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Andrew Huberman Gets “Exposed” by New York Magazine?

Andrew Huberman Gets “Exposed” by New York Magazine?

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Andrew Huberman Gets “Exposed” by New York Magazine?

Andrew Huberman Gets “Exposed” by New York Magazine?

Andrew Huberman Gets “Exposed” by New York Magazine?

Andrew Huberman Gets “Exposed” by New York Magazine?

Monday, 25th March 2024
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1:16

Hello, everybody. Happy Monday. Hope you all

1:18

had a fantastic weekend and you're here

1:20

hanging out with me today. I apologize

1:23

for the momentary lateness. I am not

1:25

in fact time blind, guys. I know

1:27

what time it is. We

1:29

had a whole different show planned for you

1:32

today. But then this whole hit piece from

1:34

The New Yorker came out about Andrew Huberman.

1:36

So we've shifted gears. We're gonna go through

1:38

this supposed hit piece and go through some

1:40

of the details. I tried to read as

1:42

much of this as possible before the show,

1:44

but we're just gonna go through it together

1:46

because that's the way we do things

1:48

on this stream. You guys will probably

1:51

be familiar with Andrew Huberman. He's a

1:53

Stanford researcher who's known best for his

1:55

podcast Huberman Lab, where he talks about

1:58

the research that he's doing. on

2:00

different experts to talk to you about

2:02

anything from how to get the best

2:04

dopamine during the day to how we

2:06

deal with alcoholism and smoking. What's the

2:08

best way to live? What's the best

2:10

nighttime routine? How do we practice gratitude?

2:13

All these different questions, Huberman asked himself

2:15

in his Huberman Lab podcast and tries

2:17

to give you, shall we say,

2:19

the best prescription on what you can do in

2:21

your own life, or at the very least going

2:23

through the research. Now there's been a hit piece

2:26

published on him in The New Yorker, but before

2:28

we get into that and to discuss all

2:30

these different things, we have Taylor in

2:32

action. Hey, happy Monday

2:34

and yeah, cue the breaking news

2:36

music and supposedly the dramatic music

2:39

and since we are springing into

2:41

action to cover this breaking story

2:43

about this hit piece. Yeah, don't

2:46

play with me New Yorker, okay? If you're going

2:48

to publish a hit piece on somebody, we all

2:50

know this is what happens, right? You start your

2:53

podcast or you write your book or whatever endeavor

2:55

it is you're working on, you rise to fame

2:57

and then all of a sudden there's like an

2:59

expose on you and everything horrible you've ever done

3:01

in your life and apparently this is what's happening

3:03

with Huberman. Now I don't know how

3:06

valid these things are going to be. I don't

3:08

know how shocking they are going to be, but

3:10

we are going to learn about it here today.

3:12

Do any of you guys listen to Huberman Lab?

3:14

Are you fans of Andrew Huberman? I've watched

3:16

many of his videos. I've watched YouTubers who

3:19

implement his morning routine and his lifestyle stuff

3:21

that he recommends. You'll know him probably pretty

3:23

famously for being the guy who tells you

3:25

to wake up in the morning, go outside

3:27

and get a few minutes of sunlight every

3:30

day to sort of jumpstart your brain, get

3:32

a good dopamine hit, stay away from the

3:34

phone and the candy and the junk food

3:36

and all these different things. He's done many

3:38

a talk of cold plunges and sauna. He's

3:41

been on Joe Rogan a ton of times.

3:43

There's tons

3:45

where this guy's face has been seen. I

3:47

even went to see Andrew Huberman

3:49

when he did a show, shall we call

3:52

it, here in LA. He did a little

3:54

live talk that you could go to and

3:56

a friend had gifted us tickets. My boyfriend and I,

3:59

we went and watched. Andrew Huberman Live. It was

4:01

about the same stuff that you get out

4:03

of his podcast. But now we have this

4:05

article. So let me stop. We'll just actually

4:07

go through this together and we can read

4:09

some here. It says, Andrew

4:11

Huberman's mechanisms of control,

4:13

the private and public

4:15

seductions of the world's

4:18

biggest pop neuroscientist. That'll

4:21

give you a big head. The world's biggest pop

4:23

neuroscientist. Now this is written by

4:26

Carrie Howley, a features

4:28

writer for New York magazine since

4:30

2021. So I've read some of

4:32

this, as I said before, the

4:35

article really starts out talking

4:38

about Andrew Huberman's come up, you know,

4:40

all the different work that he's done,

4:42

how he was a little boy and

4:44

a family. And, you know, he wasn't

4:47

super happy growing up. He struggled with

4:49

a lot in life. One of the

4:51

main points being that he struggled with

4:53

his parents divorce and that sort of

4:55

led him down the pathway to therapy.

4:58

And whilst he was in therapy, he

5:00

sort of noticed the joys and wonders

5:02

of having experienced therapy. And that had

5:04

piqued his interest in some way, shape

5:06

or form, which is why he does

5:08

feature many a therapist on his show.

5:10

It goes through the fact that he

5:13

started this podcast that did deep dives

5:15

into some of the, you know, minutiae

5:17

in our life that we wouldn't think

5:19

needs needs or has research behind it.

5:21

But Huberman decided to look into it.

5:23

It paints him out as

5:25

a workhorse who really wanted to

5:27

dedicate his time to research and

5:29

sharing what he found in his

5:32

podcast says here. Which real quick, it's

5:34

worth mentioning by the way I just want to throw

5:36

this in there that I just looked it up. His

5:38

podcast is like top 10, top 11 podcasts in the

5:40

entire world, according to Spotify's charts. So

5:42

this is, if you're not familiar with Andrew Huberman,

5:44

he's a big deal in the non-mainstream

5:47

media world. And maybe that has to do with why

5:49

they might be going after him here as well. But

5:51

I just wanted to give that a little bit more

5:53

context as well. That he's a very, very big name

5:55

in the podcasting world. I did have to think about

5:57

that at first. I'm like, why would somebody want to make it? make

6:00

a hit piece against Andrew Huberman. What is

6:02

he doing that the mainstream media wouldn't necessarily

6:04

like? I don't have an

6:06

answer for that quite yet. But maybe

6:08

you guys can think of some. He's your 10-ball

6:10

hats out. Yeah, I mean, he's certainly

6:12

been platformed by, and I guess platforms

6:15

in return, people who are not well-liked

6:17

by the mainstream media. Joe Rogan is

6:20

one of the many there. But his

6:22

content is pretty tame, if you're familiar

6:24

with Huberman Lab and what he puts

6:26

out. So maybe it's just the benefit

6:28

of taking a megastar and maybe taking

6:30

them down a few notches. I

6:33

did just see this comment from GratefulOne

6:35

in the chat. And he said, Huberman

6:37

backs up common sense with neuroscience without

6:39

constantly pushing pharmaceuticals. Of course, they won't

6:41

discredit him. Whoa. So here comes the

6:43

tin foil tape. Where's my hat? There

6:45

might be there. There might. It

6:48

might be there. But let's get through some

6:50

of this article and see what we get

6:52

to. OK, of course, in the beginning, they

6:54

are painting the picture of who he is.

6:57

It says, millions of people feel compelled to

6:59

hear him draw distinctions between neuromodulators and classic

7:01

neurotransmitters. Many of those people will then adopt

7:03

an associated protocol. They will follow his elaborate

7:06

morning routine. They will model the most basic

7:08

functions of human life, sleeping, eating, seeing on

7:10

his sober advice. They will tell their friends

7:13

to do the same. He's not like other

7:16

bro podcasters, they will

7:18

say. And they will be correct. He is

7:20

a tenured Stanford professor associated with the Stanford

7:22

lab. He knows the difference between a neuromodulator

7:24

and a neurotransmitter. He is

7:26

just back from a sold out

7:29

tour in Australia, where he filled

7:31

the Sydney Opera House. Stanford, at

7:33

one point, hung signs saying, authorize

7:35

personnel only, apparently, to deter fans

7:38

in search of his lab. So

7:40

clearly, they're painting the picture of this sort

7:43

of mega popular man who's managed to rise

7:45

to fame in an arena that is not

7:47

typical when it comes to rising to fame.

