
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us so we give her something to
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complain about so this all happened about
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15 years ago give or
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take. When I was still a kid
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living at home we had a house
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with a huge backyard in the suburbs
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and the neighboring property next to our
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driveway was a set of three attached
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rental flats, each with their own front
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door facing our house. We were usually
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good friends with most of our neighbors,
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the flats next door included. After the
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family in the middle flat left an
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older single woman moved in. She
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was home more often than not
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so I doubt she had a
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job and wasn't particularly friendly. She
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kept to herself, which is fine,
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and never really acknowledged any of
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the neighbors. Whatever, that's cool. So
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one Saturday around midday I was
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out back with the lawnmower earning
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myself some pocket money. It's
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a big yard, so about 20 minutes
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in I was about halfway done, and
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suddenly a noise control officer knocks on
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the door. He tells us to hurry
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it up and that they'd received a
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complaint, and though they thought it was
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ridiculous they had to say something. Bit
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stupid, but whatever. Now we weren't a
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loud family, no parties or screaming or
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anything like that at all. Over the
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next month however we kept getting visits
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from noise control, always during the day
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mind you. We would get visits for
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mowing the lawns and even at a
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couple of complaints about my younger sister
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and I playing and hanging out in
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the backyard on weekends, or in the
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afternoon after school. Again, we weren't all
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that loud. At the time I would
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have been about 13, so
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more often than not the boy next door
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and I would just be chilling on the
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swings, just talking, not loud, just being
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outside. Now we'd never had an issue
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with noise before, none of our other
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neighbors ever had a problem, we'd never
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had noise control called before now. So
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we asked around. It was fairly obvious
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at this point that the snobby cow
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that had moved into the flat next
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door was the one doing all the
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complaining. My father would always stock up
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on firewood in the summer to prepare
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for winter, and would have to chop
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it up himself. It's the first weekend
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of chopping for the year, and
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it's about 2pm on a Saturday. He
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pulls out his old chainsaw, and it's
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on for about a minute and a
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half at most before he realizes the
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chain needs to be replaced. He turns
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it off, grabs the axe and proceeds
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to chop wood the old fashioned way.
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Next thing we know, noise control shows
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up. The officers are sick of having
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to visit at this point, and we're
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pretty friendly with that by now. Turns
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out that yes, it was the new neighbor
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next door. It also turns out that
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she'd been an issue for them for
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a while and that Noise Control
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was well aware of her stupid
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complaints from all of her previous
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addresses. Unfortunately they were legally obligated
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to follow through with them. Next
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weekend, surprise surprise, we get another visit
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after dad's been chopping more wood. With
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the axe, the chainsaw was still out
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of action. At this point he decides
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screw it, why not give her something
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to actually complain about. A family friend
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of ours happened to be a truck
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driver. He drives a big rig up
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and down the country. He also
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happened to be back in town that
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weekend. We give him a ring and
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he's keen to help us out. Next
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step is to warn all the other
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neighbors who are fully on board because
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as it turns out we weren't the
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only ones she was complaining about. Proceed
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to next weekend around 9am and we
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spend about half an hour getting this
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great big truck down our driveway. It
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was a pretty wide driveway but it
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was a pretty wide truck too. So
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it was a tight squeeze. Now having
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been good friends with previous neighbors we
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were familiar with the internal layouts of
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those flats. The bedrooms were directly next
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to their front doors, facing our driveway.
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We managed to get the cab of
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this massive truck far enough into the
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driveway to be directly next to this
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jerk's bedroom. There's about a meter and
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a half separating the truck and her
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wall. Perfect. On goes the
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horn. Loud as heck. It terrified
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our cats. Then it goes
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again and again and then us kids
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get a turn. You could hear that
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thing a block away. We did it
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for about 10 minutes. Go inside for
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a coffee, come back out and run
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the horn one more time for good
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measure before our friend takes off. This
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time there were no noise control officers,
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no complaints, nothing. The jerk left the
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next week. I
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mean hey you can't argue with the
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results. It honestly sounds like this woman's
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just got issues and it's nothing to
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do with you or anyone else around
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you. It's all something that she needs
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to learn. learn how to deal with.
