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What's up? What's UPP's every time? Ante lay, I'm
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g MacGuire, I'm Larry
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all the act
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because you don't want to say Barton because people don't say
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his name too much. I
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can see that. I can see that why you
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white people would say that reading it Alright,
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So you guys don't know Barton from
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Oh no, bart the actor. You know him from
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the show. You know he plays a character Red and
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we love to see you on the show. We love when you have your shirt off
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and everything. Thank you.
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We may not like so much
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character we'll see. Okay, so this is different.
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So Larry, y'all you don't love his character, but g you
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do? Yep, yeah, I don't
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want I want to hear why. Yeah, you
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know what? Because you got that eerie sense
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in it, Like as soon as I see you on the screen,
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it's just like you're like you know that
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you're up to no good. That's
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what I like see. And then that
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sounds like that like you take care of your little brother and
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like that your main't focus like you know that.
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But jeeze, he takes care of his a little brother, but he also is
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putting him in situations that could pretend listen
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it's a hard in her life, my life. You know. That's
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how it was. Well, that's how the character was, how
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the character was great. It's
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too too tough on a little boy. I think
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you got ease up on him a little bit to
1:19
Chicago and go ease up on him. I think you'll
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be able to see moments where is
1:23
actually a very endearing I'm
1:27
waiting to see, you know, I think, Yeah,
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j have y'all ever been with a guy who got beat
1:32
up and then you have to be there to take care of his boos?
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You know, But the caring, nurturing woman that
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I am, I would definitely be there too to
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take care of them. Would you look at him differently? Man,
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listen, I might have to, you
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know, I don't fake a couple of times see
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if he gonna jump, but now
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he saw from here on out, that's all I'm
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like. I could beat you up to then remember
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when they beat your head, beat
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baby for them guys that beat you up last time?
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Oh now you're tough, right you to you wasn't
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so tough t of the day when you put
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some alcohol on you put the balls
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on you now for
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you? Have you ever been in a situation where you were trying
2:14
to impress a young lady and things went left
2:17
as far as what they like trying to impress her. Hell like
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trying to out with a girl that you're
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dating and then some guy comes along
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and punks you.
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Never in my life, no, no, I never
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been punked. When is it time to
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step in though? Like, let's just say a guy comes and you're
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with a girl and he said you got a fat ass to the girl,
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Then do you keep coming at me? I
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think you're coming at me, especially
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if he sees us together. Are you coming at me? So
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what's your response to that? Is it? Is it a
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fighting situation? The first
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reaction might just be like I have
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to defend her and I can't have her, Like, well, what about
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when Doude said I had a fat ass and you didn't. You didn't
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do nothing to him, But you want to come you know? So no, yeah,
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act like we don't see him, honey. But
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if he's bigger than you,
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she do got a fut don't do? What
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about have you ever been with a girl who instigates situations?
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Yeah? Just do to Yeah,
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It's like, yeah, I had this one girl who
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just like liquor, just really transformed her
3:21
completely what
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it was, wasn't it? It was okay?
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Transformed her like, yeah, she didn't mean she couldn't
3:31
control herselfs. So yeah, we just caught
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up in a lot of situations. Isn't that the worst
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when you have a friend or a girl that you're dating,
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or a guy, and every time you go out you know something
3:40
about to happen. Yeah. Absolutely,
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I wouldn't want to go anywhere, right, would you. I'll
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be like, now we're just gonna stay Netflix.
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You know, Netflix it up. I
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used to be like that. I used to not know more like
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I grew up, but when I was younger, like
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what I drink? I want to fight,
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I want to argue, I say crazy
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these stuff. I remember one time he was in the club
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and she poured the whole bottle on the couch this
4:04
club because she was mad that I think we had
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Sorry, I just messed up the whole section, like
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like I'm pouring all these
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bottles and I was like doing
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I believe it. I don't remember, but I'm
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not denying I
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didn't. I didn't get stopped
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at the door. A couple of clubs in Chicago
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being John No, not for being drunk. Just because
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Yeah, they just be hating Chicago,
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all
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right, they know you're about to start. No,
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they just know it's not even that, it's just something you
4:38
know, you got some bounces will be like yeah know, then again,
4:40
I don't care like that
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you rant from the show like you pay dub
4:45
just like everybody else. And this and
4:48
is that time when you're like, Okay, I'm not coming, I'm not
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kind of yeah, don't just especially
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I'm not tried to get flying on you. You ain't gotta. I
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don't care about him. There's a restaurant
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in Harlem we still can't go to anymore
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because Angela he dropped to break fly
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on and then she was like what,
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no, we've never gone back there. Got your
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to slid it in like she forgot, Like I'm like
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we should Just what
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does that mean? Like he tried late,
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So basically it means like he tried to
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like flex on her. I
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don't care out breakfast club? What's that?