7:50

Not many people want to hear about neuromodulators

7:52

and neurotransmitters and get somebody

7:54

to display the distinction between those two

7:56

things, but humor men manage to strike

7:58

that chord. Now, the They describe

8:00

him as like a mid-40s super

8:02

jacked, attractive guy in this article,

8:05

which I guess is true. If

8:07

you've seen Huberman do his little

8:09

Cam Haynes run lift shoot thing

8:11

where they go up a mountain,

8:14

he's pretty jacked. Yeah,

8:16

I'm secure enough in my masculinity to

8:18

admit that he is an attractive man,

8:21

even with this silver gray beard,

8:23

not that I'm trying to emulate

8:25

him here or anything, but he's got some going

8:27

on for sure. Yeah, so let's refer there.

8:29

It says, with this power comes the

8:31

power to lift other scientists out of

8:33

their narrow silos and turn them too

8:35

into celebrities. But these scientists will not

8:38

be Huberman whose personal appeal is distinct.

8:40

Here we have a broad-minded professor, puppishly

8:42

enamored with the wonders of biological function,

8:45

generous to interviewees, quote, I love to

8:47

be wrong, end quote, engaged in endearing

8:49

attempts to sound like a normal person.

8:51

Quote, now we all have to eat

8:53

and it's nice to eat foods that

8:56

we enjoy. I certainly do that. I

8:58

love food in fact, end quote. Okay.

9:02

So it's funny because when you

9:04

read into this article, it seemingly

9:07

is just a really well-written article. I always

9:09

like to look into some of the fun

9:11

things that they're doing with language to paint

9:13

a certain picture. And the picture so far

9:15

that I'm getting is that Huberman is like

9:17

this, bachelor 40 year

9:20

old workhorse who is not

9:22

normal in the fact that

9:24

he is attractive and popular

9:26

and engaging with a niche,

9:28

but tries to come off

9:30

as normal to sort of

9:32

place himself in the same position as other people.

9:34

But I've yet to hear an accusation

9:37

being made throughout this article. Now they

9:39

go through some more to explain where

9:42

he's at in life, who he's interviewing, people

9:45

like Peter Atiyah, who is I think been

9:47

featured on the show many a time. They

9:49

discuss the fact that Huberman has been in

9:52

therapy since high school and that he's seen

9:54

several therapists and that he's found this to

9:56

be really helpful for his mental health and

9:58

they go through more. and more of

10:01

that and they talk

10:03

about how he's gone through many

10:05

self-revelations. He must give

10:07

his story a shape that ultimately tends

10:10

towards inner strength, weakness overcome.

10:12

For Andrew Huberman to become your teacher

10:14

and mine, as he very much was

10:17

for a period this fall, a period

10:19

in which I diligently absorbed sun upon

10:21

waking, drink no more than once a

10:24

week, practice physiological size in

10:26

traffic and said to myself out loud in

10:28

my living room, I also, I also love

10:31

mechanism. A period which, oh sorry, a

10:33

period during which I

10:37

began to think seriously for the first time in my life

10:39

about reducing stress and during

10:41

which both my husband and my young

10:43

child saw tangible benefit from repeatedly immersing

10:45

ourselves in frigid water. So this writer

10:48

saying, I listened to Andrew Huberman, I

10:50

took on a lot of his advice.

10:52

Now, this paragraph is

10:55

interesting. Huberman sells

10:57

a dream of control down to the

10:59

cellular level, but something has gone wrong.

11:02

In the midst of immense fame, a chasm is

11:04

open between the podcaster preaching dopaminergic restraints

11:07

and a man with new found

11:09

wealth with access to a world

11:11

unseen by most professors. The problem

11:13

with a man always working on

11:16

himself is that he may also

11:18

be working on you. Ooh, spooky,

11:20

spooky. What's that movie with Christian

11:22

Bale where he's like a little

11:25

psycho serial killer. Same with that film. Why

11:27

is it escaping me? American

11:29

Psycho. American Psycho. That's the vibe that

11:32

I'm getting from this article so far that

11:34

Huberman is like this psychotic older guy who

11:36

wakes up in the morning and drenches himself

11:39

in sunlight before hopping in a cold plunge and

11:41

then he goes to work in his lab. So

11:43

again, we're wondering what are

11:46

the accusations here. We're going to get into them. They

11:49

start to express that

11:51

Huberman's love life. They start talking about

11:54

this woman by the name of Sarah

11:56

and we're going to read a little

11:58

bit about Sarah by this woman. wonderful

12:00

writer Carrie who is, you know, she's doing a good

12:02

job painting a picture here. She says,

12:04

by then, he had a partner, Sarah, which is

12:06

not her real name. Sarah was someone

12:08

who could talk to anyone about anything. She

12:11

was dewy and strong and in her mid-forties,

12:13

though she looked a decade younger, with two

12:15

small kids from a previous relationship. She had

12:18

old friends who adored her and no trouble

12:20

making new ones. She came across as scattered

12:22

in the way that she jumped readily from

12:24

topic to topic in conversation, losing the thread

12:27

before returning to it. But she was, in

12:29

fact, extremely organized. She was a woman who

12:31

kept track of things. She was an entrepreneur

12:33

who could organize a meeting, a skill she

12:36

would need later for reasons she could not

12:38

possibly have predicted. When I asked her a

12:40

question in her home recently, she said the

12:42

answer would be on an old phone. She

12:44

stood up, left for a moment, and returned

12:46

with a box labeled old phones. Now,

12:49

apparently, Sarah's relationship with Andrew Huberman started in 2018

12:51

in the Bay Area

12:53

where they both lived. He had

12:55

found her on Instagram, messaged her. They

12:58

started to hang out. Homegirl was interested

13:00

in Mr. Huberman. And

13:03

apparently, this became a devoted

13:05

relationship where they devoted themselves

13:07

to healthy living, exercise, good

13:09

food, good information. They cared

13:11

about their bodies. They cared

13:13

about just taking care of

13:16

one another. And she

13:18

describes herself as becoming

13:20

very doting during her relationship with Andrew

13:22

Huberman, that suddenly she was making him

13:24

food and tending to the kitchen and

13:27

all these different things. And she would

13:29

express this to her friends. And her

13:31

friends would say, Sarah, it doesn't sound

13:34

like you to take care of a man. And

13:36

I guess her friends had been a

13:38

little suspicious that maybe Andrew was creating

13:40

problems with her and turning her into

13:43

something that she's not. Now,

13:45

when it gets into arguments

13:47

that her and Andrew Huberman may have

13:49

had, apparently, according to Sarah, he was

13:52

very upset about her past relationships and

13:54

the past men that she had been

13:56

with. She says, quote,

13:58

I experienced his relationship. rage,"

14:00

end quote. And this

14:02

was apparently in reference to the topic

14:04

of the fact that she had two

14:06

prior children. She states that

14:09

he was particularly upset about the second

14:11

child, although a spokesperson on behalf of

14:13

Andrew Huberman says that this is a

14:16

lie. I'm going to

14:18

immediately ask, why do I

14:20

care? Why are we talking about this girl that

14:22

he has a personal relationship with that started in

14:24

2018 and is now leading us into, you know,

14:28

years further from that, why do I care?

14:30

And what does this have to do with

14:32

listening to Huberman Lab or taking in the

14:34

information that he's stating on his podcast of

14:37

waking up and taking in sunlight or, you

14:39

know, doing the cold plunge in the sauna

14:41

or whatever the case may be for the

14:43

information that you're taking in. So far, I

14:45

have no idea what this has to

14:47

do with the story. Now,

14:50

then it goes on to say, on Thanksgiving in 2018, Sarah

14:54

had planned to introduce Andrew to her

14:56

parents and close friends. She was cooking.

14:58

She was getting everything ready. And Andrew

15:00

texted her that he was going to

15:03

be late. Oh my goodness.

