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Hello, everybody. Happy Monday. Hope you all
1:18
had a fantastic weekend and you're here
1:20
hanging out with me today. I apologize
1:23
for the momentary lateness. I am not
1:25
in fact time blind, guys. I know
1:27
what time it is. We
1:29
had a whole different show planned for you
1:32
today. But then this whole hit piece from
1:34
The New Yorker came out about Andrew Huberman.
1:36
So we've shifted gears. We're gonna go through
1:38
this supposed hit piece and go through some
1:40
of the details. I tried to read as
1:42
much of this as possible before the show,
1:44
but we're just gonna go through it together
1:46
because that's the way we do things
1:48
on this stream. You guys will probably
1:51
be familiar with Andrew Huberman. He's a
1:53
Stanford researcher who's known best for his
1:55
podcast Huberman Lab, where he talks about
1:58
the research that he's doing. on
2:00
different experts to talk to you about
2:02
anything from how to get the best
2:04
dopamine during the day to how we
2:06
deal with alcoholism and smoking. What's the
2:08
best way to live? What's the best
2:10
nighttime routine? How do we practice gratitude?
2:13
All these different questions, Huberman asked himself
2:15
in his Huberman Lab podcast and tries
2:17
to give you, shall we say,
2:19
the best prescription on what you can do in
2:21
your own life, or at the very least going
2:23
through the research. Now there's been a hit piece
2:26
published on him in The New Yorker, but before
2:28
we get into that and to discuss all
2:30
these different things, we have Taylor in
2:32
action. Hey, happy Monday
2:34
and yeah, cue the breaking news
2:36
music and supposedly the dramatic music
2:39
and since we are springing into
2:41
action to cover this breaking story
2:43
about this hit piece. Yeah, don't
2:46
play with me New Yorker, okay? If you're going
2:48
to publish a hit piece on somebody, we all
2:50
know this is what happens, right? You start your
2:53
podcast or you write your book or whatever endeavor
2:55
it is you're working on, you rise to fame
2:57
and then all of a sudden there's like an
2:59
expose on you and everything horrible you've ever done
3:01
in your life and apparently this is what's happening
3:03
with Huberman. Now I don't know how
3:06
valid these things are going to be. I don't
3:08
know how shocking they are going to be, but
3:10
we are going to learn about it here today.
3:12
Do any of you guys listen to Huberman Lab?
3:14
Are you fans of Andrew Huberman? I've watched
3:16
many of his videos. I've watched YouTubers who
3:19
implement his morning routine and his lifestyle stuff
3:21
that he recommends. You'll know him probably pretty
3:23
famously for being the guy who tells you
3:25
to wake up in the morning, go outside
3:27
and get a few minutes of sunlight every
3:30
day to sort of jumpstart your brain, get
3:32
a good dopamine hit, stay away from the
3:34
phone and the candy and the junk food
3:36
and all these different things. He's done many
3:38
a talk of cold plunges and sauna. He's
3:41
been on Joe Rogan a ton of times.
3:43
There's tons
3:45
where this guy's face has been seen. I
3:47
even went to see Andrew Huberman
3:49
when he did a show, shall we call
3:52
it, here in LA. He did a little
3:54
live talk that you could go to and
3:56
a friend had gifted us tickets. My boyfriend and I,
3:59
we went and watched. Andrew Huberman Live. It was
4:01
about the same stuff that you get out
4:03
of his podcast. But now we have this
4:05
article. So let me stop. We'll just actually
4:07
go through this together and we can read
4:09
some here. It says, Andrew
4:11
Huberman's mechanisms of control,
4:13
the private and public
4:15
seductions of the world's
4:18
biggest pop neuroscientist. That'll
4:21
give you a big head. The world's biggest pop
4:23
neuroscientist. Now this is written by
4:26
Carrie Howley, a features
4:28
writer for New York magazine since
4:30
2021. So I've read some of
4:32
this, as I said before, the
4:35
article really starts out talking
4:38
about Andrew Huberman's come up, you know,
4:40
all the different work that he's done,
4:42
how he was a little boy and
4:44
a family. And, you know, he wasn't
4:47
super happy growing up. He struggled with
4:49
a lot in life. One of the
4:51
main points being that he struggled with
4:53
his parents divorce and that sort of
4:55
led him down the pathway to therapy.
4:58
And whilst he was in therapy, he
5:00
sort of noticed the joys and wonders
5:02
of having experienced therapy. And that had
5:04
piqued his interest in some way, shape
5:06
or form, which is why he does
5:08
feature many a therapist on his show.
5:10
It goes through the fact that he
5:13
started this podcast that did deep dives
5:15
into some of the, you know, minutiae
5:17
in our life that we wouldn't think
5:19
needs needs or has research behind it.
5:21
But Huberman decided to look into it.
5:23
It paints him out as
5:25
a workhorse who really wanted to
5:27
dedicate his time to research and
5:29
sharing what he found in his
5:32
podcast says here. Which real quick, it's
5:34
worth mentioning by the way I just want to throw
5:36
this in there that I just looked it up. His
5:38
podcast is like top 10, top 11 podcasts in the
5:40
entire world, according to Spotify's charts. So
5:42
this is, if you're not familiar with Andrew Huberman,
5:44
he's a big deal in the non-mainstream
5:47
media world. And maybe that has to do with why
5:49
they might be going after him here as well. But
5:51
I just wanted to give that a little bit more
5:53
context as well. That he's a very, very big name
5:55
in the podcasting world. I did have to think about
5:57
that at first. I'm like, why would somebody want to make it? make
6:00
a hit piece against Andrew Huberman. What is
6:02
he doing that the mainstream media wouldn't necessarily
6:04
like? I don't have an
6:06
answer for that quite yet. But maybe
6:08
you guys can think of some. He's your 10-ball
6:10
hats out. Yeah, I mean, he's certainly
6:12
been platformed by, and I guess platforms
6:15
in return, people who are not well-liked
6:17
by the mainstream media. Joe Rogan is
6:20
one of the many there. But his
6:22
content is pretty tame, if you're familiar
6:24
with Huberman Lab and what he puts
6:26
out. So maybe it's just the benefit
6:28
of taking a megastar and maybe taking
6:30
them down a few notches. I
6:33
did just see this comment from GratefulOne
6:35
in the chat. And he said, Huberman
6:37
backs up common sense with neuroscience without
6:39
constantly pushing pharmaceuticals. Of course, they won't
6:41
discredit him. Whoa. So here comes the
6:43
tin foil tape. Where's my hat? There
6:45
might be there. There might. It
6:48
might be there. But let's get through some
6:50
of this article and see what we get
6:52
to. OK, of course, in the beginning, they
6:54
are painting the picture of who he is.
6:57
It says, millions of people feel compelled to
6:59
hear him draw distinctions between neuromodulators and classic
7:01
neurotransmitters. Many of those people will then adopt
7:03
an associated protocol. They will follow his elaborate
7:06
morning routine. They will model the most basic
7:08
functions of human life, sleeping, eating, seeing on
7:10
his sober advice. They will tell their friends
7:13
to do the same. He's not like other
7:16
bro podcasters, they will
7:18
say. And they will be correct. He is
7:20
a tenured Stanford professor associated with the Stanford
7:22
lab. He knows the difference between a neuromodulator
7:24
and a neurotransmitter. He is
7:26
just back from a sold out
7:29
tour in Australia, where he filled
7:31
the Sydney Opera House. Stanford, at
7:33
one point, hung signs saying, authorize
7:35
personnel only, apparently, to deter fans
7:38
in search of his lab. So
7:40
clearly, they're painting the picture of this sort
7:43
of mega popular man who's managed to rise
7:45
to fame in an arena that is not
7:47
typical when it comes to rising to fame.
7:50
Not many people want to hear about neuromodulators
7:52
and neurotransmitters and get somebody
7:54
to display the distinction between those two
7:56
things, but humor men manage to strike
7:58
that chord. Now, the They describe
8:00
him as like a mid-40s super
8:02
jacked, attractive guy in this article,
8:05
which I guess is true. If
8:07
you've seen Huberman do his little
8:09
Cam Haynes run lift shoot thing
8:11
where they go up a mountain,
8:14
he's pretty jacked. Yeah,
8:16
I'm secure enough in my masculinity to
8:18
admit that he is an attractive man,
8:21
even with this silver gray beard,
8:23
not that I'm trying to emulate
8:25
him here or anything, but he's got some going
8:27
on for sure. Yeah, so let's refer there.