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You know what I mean? But this
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is what I feel like when there's a restaurant that you go to
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all the time and you show them love. Because I
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bought Tia there. I bought
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a lot of artists. I had a
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lot of artists come come there and show
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them love, you know, and I never come to right,
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So I feel like if I come there, don't be disrespectful
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to me because I'm always trying to bring business out, posted
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about y'all, and he's new. He was a new guy,
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you know what I mean? Just right,
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So it wasn't just like I feel like it's me. It's also
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I feel like I come here a lot, and I helped
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support your business and I post about it, and
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and I had dinners here and had huge
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bills. So at least when I come show
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yeah, put that respect her name,
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you know. But we're talking about going
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out with it could be a group of friends,
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and you always have that friends that's always acting crazy. So
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let's talk about trust and how trust factors
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in two different types of relationships, like your
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friendships that you might have, or maybe
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situations with your siblings or
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even with your own family, like your relationship
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with your father or you know, things
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like that. How does trust play a factor when it comes to
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you having these relationships?
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Um, it's like, at this point in my life, you know, reaching
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that level of fame and notoriety and
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success, you got to make sure
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that the people that you keep close to you deserve
6:38
to be around you, you know. And I'm struggling
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with that myself. Like they say, like it's lonely
6:42
at the top. I didn't really understand what
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that meant until like I started making it
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right. Um So, like I actually kind
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of stick to myself because it's hard to trust people, you
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know what I'm saying. You never know, like, um,
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I fly you out to Atlanta and you
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know, spoil you for a whole weekend just because you're my
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friend, but whole time, like if you could
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flip a switch, you would be in my shoes
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and I would be in your shoes. Like you know what I'm saying, and that
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that goes on a light. But my
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friends tend to be very genuine, and
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especially my family. Um
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but yeah, trust plays the biggest issue. What
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about with women? Because we did see those tweets that
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you were putting out about your exes
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and yeah, yeah, I was just being silly that
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day. Actually maybe maybe felt
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it a little. Yeah, maybe something did provoke
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me. Maybe it wasn't that long
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ago, so you know it wasn't it was like maybe
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something that day I pondered,
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tell us what I just I
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don't know, so I know I was drinking. Yeah,
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please help yourself. We got you. I thought we agreed.
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It wasn't going to say that word. Yeah,
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we'll have some. Don't have a little drink because
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it was his birthday. By the way, I
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hungover birthday. I
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do one for her. I want to and we don't
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worry. We got all your boys who are in the room. They're gonna have
8:03
some shots. Got
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some hennessy on the way, Did you tell us what
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year you were born? I just had to sit here
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and really like, did he just say? Yes?
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He did? It?
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Was? What
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were we doing at ninety five? Man? Listen, I
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had my baby in ninety six, so I probably could
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be your mama. Now, hold on, you
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got to grew up with her daughter. Am
8:31
I married? No? But I
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do have a twenty two year old daughter. M
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she's cute too. What am I really still trying to figure
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out how old that was at that? Yeah
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it was not nine. I'm more coming. Don't worry. I
8:44
would feel a little junior year in high
8:46
school. I might still be sung o for me.
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Just still drunk? Right, yes, okay,
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so I'm still drunk. So what kind of girls do you
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like bart um and
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has your taste changed from when you were younger?
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Um, lack of better words, I've
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always like had bad girls, like you
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know, like I've always had like
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the baddest at the baddest in my opinion and
9:09
in other guys opinion. Like so it's not
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like once I start getting famous, I'll
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start coming out the closet with exotic women. And you
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know, it was always like that, like you always
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pull up to see me with something like oh damn, like that's how
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you coming so
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um, they always pay attention, Like you know,
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I'm big on fashion. You know, I look at I'm
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gonna look at your outfit first kinda and
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then um, you don't see potentially
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people though, like you might look at the alpha and be like, okay,
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I gotta jump. But
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I'm young, know maybe it all change as
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of right now, it's just be like, no, I'm not off that, like because
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it's like I'm thinking about who you are as a
9:46
person and deciding to wear that. You know, some
9:50
people also just don't have that, you
9:52
know what I said. You can always tell a man by the by
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the shoes that he wears, like gonna
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stand too close straight
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up what would
10:10
you saying, I'm sorry you were talking about. Yeah,
10:13
the women. It's like you can always tell a man about the shoes
10:15
that he wears. I can always. I feel like I can tell
10:17
a woman by the way she dressed, you know, So
10:19
what are some things that women should look far as far as how they
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addressed, Like what what's a well dressed
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one? It's not necessarily a brand or anything, but you
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have to be like I have to look at your style,
10:28
like I need to see that you have style, you know what I
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mean, Like you have some class about you. But
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at the same time, you hit the club and you tee
10:35
up. You know, you can kind of I can always kind
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of sense that from the way a woman dressed
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the finest fashion over and
10:43
that's not even I think fashion says a
10:45
lot about your personality. It does, Yeah, I
10:47
think so. But then sometimes we have off
10:49
days. Oh yeah, even
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the off days, it's still like you gotta at least be you
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know what I mean. Yeah, I
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think you can tell a lot about a guy too by the way
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that he dresses. And we've definitely been with some fixed
11:03
rappers. I have to like
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some of my friends have had boyfriends that
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I've been like, he
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can't dress for ship, like I
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have to have, Like I agree with
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the dressing thing. I think like that might
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be up there with looks like I have to
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like you have to be attractive and you have to
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know how to drive. I definitely did it guys who couldn't
11:28
dress, but I didn't
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want to say because
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it was back to the point where I would like before
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we went out together, I would have to like overview his outfit,
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like because
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he would were like rid snake
11:43
skin from head to toe, like on his hat,
11:45
on his jacket, on the shoes, like
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that's just weird. It was
11:53
weird, Like he would be in monochronamic
11:55
all the time, like it will be like a color of today, like today's
11:57
color is purple, and it just got purple, was
12:00
max Because that's even worse dress
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and because
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obviously he was dressed like that when you met him, like
12:13
a snap. Alright,
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so given so me and g G
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don't care that much about dressing. I care, No, it's
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a I feel like it's a bonus, like if
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I dress, it's a bonus. But I definitely remember
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when I was younger, I dated this guy and he would
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always buy these shirts from J. C. Penny. They didn't have
12:29
to like wrinkle free shirts. No, he
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didn't have to iron him. But
12:34
he had one of those jobs where he had some weird stuff.