15:05

And apparently this went on and on

15:07

until he was going to be running

15:09

hours late. And then, of

15:11

course, all of these things

15:14

were planned around his arrival and he just

15:16

kept going, quote, Oh, I'm going to be

15:18

late. And then it's the night. It's the

15:20

end of the night. And he's like, Oh,

15:22

I'm so sorry that this happened. Okay. Again,

15:25

is so far,

15:27

the accusation is he dated a

15:29

girl and now she's doting

15:31

on him. And now he's like

15:33

late to things and doesn't care about other

15:35

people's time. You would think we were going

15:37

to get more than this. This

15:40

article then goes on to explain

15:42

Andrew Huberman habits when it comes

15:44

to meeting people on time and

15:46

like valuing their time and respecting

15:48

their time. It says Huberman disappearing

15:50

with something of a pattern. Friends,

15:52

girlfriends and colleagues describe him as

15:54

hard to reach. The list

15:57

of reasons for not showing up included

15:59

a book, timestamping the podcast Castello

16:02

wildfires and a meetings tunnel. He

16:04

is flaky and doesn't respond to

16:06

things says his friend Brian McKenzie

16:09

and then we go through this

16:11

whole few pages about

16:13

different times where he's flaked where

16:15

he said he was gonna be

16:17

somewhere where he in fact was

16:20

was not there. Yes the

16:22

New Yorker is dedicating their

16:24

time to telling you that

16:26

he flaked on meeting with his

16:28

friends but don't worry guys the

16:31

plot thickens and we do indeed

16:33

find out more they go more

16:35

into the arguments that he would

16:37

have with Sarah over her past

16:39

relationships and the fixation

16:42

that he apparently had on

16:44

her having had previous children

16:47

in a relationship they talk about an

16:49

argument that he got into with

16:52

a friend who had written a book and

16:54

wanted him to review some of the material

16:56

in the book that spoke about Andrew Huberman

16:58

and things that he had said or researched

17:01

he had emailed him several times hey Andrew I

17:03

need you to check this out Andrew didn't get

17:05

back email them again hey Andrew I need you to

17:07

check this out he didn't get back email them one last

17:09

time and said you know what I'm gonna finalize this

17:11

if you don't get back to me and look through

17:13

the research that I've placed in this book and

17:16

finally I guess he gets a call from

17:18

Andrew Huberman and Andrew Huberman explodes on him

17:20

on the phone how dare you you know

17:22

start publishing these things and it becomes this

17:25

whole vitriolic thing and the guy says I'd

17:27

never had you know somebody who I've respected

17:29

and research or a colleague go off on

17:31

me in this way I'm sorry what

17:34

does this have to do with Andrew Huberman

17:36

and Huberman lab and listening to that podcast

17:39

I get it she sounds a little shitty

17:41

in his personal life what

17:43

does that have to do with me and

17:45

why are you as a journalist going out

17:47

of your way to research this stuff writing

17:49

like a fluff piece where you paint them

17:51

out to be actually like a psycho and

17:54

then printing that out for the world

17:56

to view what is your goal here

17:58

in creating this article and what do

18:01

you hope that people do in the

18:03

wake of reading this article? Are we

18:05

gonna say I'm not gonna listen to

18:07

Huberman Lab and the research that he

18:09

is bringing to us and the experts

18:11

that he's bringing to us because he

18:13

treated his girlfriend bad

18:15

and he yelled at a

18:17

supposed friend on the phone

18:20

and he's flaky? This is why

18:23

we're calling it a hit piece because that

18:25

is exactly how you do a

18:28

hit piece. You don't talk to the

18:30

person themselves, you call the ex-girlfriend, you

18:32

call the guy that got yelled at

18:34

on the phone and maybe what are

18:36

probably some of his worst moments that

18:38

he would probably like to clarify, dispute,

18:40

and or express regret or apologize for

18:42

but no no no let's just construct

18:44

this narrative and this is this problem like

18:46

there's there's a long history in magazines like

18:49

Rolling Stone and New Yorker of having this

18:51

type of journalism where you do this like

18:53

very like lengthy in-depth profile and you go

18:55

into the inner workings of their lives and

18:57

you try to like paint a picture but

19:00

traditionally when you're painting a picture

19:02

of a person's life in a profile you

19:04

want to do them justice and you take

19:06

the long swaths of paragraphs of text and

19:08

digging deep into their life to try to

19:10

bring that person to life and show a

19:13

side of them that you wouldn't necessarily

19:15

see from an everyday perspective

19:17

but this is all done

19:20

seemingly with a specific intent

19:22

of trying to frame the facts of

19:25

his life in a certain way and

19:27

paint him in a

19:29

certain way so as to presumably

19:31

undercut his work or his credibility

19:33

in some way but no

19:35

matter how many attacks we keep hearing

19:38

they don't actually connect or have any

19:40

bearing on the primary focus of what

19:42

he does which is offer like science-backed

19:45

information on his podcast and that's why people

19:47

care about him so to go after him

19:49

for all these reasons it just you can't

19:51

help but feel like why are they doing

19:53

this it just feels like a pet peeve

19:56

yeah it does feel like they already knew

19:58

what the intention of the article was going

20:00

to be before they structured the article.

20:03

So they just needed to find pieces of

20:05

information that made him look bad to inject

20:07

into the article so that they could post

20:09

it out to people. And hopefully, I guess,

20:12

get you to stop watching Kuberman Lab. Of

20:14

course, the plot thickens. So

20:16

it says, in August of 2021, Sarah says

20:19

she read Andrew's journal and discovered

20:22

a reference to cheating. She

20:24

was, she says, gutted. I hear

20:26

you are saying you are angry and hurt.

20:28

He texted her the same day. I

20:30

will hear you as much, as long,

20:32

as needed for us. Andrew

20:35

and Sarah wanted children together,

20:37

Sarah states. Optimizers sometimes prefer

20:39

not to conceive naturally. One

20:41

can exert more control when

20:43

procreation involves a lab. Sarah

20:46

began the first of several

20:48

rounds of IVF. So

20:50

here's another picture they're trying to paint. Well,

20:52

first of all, if you cheated on her, that

20:55

sucks. You sound like a pretty horrible boyfriend, not

20:57

a cool thing to go through. Again, how does

20:59

it affect the research that I'm listening to on

21:01

your 200-year podcast? I'm not sure. I'm

21:04

not sure how that it all affects me as

21:06

the listener. But I get it. I feel bad for

21:08

you. And I certainly wouldn't date somebody who

21:11

does that to their previous partners. And that'd

21:13

be somebody who I'd stay away from. What

21:15

does it have to do with me? Now,

21:18

this girl undergoes IVF, apparently

21:21

out of a mutual decision

21:23

to do so. And

21:25

again, they're trying to paint

21:27

out this American psycho-type character

21:29

by saying one can exert

21:31

more control over procreation when

21:33

it involves a lab. I'm

21:36

sorry. A ton of people choose

21:39

to engage in IVF every single

21:41

day. And presumably, these

21:43

two individuals are in their, you

21:45

know, humans in his 40s. I

21:48

believe Sarah is also in her 40s. Wouldn't

21:50

it kind of make sense to be going down

21:52

the route of IVF? Why are you trying to

21:54

make it out as if he's trying to exert

21:56

control over her by having her do IVF? strange

22:00

and this is why we have to break

22:02

down the language that is used in these

22:04

articles because they're so often trying to paint

22:07

a certain picture for you. Now

22:09

throughout this article as they're detailing

22:11

the cheating that this woman discovers

22:13

that Andrew Huberman is engaging in,

22:15

they weave in episodes of his

22:17

podcast so that you guys get

22:19

the view that he is using

22:22

his podcast and the experts that

22:24

he talks to in order to

22:26

expand his knowledge of therapy and

22:28

then use it to manipulate the

22:30

woman that he's in a relationship with. Now I don't

22:32

know if that's true or false,

22:34

I'm just telling you what this

22:36

article says. It says here quote,

22:39

I'd be remiss if I didn't ask

22:41

about truth telling and deception. Andrew told

22:44

evolutionary psychologist David Buss on a November

22:46

2021 episode of Huberman

22:48

Lab called, How Humans Select and Keep

22:50

Romantic Characters in Short and Long Term.