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The fact that these officers know her
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from multiple addresses means that they've had
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to deal with her for quite a
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while and it must mean that she's
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gotta be the one with the issue
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here. The fact that she's had to
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bounce around to so many different places
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also indicates that she's the one that
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doesn't seem to be happy wherever she's
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at. While I'm sure she left each
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of those places for probably similar reasons
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of it just being something that she
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felt she couldn't tolerate anymore, I doubt
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in any of those instances she got
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blasted out by a truck horn. I
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replaced the jelly in my
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jerk co-worker's donut with something...less
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pleasant. This happened about 20
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years ago when I was a teacher in
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a small high school. There was one
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teacher who was absolutely toxic and would say
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inappropriate things to students about the teachers he
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didn't like. He once told some students of
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mine that I didn't get invited to parties
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because I was a stiff. His dislike for
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me stemmed from the fact that I
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was vying for promotion device principal and he
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felt threatened by it. He did a bunch
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of other things that gave me a
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slam dunk workplace harassment case against him
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but I never pursued it. One day
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he brought in donuts and left them
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in the staff room. However, being the
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guy he was, he put little toothpick
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flags in them with everyone's name on
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them but mine. He also left a
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note on the table saying help yourself
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not you original poster. The one with
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his name on it was one of
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those powdered jelly filled things. In full
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view of some of the other teachers
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who were gobsmacked by his behavior, I
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took a straw, sucked all the jelly
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out of it, then refilled it with
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mustard. Then I put it back into
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the box, unwrapped my sandwich and waited.
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He came into the lunch room with
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a big ol' grin on his face
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as he looked at me and nodded.
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I munched my carrot sticks. One of
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the women thanked him for the donuts.
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He just smirked, picked up his and
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took a big bite out of it
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right in front of me. The look
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of horror, confusion and disgust on that
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jerk's face. was priceless. This
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one's honestly kind of harmless. The
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original poster definitely showed that they're
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not as much of a stiff
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as this jerk thought they were.
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I mean, they did manage to
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get one over on you. A
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donut filled with mustard though sounds
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Term Supply. Karen
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decides she's the bathroom police and
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isn't gonna let me take the kid
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I'm babysitting in to go to the
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bathroom. This happened a while ago. I
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was about 18 or 19 at
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the time and babysat our neighbor's three-year-old.
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He loved animals. It was the middle
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of spring, so nice and warm. I
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decided to ask his mother if it
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would be fine to take him to
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a petting zoo in the city. Everybody
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was excited, me included. So we went.
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We had a ton of fun. He
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got a large amount of animal feed
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so he could enjoy himself. Nothing was
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weird up until this point. Nobody was
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staring and I felt it was pretty obvious
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that I wasn't in fact his mother but
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rather just babysitting him. Now came the time
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where the little guy needed to pee. Not
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a problem, I thought to myself. So I
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took him to the bathroom. There was a
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large line in front of the women's bathroom
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but since I had to accompany him because
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he was too young to use the adult
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toilet himself, we couldn't just go into the
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men's room, which was empty. I figured waiting
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in line for a minute or two wasn't
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gonna be an issue. Enter Karen. Hi,
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um, excuse me, she said, tapping me
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on the shoulder. Yes? I Thought that
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maybe since she had a little girl
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with her that she... Might have
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just wanted to as to skip ahead
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in the line since her little girl
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needed the p badly or something. Is
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this your child's Oh no, this is
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my neighbor's kid. I'm just babysitting today
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and why the heck are you taking
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him to the bathroom? Then she got
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very aggressive straight away. excuse me see
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needs to use the bathroom and is
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clearly too young to do so by
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himself, so obviously I'm accompanying him. What
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am I supposed to do? Just let
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him p his pants. This is highly.
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Inappropriate. Only his parents in a companies
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and to the bathroom. easy boy. And
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on top of that, not even your
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child's god knows what you might do
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in there with them. Okay, so now
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I was getting kind attacked. At that
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point in my life. I dealt with
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a lot of bull crap from people
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since I was a nurse and people
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in the hospital tend to be as
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entitled as hack when they don't get
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their way. I was absolutely capable of
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defending myself with words and I already
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lost my temper with her being so
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rude. So I said. Very loudly. You
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think I look at his privates in
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their know, what the hell? What? Are
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You have to make a bathroom trip
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with a small child Sexual? Do you
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think about that when you take your
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girl to the bathroom? Oh my god
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would you do stuff to your girl?