8:29
It says, with this power comes the
8:31
power to lift other scientists out of
8:33
their narrow silos and turn them too
8:35
into celebrities. But these scientists will not
8:38
be Huberman whose personal appeal is distinct.
8:40
Here we have a broad-minded professor, puppishly
8:42
enamored with the wonders of biological function,
8:45
generous to interviewees, quote, I love to
8:47
be wrong, end quote, engaged in endearing
8:49
attempts to sound like a normal person.
8:51
Quote, now we all have to eat
8:53
and it's nice to eat foods that
8:56
we enjoy. I certainly do that. I
8:58
love food in fact, end quote. Okay.
9:02
So it's funny because when you
9:04
read into this article, it seemingly
9:07
is just a really well-written article. I always
9:09
like to look into some of the fun
9:11
things that they're doing with language to paint
9:13
a certain picture. And the picture so far
9:15
that I'm getting is that Huberman is like
9:17
this, bachelor 40 year
9:20
old workhorse who is not
9:22
normal in the fact that
9:24
he is attractive and popular
9:26
and engaging with a niche,
9:28
but tries to come off
9:30
as normal to sort of
9:32
place himself in the same position as other people.
9:34
But I've yet to hear an accusation
9:37
being made throughout this article. Now they
9:39
go through some more to explain where
9:42
he's at in life, who he's interviewing, people
9:45
like Peter Atiyah, who is I think been
9:47
featured on the show many a time. They
9:49
discuss the fact that Huberman has been in
9:52
therapy since high school and that he's seen
9:54
several therapists and that he's found this to
9:56
be really helpful for his mental health and
9:58
they go through more. and more of
10:01
that and they talk
10:03
about how he's gone through many
10:05
self-revelations. He must give
10:07
his story a shape that ultimately tends
10:10
towards inner strength, weakness overcome.
10:12
For Andrew Huberman to become your teacher
10:14
and mine, as he very much was
10:17
for a period this fall, a period
10:19
in which I diligently absorbed sun upon
10:21
waking, drink no more than once a
10:24
week, practice physiological size in
10:26
traffic and said to myself out loud in
10:28
my living room, I also, I also love
10:31
mechanism. A period which, oh sorry, a
10:33
period during which I
10:37
began to think seriously for the first time in my life
10:39
about reducing stress and during
10:41
which both my husband and my young
10:43
child saw tangible benefit from repeatedly immersing
10:45
ourselves in frigid water. So this writer
10:48
saying, I listened to Andrew Huberman, I
10:50
took on a lot of his advice.
10:52
Now, this paragraph is
10:55
interesting. Huberman sells
10:57
a dream of control down to the
10:59
cellular level, but something has gone wrong.
11:02
In the midst of immense fame, a chasm is
11:04
open between the podcaster preaching dopaminergic restraints
11:07
and a man with new found
11:09
wealth with access to a world
11:11
unseen by most professors. The problem
11:13
with a man always working on
11:16
himself is that he may also
11:18
be working on you. Ooh, spooky,
11:20
spooky. What's that movie with Christian
11:22
Bale where he's like a little
11:25
psycho serial killer. Same with that film. Why
11:27
is it escaping me? American
11:29
Psycho. American Psycho. That's the vibe that
11:32
I'm getting from this article so far that
11:34
Huberman is like this psychotic older guy who
11:36
wakes up in the morning and drenches himself
11:39
in sunlight before hopping in a cold plunge and
11:41
then he goes to work in his lab. So
11:43
again, we're wondering what are
11:46
the accusations here. We're going to get into them. They
11:49
start to express that
11:51
Huberman's love life. They start talking about
11:54
this woman by the name of Sarah
11:56
and we're going to read a little
11:58
bit about Sarah by this woman. wonderful
12:00
writer Carrie who is, you know, she's doing a good
12:02
job painting a picture here. She says,
12:04
by then, he had a partner, Sarah, which is
12:06
not her real name. Sarah was someone
12:08
who could talk to anyone about anything. She
12:11
was dewy and strong and in her mid-forties,
12:13
though she looked a decade younger, with two
12:15
small kids from a previous relationship. She had
12:18
old friends who adored her and no trouble
12:20
making new ones. She came across as scattered
12:22
in the way that she jumped readily from
12:24
topic to topic in conversation, losing the thread
12:27
before returning to it. But she was, in
12:29
fact, extremely organized. She was a woman who
12:31
kept track of things. She was an entrepreneur
12:33
who could organize a meeting, a skill she
12:36
would need later for reasons she could not
12:38
possibly have predicted. When I asked her a
12:40
question in her home recently, she said the
12:42
answer would be on an old phone. She
12:44
stood up, left for a moment, and returned
12:46
with a box labeled old phones. Now,
12:49
apparently, Sarah's relationship with Andrew Huberman started in 2018
12:51
in the Bay Area
12:53
where they both lived. He had
12:55
found her on Instagram, messaged her. They
12:58
started to hang out. Homegirl was interested
13:00
in Mr. Huberman. And
13:03
apparently, this became a devoted
13:05
relationship where they devoted themselves
13:07
to healthy living, exercise, good
13:09
food, good information. They cared
13:11
about their bodies. They cared
13:13
about just taking care of
13:16
one another. And she
13:18
describes herself as becoming
13:20
very doting during her relationship with Andrew
13:22
Huberman, that suddenly she was making him
13:24
food and tending to the kitchen and
13:27
all these different things. And she would
13:29
express this to her friends. And her
13:31
friends would say, Sarah, it doesn't sound
13:34
like you to take care of a man. And
13:36
I guess her friends had been a
13:38
little suspicious that maybe Andrew was creating
13:40
problems with her and turning her into
13:43
something that she's not. Now,
13:45
when it gets into arguments
13:47
that her and Andrew Huberman may have
13:49
had, apparently, according to Sarah, he was
13:52
very upset about her past relationships and
13:54
the past men that she had been
13:56
with. She says, quote,
13:58
I experienced his relationship. rage,"
14:00
end quote. And this
14:02
was apparently in reference to the topic
14:04
of the fact that she had two
14:06
prior children. She states that
14:09
he was particularly upset about the second
14:11
child, although a spokesperson on behalf of
14:13
Andrew Huberman says that this is a
14:16
lie. I'm going to
14:18
immediately ask, why do I
14:20
care? Why are we talking about this girl that
14:22
he has a personal relationship with that started in
14:24
2018 and is now leading us into, you know,
14:28
years further from that, why do I care?
14:30
And what does this have to do with
14:32
listening to Huberman Lab or taking in the
14:34
information that he's stating on his podcast of
14:37
waking up and taking in sunlight or, you
14:39
know, doing the cold plunge in the sauna
14:41
or whatever the case may be for the
14:43
information that you're taking in. So far, I
14:45
have no idea what this has to
14:47
do with the story. Now,
14:50
then it goes on to say, on Thanksgiving in 2018, Sarah
14:54
had planned to introduce Andrew to her
14:56
parents and close friends. She was cooking.
14:58
She was getting everything ready. And Andrew
15:00
texted her that he was going to
15:03
be late. Oh my goodness.