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You don't iron your shirts. He
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worked for you
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work for. Nothing wrong with a respectable job.
12:45
Nothing's nothing wrong with that. You
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were like thirteen and he was a busch driver. Just
12:51
know how old were So I just made that
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up. I was about twenty
12:55
six years old, okay. But his shirts
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were always like wrinkle free and jeans
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would be like mad wife. Weird
13:04
combination of Andy's
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kind of like you gotta cut him
13:09
up to at the battle. Don't know that Jesus
13:14
Christ, do that cuff
13:16
your gene at the bottom, the y gene.
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Chicago used to cut him. Oh
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yeah, yeah, back in the day they What
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about your own relationship with your father? Since we're
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talking about trust and relationships, how's your relationship
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with your dad? When my father passed when I was nine
13:31
years old. He dad in two thousand four. Um
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so, um, yeah. I didn't
13:37
grow up with the father in my life. My mother was
13:39
my father. She had to become my father. So but
13:42
me and her like that's we talked
13:44
about everything, like yeah, my mother has
13:46
been my father in my life. Did she talk to you about
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your dad, like give you memories? And absolutely
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absolutely, what I mean, not
13:54
even not only her, Like I'm still um,
13:57
Like I told you his best friend it's
13:59
Lorence Takes for father. So Uncle Larry
14:01
me and him still talk and Uncle Sterling, the guys
14:03
who were best friends with my father, And yeah,
14:06
it's just a lot of stories. I know so much about my father
14:09
and they tell me I have his same mannerisms like everyone
14:11
who when I'm around they said, like I can't
14:13
be around you because I'm gonna crowd so
14:16
much. You know, Yeah, you feel
14:18
like he's a guardian angel. I know a lot of times people
14:21
feel like they have when a parent
14:23
passes or sibling, they feel like they have a guardian
14:25
angel watching them. Yeah. I usually didn't believe in stuff
14:27
like that, but like, yeah, I sit up and talk to my
14:29
father all the time, like I'm talking to him after
14:32
this, like yeah we really did it twice the breakfast
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clear absolutely,
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And then to even know that you're a season, You're
14:39
the next season of the Shy, You're going to have a pretty
14:41
big role on that, so you know, at
14:45
least we know that you're gonna make it to the end
14:47
of season two, right,
14:50
and then and then and then season three
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happen and want
14:57
to know what happens? Yeah, Jack
15:00
Survivan, you know he just you know, if
15:02
something would have happened to Jake, What how do you think if
15:05
you had to write that character, right and something happened
15:07
to Jake? What do you Jake? What do you think would happen to redg
15:10
Oh? He would um if y'all don't like him
15:12
now, it's like, y'all don't
15:14
really hate It's gonna be Russ everybody
15:19
like everybody the first
15:22
Yeah, everything, everyone has to die
15:24
your prom day, everybody
15:29
with the character of Red Snitch on somebody, if they
15:31
if he knew who did it, if say, something happened
15:33
to his brother and he knew who killed him, with Red Snitch
15:38
not at all, he would hand himself.
15:41
He would go take care of that right away. You go get Big
15:43
Mike hop in the car and yeah, go take care
15:45
of that. What about some love
15:48
scenes for redg
15:51
On this season? What
15:54
do you mean what about him? I mean gonna
15:57
we're seeing them in a little bubble tub. Hand
16:02
I had a bottom Hennessy at one hand. It
16:06
was going down in the Katie Pool. It made me want to Katie
16:08
Pool. You're
16:10
gonna see something. You'll see You'll see red shirt
16:13
off again. That's all I can say. That's just a
16:15
shirt off, a BUTTOCKX or
16:17
something to That's
16:21
how I can say. Sally Richardson directed
16:23
that episode. Shout out Sally, Oh, Sally Richardson.