22:53

They were talking about regularities across

22:55

cultures in mate preferences. Quote,

22:58

could you tell us, end quote, Andrew

23:00

asked quote, about how men and women

23:03

leverage deception versus truth telling and communicating

23:05

some of the things around mates, mate's

23:08

choice selection. Then the

23:10

expert says effective tactics, tactics

23:12

for men are often displaying

23:14

cues to long-term interest. Men

23:17

tend to exaggerate the depths

23:19

of their feeling for a

23:21

woman. Andrew says let's talk

23:23

about infidelity in committed relationships. I'm guessing

23:25

it does happen. The expert

23:27

says men who have affairs tend to have

23:30

affairs with a larger number of affair partners

23:32

and so which, sorry,

23:35

and so which then by

23:37

definition can't be long-lasting. You

23:39

can't have long-term affairs with

23:41

six different partners. Okay so

23:43

clearly they're trying to say

23:46

Andrew's having conversations about infidelity

23:48

and cheating and deception

23:50

with experts and the experts are giving

23:52

the knowledge that he then uses against

23:54

these women. But what I actually find

23:57

quite hilarious is that if We

24:00

are at listening to the podcast and

24:02

juxtaposing that with Andrew Life where he

24:04

is cheating on this woman with multiple

24:06

women. It only reinforces that the research

24:09

that they're giving you on the podcast

24:11

is correct. So

24:13

if the researchers as you know, men

24:15

typically have a time of romantic partners

24:17

when they're cheating and they're not long

24:19

lasting and you know who cheat multiple

24:21

times on the same woman and air to

24:24

humans going to move, move, move, knowing

24:26

damn well that that's right about his

24:28

own life than the research that you're

24:30

getting on Human Lab A seemingly accurate.

24:34

It as we honor. Know. Where

24:36

I'm gonna read or records you guys are going

24:38

crazy in the chart like they're marking how silly

24:40

some of these lines of attack car on whom

24:42

in their to the also leave the toilet seat

24:44

up to be produced with a twist, tie back

24:47

on the bread study, take the trash out and

24:49

I'll put a replacement bargain. It's what a horrible

24:51

human him. Like, Okay, I

24:53

get it, these are not things that I

24:55

want to deal with in my personal life

24:57

coming from a partner. But what does this

24:59

have to do with his credibility as a

25:01

scientist in a researcher? It really doesn't And

25:03

it feels like you what happened with you

25:05

got together a bunch of bitter women to

25:07

com and video a ton of information and

25:10

you thought. Well, since I don't have any

25:12

actual credible arguments to discredit what he's doing

25:14

on a day to day basis, I'm going

25:16

to try to knock him down a peg

25:18

by bringing up affairs that he's had and

25:20

people who he cheated with. And they do.

25:22

fine thing so i mean that's that's

25:24

very clear now how that changes your

25:26

judgment of somebody that you're going to

25:28

for research and information about your your life

25:30

i don't know if i was going

25:32

to a doctor to help cure a

25:34

disease or help with symptoms that i'm

25:36

experiencing so i don't sit down with

25:38

the doctor and say how's your relationship with

25:41

your wife and how often have you

25:43

have he cheated on her i go

25:45

to the doctor i get the information

25:47

that i know he's hopefully knowledgeable on

25:49

and i go home and implement that in

25:51

my life has nothing to do with

25:53

what the doctors doing and his personal

25:55

time and the sack that it's just

25:57

because you gain popularity it's can go

25:59

and insert themselves into your life like this

26:01

and air out your dirty laundry. It's insane.

26:03

Now, mind you, what he did to this

26:06

one, to these women, if true, is

26:08

not okay. But damn, the

26:10

old one, all your dirty laundry aired out as soon

26:12

as you become popular because somebody likes your podcast.

26:15

That's crazy. Crazy. Yeah. And

26:17

it just seems beneath, uh,

26:20

an institution that is supposedly supposed to

26:23

be like a respectable journalistic outlet like

26:25

the New Yorker to be using their

26:27

resources to go after him in this

26:29

way, which again, if there were legitimate

26:32

reasons to doubt his credibility as

26:34

a neuroscientist, as a voice in

26:36

the public who is espousing information,

26:38

then let's hear them.

26:40

But to just go after his personal

26:43

life, it's just, you're reducing yourself to

26:45

like the gossip rag, you know, instead

26:47

of being a serious journalistic

26:49

outlet. And one of the thought is

26:52

we talk all the time on the

26:54

show about just how difficult it is

26:56

to sift through all the abundance of

26:58

information that is out there right now,

27:00

especially in sort of the post COVID

27:02

BLM era, where so many institutions, uh,

27:05

just through their credibility, by the

27:07

wayside with a lot of Americans, a

27:09

lot of people worldwide where we aren't

27:11

sure we're still hearing, it seems like

27:13

every week, the new information that arises

27:15

where different institutions are saying, well, we

27:17

were actually wrong about this treatment, or

27:19

we were wrong about that. Uh, when

27:21

we, we did the lockdowns or whatever.

27:23

And little by little, they're expressing regret

27:25

for things that were imposed at the

27:27

time. And so people have a reason

27:29

to doubt the credibility of so many

27:31

institutions. And in the wake of that,

27:34

you have podcasters like, uh, Huberman, who

27:36

have taken the approach of saying, I'm

27:38

only going to tell you things that, uh,

27:40

I can back up with research. I'm going

27:42

to talk to credible researchers and we're, I

27:44

don't have an agenda here. I'm not trying

27:46

to sell you pharmaceuticals. Like someone said earlier

27:49

in the chat, I mean, obviously like he's

27:51

a successful podcast, he's making money off it.

27:53

But that comes with earning people's trust, uh,

27:55

because the institutions have abdicated their responsibility to

27:58

maintain people's trust and it's. to

28:00

me, like a lot of what can be

28:02

motivating the animus against humor men on the

28:05

part of the mainstream media journalistic institutions is

28:07

their desire to have a monopoly on narrative,

28:09

their desire to have a monopoly on the

28:11

truth and what is acceptable information. So you

28:14

see someone like him gaining a lot of

28:16

traction and attention and they're

28:18

like, oh no, we don't want people listening

28:20

to him. We want them to only be

28:22

listening to us. A hundred percent.

28:24

That's what they would just want to discredit

28:26

anything that falls outside of the mechanisms of

28:29

control that they have, which is so funny

28:31

because this whole article is meant to accuse

28:33

Andrew Huberman of having like this psychotic need

28:35

for control over his work life and the

28:37

girls that he's with. And he tells lies

28:39

in order to make that control, you know,

28:41

uh, more and more privy

28:44

to him when actually what you're trying to

28:46

do is control the narrative and control what

28:48

people see. Now this article dedicates one

28:51

paragraph, one paragraph

28:53

to AG one greens, which

28:55

if you guys watch Huberman lab, you

28:57

know, that he's sponsored by AG one

28:59

greens, athletic greens, where it's like a

29:01

little green drink powder that you can

29:03

like drink in the morning and it's

29:05

supposed to be full of vitamins and

29:07

probiotics or whatever. Now this one

29:09

paragraph talks about the possible problem

29:12

that most of the probiotics in

29:14

the AG one greens are not

29:16

concentrated enough to actually colonize, which

29:18

is an interesting assertion. If you're

29:21

listening to a researcher and he's

29:23

telling you that you should buy

29:25

AG one greens and then you

29:28

purchase a AG one greens and they're actually

29:30

not effective, maybe that's what you should have

29:32

dedicated the article to the research that you

29:35

go to for your morning routine and night

29:37

routine is sponsored by something that actually isn't

29:39

effective. I don't know whether or not that's

29:41

true. That's clearly the assertion that they're trying

29:43

to make in this article, but they only

29:45

give it one paragraph and they probably only

29:47

give it one paragraph because they don't have

29:49

enough research to back the fact that AG

29:52

one is not good for you. So

29:54

they sprinkle that in, in and

29:56

amongst the cheating allegations that they're

29:58

accusing this man of. And then they

30:01

go right back to detailing the cheating allegations.

30:04

What? What? Make

30:06

that mix. This guy's so weird.

30:09

Okay. So it

30:11

goes on to say, you know,

30:13

Sarah has some suspicions about Andrew

30:16

having conversations with another woman. They're

30:19

still going through this process of IVF

30:21

and the IVF is not taking and

30:23

while they're in this process, they're cohabitating

30:26

with one another. They're going on trips.

30:28

And she continues to say that Andrew's

30:30

rage was growing with cohabitation. He would

30:33

get more and more angry at her

30:36

and that again, he would

30:38

get upset about the fact that she had prior

30:40

relationships and he had asked her

30:43

to sort of detail to her all

30:45

the bad decisions that she's made, including

30:47

her second child and like just

30:49

regurgitate it back to him, which again,

30:51

if you're doing that with your partner,

30:53

you're weird. You're a little freak. I

30:55

don't know if it's true that he

30:57

actually did this. But again, being a

31:00

bad partner ain't got nothing to do

31:02

with your research. OK, so we're

31:04

going to keep reading. Says they were

31:06

on a camping trip, apparently,

31:09

where Sarah noticed that she

31:11

and Andrew could not

31:13

go out without being thronged by people.