15:05
And apparently this went on and on
15:07
until he was going to be running
15:09
hours late. And then, of
15:11
course, all of these things
15:14
were planned around his arrival and he just
15:16
kept going, quote, Oh, I'm going to be
15:18
late. And then it's the night. It's the
15:20
end of the night. And he's like, Oh,
15:22
I'm so sorry that this happened. Okay. Again,
15:25
is so far,
15:27
the accusation is he dated a
15:29
girl and now she's doting
15:31
on him. And now he's like
15:33
late to things and doesn't care about other
15:35
people's time. You would think we were going
15:37
to get more than this. This
15:40
article then goes on to explain
15:42
Andrew Huberman habits when it comes
15:44
to meeting people on time and
15:46
like valuing their time and respecting
15:48
their time. It says Huberman disappearing
15:50
with something of a pattern. Friends,
15:52
girlfriends and colleagues describe him as
15:54
hard to reach. The list
15:57
of reasons for not showing up included
15:59
a book, timestamping the podcast Castello
16:02
wildfires and a meetings tunnel. He
16:04
is flaky and doesn't respond to
16:06
things says his friend Brian McKenzie
16:09
and then we go through this
16:11
whole few pages about
16:13
different times where he's flaked where
16:15
he said he was gonna be
16:17
somewhere where he in fact was
16:20
was not there. Yes the
16:22
New Yorker is dedicating their
16:24
time to telling you that
16:26
he flaked on meeting with his
16:28
friends but don't worry guys the
16:31
plot thickens and we do indeed
16:33
find out more they go more
16:35
into the arguments that he would
16:37
have with Sarah over her past
16:39
relationships and the fixation
16:42
that he apparently had on
16:44
her having had previous children
16:47
in a relationship they talk about an
16:49
argument that he got into with
16:52
a friend who had written a book and
16:54
wanted him to review some of the material
16:56
in the book that spoke about Andrew Huberman
16:58
and things that he had said or researched
17:01
he had emailed him several times hey Andrew I
17:03
need you to check this out Andrew didn't get
17:05
back email them again hey Andrew I need you to
17:07
check this out he didn't get back email them one last
17:09
time and said you know what I'm gonna finalize this
17:11
if you don't get back to me and look through
17:13
the research that I've placed in this book and
17:16
finally I guess he gets a call from
17:18
Andrew Huberman and Andrew Huberman explodes on him
17:20
on the phone how dare you you know
17:22
start publishing these things and it becomes this
17:25
whole vitriolic thing and the guy says I'd
17:27
never had you know somebody who I've respected
17:29
and research or a colleague go off on
17:31
me in this way I'm sorry what
17:34
does this have to do with Andrew Huberman
17:36
and Huberman lab and listening to that podcast
17:39
I get it she sounds a little shitty
17:41
in his personal life what
17:43
does that have to do with me and
17:45
why are you as a journalist going out
17:47
of your way to research this stuff writing
17:49
like a fluff piece where you paint them
17:51
out to be actually like a psycho and
17:54
then printing that out for the world
17:56
to view what is your goal here
17:58
in creating this article and what do
18:01
you hope that people do in the
18:03
wake of reading this article? Are we
18:05
gonna say I'm not gonna listen to
18:07
Huberman Lab and the research that he
18:09
is bringing to us and the experts
18:11
that he's bringing to us because he
18:13
treated his girlfriend bad
18:15
and he yelled at a
18:17
supposed friend on the phone
18:20
and he's flaky? This is why
18:23
we're calling it a hit piece because that
18:25
is exactly how you do a
18:28
hit piece. You don't talk to the
18:30
person themselves, you call the ex-girlfriend, you
18:32
call the guy that got yelled at
18:34
on the phone and maybe what are
18:36
probably some of his worst moments that
18:38
he would probably like to clarify, dispute,
18:40
and or express regret or apologize for
18:42
but no no no let's just construct
18:44
this narrative and this is this problem like
18:46
there's there's a long history in magazines like
18:49
Rolling Stone and New Yorker of having this
18:51
type of journalism where you do this like
18:53
very like lengthy in-depth profile and you go
18:55
into the inner workings of their lives and
18:57
you try to like paint a picture but
19:00
traditionally when you're painting a picture
19:02
of a person's life in a profile you
19:04
want to do them justice and you take
19:06
the long swaths of paragraphs of text and
19:08
digging deep into their life to try to
19:10
bring that person to life and show a
19:13
side of them that you wouldn't necessarily
19:15
see from an everyday perspective
19:17
but this is all done
19:20
seemingly with a specific intent
19:22
of trying to frame the facts of
19:25
his life in a certain way and
19:27
paint him in a
19:29
certain way so as to presumably
19:31
undercut his work or his credibility
19:33
in some way but no
19:35
matter how many attacks we keep hearing
19:38
they don't actually connect or have any
19:40
bearing on the primary focus of what
19:42
he does which is offer like science-backed
19:45
information on his podcast and that's why people
19:47
care about him so to go after him
19:49
for all these reasons it just you can't
19:51
help but feel like why are they doing
19:53
this it just feels like a pet peeve
19:56
yeah it does feel like they already knew
19:58
what the intention of the article was going
20:00
to be before they structured the article.
20:03
So they just needed to find pieces of
20:05
information that made him look bad to inject
20:07
into the article so that they could post
20:09
it out to people. And hopefully, I guess,
20:12
get you to stop watching Kuberman Lab. Of
20:14
course, the plot thickens. So
20:16
it says, in August of 2021, Sarah says
20:19
she read Andrew's journal and discovered
20:22
a reference to cheating. She
20:24
was, she says, gutted. I hear
20:26
you are saying you are angry and hurt.
20:28
He texted her the same day. I
20:30
will hear you as much, as long,
20:32
as needed for us. Andrew
20:35
and Sarah wanted children together,
20:37
Sarah states. Optimizers sometimes prefer
20:39
not to conceive naturally. One
20:41
can exert more control when
20:43
procreation involves a lab. Sarah
20:46
began the first of several
20:48
rounds of IVF. So
20:50
here's another picture they're trying to paint. Well,
20:52
first of all, if you cheated on her, that
20:55
sucks. You sound like a pretty horrible boyfriend, not
20:57
a cool thing to go through. Again, how does
20:59
it affect the research that I'm listening to on
21:01
your 200-year podcast? I'm not sure. I'm
21:04
not sure how that it all affects me as
21:06
the listener. But I get it. I feel bad for
21:08
you. And I certainly wouldn't date somebody who
21:11
does that to their previous partners. And that'd
21:13
be somebody who I'd stay away from. What
21:15
does it have to do with me? Now,
21:18
this girl undergoes IVF, apparently
21:21
out of a mutual decision
21:23
to do so. And
21:25
again, they're trying to paint
21:27
out this American psycho-type character
21:29
by saying one can exert
21:31
more control over procreation when
21:33
it involves a lab. I'm
21:36
sorry. A ton of people choose
21:39
to engage in IVF every single
21:41
day. And presumably, these
21:43
two individuals are in their, you
21:45
know, humans in his 40s. I
21:48
believe Sarah is also in her 40s. Wouldn't
21:50
it kind of make sense to be going down
21:52
the route of IVF? Why are you trying to
21:54
make it out as if he's trying to exert
21:56
control over her by having her do IVF? strange
22:00
and this is why we have to break
22:02
down the language that is used in these
22:04
articles because they're so often trying to paint
22:07
a certain picture for you. Now
22:09
throughout this article as they're detailing
22:11
the cheating that this woman discovers
22:13
that Andrew Huberman is engaging in,
22:15
they weave in episodes of his
22:17
podcast so that you guys get
22:19
the view that he is using
22:22
his podcast and the experts that
22:24
he talks to in order to
22:26
expand his knowledge of therapy and
22:28
then use it to manipulate the
22:30
woman that he's in a relationship with. Now I don't
22:32
know if that's true or false,
22:34
I'm just telling you what this
22:36
article says. It says here quote,
22:39
I'd be remiss if I didn't ask
22:41
about truth telling and deception. Andrew told
22:44
evolutionary psychologist David Buss on a November
22:46
2021 episode of Huberman
22:48
Lab called, How Humans Select and Keep
22:50
Romantic Characters in Short and Long Term.