16:26
That's she comes to the juice bar. Sure
16:28
done. But if you
16:30
had to get like booty naked
16:34
naked, it's
16:36
like it's always a close set when it's like one of those
16:38
intimate saying So it only
16:41
really be the director in the cinematopic everybody
16:44
that watches it. Yeah,
16:54
what about children? You don't have any kids yet, right, so
16:57
do you think about that? You
17:00
know, I have a lot of nieces in their few so I don't
17:02
need any children like me. You're
17:04
looking forward to it because you know that's one of the big story
17:07
lines down there too. We see Emma trying to get his life together
17:09
and be amouther to his son. Have you ever had
17:11
a scare and thought maybe you were going to have a kid.
17:14
Yeah? Once, Yeah, in the past. I was seventeen
17:17
eighteen at that point in my life. I was
17:20
just like so crazy, like I'm
17:22
like, I need to keep her in my life forever. Like
17:25
that's a guy, like
17:28
yeah, we'd be tripping, we'll
17:30
be doing but like yeah, I remember, like I was talking to
17:32
my homie from college and he was like I remember you being eighteen
17:34
telling me like I have to get her pregnant so she
17:37
can just be in my life forever. Like see,
17:40
people don't realize that it's
17:45
guys who will put holes and condoms themselves,
17:47
like you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, I
17:50
think I've broken a couple of hearts. I
17:52
could say, do you feel bad about it? Yeah, I
17:54
mean I do feel bad, But at the same time, I'm real about
17:56
it. And I've always been like open about it, Like this
17:59
is not don't fall in love like you
18:01
know, because I don't. I'm not consistent,
18:04
you know. So you tell a girl that don't
18:07
fall in love with I'm just I'm
18:09
telling I let him know, like because I'm not on that what
18:12
you're on, you know what I mean, Like I'm not ready
18:14
to be committed to you. And and
18:16
like especially now it's like I'm twenty
18:19
four. I think this is kind of the age where girls
18:21
are kind of like ready to have
18:26
families. Yeah, here
18:28
that she said, you guys shouldn't be you gals. All
18:30
right, Now, let's get back to the show, and let's talk about
18:32
the character of Brandon right and him and
18:34
his girlfriend. Could you imagine breaking up with somebody
18:36
and then seeing them with somebody else and then getting back
18:38
together with them in my life? Never,
18:42
in my life, never, that
18:44
was so embarrassing. They were broken up. Nah.
18:47
Nah, and the end, I remember,
18:50
wait till you mean no, No,
18:55
I'm just like, no, you're making Brandon like a little
18:57
bit too mad
18:59
of that. I was so mad when I saw that, because
19:01
like, I don't read the script only like really
19:04
focus on my acting, so I want to see
19:06
it as an his opinion, like
19:08
y'all. Like, so when I saw that, I was
19:10
like, what what? Like,
19:14
Yeah, I couldn't believe it, Like, no, that would never happen
19:16
to me, though, that's what you
19:18
say. Now you're gonna have bad karma because
19:20
you said it. Could never know. I mean, but at least
19:22
they were bro they were broken up. But I'm not gonna go back
19:24
with you. Let me just say, they ain't gonna say that. We didn't go ever to be
19:26
cool and I'm never talk to you again. But as far as me
19:28
us being boyfriend and girlfriend again, No, But what
19:31
did she do wrong? They were broken up. I
19:34
didn't even do anything like if we want to go back
19:36
to the shop, even do anything like he
19:39
was helping a little boy like you kick me up,
19:42
even gave him a chance to explain stop
19:44
three times. She
19:47
wouldn't give him a chance to She didn't want to just
19:54
you know, like, yeah, she does a phenomenal job.
19:57
Because I don't like, I
20:00
can't stand. But he liked her booge
20:02
nous. It felt like because it was different
20:04
from where he was probably you know you don't
20:06
like boogie girls. No, I
20:12
mean I think that. I
20:14
wonder what's gonna happen with their relationship on this new
20:16
season because they are back together. But can
20:19
he trust her? Like, would you tell him if that was your boy
20:21
in real life? Can he trust
20:24
his after knowing the backstory? I would
20:26
say, yeah, bro, your your boost? That's that's
20:28
the word we use in Chico. What
20:31
is that popped bogus? Your bulls?
20:34
No, Like that's a bullist
20:36
relationship. She's boost And
20:38
yeah, no, you think she did something
20:41
that was that bad? To him though, I mean, it
20:44
seemed like she doesn't understand lawyer to run
20:46
so deep with me. It's like if you really
20:49
was in love with me and all of that, like that wouldn't
20:51
have happened, Like it would have took at least, especially
20:53
like how I feel about myself, it's gonna take years, like
20:57
shake a man's hand, like you know what I'm saying. Like, so
21:00
it's like with me, it's like, no, that's over with you.