31:15

They go on this camping trip. They

31:17

bring the syringes for their IVF. And

31:20

at one point during this trip or

31:23

sorry, later that month, Sarah

31:25

decides to grab Andrew's phone after

31:28

when he had left it in the bathroom.

31:30

So she grabs the phone after he left

31:32

in the bathroom. She goes scrolling through his text,

31:34

much like she went through the journal and found

31:36

the cheating references. And she found conversations with

31:38

a woman that they are going to call

31:40

Eve. It's probably also not her real name.

31:43

And some of them took place during

31:45

the previous camping trip that they had

31:47

taken. Now, clearly, he's cheating

31:49

on baby girl Sarah with Eve.

31:52

And he says, quote, your feelings matter

31:54

to Eve on a day where he

31:57

had injected his girlfriend with HCG, which

31:59

is for. IVF, quote, I'm

32:02

actually very much a caretaker, quote, I'm

32:04

back on grid tomorrow and would love

32:06

to see you this weekend. So she

32:08

finds out that Andrew is cheating on

32:11

Sarah with Eve

32:14

and they get into this whole

32:16

discovery. Eve's an actress, they met

32:18

on Raya, blah, blah, blah, blah,

32:20

blah, and they're having conversations. As

32:22

their relationship intensified over the years,

32:24

he talked often about the family

32:26

that he one day wanted, quote,

32:28

our children would be amazing, end

32:31

quote, he said. She asked

32:33

for book recommendations and he suggested jokingly,

32:35

Huberman, why we made babies, quote, I'm

32:37

at the stage of life where I

32:39

truly want to build a family, he

32:41

told her, that's a resounding theme for

32:43

me. Goes on. Now in

32:45

September of 2022, Eve noticed

32:48

that Sarah was looking at her

32:50

Instagram stories, not commenting or liking,

32:52

just looking impulsively. Eve messaged her.

32:55

Is there anything you'd rather ask

32:57

me directly? She said they set

32:59

up a call, quote,

33:01

fuck you, Andrew, end quote.

33:03

She messaged him. Sarah moved

33:05

out in August of 2023. Okay.

33:10

Does this sound like actual journalism or does

33:13

it sound like drama that we talked about

33:15

when we were 15 in high school of

33:17

finding out that the boys were cheating and

33:19

Sarah and Eve were both talking to Andrew

33:22

at the same time? My goodness. Now, mind

33:24

you, there's higher stakes in the fact that

33:26

he's pretending to, I guess,

33:28

commit to this woman and they're going through

33:30

this process of IVF. That sucks for you.

33:33

And, you know, I, I wish you

33:35

all the best in healing on your

33:37

journey of getting over this man. But

33:40

in maybe instead of talking to the New Yorker, like

33:43

a crazy ex who was

33:45

scorned, maybe you should go

33:47

deal and heal from

33:49

what that man did to you because we don't

33:51

need to be hearing about all this. I'm sorry.

33:53

This is giving crazy acts. It really is. And

33:55

I know he did you wrong, baby girl, but

33:58

we need to let it rest. I think

34:00

that'd be best. Okay. So also

34:05

she read his journal and it had references

34:07

of cheating years prior. Okay. She goes through

34:09

the man's phone and she finds out that

34:11

he's cheating on her. What's

34:14

happening between September of 2022 and

34:16

August of 2023 that you're still

34:18

with this man and have to move out? Why

34:21

are you putting up with this

34:23

behavior for so long and staying

34:25

with a man who twice now

34:27

you found out was cheating on you

34:30

in some way, shape or form? This is just a

34:32

question I have. Y'all are going to accuse me of

34:34

victim blaming, but I've

34:36

been cheated on before. Okay. And

34:38

I've been there too. And I made the

34:40

wrong decision too. And I blame accountability, accountability.

34:43

I should have left a hundred percent. I

34:45

should have left not even, even if I

34:48

had a feeling I was being cheated on, I

34:50

should have left. So in my situation,

34:52

when I was with somebody, I had little, I was

34:56

thinking like, he's giving vibes of cheating.

34:58

I never had it confirmed. I didn't have

35:00

it confirmed until the relationship ended. But

35:03

if you're finding out twice that somebody's cheating on you, why

35:05

are you staying where somebody does

35:08

not want you in this situation? Anyways,

35:11

they continue more and more.

35:13

She's going through this relationship. Sarah leaves

35:16

his ass apparently, or sorry, she doesn't

35:18

leave. She moves out in August of

35:20

2023, but she remains

35:22

in a committed relationship with Huberman.

35:26

So now you're just giving him the freedom to have

35:28

his place back apparently so that he can keep bringing

35:30

hoes around. Anyways.

35:33

Okay. So she moves out and then

35:35

she stays in the relationship with Andrew

35:37

Huberman. It goes on and on and

35:40

on. Okay. On January 11th,

35:42

a woman that we'll call Alex began

35:44

liking all of Sarah's Instagram posts, seven

35:46

of them in one minute. Sarah messaged

35:48

her saying, quote, I think you're friends

35:50

with my ex Andrew Huberman. Are you

35:52

one of the women he cheated on

35:55

me with? End quote. Alex

35:57

is an intense, direct, highly educated

35:59

woman. who lives in New York. She

36:01

was sleeping with Andrew and she had no

36:03

idea that there had been a girlfriend. Quote, fuck,

36:05

she said. I think we should talk. Over

36:07

the following weeks, Sarah and Alex never stopped texting.

36:10

Quote, she helped me hold my boundary against

36:13

him, says Sarah. Keep him blocked. She said

36:15

you need to let go of the idea

36:17

of him. So now we have baby girl

36:19

number three. We got Sarah, we got Eve,

36:21

we got Alex. He

36:25

is, he's collecting. He

36:27

is collecting. He's collecting. Now

36:30

there was a day in Texas when

36:32

after Sarah left his hotel, Andrew slept

36:34

with Mary. Now we got Mary, another

36:38

girl and texted Eve.

36:42

Okay. So we got Mary, we got

36:44

Eve. I'm looking for Adam. I'm looking

36:46

for Joseph. And we're collecting all the

36:48

biblical names in his, in

36:52

his, in his sexcapade. Okay. So

36:54

he's racking up these girls. Anyways,

36:57

they're all finding out about each other.

36:59

And this whole thing is just an

37:01

expose about him. Now he

37:03

would send them some of the like

37:05

same text messages and same pictures. Apparently

37:07

they realized on March 21st of 2021,

37:09

a day of admittedly impressive

37:13

logical jujitsu. While Sarah was in Berkeley,

37:15

Andrew had flown Mary from Texas to

37:17

LA to stay with him in Topanga.

37:20

While Mary was there sitting, visiting

37:22

from thousands of miles away, he left

37:24

her with Costello. He drove to a

37:26

coffee shop where he met Eve. They

37:29

had a serious talk about their relationship.

37:32

They thought they were in a good place. He

37:34

wanted to make it work. Phone

37:37

died. He texted Mary who

37:39

was waiting back at the place in

37:41

Topanga and later to Eve. Thank you

37:44

for being so next, next level,

37:47

gorgeous and sexy. Sleep well, beautiful.

37:49

He texted Sarah. The

37:51

scheduling alone. Alex tells me I can

37:53

barely schedule three zooms in one day.

37:56

You know what? He's a Stanford researcher.