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Oh that's disgusting. More: would you even
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think about something sexual when taking your
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little boy going to the bathroom? Now
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I said old these things kind of
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very sarcastically as it was just meant
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to scare her off. but obviously. I
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said in loud enough for a lot
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of people to hear know everybody looked
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at are disgusted and whispered or even
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chimed in with me to tell her
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thinking stuff like that was disgusting in
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that she should just leave me alone.
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She looked mortified at this point and
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says backed away and left. Moral of
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the story: Please let people take children
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to the bathroom peacefully because I couldn't
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have just let the poor boy Peace
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Pants. Yeah.
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i hate to say it but i
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was thinking the same thing going through
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this story. Like why is that even
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your first thought? They're clearly just looking
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after the kid for the day. And
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what else are they supposed to do?
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You can't send the kid in there
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by themselves. The kid's 3 years old.
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He clearly can't be in there alone.
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The only alternative is for the adult
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who's looking after them to take them
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in. The fact that that's where your
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mind goes is a lot more disturbing
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than what they're doing and looking after
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the kid that they're responsible for. Our
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original poster called attention to what
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was going on and our Karen
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swayed to public opinion. It
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does happen once in a while. My
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boss ate half my lunch while I
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was in the bathroom. I went to
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the bathroom and came back to find
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my lunch box open and half of
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my meal missing. Confused I asked what
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had happened to an older lady who
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sits next to me. She responded that
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our boss came in, noticed the food
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on the table, took half of it
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on a plate and left for a
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meeting. I got angry and complained about
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how unacceptable that was but she told
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me to just shrug it off and
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that it's to be expected. I mean
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I'm debating just taking a crap on her
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desk and saying I'm giving her the other half
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of the sandwich. I
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don't think you're gonna get the reaction you
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want doing that but it's probably gonna feel
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pretty good in more ways than one. I'd
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say your best bet to get her to
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stop faking them is to bring in a
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crappy lunch that you leave on your desk
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and she'll see the kind of stuff that
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you bring in and hopefully not even bother
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with your stuff from now on. Either way
15:36
though it's a real jerk move coming from
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your boss. I
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impersonated my wife to sort out
15:43
her banking issues. This took place
15:45
about 15 years ago and involved
15:47
a large corporate banking entity. I
15:49
forget the name of it but
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for the sake of this story
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let's call it Fells Wargo. This
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is potentially an example of malicious
15:57
compliance but it took some creative
15:59
hours outside the box thinking prompted by
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their own phrasing. So I'll let you
16:04
be the judge. There are some important
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parts that come into play. My
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spouse and I were young and dumb financially.
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We both had bounced a few checks on
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our own checking accounts. They were closed a
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few years prior. Fels
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Wargo offered a way to rehab your
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checking account history. They offered you the
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opportunity to pay them an additional $10
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per month to have the right to
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a checking account. They restricted the release
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of funds and made life difficult
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to even have a checking account. But
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if you played by their rules, you
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could graduate to a traditional checking account
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after a year. I
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participated in the opportunity checking and graduated
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my account. My spouse had lived without
16:45
a checking account for a few years
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and wanted to try again. I
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took my spouse to Fels Wargo.
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We specifically explained their previous history
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and specifically asked for the crappy
16:57
checking rebuilding account. We knew my
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spouse needed to start at the bottom. The
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manager of the branch enters the basic
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information and declared there was no need
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for the rehab checking account. They qualified
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for the regular account. We asked again
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to be absolutely sure. Yes, no rehab
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needed. Here's some starter checks. Your ATM
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card will be in the mail in
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a week. They gladly took an initial
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cash deposit of $500. Fast
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forward a week and we get the ATM
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card. We called to activate it. Our account
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has been closed. Why? We
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determined you have bad checking history previously.
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We go round and round about how
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we covered this, disclosed it up front
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and asked for the checking rehab account.
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Y'all have to go back and open
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that account if you want it. We
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can't change the account. So
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they're closing the account because we
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needed to have the rehab checking
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account. The one we specifically asked
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for and they refused. My spouse
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didn't know what to say. So
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we got on speakerphone. I started
17:58
asking questions. Will you
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pay the outstanding checks and refund the
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rest? No, we won't pay any checks.