21:03
I made the right decision. What happened
21:05
everything else for a reason, And the reason
21:07
behind this is so I can catch you being a goofy with this
21:09
other guy and you never have my attention ever. Again,
21:12
moving on quickly is weird, and they say,
21:14
like what's the saying, Like the best way to see somebody
21:16
is to pretend you're not watching them, and
21:19
that's when you see. I think she showed
21:21
her true colors, Like, I mean, the moving on
21:23
is one thing, but how he said no,
21:26
But that's how he said. And you're the guy that keeps calling like
21:28
it was disrespectful. We were just
21:30
together for years together, We
21:32
had not that was crazy that she brought him to
21:34
that block party that she
21:38
did not need. She
21:41
did not need to be there him weight and everything,
21:44
like come on, yeah, but I mean
21:46
it's yeah, no,
21:49
that was a disrespectful party. Now, when you break up with somebody,
21:51
you are not supposed to bring them to your
21:53
ex boyfriend's block party unless you're trying
21:55
to set them up to get robbed or get beat up
21:57
or something like that. Don't need a lot. Aready
22:00
said she hadn't even
22:02
been there. Her character, um
22:06
was from the North Side of Chicago, Like you're
22:09
not even with me, Like you know what I'm saying. But you know,
22:12
she trying to show off that that guy,
22:14
That's what it was. She was trying to make him jealous.
22:17
You think, so it had to be because what you're
22:19
doing over there, and she just goofy
22:21
like that. Alright, youngragulations
22:25
on season two of The Shot, which starts April
22:28
seven, and season three because you're gonna live right,
22:33
cheers lying as spies.
22:37
Now, let's talk about this getting back into dating
22:39
thing, right, because Data is trying to get back into dating. We all
22:41
know how tough that is for guys. How
22:44
tough is it for you? Like, if you haven't been dating
22:46
for a while, you've taken a break to jump
22:48
back in What advice do you give because guys
22:50
have a harder time I think admitting when they're a
22:52
little heartbroken, or like going to
22:54
their friends and saying, oh, you know I missed
22:56
my girl. Yeah yeah,
23:00
yeah we were friendly. Move a lot. Um
23:03
you know what that means? Friends, your movement. I
23:05
can imagine, Okay, a lot of guys
23:07
front day movement act like um
23:10
o, don't yeah, like she want me the wife. I ain't
23:12
on that. I ain't. I got my brother be friend this movie.
23:14
But let me just say that he'd be friends perfect my
23:16
brotherly friends moved like he would do a lot, like when
23:19
he'd be like, bro, like she want me the wife? Like I'm not on
23:21
that, Like when really you are madly
23:23
in love with this woman and you should really accept
23:25
that and just y'all make it happen.
23:27
You know that is so true because guys talk
23:29
to us so different than they talk to their boys. They
23:33
really do like yeah to y'all's just like I
23:35
just I've never felt this way. I don't want me to be in
23:37
my life, like you know what I'm saying, Like I
23:40
really see you as my wife, keep a
23:43
really wife, like come on, ain't nobody on that
23:46
like you know, like I'm just trying to hit and
23:48
just you know, but too good.
23:50
You know, I don't
23:54
forget, so
23:57
you'd be pretending to like you're not into the
24:00
girl that much from my try
24:02
nothing from my move as much as I can, I'll tell you, like, yeah,
24:04
bro, I'm on that, like that's me. Can't
24:08
come over as much as anymore, you
24:12
know, yeah, because I've lived with like three different women
24:14
in my life playing
24:17
But that's why I'm glad everything. I got
24:19
all that stuff out of my system. So now I'm good, you
24:21
know what I mean? That quick? Was
24:24
it that you needed a place to stay, because you know guys will
24:26
do that to two of the women
24:28
live with me? Actually yeah, because I have a
24:30
heart was at the same place? Did
24:34
you change the man? I have a problem with that, like,
24:37
did you change them? If I just move another
24:39
motherfucker? Was one person? Not
24:42
at all? It wasn't. But I've definitely lived with two
24:44
women. And my
24:47
cousin had to let me know one day. He told me, like, excuse
24:50
me, my cousin. He was like, bro, you're married,
24:52
bro, And I was just like, bro, I'm not married. What are
24:54
you talking about? He said, Bro? You live with her,
24:57
you're married, and I'm just like, I don't understand. I didn't really
25:00
stand what he's saying. He's like, Bro, every decision you make, you
25:02
have to consult her about that, Like you know what I'm saying, Like, you can't
25:04
just jump if I tell you come to Atlanta with me, You're gonna
25:06
have to check in with your woman, you know what I'm saying that.
25:10
It's like, yes, it is, like it's not even just check in,
25:12
but it's just like you gotta go through somebody, be respectful
25:15
and don't live together. You still kind
25:17
of have to do that. Like if you're in a relationship, but
25:20
if you're in a committed relationship, be married regardless.
25:22
Like that's just because
25:25
it's because it's like everybody is human and we're
25:27
gonna have these emotions and feel the way we're gonna
25:29
feel. You shouldn't do that. I feel
25:31
you shouldn't be doing that. I feel like you shouldn't be talking like that
25:33
because you're your mind, you know what I'm
25:35
saying, And it's like, that's that's
25:37
your wife. It's no, there's
25:39
a big difference between marriage and being
25:42
in a relationship in a committed relationship
25:44
and the committed in the committed relationship finances
25:48
is what makes a difference than marriage
25:51
relationship because this people that's married, they don't act
25:53
like they're married at all. That's
25:59
dating and that more married than people that's married. Right
26:02
right, I know some single married people.
26:05
Do you ask a girl like to be your girl? Do you
26:07
say, hey, um, will you be my girl?