37:58

He's so used to looking

38:00

at different subjects and specimen all day that he

38:02

can do the same in his uh in

38:05

his dating life. Now mind y'all this is

38:08

already, this is already aired

38:10

out. That's why I'm uh I'm reading this but

38:12

I can't lie I'm being entertained. I'm being

38:14

entertained by this storyline and everything that is

38:16

being divulged here and I guess that means

38:18

that means I'm part of the problem because

38:20

I'm the reason that somebody like the New Yorker

38:22

would put out an article like this but I

38:25

don't support the messaging behind the article

38:27

right? They're trying to completely discredit this

38:29

man for what he's done in his

38:31

personal life. They even detail like the

38:33

kind of woman that he's attracted to

38:35

and why he goes after them and

38:37

how the women are similar but different

38:39

at the same time and I'm not

38:41

going to read there's more of this

38:43

article to go through and read. The

38:46

craziest part to me actually

38:48

has nothing to do with

38:50

Andrew Huberman. The girls, the ladies who

38:53

are all in question here with

38:55

their fake names Alex, Mary, Sarah,

38:57

Eve, whatever they apparently

38:59

found some sort of reddit

39:01

thread I guess where people are talking about their

39:03

supposed experience with Andrew Huberman who knows if it's

39:05

real who knows if it's fake and

39:08

they are giving themselves nicknames they're

39:10

accusing him of having a stable

39:13

of hoes okay and these girls

39:15

apparently joined this group this online

39:17

group I don't know if it's on reddit or you

39:19

know whatever website it's on. Now Sarah comes

39:21

in at the end of the article and

39:24

says this group has radicalized me says

39:27

there's been so much processing

39:29

they are planning a weekend

39:31

together in summer they

39:34

are planning a weekend together this summer

39:37

the girls that he cheated with and

39:40

engaged with are planning a

39:42

weekend together this summer quote it

39:44

could have been sad or bitter

39:46

says Eve we didn't jump in

39:48

as besties but real friendships have

39:50

built it has been

39:53

in a strange and unlikely way

39:55

quite a beautiful experience okay

39:59

so If it's been such a beautiful

40:01

experience, what are y'all doing writing up this

40:03

article trying to expose my man Andrew Huberman if he

40:05

led you to your besties? That

40:07

man is doing good work for you if he's leading you

40:10

to your best friends. This is so

40:12

strange to me and this is a very common

40:14

thing that happens when men

40:16

cheat, which mind you, horrible, okay?

40:19

Wouldn't recommend dating this guy after reading

40:21

the article given his supposed track record

40:24

with these women, although I don't know

40:26

how credible these women are. Just

40:28

get that out of the way. If a man

40:30

cheats on you, why are you

40:32

meeting up with the girls that he cheated with

40:35

for like a weekend, you know, a little ski

40:37

trip? Why are you

40:39

going to a resort in the summer to hang out with

40:41

the girls who he cheated on you with? It's giving weird.

40:44

It's giving psycho. Even though you're

40:46

trying to paint him out to be the psycho, it's really

40:48

strange to like build like a

40:50

blood brother group with the girls who he's

40:52

slept with so that you can what just

40:54

like talk about him more. Even though you're

40:56

no longer with him, it's

40:58

really weird to make your entire life about the guy

41:01

who cheated on you and you should probably, you

41:04

should probably move on because at some

41:06

point there's somebody who did

41:08

a horrible thing to you and you like heal from

41:10

it and you move past it and you acknowledge it

41:12

and you go, you know what? That person has their

41:15

own problems. I would never be with that person again.

41:17

I learned my lesson from that person. I hope he

41:19

doesn't get another woman. It's

41:22

different to like go and then make your

41:24

whole life about it. Make all your friendships

41:26

about it. Start developing resort weekends during the

41:28

summer to meet up with all the other

41:30

girls that he slept with so you can

41:32

like talk about Andrew and detail your traumatic

41:35

experiences because then you're making your life about

41:37

the person who wronged you. Do you want

41:39

them to have that much of a presence

41:41

in your life after they've done something so

41:43

wrong to you? Do you then want to

41:45

make your entire life about this person who's

41:48

done something wrong? And of course you have

41:50

the added dig of like him becoming famous

41:52

and popular and I bet that really sucks.

41:54

I bet a lot more women are throwing

41:56

themselves at him because of his status and

41:58

where he's out with his career. But.

42:01

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do It Reminds me avoid watch

43:13

the like Netflix both I part

43:15

documentaries on women who was were

43:18

spinner to tinder, swindler or yeah

43:20

in these were crazy religious cults

43:22

and were abused in the situations

43:24

like that. And in that extreme

43:26

circumstances I could see. You.

43:28

Know wanting to maybe build camaraderie with

43:30

people who have gone through the same

43:33

experience to kind of processor trauma together?

43:35

bugs? This is mostly. There's some crazy

43:37

elements to what they allege with. How

43:39

things went down and how he was circling the

43:42

women. But for the most part it's kind of

43:44

garden variety, you know, players. Gonna play

43:46

and even. Some. something that

43:48

again or not justifiable that not good things

43:50

to do and should not be hooked on

43:53

well and like you said would not recommend

43:55

stating someone if they are engaging in a

43:57

sort of behavior but it's as you're not

43:59

like a victim of a cult

44:01

or like something's that dramatic and

44:03

it does just smell

44:06

like you haven't moved on, you haven't processed

44:08

this in a healthy way or you have

44:10

some need to like cling to this to

44:13

get a feeling of

44:15

significance about it. So just a

44:17

weird button on what is a

44:19

very weird story with a lot

44:22

of weird threads to it that

44:24

ultimately seem to have absolutely nothing

44:26

to do with the credibility

44:29

of Andrew Hebermann and the whole time you're reading

44:32

these these details I'm like I

44:34

shouldn't be hearing this for them. If

44:37

it doesn't have anything to do with public

44:39

statements he's made like his actual it doesn't

44:41

undercut anything that he said necessarily like

44:43

it's just why are we hearing this

44:46

it just feels like dirty like I'm

44:48

listening to gossip and I hate that

44:50

and I hate that the New Yorker

44:52

has descended to this level

44:54

though who knows how high they've been of

44:57

late but yeah it's just just

44:59

a whole weird situation weird thing to go

45:01

after Hebermann in this way. It is I'm

45:03

like okay it's one thing if you write a

45:05

whole article like I said about like Hebermann

45:08

is sponsored by AG1 Greens and he's

45:11

like sharing this on every single podcast

45:13

and it turns out that AG1 Greens

45:15

is not effective whatsoever. Oh shoot

45:18

that's a hit piece that's something that like

45:20

oh let me let me actually hear that

45:22

out and see if there's something to it

45:24

or you know his research isn't as valid

45:26

as he he makes it out to be

45:28

or this expert who's been

45:30

on his show has been discredited obviously none

45:32

of that was present in this article but

45:34

yeah those are interesting things that I think

45:36

actually impact the people who are listening to

45:38

his podcast not what he does in his personal

45:41

life like mind you there are a ton of

45:43

people who we go to for advice wisdom

45:45

to help us with our lives ton

45:47

of people who we respect admire whatever

45:49

the case may be who lead very

45:51

abysmal personal lives that we would by

45:54

no means you know want to be

45:56

a part of or want to be

45:58

privy to that should not

46:00

affect the way that you

46:02

are viewed in the work that you

46:04

are doing. Unless that's coming to interfere

46:06

with your work in some way, shape,

46:09

or form, it just don't

46:11

make sense to me. I

46:14

guess we'll see if he responds to it.

46:16

There's several responses from a spokesperson who says,

46:18

you know, these stories aren't true, or they

46:20

actually happened in a far different light, or

46:22

the IVF wasn't actually to have babies, they

46:24

just wanted to create embryos just in case,

46:26

all these different things. I

46:29

don't know, like what, if I was him, I would

46:32

just be like, you know,

46:34

it depends, it depends on how true some of this stuff

46:36

is. I would be like, you know, what does it have

46:39

to do with my podcast? What does it have to do

46:41

with you listening? I think Taylor said I wouldn't, he wouldn't

46:43

even respond. I

46:45

mean, depending on the merits of the claims and

46:48

whether I thought they were actually relevant to like

46:50

your credibility, but just

46:52

real quick, do you have anything to say to

46:54

us, you know, a couple comments to be effective,

46:56

like, why are you guys so intent on defending

46:58

Huberman? Are you just promoting his podcast, your Huberman

47:00

fanboys? Like, what's your response to this? Because I

47:02

feel like it's more about the principle at hand,

47:04

right? Yeah, I don't listen to Huberman. So

47:06

I've listened to his morning

47:09

routine. And like I

47:11

said, I've watched other YouTubers implement his morning routine. And I

47:13

love the idea of going out and getting a sunlight or

47:15

nothing. I didn't know virtually

47:17

anything about this man other than the

47:19

fact that he was at Stanford. And

47:21

I got tickets to see his show

47:23

in LA from a friend. So

47:26

that's about all I knew about Homeboy.