22:53
They were talking about regularities across
22:55
cultures in mate preferences. Quote,
22:58
could you tell us, end quote, Andrew
23:00
asked quote, about how men and women
23:03
leverage deception versus truth telling and communicating
23:05
some of the things around mates, mate's
23:08
choice selection. Then the
23:10
expert says effective tactics, tactics
23:12
for men are often displaying
23:14
cues to long-term interest. Men
23:17
tend to exaggerate the depths
23:19
of their feeling for a
23:21
woman. Andrew says let's talk
23:23
about infidelity in committed relationships. I'm guessing
23:25
it does happen. The expert
23:27
says men who have affairs tend to have
23:30
affairs with a larger number of affair partners
23:32
and so which, sorry,
23:35
and so which then by
23:37
definition can't be long-lasting. You
23:39
can't have long-term affairs with
23:41
six different partners. Okay so
23:43
clearly they're trying to say
23:46
Andrew's having conversations about infidelity
23:48
and cheating and deception
23:50
with experts and the experts are giving
23:52
the knowledge that he then uses against
23:54
these women. But what I actually find
23:57
quite hilarious is that if We
24:00
are at listening to the podcast and
24:02
juxtaposing that with Andrew Life where he
24:04
is cheating on this woman with multiple
24:06
women. It only reinforces that the research
24:09
that they're giving you on the podcast
24:11
is correct. So
24:13
if the researchers as you know, men
24:15
typically have a time of romantic partners
24:17
when they're cheating and they're not long
24:19
lasting and you know who cheat multiple
24:21
times on the same woman and air to
24:24
humans going to move, move, move, knowing
24:26
damn well that that's right about his
24:28
own life than the research that you're
24:30
getting on Human Lab A seemingly accurate.
24:34
It as we honor. Know. Where
24:36
I'm gonna read or records you guys are going
24:38
crazy in the chart like they're marking how silly
24:40
some of these lines of attack car on whom
24:42
in their to the also leave the toilet seat
24:44
up to be produced with a twist, tie back
24:47
on the bread study, take the trash out and
24:49
I'll put a replacement bargain. It's what a horrible
24:51
human him. Like, Okay, I
24:53
get it, these are not things that I
24:55
want to deal with in my personal life
24:57
coming from a partner. But what does this
24:59
have to do with his credibility as a
25:01
scientist in a researcher? It really doesn't And
25:03
it feels like you what happened with you
25:05
got together a bunch of bitter women to
25:07
com and video a ton of information and
25:10
you thought. Well, since I don't have any
25:12
actual credible arguments to discredit what he's doing
25:14
on a day to day basis, I'm going
25:16
to try to knock him down a peg
25:18
by bringing up affairs that he's had and
25:20
people who he cheated with. And they do.
25:22
fine thing so i mean that's that's
25:24
very clear now how that changes your
25:26
judgment of somebody that you're going to
25:28
for research and information about your your life
25:30
i don't know if i was going
25:32
to a doctor to help cure a
25:34
disease or help with symptoms that i'm
25:36
experiencing so i don't sit down with
25:38
the doctor and say how's your relationship with
25:41
your wife and how often have you
25:43
have he cheated on her i go
25:45
to the doctor i get the information
25:47
that i know he's hopefully knowledgeable on
25:49
and i go home and implement that in
25:51
my life has nothing to do with
25:53
what the doctors doing and his personal
25:55
time and the sack that it's just
25:57
because you gain popularity it's can go
25:59
and insert themselves into your life like this
26:01
and air out your dirty laundry. It's insane.
26:03
Now, mind you, what he did to this
26:06
one, to these women, if true, is
26:08
not okay. But damn, the
26:10
old one, all your dirty laundry aired out as soon
26:12
as you become popular because somebody likes your podcast.
26:15
That's crazy. Crazy. Yeah. And
26:17
it just seems beneath, uh,
26:20
an institution that is supposedly supposed to
26:23
be like a respectable journalistic outlet like
26:25
the New Yorker to be using their
26:27
resources to go after him in this
26:29
way, which again, if there were legitimate
26:32
reasons to doubt his credibility as
26:34
a neuroscientist, as a voice in
26:36
the public who is espousing information,
26:38
then let's hear them.
26:40
But to just go after his personal
26:43
life, it's just, you're reducing yourself to
26:45
like the gossip rag, you know, instead
26:47
of being a serious journalistic
26:49
outlet. And one of the thought is
26:52
we talk all the time on the
26:54
show about just how difficult it is
26:56
to sift through all the abundance of
26:58
information that is out there right now,
27:00
especially in sort of the post COVID
27:02
BLM era, where so many institutions, uh,
27:05
just through their credibility, by the
27:07
wayside with a lot of Americans, a
27:09
lot of people worldwide where we aren't
27:11
sure we're still hearing, it seems like
27:13
every week, the new information that arises
27:15
where different institutions are saying, well, we
27:17
were actually wrong about this treatment, or
27:19
we were wrong about that. Uh, when
27:21
we, we did the lockdowns or whatever.
27:23
And little by little, they're expressing regret
27:25
for things that were imposed at the
27:27
time. And so people have a reason
27:29
to doubt the credibility of so many
27:31
institutions. And in the wake of that,
27:34
you have podcasters like, uh, Huberman, who
27:36
have taken the approach of saying, I'm
27:38
only going to tell you things that, uh,
27:40
I can back up with research. I'm going
27:42
to talk to credible researchers and we're, I
27:44
don't have an agenda here. I'm not trying
27:46
to sell you pharmaceuticals. Like someone said earlier
27:49
in the chat, I mean, obviously like he's
27:51
a successful podcast, he's making money off it.
27:53
But that comes with earning people's trust, uh,
27:55
because the institutions have abdicated their responsibility to
27:58
maintain people's trust and it's. to
28:00
me, like a lot of what can be
28:02
motivating the animus against humor men on the
28:05
part of the mainstream media journalistic institutions is
28:07
their desire to have a monopoly on narrative,
28:09
their desire to have a monopoly on the
28:11
truth and what is acceptable information. So you
28:14
see someone like him gaining a lot of
28:16
traction and attention and they're
28:18
like, oh no, we don't want people listening
28:20
to him. We want them to only be
28:22
listening to us. A hundred percent.
28:24
That's what they would just want to discredit
28:26
anything that falls outside of the mechanisms of
28:29
control that they have, which is so funny
28:31
because this whole article is meant to accuse
28:33
Andrew Huberman of having like this psychotic need
28:35
for control over his work life and the
28:37
girls that he's with. And he tells lies
28:39
in order to make that control, you know,
28:41
uh, more and more privy
28:44
to him when actually what you're trying to
28:46
do is control the narrative and control what
28:48
people see. Now this article dedicates one
28:51
paragraph, one paragraph
28:53
to AG one greens, which
28:55
if you guys watch Huberman lab, you
28:57
know, that he's sponsored by AG one
28:59
greens, athletic greens, where it's like a
29:01
little green drink powder that you can
29:03
like drink in the morning and it's
29:05
supposed to be full of vitamins and
29:07
probiotics or whatever. Now this one
29:09
paragraph talks about the possible problem
29:12
that most of the probiotics in
29:14
the AG one greens are not
29:16
concentrated enough to actually colonize, which
29:18
is an interesting assertion. If you're
29:21
listening to a researcher and he's
29:23
telling you that you should buy
29:25
AG one greens and then you
29:28
purchase a AG one greens and they're actually
29:30
not effective, maybe that's what you should have
29:32
dedicated the article to the research that you
29:35
go to for your morning routine and night
29:37
routine is sponsored by something that actually isn't
29:39
effective. I don't know whether or not that's
29:41
true. That's clearly the assertion that they're trying
29:43
to make in this article, but they only
29:45
give it one paragraph and they probably only
29:47
give it one paragraph because they don't have
29:49
enough research to back the fact that AG
29:52
one is not good for you. So
29:54
they sprinkle that in, in and
29:56
amongst the cheating allegations that they're
29:58
accusing this man of. And then they
30:01
go right back to detailing the cheating allegations.
30:04
What? What? Make
30:06
that mix. This guy's so weird.
30:09
Okay. So it
30:11
goes on to say, you know,
30:13
Sarah has some suspicions about Andrew
30:16
having conversations with another woman. They're
30:19
still going through this process of IVF
30:21
and the IVF is not taking and
30:23
while they're in this process, they're cohabitating
30:26
with one another. They're going on trips.
30:28
And she continues to say that Andrew's
30:30
rage was growing with cohabitation. He would
30:33
get more and more angry at her
30:36
and that again, he would
30:38
get upset about the fact that she had prior
30:40
relationships and he had asked her
30:43
to sort of detail to her all
30:45
the bad decisions that she's made, including
30:47
her second child and like just
30:49
regurgitate it back to him, which again,
30:51
if you're doing that with your partner,
30:53
you're weird. You're a little freak. I
30:55
don't know if it's true that he
30:57
actually did this. But again, being a
31:00
bad partner ain't got nothing to do
31:02
with your research. OK, so we're
31:04
going to keep reading. Says they were
31:06
on a camping trip, apparently,
31:09
where Sarah noticed that she
31:11
and Andrew could not
31:13
go out without being thronged by people.