26:09
Just it just happen, happens. And that's to
26:11
answer your question. I would tell guys to be careful
26:14
because like myself, I find
26:16
myself in a relationship, not be like how
26:18
am I in a relationship? How
26:21
did this happen? But I did that to myself. I allowed
26:23
it. I prolonged the situation, you know what I'm saying.
26:26
And I also said I love you too.
26:29
Once you say I love you, and it's
26:34
like, you know, you know, unprotected
26:36
sex is involved. It's really like, I
26:38
think we should have a conversation now now
26:40
that you said that and you say, how did I end
26:42
up in a relationship? I feel like nowadays
26:45
like we skipped the party that we're supposed
26:47
to be doing, and I think we should sit down
26:49
and have that conversation like we've been
26:51
together, you know, hanging out for a minute.
26:53
Why don't we take this a little more serious? And I
26:55
don't want you to see anybody else. If that's
26:58
okay, I'm not gonna see nobody else even But
27:00
is that still a committed relationship because
27:02
people still act like, well, we're just I'm not seeing
27:04
nobody else. But I don't want to give it a title.
27:07
At least have the conversation and be forced
27:09
into it, like well you know that you ain't you
27:12
know what happens. What happens is they introduce
27:14
you to somebody as, oh, you know my girlfriend and
27:18
girlfriend girlfriend,
27:23
but like, no, I
27:28
don't like his friends, we're just friends. Were
27:30
cool, we cool? Has that happened
27:33
to be with a girl and she's introduced you as her man like,
27:35
oh you know my boyfriend bart she
27:38
said him that would be playing
27:40
yourself no, like unless
27:42
it was not until it was at that time. But
27:44
you don't have the conversation. I
27:49
mean, okay, So as far as to your date,
27:51
would you date a girl because you said two women live with you
27:53
who didn't have it all together? Are
27:55
you saying what I dated a woman who doesn't have it all together? Yeah?
27:58
Who's like you more have to help her
28:00
out. Yeah, I feel like I could build them. I
28:02
can make it, you know what I mean at this point in my life. So
28:05
yeah, absolutely drink that. Absolutely.
28:08
Yeah I got that from Meek Meal too. I'm
28:11
not that you build them, make I
28:13
feel I feel that that way. Like, but at
28:15
the same time, you want to accept a woman for who
28:17
they are, you know, and if she still
28:21
but why couldn't she know? Yeah, right, that's
28:23
what you mean. Actually, Like if she was like struggling, like financially,
28:26
still living at home with her mother and I'm not on it, that's
28:29
where's her drive? Because that's the thing. If she
28:31
had a job and was trying to get out. Talk
28:33
about if you if if I know that you're passionate
28:36
about something and I believe in you, then
28:38
absolutely, But not being an Instagram mother,
28:40
you know what I'm saying, Not being an Instagram mother. Some
28:43
of them get paid very well. You
28:46
respect that, you know what I'm saying. You respect that check. But other
28:49
than that, it's like you don't want I wouldn't want that to be my
28:51
girlfriend, Like you know what I'm saying. But you have
28:53
a problem with your girlfriend being on Instagram sexy?
28:56
Yeah you would, Yeah, what if
28:58
that's how you met her. I
29:01
don't that probably most likely wouldn't
29:03
end up being my girlfriend if I met you through Instagram
29:06
find a slid in your d M. Now I'm not I'm not interested
29:08
in dating you or you just that's
29:11
an everlasting thing. That
29:13
is, you're very you have a large
29:16
sense of sex appeal. I mean I have a large sense of sex appeal,
29:18
and she's very appealing to me. And that's why that provoked
29:21
me to That's why I certain girls like why do you like
29:24
show that? Like why don't you like kind of perk up
29:26
your breast sometimes when you take pictures do
29:28
this and that? Like do you want that attention? Because
29:30
some girls will leave you on red, you know, and
29:33
some girls will be like, don't disrespect me and be like you
29:35
got some big boobs or you got a fat
29:37
ass or something like that. But you're
29:40
putting it out, don't you want It's a compliment,
29:42
right, I'm complimenting it, you know at the end
29:44
of the day. But you know what, that's
29:50
that's very corny. Now that's not me. I'm just I'm
29:52
just talking general examples. But no,
29:54
I don't. I don't usually slide in d M. Yeah,
29:57
I don't, especially now like I got the blue check
29:59
verification. Boy,
30:05
I can't like this. One time, I think I
30:08
just replied a heart emoed you
30:10
to a fan and she immediately screenshotted
30:12
it and posted it. That's sweet,
30:14
but it's like you right, It's
30:16
not that she was excited, but she
30:18
was excited at where she and you just
30:23
you don't do anything that bad. Actually, do you want
30:25
to put that on Twitter? Somebody but said something of
30:27
course, But at the same time, it's like you
30:29
can't. You can't be too quickly to slapping the DM because
30:31
that can get screenshotted to you know what I'm saying, And
30:34
you're trying to be thirsty like the DM
30:36
is great for business. Though I contacted you and got
30:38
you to come up with I
30:40
definitely you s M.