47:29

I don't feel any incessant need to defend

47:32

him. If his research has been

47:34

discredited, or his podcast has been discredited, then by

47:36

all means, let's have a discussion about why you

47:38

shouldn't listen to Huberman Lab or like why it

47:40

might not be the best implement information to implement

47:43

in your life. We just didn't get this. And

47:46

I want you all to think about,

47:48

I don't know, anything in your life

47:50

that has created drama in your personal

47:53

life or a past relationship that didn't

47:55

go so well. And then imagine a

47:57

journalist finding that person. into

48:00

a separate success story that you're

48:02

having where you're doing well in a career

48:04

that has nothing to do with your relationship

48:06

with that last person and then a journalist

48:08

just taking notes and publishing it

48:11

to discredit what you're doing now. It's

48:14

not okay. It doesn't make sense. I

48:16

mean we've seen this happen a ton.

48:19

We at Lynx covered the Russell brand

48:21

allegations on this show and I said

48:23

as a fan of Russell brand some

48:25

of these allegations sound credible and should

48:28

be investigated. Now the nature of the

48:30

hit piece I think had a real

48:33

big bend towards just bringing down Russell

48:35

as somebody who speaks out against mainstream

48:38

media and legacy media and I think

48:40

they wanted to take him down by

48:42

any means necessary but some of those

48:44

allegations had were sounding a

48:46

little credible and a little detailed and at

48:48

least needed to be looked into to some

48:50

extent hopefully from law enforcement not

48:53

from from journalists but this

48:56

is just not checking out. I saw

48:58

the thing like falling for Huberman which

49:00

is hilarious that this is the way

49:02

that they marketed this falling for Huberman

49:04

as if you the audience member is

49:06

the one who's falling for the great

49:08

Andrew Huberman when in reality they're talking

49:10

about women that he slept with. That's

49:14

not right so there's some intentional

49:16

ambiguity there to already kind of undermined

49:18

his credibility just by the cover that

49:20

they're putting on it and I will

49:23

say like one last thought on his

49:25

why we're defending him or whatever like

49:27

it would be one thing if the

49:29

nature of his podcasts were that he

49:31

was dispensing advice about relationships and portraying

49:34

himself as like this monogamous person and

49:36

it was like sharing his opinions on

49:38

how to have successful relationships not because

49:40

here's some research and here's a scientific

49:43

researcher who has some thoughts on this

49:45

but here's my own opinion on how

49:47

to manage successful relationships how to be

49:49

faithful things like that if

49:51

he was living in a way that was inconsistent

49:53

than that and that came to light then yeah

49:55

I think that's relevant for the public to know

49:57

because he's being a hypocrite in that regard but

49:59

like Like we said, so far

50:01

as I'm aware, I don't think that anything that's

50:03

come to light really has anything to do with

50:06

claims that he's made or things that he's represented

50:08

on his show in particular. And that's why I

50:10

think it's not really fair game to go after

50:12

his personal life when that's

50:15

entirely separate from what he's been using

50:17

his public platform for. Yeah. And

50:19

if this is true, I hope you don't get another

50:21

girlfriend until he pulls his stuff together because apparently he's

50:24

out there playing in y'all faces. So

50:27

he needs to clean up his

50:29

relationship act before he invests himself

50:31

in another long term committed relationship.

50:34

Very clearly. He needs to add another minute

50:37

to that daily ice bath. Exactly. He's

50:39

not getting the proper amount of dopamine, so he's

50:41

finding it from other women. Okay. Sorry.

50:45

Okay. Let me stop. Let me cut

50:47

the jokes. Cut the jokes. Cut the

50:50

show. Yeah, no. So clearly

50:52

he has some work to do in

50:54

his own personal endeavors. But again, does

50:56

that have anything to do with the

50:58

research? No, it doesn't. But also, how

51:00

did these women not see it? He's like

51:02

48 years old. I think he's single with

51:04

no kids. He's jacked and a

51:06

workhorse. Did you think he was going to be

51:09

Mr. Commitment? I'm

51:11

sorry. I don't know. Maybe

51:14

he, of course, it seems like he lied to them. It does

51:16

seem like he lied to them. But also,

51:20

intuition is key. The

51:23

first girl, I don't know about the other girls, the first

51:25

girl had several signs to get the hell out of there

51:27

and now is making an article for the New Yorkers. So

51:29

she needs to chill. And we're going

51:31

to get into your super chat. Whole

51:36

things like I went in posting their elves

51:38

almost. If you stuck with

51:40

me through the story, you guys,

51:42

hopefully, hopefully this was interesting. And we

51:44

got through it. Like I said, we were going to

51:46

do, we were going to react to Jubilee today and

51:48

do the like queer in

51:50

the closet versus queer out of the closet.

51:52

And then this article popped up and I

51:55

read through it and I just I

51:57

could sniff that something was a foot. There

52:00

was a mystery afoot in this article and

52:02

somebody was playing games. So we had to

52:04

go through it today. I didn't do it

52:07

full justice as I could have, you know,

52:09

really broken down the story for you a little

52:11

bit more, but it's all right. We got

52:13

what we needed. All right. And, you

52:15

know, it's it was entertaining,

52:17

not going to lie, but also made

52:19

for an interesting conversation on the principles

52:21

at hand and the purpose of media,

52:23

the way that they want to discredit

52:26

him, things like that. So I think

52:28

you'll got your your time's worth out

52:30

of this. Even if it was

52:32

a very like spurious sort of piece. I'm

52:34

trying to think like, what would my hit piece

52:36

from New Yorker be about? I'm really trying to dive

52:39

deep here in my brain. Think about what

52:42

would my hit piece be when I figured

52:44

out? I'll let you guys know. I'll let I'll

52:46

get ahead of the New Yorker and let you

52:49

know about any dubiousness in my personal life. Well,

52:52

if you'll have any ideas to drop them in the chat.

52:55

I was collecting some of y'all jokes about things,

52:58

innocuous things that Huberman did that the New Yorker

53:00

wouldn't like. So he used a map instead of

53:02

GPS. He does math

53:05

with a pen. The

53:07

only uses of a day he put pineapple on

53:09

pizza and he sits in the front

53:11

row at a movie theater. Dude, it's hilarious. Like

53:13

some of the things that they felt you

53:16

could tell that they didn't have enough to

53:18

create an entire article. So they just had

53:20

to like throw some pieces in there. Like

53:22

he didn't make it to meet

53:24

your parents on Thanksgiving. I'm sorry. That

53:27

sucks. But also why am I reading

53:29

this right now? Very

53:32

weird. Exactly. Weird behavior.

53:35

All right, guys, your turn. We're going to

53:37

read your super chat. First

53:39

one from today is from BG who says,

53:42

love you guys. Love you both. Oh,

53:44

I appreciate that. Thank you. Great

53:47

way to kick us off. Thank you. Deport

53:49

all three or four, which you can guess who

53:51

that is. Hey there, A and T. Ladies,

53:54

don't ever take advice from your single

53:56

girlfriend. Misery loves company. They are trying

53:58

to make you single. as a

54:00

coke. I think sometimes that's true,

54:03

but not all the time. I've

54:05

gotten some amazing dating advice from

54:07

single people that has helped me

54:09

along the way. So sometimes it's

54:11

true. Sometimes it's not. Marry

54:14

people can say dumb things or

54:17

smart things. People can say smart things or

54:19

dumb things or wise things. I should say.

54:22

What's wise? What does that look like?

54:25

He goes on to say RP advice

54:27

for women. Don't date someone like Huberman.

54:29

He may have money and status, but

54:31

that doesn't make him a good guy.

54:33

Take notes, ladies. Yeah, I don't. After

54:35

this, maybe don't date a Huberman. Yeah,

54:38

but also he could have

54:40

been a straight up, you know, straight up

54:42

somebody who fits that mold. So you know,

54:44

you could be crazy. You never, never

54:47

leave out the opportunity, the

54:49

possibility that somebody is crazy and making

54:51

up lies. The

54:55

very good discerner of character. That's good

54:57

advice. No matter what

54:59

type of guy, date or girl. Atticus69

55:02

says, Hey, I'm a lazing and

55:04

straight edge tea. Hope you're doing

55:06

well. We are doing well. It's

55:08

been a good Monday, had a good weekend,

55:10

very chill vibes. Now we're here with you

55:12

today. So we're doing good. We're

55:15

chill. Fun

55:18

with Carr says maybe he cheated on his wife

55:20

with the journalist. Um,

55:22

we love hearing your perspective, much love

55:24

from Buffalo Niagara Falls, New York, USA.