31:15
They go on this camping trip. They
31:17
bring the syringes for their IVF. And
31:20
at one point during this trip or
31:23
sorry, later that month, Sarah
31:25
decides to grab Andrew's phone after
31:28
when he had left it in the bathroom.
31:30
So she grabs the phone after he left
31:32
in the bathroom. She goes scrolling through his text,
31:34
much like she went through the journal and found
31:36
the cheating references. And she found conversations with
31:38
a woman that they are going to call
31:40
Eve. It's probably also not her real name.
31:43
And some of them took place during
31:45
the previous camping trip that they had
31:47
taken. Now, clearly, he's cheating
31:49
on baby girl Sarah with Eve.
31:52
And he says, quote, your feelings matter
31:54
to Eve on a day where he
31:57
had injected his girlfriend with HCG, which
31:59
is for. IVF, quote, I'm
32:02
actually very much a caretaker, quote, I'm
32:04
back on grid tomorrow and would love
32:06
to see you this weekend. So she
32:08
finds out that Andrew is cheating on
32:11
Sarah with Eve
32:14
and they get into this whole
32:16
discovery. Eve's an actress, they met
32:18
on Raya, blah, blah, blah, blah,
32:20
blah, and they're having conversations. As
32:22
their relationship intensified over the years,
32:24
he talked often about the family
32:26
that he one day wanted, quote,
32:28
our children would be amazing, end
32:31
quote, he said. She asked
32:33
for book recommendations and he suggested jokingly,
32:35
Huberman, why we made babies, quote, I'm
32:37
at the stage of life where I
32:39
truly want to build a family, he
32:41
told her, that's a resounding theme for
32:43
me. Goes on. Now in
32:45
September of 2022, Eve noticed
32:48
that Sarah was looking at her
32:50
Instagram stories, not commenting or liking,
32:52
just looking impulsively. Eve messaged her.
32:55
Is there anything you'd rather ask
32:57
me directly? She said they set
32:59
up a call, quote,
33:01
fuck you, Andrew, end quote.
33:03
She messaged him. Sarah moved
33:05
out in August of 2023. Okay.
33:10
Does this sound like actual journalism or does
33:13
it sound like drama that we talked about
33:15
when we were 15 in high school of
33:17
finding out that the boys were cheating and
33:19
Sarah and Eve were both talking to Andrew
33:22
at the same time? My goodness. Now, mind
33:24
you, there's higher stakes in the fact that
33:26
he's pretending to, I guess,
33:28
commit to this woman and they're going through
33:30
this process of IVF. That sucks for you.
33:33
And, you know, I, I wish you
33:35
all the best in healing on your
33:37
journey of getting over this man. But
33:40
in maybe instead of talking to the New Yorker, like
33:43
a crazy ex who was
33:45
scorned, maybe you should go
33:47
deal and heal from
33:49
what that man did to you because we don't
33:51
need to be hearing about all this. I'm sorry.
33:53
This is giving crazy acts. It really is. And
33:55
I know he did you wrong, baby girl, but
33:58
we need to let it rest. I think
34:00
that'd be best. Okay. So also
34:05
she read his journal and it had references
34:07
of cheating years prior. Okay. She goes through
34:09
the man's phone and she finds out that
34:11
he's cheating on her. What's
34:14
happening between September of 2022 and
34:16
August of 2023 that you're still
34:18
with this man and have to move out? Why
34:21
are you putting up with this
34:23
behavior for so long and staying
34:25
with a man who twice now
34:27
you found out was cheating on you
34:30
in some way, shape or form? This is just a
34:32
question I have. Y'all are going to accuse me of
34:34
victim blaming, but I've
34:36
been cheated on before. Okay. And
34:38
I've been there too. And I made the
34:40
wrong decision too. And I blame accountability, accountability.
34:43
I should have left a hundred percent. I
34:45
should have left not even, even if I
34:48
had a feeling I was being cheated on, I
34:50
should have left. So in my situation,
34:52
when I was with somebody, I had little, I was
34:56
thinking like, he's giving vibes of cheating.
34:58
I never had it confirmed. I didn't have
35:00
it confirmed until the relationship ended. But
35:03
if you're finding out twice that somebody's cheating on you, why
35:05
are you staying where somebody does
35:08
not want you in this situation? Anyways,
35:11
they continue more and more.
35:13
She's going through this relationship. Sarah leaves
35:16
his ass apparently, or sorry, she doesn't
35:18
leave. She moves out in August of
35:20
2023, but she remains
35:22
in a committed relationship with Huberman.
35:26
So now you're just giving him the freedom to have
35:28
his place back apparently so that he can keep bringing
35:30
hoes around. Anyways.
35:33
Okay. So she moves out and then
35:35
she stays in the relationship with Andrew
35:37
Huberman. It goes on and on and
35:40
on. Okay. On January 11th,
35:42
a woman that we'll call Alex began
35:44
liking all of Sarah's Instagram posts, seven
35:46
of them in one minute. Sarah messaged
35:48
her saying, quote, I think you're friends
35:50
with my ex Andrew Huberman. Are you
35:52
one of the women he cheated on
35:55
me with? End quote. Alex
35:57
is an intense, direct, highly educated
35:59
woman. who lives in New York. She
36:01
was sleeping with Andrew and she had no
36:03
idea that there had been a girlfriend. Quote, fuck,
36:05
she said. I think we should talk. Over
36:07
the following weeks, Sarah and Alex never stopped texting.
36:10
Quote, she helped me hold my boundary against
36:13
him, says Sarah. Keep him blocked. She said
36:15
you need to let go of the idea
36:17
of him. So now we have baby girl
36:19
number three. We got Sarah, we got Eve,
36:21
we got Alex. He
36:25
is, he's collecting. He
36:27
is collecting. He's collecting. Now
36:30
there was a day in Texas when
36:32
after Sarah left his hotel, Andrew slept
36:34
with Mary. Now we got Mary, another
36:38
girl and texted Eve.
36:42
Okay. So we got Mary, we got
36:44
Eve. I'm looking for Adam. I'm looking
36:46
for Joseph. And we're collecting all the
36:48
biblical names in his, in
36:52
his, in his sexcapade. Okay. So
36:54
he's racking up these girls. Anyways,
36:57
they're all finding out about each other.
36:59
And this whole thing is just an
37:01
expose about him. Now he
37:03
would send them some of the like
37:05
same text messages and same pictures. Apparently
37:07
they realized on March 21st of 2021,
37:09
a day of admittedly impressive
37:13
logical jujitsu. While Sarah was in Berkeley,
37:15
Andrew had flown Mary from Texas to
37:17
LA to stay with him in Topanga.
37:20
While Mary was there sitting, visiting
37:22
from thousands of miles away, he left
37:24
her with Costello. He drove to a
37:26
coffee shop where he met Eve. They
37:29
had a serious talk about their relationship.
37:32
They thought they were in a good place. He
37:34
wanted to make it work. Phone
37:37
died. He texted Mary who
37:39
was waiting back at the place in
37:41
Topanga and later to Eve. Thank you
37:44
for being so next, next level,
37:47
gorgeous and sexy. Sleep well, beautiful.
37:49
He texted Sarah. The
37:51
scheduling alone. Alex tells me I can
37:53
barely schedule three zooms in one day.
37:56
You know what? He's a Stanford researcher.