30:44
He said it was going to be in New Year because I was trying to get it on the
30:47
show before. Okay,
30:51
who is off limits when it comes to dating and flirting?
30:53
Though? Are there people that you feel like are off limits? Anybody
30:58
can get it? Get you gonna get this? Could
31:00
you feel with that guy Antelo Bassett? That
31:03
off absolutely? Who have I slarted with? I
31:05
fled with Tiffany hottish. Okay,
31:07
I can see that. She's
31:10
fun very funny. Yeah, but now
31:12
like yeah, anybody can nobody's off limit.
31:15
What about Oprah? Could you play with Oprah? I
31:17
love but not like
31:20
not like what
31:23
flirty you
31:25
would have feel like? Yesecually,
31:27
hopefully she watches my show and she loves my
31:29
work and one day I meet Oprah. But you got
31:31
a good at this work. Now,
31:37
did you have a childhood crush when you were growing
31:39
up, like somebody that you were watching on TV and
31:41
you were like, I gotta cry. I like her. That's
31:44
my ideal woman. We
31:50
met, she's so sweet.
31:53
Did you ask her out? No? Her
31:56
man wash That's right. She does a little boyfriend?
31:59
Little boyfriend? How
32:01
you made people feel less than boyfriend?
32:04
It was cool. I'm just playing. I'm being silly. He was cool. But
32:07
but if it doesn't, I love growing
32:10
up. Still. He's gonna be in that striper
32:12
movie coming out, And that's
32:15
a fantasy, right there, come true for
32:17
you. You're
32:20
going to see that. You know it absolutely.
32:23
What's your favorite date spot in Chicago? Remember
32:25
when we was in Chicago, we did live service in Chicago,
32:28
and we first of all, Chicago has
32:30
some of the best food and some of the restaurants
32:33
that you'll have amazing. So if you could give us some great
32:35
date spots to go to. What's your favorite places? I
32:38
just recently went to a spot on State Street called
32:40
Quartinos. That's a very nice spot,
32:42
Um, Cortinos Quartinos. Yeah,
32:44
okay, UM, give
32:49
us some, don't He's gonna give us, that's
32:51
what. Just be careful
32:54
now, you know it's
32:56
a great place called so Late Okay, so
32:58
the best soulful that's good
33:01
to me. So yeah did he did? He son has
33:03
been there every All the stars come to so Late when they
33:05
come to Chicago. Definitely go to so Late. Um,
33:08
but don't give us something pure spots. They'll give us some low
33:10
spots, some low spots. Yeah, um,
33:15
I go to Tavern in the Park. Yeah
33:17
that's that's true. All right, that sounds fansy. Now
33:21
I'm about to be back in Chicago soon, so I'm gonna
33:23
make sure I write all these down. Yeah, sure, hit
33:25
me up, No, I definitely will. Alright,
33:28
So the shy I think I'm
33:30
the most excited person in the room. No you're not. No, you're
33:33
not. Believe
33:39
me. And that guy, we
33:42
gotta you know what, we should have a watch party,
33:45
so we're gonna watch it together. Yes,
33:47
watch are you on the first episode? We got to make sure
33:49
before we put this watch Okay, he's on the first that
33:55
I can't wait. No, But seriously,
33:57
congratulations because I know it's been a journey and I know you
33:59
have some music on this new season of The Shy. Yes
34:02
I do um, Yes, I said um.
34:05
And it actually was recorded at home in my apartment. Actually,
34:08
now you got a studio, Yeah, I got the studio at the Crib.
34:11
At the at the Crib, my
34:13
homie, Daniel Brelan out of Atlanta, flew
34:16
him in. We knocked it out, did four songs
34:18
within the weekend and submit it
34:20
all eleven of my tracks to the music supervisor
34:23
for The Shy, and they just went to a woman. They
34:25
selected a song called Simplicity Congratulations
34:30
like a sexy song. It's so sexy. What's simplicity
34:32
about um? Especially
34:34
like just talking about um
34:38
in a guy's respective who's in a committed
34:40
relationship and who's just just telling the story
34:42
to this woman about just how she just makes everything so
34:45
simple and just everything is just so special
34:47
when you come around and when
34:56
you write that song about Um
35:00
was really for the guys, like, yeah, I
35:02
wrote that for me actually not even for women,
35:04
just for for me and to like kind of feel that
35:06
when they write just like sure that like
35:08
your draft just writing home, it's just like, yeah, you
35:11
know, we need that good energy make a
35:13
man feel good about themselves and a woman because
35:16
it's just real, Like the lyrics is just yeah,
35:18
finally at
35:21
home. I don't have any explicitly
35:24
I'm looking for. I
35:26
don't I don't have too much explicit
35:28
lyrics really at all. And in all of my music
35:31
it's really you know, you would think that I'm like
35:33
at least in my forties, like the way that I talked, Yeah,
35:37
I mean my mother is in her late sixties
35:39
right now. So it's like I grew up listening to Stevie
35:41
wanting Smoky. She's
35:44
so proud Terry
35:47
Faye black Men. She certainly she
35:49
probably loves watching the shows
35:52
like she'd be she'd be tweaking
35:54
off the show like and then when you did this, like
35:57
but let me tell you what she's like,
35:59
you cold let me take because I ain't know when you was
36:01
going. Yeah, she go on like
36:03
you're my biggest fan, like definitely was
36:06
the last time you've got a girl home to meet your mom? It's
36:08
been a while. Did she like
36:11
your girlfriends or she ye, she's such
36:13
a sweetheart, so like yeah, but she she's
36:15
to the point like she will even have a full conversation
36:17
with you, build you up as a as
36:19
a woman and all of that, just have a cold conversation
36:21
with you and still may not even like you. I was just like,
36:25
yeah, yeah, like you tripping. Yeah, And
36:28
she's always right. My mother is always
36:30
right, Like she's the realest person on what
36:33
if she was like, girl, my sonbar is
36:35
no good. Let me just tell you what. But nothing
36:37
real that she would say that, like she but she never
36:40
played that, you're not gonna bring one woman in here
36:42
and then thank you for no. She never played that
36:45
if Like I almost slipped and said the girl
36:47
day, miss
36:54
nobody. I'm good, I'm good on
36:58
the boy, you're young sory
37:01
teller like so I like to tell stories, but I must slip up
37:03
and Saturday. But anyways, um yeah,
37:06
any of the songs that you wrote, the eleven songs about
37:09
her, not at all.