55:26

Oh, very, very cool. Yeah. Who knows? There's

55:28

a lot going on in this story. I mean,

55:30

yeah. He had a wife though. Did he?

55:33

Oh no, I don't, I don't think he, he's been

55:35

married. All right. At least not to my knowledge. They

55:37

don't talk about it in the, in the article. So

55:39

I actually have no clue. Maybe he has been married.

55:42

All of you Huberman lab followers. You can let me

55:44

know down below whether or not that

55:46

is the case, but he just sounds like a bachelor,

55:49

which makes sense. If you're going to be a

55:51

bachelor, just especially in his position,

55:53

just say you're a bachelor. You're going to

55:55

find women who want to be with you

55:57

and sleep with you regardless.

56:00

So I don't know why you would just not

56:02

be 100 about that. Just

56:04

be upfront about it. In this day and

56:07

age, a lot of women don't care. Are you, are you

56:09

kidding? Yeah. But sometimes

56:11

I think, you know, you guys

56:13

wanted to have their KK needed too and like play

56:16

house and have the luxury of things that

56:18

come with the commitment without actually giving that

56:20

exclusive commitment. A lot. But

56:22

nowadays you can get both. Please just

56:25

be honest. Be

56:27

so for real right now. Be so for real right now. Celtic

56:30

blacksmith says, I heard that Becky passed a note

56:33

to Anthony Huberman in homeroom and called him cute.

56:35

So Sarah called Becky a bitch later under the

56:37

bleach. The

56:42

messages in the girls bathroom go so hard,

56:44

you know, like when they write in Sharpie,

56:46

watch out for this guy. And now they

56:48

have like the Facebook message groups, the Huberman's

56:50

all over that. He's all over the bathroom

56:52

walls. Becky and

56:54

Sarah both sent him a note that said circle yes or

56:57

no. If you want to date me. And he said yes

56:59

on both of them. Crazy.

57:04

And very appropriate for the type of capturing

57:07

the sentiment of this article. Drama

57:10

forever says it's giving the movie

57:12

the other woman plot line. Oh,

57:14

yeah. I see that movie. That's with like,

57:16

oh my gosh, Cameron Diaz and oh my

57:19

gosh, who else is in that? The guy

57:21

from Game of Thrones. It's a good, it's

57:23

a classic rom-comy cheat,

57:25

cheat film. If you guys

57:27

like like an early 2000 style,

57:31

the other woman's a good one. Uh,

57:35

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57:37

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57:39

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57:44

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57:46

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57:49

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57:51

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57:53

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57:55

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57:57

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58:00

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58:02

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already, give me the Apple Vision Pro, I'm just

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going to have AI girlfriends to now have

59:23

the best night of his life this past

59:25

weekend. There you go. Get

59:27

the girl's number, Alex. A

59:32

couple more, actually, from our friend, Alex. And I'm not

59:34

going to lie, this is a great RP episode for

59:36

women that I didn't know we were

59:38

going to get today. Take notes, women, part one.

59:40

Part two. That is a huge

59:43

red flag, DEFCON 5. Make sure you don't join

59:45

the stable of 304s. If

59:48

you don't evolve your standards,

59:50

you will get left behind. Yeah,

59:52

you have to keep an eye on these

59:54

things. I think a lot of women's stakes,

59:56

they're like, okay, I

59:59

would imagine they're thinking is this guy's

1:00:01

on the come-up, he's really smart, he's

1:00:03

really cool, I don't want to lose

1:00:05

this like gem because he's like famous

1:00:07

and other people see the value in him

1:00:09

so they put up with stuff that you wouldn't

1:00:11

typically put up with in in a relationship

1:00:14

but it's not worth it. Choose

1:00:17

happiness. Choose peace.

1:00:19

Well

1:00:21

not treachery. Some things

1:00:24

should be non-negotiables and don't

1:00:27

break your non-negotiables for someone just because

1:00:29

they're a little more attractive, they're a

1:00:31

little more successful, they're a little more

1:00:33

rich, whatever. Like that's a test

1:00:35

of your character at that point. You already

1:00:37

know their character. You see the signs and

1:00:39

you don't take those red flags

1:00:42

into account. That's on you. You don't need it. V

1:00:46

says Amelie, your hit piece would

1:00:48

be Amela Epinobi wasn't a leftist?

1:00:50

What other things is she like

1:00:52

about? Yeah, they could try to

1:00:54

expose me but I got their receipts on that

1:00:56

so we've played the receipts on this show.

1:00:58

You've seen my left-leaning speech but it was just a

1:01:00

psy-op. I pretended to be a leftist for the

1:01:03

purpose of grifting to the

1:01:05

right. You started planning it with a

1:01:07

tattoo when you were 16? Yep, I started

1:01:09

planning it at 16 years old and

1:01:11

then from there it's all I've been

1:01:14

playing chess not checkers this whole time. Busted.

1:01:19

Savvy C says first time catching a lie finally

1:01:21

and I'm having a blast in the chat. We

1:01:23

all know Huberman leaves his crusty socks on the

1:01:26

floor. Oh no, what a strange

1:01:29

live to catch for the first time.

1:01:31

This is definitely a different one. I'm

1:01:35

curious how the I think the Huberman fans are

1:01:37

gonna find this in post once the live is

1:01:39

done and they're gonna have much to say. I'll be

1:01:41

curious to hear what their take

1:01:43

is on the homeboy Huberman. Yeah,

1:01:46

leave them in the chat. I've listened

1:01:48

to a handful of Huberman episodes and

1:01:51

it's usually like how to maximize your

1:01:53

testosterone or you know things like that

1:01:55

and it's good times but yeah if you

1:01:57

guys get a hold of this later let us know what you

1:01:59

thought in the comments. Yeah, I've listened to I

1:02:01

think he didn't want on cold plunges or maybe he did

1:02:03

like a Rogan interview on cold plunges It was either Rogan

1:02:05

or Chris Williamson something about that and then What

1:02:09

was another one alcohol which

1:02:12

will scare the daylights out of you when it comes

1:02:14

drinking alcohol What

1:02:17

else his morning routine and Yeah,

1:02:20

that's it. And then that talking in LA Which

1:02:23

was boring gonna be honest? Sorry,

1:02:26

sorry guys, but it was his first show. So

1:02:28

maybe they kind of made it better With

1:02:30

time it's like comedy, you know, you gotta

1:02:33

ever find the routine a little bit Just like

1:02:35

his morning routine has to be refined. Yep has

1:02:37

been but yeah, I think that was actually our

1:02:40

last super chat So we made it through. All

1:02:42

right guys. Hopefully you had a good

1:02:44

time today Let me know how you felt in the comments down

1:02:46

below if you're a Huberman fan Let me know did this change

1:02:49

the trajectory of your

1:02:52

fan Nis towards

1:02:55

towards Andrew Huberman drop it down below. Give

1:02:58

me your thoughts. Is this An

1:03:00

actual good hit piece. Is it a bad hit

1:03:03

piece? What what would your hit

1:03:05

piece be about if the New Yorker wrote

1:03:07

one about you drop it down below so that

1:03:09

you can air Out your dirty laundry before they

1:03:11

do I'll be very curious to read some

1:03:14

of those and guys Thank

1:03:16

you so much for watching the show today

1:03:18

Hope you have a good one and I

1:03:21

will see you tomorrow in a video about

1:03:24

Girls who are now flirting with

1:03:26

chat GPT through voice chat. It's

1:03:29

very real. He does flirt

1:03:31

back And it's weird. So

1:03:33

keep an eye out for that and I did it

1:03:35

myself So you get to watch me chat

1:03:37

to the G to chat GPT voice chat

1:03:40

and it gets weird almost immediately. So With

1:03:44

that have a fantastic rest of your Monday

1:03:46

and I'll see you next time. Bye guys

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