37:58
He's so used to looking
38:00
at different subjects and specimen all day that he
38:02
can do the same in his uh in
38:05
his dating life. Now mind y'all this is
38:08
already, this is already aired
38:10
out. That's why I'm uh I'm reading this but
38:12
I can't lie I'm being entertained. I'm being
38:14
entertained by this storyline and everything that is
38:16
being divulged here and I guess that means
38:18
that means I'm part of the problem because
38:20
I'm the reason that somebody like the New Yorker
38:22
would put out an article like this but I
38:25
don't support the messaging behind the article
38:27
right? They're trying to completely discredit this
38:29
man for what he's done in his
38:31
personal life. They even detail like the
38:33
kind of woman that he's attracted to
38:35
and why he goes after them and
38:37
how the women are similar but different
38:39
at the same time and I'm not
38:41
going to read there's more of this
38:43
article to go through and read. The
38:46
craziest part to me actually
38:48
has nothing to do with
38:50
Andrew Huberman. The girls, the ladies who
38:53
are all in question here with
38:55
their fake names Alex, Mary, Sarah,
38:57
Eve, whatever they apparently
38:59
found some sort of reddit
39:01
thread I guess where people are talking about their
39:03
supposed experience with Andrew Huberman who knows if it's
39:05
real who knows if it's fake and
39:08
they are giving themselves nicknames they're
39:10
accusing him of having a stable
39:13
of hoes okay and these girls
39:15
apparently joined this group this online
39:17
group I don't know if it's on reddit or you
39:19
know whatever website it's on. Now Sarah comes
39:21
in at the end of the article and
39:24
says this group has radicalized me says
39:27
there's been so much processing
39:29
they are planning a weekend
39:31
together in summer they
39:34
are planning a weekend together this summer
39:37
the girls that he cheated with and
39:40
engaged with are planning a
39:42
weekend together this summer quote it
39:44
could have been sad or bitter
39:46
says Eve we didn't jump in
39:48
as besties but real friendships have
39:50
built it has been
39:53
in a strange and unlikely way
39:55
quite a beautiful experience okay
39:59
so If it's been such a beautiful
40:01
experience, what are y'all doing writing up this
40:03
article trying to expose my man Andrew Huberman if he
40:05
led you to your besties? That
40:07
man is doing good work for you if he's leading you
40:10
to your best friends. This is so
40:12
strange to me and this is a very common
40:14
thing that happens when men
40:16
cheat, which mind you, horrible, okay?
40:19
Wouldn't recommend dating this guy after reading
40:21
the article given his supposed track record
40:24
with these women, although I don't know
40:26
how credible these women are. Just
40:28
get that out of the way. If a man
40:30
cheats on you, why are you
40:32
meeting up with the girls that he cheated with
40:35
for like a weekend, you know, a little ski
40:37
trip? Why are you
40:39
going to a resort in the summer to hang out with
40:41
the girls who he cheated on you with? It's giving weird.
40:44
It's giving psycho. Even though you're
40:46
trying to paint him out to be the psycho, it's really
40:48
strange to like build like a
40:50
blood brother group with the girls who he's
40:52
slept with so that you can what just
40:54
like talk about him more. Even though you're
40:56
no longer with him, it's
40:58
really weird to make your entire life about the guy
41:01
who cheated on you and you should probably, you
41:04
should probably move on because at some
41:06
point there's somebody who did
41:08
a horrible thing to you and you like heal from
41:10
it and you move past it and you acknowledge it
41:12
and you go, you know what? That person has their
41:15
own problems. I would never be with that person again.
41:17
I learned my lesson from that person. I hope he
41:19
doesn't get another woman. It's
41:22
different to like go and then make your
41:24
whole life about it. Make all your friendships
41:26
about it. Start developing resort weekends during the
41:28
summer to meet up with all the other
41:30
girls that he slept with so you can
41:32
like talk about Andrew and detail your traumatic
41:35
experiences because then you're making your life about
41:37
the person who wronged you. Do you want
41:39
them to have that much of a presence
41:41
in your life after they've done something so
41:43
wrong to you? Do you then want to
41:45
make your entire life about this person who's
41:48
done something wrong? And of course you have
41:50
the added dig of like him becoming famous
41:52
and popular and I bet that really sucks.
41:54
I bet a lot more women are throwing
41:56
themselves at him because of his status and
41:58
where he's out with his career. But.
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do It Reminds me avoid watch
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the like Netflix both I part
43:15
documentaries on women who was were
43:18
spinner to tinder, swindler or yeah
43:20
in these were crazy religious cults
43:22
and were abused in the situations
43:24
like that. And in that extreme
43:26
circumstances I could see. You.
43:28
Know wanting to maybe build camaraderie with
43:30
people who have gone through the same
43:33
experience to kind of processor trauma together?
43:35
bugs? This is mostly. There's some crazy
43:37
elements to what they allege with. How
43:39
things went down and how he was circling the
43:42
women. But for the most part it's kind of
43:44
garden variety, you know, players. Gonna play
43:46
and even. Some. something that
43:48
again or not justifiable that not good things
43:50
to do and should not be hooked on
43:53
well and like you said would not recommend
43:55
stating someone if they are engaging in a
43:57
sort of behavior but it's as you're not
43:59
like a victim of a cult
44:01
or like something's that dramatic and
44:03
it does just smell
44:06
like you haven't moved on, you haven't processed
44:08
this in a healthy way or you have
44:10
some need to like cling to this to
44:13
get a feeling of
44:15
significance about it. So just a
44:17
weird button on what is a
44:19
very weird story with a lot
44:22
of weird threads to it that
44:24
ultimately seem to have absolutely nothing
44:26
to do with the credibility
44:29
of Andrew Hebermann and the whole time you're reading
44:32
these these details I'm like I
44:34
shouldn't be hearing this for them. If
44:37
it doesn't have anything to do with public
44:39
statements he's made like his actual it doesn't
44:41
undercut anything that he said necessarily like
44:43
it's just why are we hearing this
44:46
it just feels like dirty like I'm
44:48
listening to gossip and I hate that
44:50
and I hate that the New Yorker
44:52
has descended to this level
44:54
though who knows how high they've been of
44:57
late but yeah it's just just
44:59
a whole weird situation weird thing to go
45:01
after Hebermann in this way. It is I'm
45:03
like okay it's one thing if you write a
45:05
whole article like I said about like Hebermann
45:08
is sponsored by AG1 Greens and he's
45:11
like sharing this on every single podcast
45:13
and it turns out that AG1 Greens
45:15
is not effective whatsoever. Oh shoot
45:18
that's a hit piece that's something that like
45:20
oh let me let me actually hear that
45:22
out and see if there's something to it
45:24
or you know his research isn't as valid
45:26
as he he makes it out to be
45:28
or this expert who's been
45:30
on his show has been discredited obviously none
45:32
of that was present in this article but
45:34
yeah those are interesting things that I think
45:36
actually impact the people who are listening to
45:38
his podcast not what he does in his personal
45:41
life like mind you there are a ton of
45:43
people who we go to for advice wisdom
45:45
to help us with our lives ton
45:47
of people who we respect admire whatever
45:49
the case may be who lead very
45:51
abysmal personal lives that we would by
45:54
no means you know want to be
45:56
a part of or want to be
45:58
privy to that should not
46:00
affect the way that you
46:02
are viewed in the work that you
46:04
are doing. Unless that's coming to interfere
46:06
with your work in some way, shape,
46:09
or form, it just don't
46:11
make sense to me. I
46:14
guess we'll see if he responds to it.
46:16
There's several responses from a spokesperson who says,
46:18
you know, these stories aren't true, or they
46:20
actually happened in a far different light, or
46:22
the IVF wasn't actually to have babies, they
46:24
just wanted to create embryos just in case,
46:26
all these different things. I
46:29
don't know, like what, if I was him, I would
46:32
just be like, you know,
46:34
it depends, it depends on how true some of this stuff
46:36
is. I would be like, you know, what does it have
46:39
to do with my podcast? What does it have to do
46:41
with you listening? I think Taylor said I wouldn't, he wouldn't
46:43
even respond. I
46:45
mean, depending on the merits of the claims and
46:48
whether I thought they were actually relevant to like
46:50
your credibility, but just
46:52
real quick, do you have anything to say to
46:54
us, you know, a couple comments to be effective,
46:56
like, why are you guys so intent on defending
46:58
Huberman? Are you just promoting his podcast, your Huberman
47:00
fanboys? Like, what's your response to this? Because I
47:02
feel like it's more about the principle at hand,
47:04
right? Yeah, I don't listen to Huberman. So
47:06
I've listened to his morning
47:09
routine. And like I
47:11
said, I've watched other YouTubers implement his morning routine. And I
47:13
love the idea of going out and getting a sunlight or
47:15
nothing. I didn't know virtually
47:17
anything about this man other than the
47:19
fact that he was at Stanford. And
47:21
I got tickets to see his show
47:23
in LA from a friend. So
47:26
that's about all I knew about Homeboy.