37:11
It's not her about her, no simplicity.
37:14
Um, I was kind of someone in a relationship
37:16
when I wrote this song. But yeah,
37:19
to be honest, yeah, it's always someone in the back of your
37:21
head you think about. But um, and
37:23
like, once I listened to the lyrics myself,
37:26
you know, with an unbidis opinion, Like yeah, it's
37:29
kind of like, oh girl, who you what you do? You
37:33
think it's easier for what you do to be in
37:35
a relationship, but to be single, to be single,
37:39
But now experiences
37:44
that you're having right now, it's good for you
37:46
to be single. Enjoy yourself, enjoy your
37:48
life, get to know yourself and and and
37:50
all of that before you try to create
37:52
something with somebody else. That's what I'm glad. I got
37:54
all of that out of my system. Like I've lived with multiple
37:57
women, had committed relationships even though I was
37:59
young, but it was still the real deal there, you
38:01
know what I mean. So I'm good now. You
38:03
have had girls fight over you, absolutely
38:06
fighting over that. Girls
38:08
kissing over me actually different,
38:11
like we're going to fight,
38:14
Like we had a conversation
38:16
with you. You I can't believe you would even do that.
38:18
She's so I get a call, I mean
38:21
a video they ain't slowing down at the club.
38:23
Whoa Okay, alright
38:28
already it was like, don't call us no more,
38:31
get out here to
38:34
give my attention. Of course we know strick
38:36
ladies. You were like, where y'all that right
38:38
now? I
38:42
didn't I'm pull up. I
38:46
didn't live life to you know. I didn't. I didn't
38:48
do some stuff. So maybe a few
38:50
months back then I would have even
38:53
eager to just and I just relaxed
38:55
and chill. Yeah, yeah,
38:57
something to my sister like look at these
39:00
look at them, look at these homes, look
39:04
at these lovely young ladies. Absolutely
39:08
well, but we appreciate you so much for this shy
39:10
takeover. So time the shot is back. You
39:12
are a regular now serious
39:15
regularly, a serious regular that
39:17
we're happy to see that you're going to be all over. We're gonna
39:19
be looking forward to see what's how you're gonna take care of your little
39:22
brother Jake, how you're going to hold it down. And my
39:24
single will be releasing um early
39:27
April, early April around around
39:29
from the shot. You know, there's a different single. This single
39:31
is called No Simplicity be airing you.
39:34
You will hear that episode seven. I believe
39:36
I can hear that. My single,
39:39
my official single, Don't Get it twisted, twisted
39:45
crazy. I
39:50
know you're saying the title. Yeah, keep
39:52
that between
39:56
Okay, okay, calm down, don't
39:59
get it twisted. And yeah, we're gonna put that
40:01
out my team, Private Stock, Myshurst and
40:03
lou Um. Yeah
40:05
it's magic though, it's magic, hear
40:10
it. Just like, listen to this new artist. Don't say it's rich
40:12
from the Show're not gonna believe
40:14
you. What's your artist's
40:17
name? Okay,
40:19
Bartie at the
40:22
singer then at that moment, because
40:24
I don't want people to always remember that
40:26
I started off as an actor the platform
40:29
and that is also my true passion. But I love
40:31
music. They're going to be on stage
40:33
with a shirt off, take
40:37
it, take a shirt
40:39
off and all of day. They're not ready for that. Just
40:43
artist like
40:46
that. Let's keep that artist
40:50
partist. That's fire, alright,
40:53
let it. Thank you so much, bart
40:56
We appreciate you so much. And people can follow you bart
40:58
the Actor. No, no, you can follow my Instagram
41:00
page. Act like bart acts like
41:03
Underscore that that was real brand, act
41:05
like Barton I am incorporated, That is real act
41:09
like Barton. Thank you, Barte, thank
41:11
y
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