On Ep 111 we speak with ageplay expert, Paul Ruloff. Paul breaks down the different types of ageplay and the misconceptions about them. We explore the psychological motivation behind being a little-- which is surprisingly less about emulating a juvenile and more about creating a reality free from adult pressures and responsibilities. He highlights the differences between non-sexual and sexual ageplayers plus addresses the judgment they face in the BDSM community. Learn about the phenomenon of the 'shrinking childhood' and how it contributes to the surging popularity of age roleplay, why the role of a ‘big’ (like a Mommy Domme or Daddy) is appealing, what ‘forced age regression’ entails, how to play publicly without involving others in your kink non-consensually, why age play can be therapeutic, and more.   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to [email protected] To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter or texting MEGATRON to 444999  Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 111 Links Paul Ruloff/RuleOfThree Fetlife https://fetlife.com/users/16544 Ageplay: From Diapers to Diplomas book by Paul Rulof https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1610981901/ Big Little Podcast https://www.biglittlepodcast.com/ DDLG Article on suunymegatron.com http://sunnymegatron.com/7-fundamental-characteristics-of-a-daddy-dominant/ Age Play Acronyms & Glossary https://aboutabdl.weebly.com/glossary-of-terms.html Little Space Subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/littlespace/ Paul Rulof Patreon Bonus Story https://www.patreon.com/posts/paul-rulof-bonus-31604440 Bawdy Storytelling Podcast bonus Audio  https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-audio-from-31573667 American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast  Episode 111 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com  FREE Sex Educator Skill Share online conference https://www.sextoyradio.com/sex-educator-skill-share-conference/ (Sunny is teaching Podcasting for audience growth and revenue on 12/8/19) 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric  & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans & queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyearlytobed At least 25% off BDSM gear & sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01