47:29
I don't feel any incessant need to defend
47:32
him. If his research has been
47:34
discredited, or his podcast has been discredited, then by
47:36
all means, let's have a discussion about why you
47:38
shouldn't listen to Huberman Lab or like why it
47:40
might not be the best implement information to implement
47:43
in your life. We just didn't get this. And
47:46
I want you all to think about,
47:48
I don't know, anything in your life
47:50
that has created drama in your personal
47:53
life or a past relationship that didn't
47:55
go so well. And then imagine a
47:57
journalist finding that person. into
48:00
a separate success story that you're
48:02
having where you're doing well in a career
48:04
that has nothing to do with your relationship
48:06
with that last person and then a journalist
48:08
just taking notes and publishing it
48:11
to discredit what you're doing now. It's
48:14
not okay. It doesn't make sense. I
48:16
mean we've seen this happen a ton.
48:19
We at Lynx covered the Russell brand
48:21
allegations on this show and I said
48:23
as a fan of Russell brand some
48:25
of these allegations sound credible and should
48:28
be investigated. Now the nature of the
48:30
hit piece I think had a real
48:33
big bend towards just bringing down Russell
48:35
as somebody who speaks out against mainstream
48:38
media and legacy media and I think
48:40
they wanted to take him down by
48:42
any means necessary but some of those
48:44
allegations had were sounding a
48:46
little credible and a little detailed and at
48:48
least needed to be looked into to some
48:50
extent hopefully from law enforcement not
48:53
from from journalists but this
48:56
is just not checking out. I saw
48:58
the thing like falling for Huberman which
49:00
is hilarious that this is the way
49:02
that they marketed this falling for Huberman
49:04
as if you the audience member is
49:06
the one who's falling for the great
49:08
Andrew Huberman when in reality they're talking
49:10
about women that he slept with. That's
49:14
not right so there's some intentional
49:16
ambiguity there to already kind of undermined
49:18
his credibility just by the cover that
49:20
they're putting on it and I will
49:23
say like one last thought on his
49:25
why we're defending him or whatever like
49:27
it would be one thing if the
49:29
nature of his podcasts were that he
49:31
was dispensing advice about relationships and portraying
49:34
himself as like this monogamous person and
49:36
it was like sharing his opinions on
49:38
how to have successful relationships not because
49:40
here's some research and here's a scientific
49:43
researcher who has some thoughts on this
49:45
but here's my own opinion on how
49:47
to manage successful relationships how to be
49:49
faithful things like that if
49:51
he was living in a way that was inconsistent
49:53
than that and that came to light then yeah
49:55
I think that's relevant for the public to know
49:57
because he's being a hypocrite in that regard but
49:59
like Like we said, so far
50:01
as I'm aware, I don't think that anything that's
50:03
come to light really has anything to do with
50:06
claims that he's made or things that he's represented
50:08
on his show in particular. And that's why I
50:10
think it's not really fair game to go after
50:12
his personal life when that's
50:15
entirely separate from what he's been using
50:17
his public platform for. Yeah. And
50:19
if this is true, I hope you don't get another
50:21
girlfriend until he pulls his stuff together because apparently he's
50:24
out there playing in y'all faces. So
50:27
he needs to clean up his
50:29
relationship act before he invests himself
50:31
in another long term committed relationship.
50:34
Very clearly. He needs to add another minute
50:37
to that daily ice bath. Exactly. He's
50:39
not getting the proper amount of dopamine, so he's
50:41
finding it from other women. Okay. Sorry.
50:45
Okay. Let me stop. Let me cut
50:47
the jokes. Cut the jokes. Cut the
50:50
show. Yeah, no. So clearly
50:52
he has some work to do in
50:54
his own personal endeavors. But again, does
50:56
that have anything to do with the
50:58
research? No, it doesn't. But also, how
51:00
did these women not see it? He's like
51:02
48 years old. I think he's single with
51:04
no kids. He's jacked and a
51:06
workhorse. Did you think he was going to be
51:09
Mr. Commitment? I'm
51:11
sorry. I don't know. Maybe
51:14
he, of course, it seems like he lied to them. It does
51:16
seem like he lied to them. But also,
51:20
intuition is key. The
51:23
first girl, I don't know about the other girls, the first
51:25
girl had several signs to get the hell out of there
51:27
and now is making an article for the New Yorkers. So
51:29
she needs to chill. And we're going
51:31
to get into your super chat. Whole
51:36
things like I went in posting their elves
51:38
almost. If you stuck with
51:40
me through the story, you guys,
51:42
hopefully, hopefully this was interesting. And we
51:44
got through it. Like I said, we were going to
51:46
do, we were going to react to Jubilee today and
51:48
do the like queer in
51:50
the closet versus queer out of the closet.
51:52
And then this article popped up and I
51:55
read through it and I just I
51:57
could sniff that something was a foot. There
52:00
was a mystery afoot in this article and
52:02
somebody was playing games. So we had to
52:04
go through it today. I didn't do it
52:07
full justice as I could have, you know,
52:09
really broken down the story for you a little
52:11
bit more, but it's all right. We got
52:13
what we needed. All right. And, you
52:15
know, it's it was entertaining,
52:17
not going to lie, but also made
52:19
for an interesting conversation on the principles
52:21
at hand and the purpose of media,
52:23
the way that they want to discredit
52:26
him, things like that. So I think
52:28
you'll got your your time's worth out
52:30
of this. Even if it was
52:32
a very like spurious sort of piece. I'm
52:34
trying to think like, what would my hit piece
52:36
from New Yorker be about? I'm really trying to dive
52:39
deep here in my brain. Think about what
52:42
would my hit piece be when I figured
52:44
out? I'll let you guys know. I'll let I'll
52:46
get ahead of the New Yorker and let you
52:49
know about any dubiousness in my personal life. Well,
52:52
if you'll have any ideas to drop them in the chat.
52:55
I was collecting some of y'all jokes about things,
52:58
innocuous things that Huberman did that the New Yorker
53:00
wouldn't like. So he used a map instead of
53:02
GPS. He does math
53:05
with a pen. The
53:07
only uses of a day he put pineapple on
53:09
pizza and he sits in the front
53:11
row at a movie theater. Dude, it's hilarious. Like
53:13
some of the things that they felt you
53:16
could tell that they didn't have enough to
53:18
create an entire article. So they just had
53:20
to like throw some pieces in there. Like
53:22
he didn't make it to meet
53:24
your parents on Thanksgiving. I'm sorry. That
53:27
sucks. But also why am I reading
53:29
this right now? Very
53:32
weird. Exactly. Weird behavior.
53:35
All right, guys, your turn. We're going to
53:37
read your super chat. First
53:39
one from today is from BG who says,
53:42
love you guys. Love you both. Oh,
53:44
I appreciate that. Thank you. Great
53:47
way to kick us off. Thank you. Deport
53:49
all three or four, which you can guess who
53:51
that is. Hey there, A and T. Ladies,
53:54
don't ever take advice from your single
53:56
girlfriend. Misery loves company. They are trying
53:58
to make you single. as a
54:00
coke. I think sometimes that's true,
54:03
but not all the time. I've
54:05
gotten some amazing dating advice from
54:07
single people that has helped me
54:09
along the way. So sometimes it's
54:11
true. Sometimes it's not. Marry
54:14
people can say dumb things or
54:17
smart things. People can say smart things or
54:19
dumb things or wise things. I should say.
54:22
What's wise? What does that look like?
54:25
He goes on to say RP advice
54:27
for women. Don't date someone like Huberman.
54:29
He may have money and status, but
54:31
that doesn't make him a good guy.