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You'll be charged for return checks from
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your merchants. My spouse wrote three checks
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totaling less than $100. Very
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few places accepted starter checks. They have
18:14
the funds in the closed account to
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pay for them. Where's the issue? We
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don't do that. At this point they
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became flustered. Nobody seems to
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ever have the funds or the audacity to
18:26
demand them to pay checks written in good
18:28
faith. They had no answers on how
18:30
they refused the checking account we requested
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and would have been okay to have.
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They didn't think they had a responsibility
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to notify us the account was closed.
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And how dare we challenge their policy?
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They didn't like how I kept pointing
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out how there wasn't a single thing
18:45
we did wrong. But they think they're
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not responsible for return check fees. So
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they decided to not talk to me
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anymore. They hung up. We
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call back. Repeat. They
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finally offered this gem. They won't talk to
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anyone except the name on the account. Click.
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Their only possible choice to avoid a
19:03
difficult discussion where they own their mistakes
19:05
was clinging to not letting someone else
19:08
ask questions with the account holder's permission.
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They even refused to let me tell
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my spouse what to ask and respond
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to my spouse directly. You can only
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talk to the name on the account?
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Okay. So I called back.
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Miraculously, in 60 seconds I now
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identify it as a different person.
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Thanks for calling Fels Wargo. Can I
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have your name? I give my spouse's
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name. There's a long pause. Uh,
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you're not that person. Sure I
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am. Ask me anything. Name,
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Social Security number, address, mother's maiden
19:38
name, date of birth. I verified
19:40
it all as the name on
19:42
the account. There's a long
19:44
pause. No, you aren't
19:47
them. Why do you say that? Because
19:49
you're a man. Wait a minute. That's
19:52
why you closed my account? Because
19:54
I'm a man? I'm pretty sure
19:56
that's against ECOA. Maybe
19:58
Regulation B. These are
20:00
laws stating discrimination on gender is
20:02
illegal. Things can't reference gender or
20:05
other protected classes to close accounts.
20:07
Ugh, please hold. A manager finally comes
20:10
on. We have a little back and
20:12
forth about who I identify as, but
20:14
seeing as how I'm not doing anything
20:16
except demanding they pay checks on my
20:19
spouse's account, written by my spouse, with
20:21
funds in their possession, there isn't much
20:23
they can fight, but they finally agree
20:25
to pay the three checks from the
20:28
funds in the account. They didn't want
20:30
to, even in the end, but the
20:32
name on the account demanded it. The
20:34
fallout? They had to do the right
20:36
thing after wasting hours fighting it. Comment.
20:40
When my mom died and we were
20:42
trying to close accounts or switch names
20:44
on them, things like paying off mortgage
20:46
and changing names on the utilities, things
20:48
that needed to be done soonish after
20:50
she passed, I was told repeatedly that
20:53
they would only speak with the account
20:55
holder. I understood they were just
20:57
following their training, but she was dead. How
21:00
are they going to get in touch with her?
21:02
I told one person that they'd need a medium
21:04
or a Ouija board to speak to her, and
21:06
if they did make contact to have her call
21:08
me, because I wanted to speak to her too. Response.
21:12
When my grandmother passed, my grandfather took her
21:14
urn with him to the various banks and
21:16
whatnot. He placed it on people's desks so
21:19
they could speak to her directly. It made
21:21
the process a whole lot quicker. This
21:24
is the behavior that I just
21:27
find disgusting. Like why are they
21:29
picking on you, the little guy,
21:31
over a hundred dollars that they
21:33
actually have access to? A hundred
21:35
dollars is absolutely nothing to a
21:37
bank, but it's everything to you
21:39
where you're just trying to make
21:41
ends meet. But they don't
21:43
care. They're gonna sit there and screw you
21:45
over and hang on to your money. God
21:47
forbid they should have to do the right
21:49
thing and actually get money from the people
21:51
who have it. These banks
21:53
are just crooks. What
22:00
he were dawn in the background to finish listening
22:02
to all the stories. Or if you want some
22:04
by be music to put on and background check
22:06
out Easy Mode if you like am I the
22:09
jerk give am I the genius of shot. Everything's
22:11
linked in. The description.
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