54:33
Take notes, ladies. Yeah, I don't. After
54:35
this, maybe don't date a Huberman. Yeah,
54:38
but also he could have
54:40
been a straight up, you know, straight up
54:42
somebody who fits that mold. So you know,
54:44
you could be crazy. You never, never
54:47
leave out the opportunity, the
54:49
possibility that somebody is crazy and making
54:51
up lies. The
54:55
very good discerner of character. That's good
54:57
advice. No matter what
54:59
type of guy, date or girl. Atticus69
55:02
says, Hey, I'm a lazing and
55:04
straight edge tea. Hope you're doing
55:06
well. We are doing well. It's
55:08
been a good Monday, had a good weekend,
55:10
very chill vibes. Now we're here with you
55:12
today. So we're doing good. We're
55:15
chill. Fun
55:18
with Carr says maybe he cheated on his wife
55:20
with the journalist. Um,
55:22
we love hearing your perspective, much love
55:24
from Buffalo Niagara Falls, New York, USA.
55:26
Oh, very, very cool. Yeah. Who knows? There's
55:28
a lot going on in this story. I mean,
55:30
yeah. He had a wife though. Did he?
55:33
Oh no, I don't, I don't think he, he's been
55:35
married. All right. At least not to my knowledge. They
55:37
don't talk about it in the, in the article. So
55:39
I actually have no clue. Maybe he has been married.
55:42
All of you Huberman lab followers. You can let me
55:44
know down below whether or not that
55:46
is the case, but he just sounds like a bachelor,
55:49
which makes sense. If you're going to be a
55:51
bachelor, just especially in his position,
55:53
just say you're a bachelor. You're going to
55:55
find women who want to be with you
55:57
and sleep with you regardless.
56:00
So I don't know why you would just not
56:02
be 100 about that. Just
56:04
be upfront about it. In this day and
56:07
age, a lot of women don't care. Are you, are you
56:09
kidding? Yeah. But sometimes
56:11
I think, you know, you guys
56:13
wanted to have their KK needed too and like play
56:16
house and have the luxury of things that
56:18
come with the commitment without actually giving that
56:20
exclusive commitment. A lot. But
56:22
nowadays you can get both. Please just
56:25
be honest. Be
56:27
so for real right now. Be so for real right now. Celtic
56:30
blacksmith says, I heard that Becky passed a note
56:33
to Anthony Huberman in homeroom and called him cute.
56:35
So Sarah called Becky a bitch later under the
56:37
bleach. The
56:42
messages in the girls bathroom go so hard,
56:44
you know, like when they write in Sharpie,
56:46
watch out for this guy. And now they
56:48
have like the Facebook message groups, the Huberman's
56:50
all over that. He's all over the bathroom
56:52
walls. Becky and
56:54
Sarah both sent him a note that said circle yes or
56:57
no. If you want to date me. And he said yes
56:59
on both of them. Crazy.
57:04
And very appropriate for the type of capturing
57:07
the sentiment of this article. Drama
57:10
forever says it's giving the movie
57:12
the other woman plot line. Oh,
57:14
yeah. I see that movie. That's with like,
57:16
oh my gosh, Cameron Diaz and oh my
57:19
gosh, who else is in that? The guy
57:21
from Game of Thrones. It's a good, it's
57:23
a classic rom-comy cheat,
57:25
cheat film. If you guys
57:27
like like an early 2000 style,
57:31
the other woman's a good one. Uh,
57:35
let's see, the portal three or fours is going
57:37
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57:39
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57:44
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57:49
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57:53
gets you like eating healthy and going to the
57:55
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57:57
not be, you know, the You
58:00
should just want to do that, but like, you
58:02
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Part two. That is a huge
59:43
red flag, DEFCON 5. Make sure you don't join
59:45
the stable of 304s. If
59:48
you don't evolve your standards,
59:50
you will get left behind. Yeah,
59:52
you have to keep an eye on these
59:54
things. I think a lot of women's stakes,
59:56
they're like, okay, I
59:59
would imagine they're thinking is this guy's
1:00:01
on the come-up, he's really smart, he's
1:00:03
really cool, I don't want to lose
1:00:05
this like gem because he's like famous
1:00:07
and other people see the value in him
1:00:09
so they put up with stuff that you wouldn't
1:00:11
typically put up with in in a relationship
1:00:14
but it's not worth it. Choose
1:00:17
happiness. Choose peace.
1:00:19
Well
1:00:21
not treachery. Some things
1:00:24
should be non-negotiables and don't
1:00:27
break your non-negotiables for someone just because
1:00:29
they're a little more attractive, they're a
1:00:31
little more successful, they're a little more
1:00:33
rich, whatever. Like that's a test
1:00:35
of your character at that point. You already
1:00:37
know their character. You see the signs and
1:00:39
you don't take those red flags
1:00:42
into account. That's on you. You don't need it. V
1:00:46
says Amelie, your hit piece would
1:00:48
be Amela Epinobi wasn't a leftist?
1:00:50
What other things is she like
1:00:52
about? Yeah, they could try to
1:00:54
expose me but I got their receipts on that
1:00:56
so we've played the receipts on this show.
1:00:58
You've seen my left-leaning speech but it was just a
1:01:00
psy-op. I pretended to be a leftist for the
1:01:03
purpose of grifting to the
1:01:05
right. You started planning it with a
1:01:07
tattoo when you were 16? Yep, I started
1:01:09
planning it at 16 years old and
1:01:11
then from there it's all I've been
1:01:14
playing chess not checkers this whole time. Busted.
1:01:19
Savvy C says first time catching a lie finally
1:01:21
and I'm having a blast in the chat. We
1:01:23
all know Huberman leaves his crusty socks on the
1:01:26
floor. Oh no, what a strange
1:01:29
live to catch for the first time.
1:01:31
This is definitely a different one. I'm
1:01:35
curious how the I think the Huberman fans are
1:01:37
gonna find this in post once the live is
1:01:39
done and they're gonna have much to say. I'll be
1:01:41
curious to hear what their take
1:01:43
is on the homeboy Huberman. Yeah,
1:01:46
leave them in the chat. I've listened
1:01:48
to a handful of Huberman episodes and
1:01:51
it's usually like how to maximize your
1:01:53
testosterone or you know things like that
1:01:55
and it's good times but yeah if you
1:01:57
guys get a hold of this later let us know what you
1:01:59
thought in the comments. Yeah, I've listened to I
1:02:01
think he didn't want on cold plunges or maybe he did
1:02:03
like a Rogan interview on cold plunges It was either Rogan
1:02:05
or Chris Williamson something about that and then What
1:02:09
was another one alcohol which
1:02:12
will scare the daylights out of you when it comes
1:02:14
drinking alcohol What
1:02:17
else his morning routine and Yeah,
1:02:20
that's it. And then that talking in LA Which
1:02:23
was boring gonna be honest? Sorry,
1:02:26
sorry guys, but it was his first show. So
1:02:28
maybe they kind of made it better With
1:02:30
time it's like comedy, you know, you gotta
1:02:33
ever find the routine a little bit Just like
1:02:35
his morning routine has to be refined. Yep has
1:02:37
been but yeah, I think that was actually our
1:02:40
last super chat So we made it through. All
1:02:42
right guys. Hopefully you had a good
1:02:44
time today Let me know how you felt in the comments down
1:02:46
below if you're a Huberman fan Let me know did this change
1:02:49
the trajectory of your
1:02:52
fan Nis towards
1:02:55
towards Andrew Huberman drop it down below. Give
1:02:58
me your thoughts. Is this An
1:03:00
actual good hit piece. Is it a bad hit
1:03:03
piece? What what would your hit
1:03:05
piece be about if the New Yorker wrote
1:03:07
one about you drop it down below so that
1:03:09
you can air Out your dirty laundry before they
1:03:11
do I'll be very curious to read some
1:03:14
of those and guys Thank
1:03:16
you so much for watching the show today
1:03:18
Hope you have a good one and I
1:03:21
will see you tomorrow in a video about
1:03:24
Girls who are now flirting with
1:03:26
chat GPT through voice chat. It's
1:03:29
very real. He does flirt
1:03:31
back And it's weird. So
1:03:33
keep an eye out for that and I did it
1:03:35
myself So you get to watch me chat
1:03:37
to the G to chat GPT voice chat
1:03:40
and it gets weird almost immediately. So With
1:03:44
that have a fantastic rest of your Monday
1:03:46
and I'll see you next time. Bye guys
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