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The Chi (Feat. Barton Fitzpatrick)

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Sunday, 14th April 2019
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0:02

What's up? What's UPP's every time? Ante lay, I'm

0:04

g MacGuire, I'm Larry

0:05

all the act

0:08

because you don't want to say Barton because people don't say

0:10

his name too much. I

0:12

can see that. I can see that why you

0:14

white people would say that reading it Alright,

0:18

So you guys don't know Barton from

0:21

Oh no, bart the actor. You know him from

0:23

the show. You know he plays a character Red and

0:26

we love to see you on the show. We love when you have your shirt off

0:28

and everything. Thank you.

0:31

We may not like so much

0:34

character we'll see. Okay, so this is different.

0:36

So Larry, y'all you don't love his character, but g you

0:39

do? Yep, yeah, I don't

0:41

want I want to hear why. Yeah, you

0:43

know what? Because you got that eerie sense

0:47

in it, Like as soon as I see you on the screen,

0:49

it's just like you're like you know that

0:51

you're up to no good. That's

0:53

what I like see. And then that

0:55

sounds like that like you take care of your little brother and

0:57

like that your main't focus like you know that.

1:01

But jeeze, he takes care of his a little brother, but he also is

1:03

putting him in situations that could pretend listen

1:05

it's a hard in her life, my life. You know. That's

1:07

how it was. Well, that's how the character was, how

1:10

the character was great. It's

1:14

too too tough on a little boy. I think

1:16

you got ease up on him a little bit to

1:19

Chicago and go ease up on him. I think you'll

1:21

be able to see moments where is

1:23

actually a very endearing I'm

1:27

waiting to see, you know, I think, Yeah,

1:30

j have y'all ever been with a guy who got beat

1:32

up and then you have to be there to take care of his boos?

1:36

You know, But the caring, nurturing woman that

1:38

I am, I would definitely be there too to

1:41

take care of them. Would you look at him differently? Man,

1:44

listen, I might have to, you

1:46

know, I don't fake a couple of times see

1:48

if he gonna jump, but now

1:52

he saw from here on out, that's all I'm

1:55

like. I could beat you up to then remember

1:57

when they beat your head, beat

2:00

baby for them guys that beat you up last time?

2:02

Oh now you're tough, right you to you wasn't

2:05

so tough t of the day when you put

2:08

some alcohol on you put the balls

2:10

on you now for

2:12

you? Have you ever been in a situation where you were trying

2:14

to impress a young lady and things went left

2:17

as far as what they like trying to impress her. Hell like

2:20

trying to out with a girl that you're

2:22

dating and then some guy comes along

2:24

and punks you.

2:26

Never in my life, no, no, I never

2:28

been punked. When is it time to

2:30

step in though? Like, let's just say a guy comes and you're

2:32

with a girl and he said you got a fat ass to the girl,

2:35

Then do you keep coming at me? I

2:38

think you're coming at me, especially

2:40

if he sees us together. Are you coming at me? So

2:43

what's your response to that? Is it? Is it a

2:45

fighting situation? The first

2:47

reaction might just be like I have

2:49

to defend her and I can't have her, Like, well, what about

2:51

when Doude said I had a fat ass and you didn't. You didn't

2:53

do nothing to him, But you want to come you know? So no, yeah,

2:56

act like we don't see him, honey. But

2:59

if he's bigger than you,

3:04

she do got a fut don't do? What

3:12

about have you ever been with a girl who instigates situations?

3:15

Yeah? Just do to Yeah,

3:17

It's like, yeah, I had this one girl who

3:19

just like liquor, just really transformed her

3:21

completely what

3:25

it was, wasn't it? It was okay?

3:29

Transformed her like, yeah, she didn't mean she couldn't

3:31

control herselfs. So yeah, we just caught

3:33

up in a lot of situations. Isn't that the worst

3:36

when you have a friend or a girl that you're dating,

3:38

or a guy, and every time you go out you know something

3:40

about to happen. Yeah. Absolutely,

3:42

I wouldn't want to go anywhere, right, would you. I'll

3:45

be like, now we're just gonna stay Netflix.

3:47

You know, Netflix it up. I

3:50

used to be like that. I used to not know more like

3:52

I grew up, but when I was younger, like

3:55

what I drink? I want to fight,

3:57

I want to argue, I say crazy

4:00

these stuff. I remember one time he was in the club

4:02

and she poured the whole bottle on the couch this

4:04

club because she was mad that I think we had

4:08

Sorry, I just messed up the whole section, like

4:11

like I'm pouring all these

4:13

bottles and I was like doing

4:16

I believe it. I don't remember, but I'm

4:19

not denying I

4:22

didn't. I didn't get stopped

4:24

at the door. A couple of clubs in Chicago

4:27

being John No, not for being drunk. Just because

4:29

Yeah, they just be hating Chicago,

4:32

all

4:34

right, they know you're about to start. No,

4:36

they just know it's not even that, it's just something you

4:38

know, you got some bounces will be like yeah know, then again,

4:40

I don't care like that

4:43

you rant from the show like you pay dub

4:45

just like everybody else. And this and

4:48

is that time when you're like, Okay, I'm not coming, I'm not

4:50

kind of yeah, don't just especially

4:52

I'm not tried to get flying on you. You ain't gotta. I

4:54

don't care about him. There's a restaurant

4:56

in Harlem we still can't go to anymore

4:58

because Angela he dropped to break fly

5:00

on and then she was like what,

5:03

no, we've never gone back there. Got your

5:05

to slid it in like she forgot, Like I'm like

5:07

we should Just what

5:09

does that mean? Like he tried late,

5:14

So basically it means like he tried to

5:16

like flex on her. I

5:19

don't care out breakfast club? What's that?

5:21

You know what I mean? But this

5:24

is what I feel like when there's a restaurant that you go to

5:26

all the time and you show them love. Because I

5:29

bought Tia there. I bought

5:30

a lot of artists. I had a

5:33

lot of artists come come there and show

5:35

them love, you know, and I never come to right,

5:37

So I feel like if I come there, don't be disrespectful

5:40

to me because I'm always trying to bring business out, posted

5:42

about y'all, and he's new. He was a new guy,

5:44

you know what I mean? Just right,

5:47

So it wasn't just like I feel like it's me. It's also

5:49

I feel like I come here a lot, and I helped

5:51

support your business and I post about it, and

5:53

and I had dinners here and had huge

5:56

bills. So at least when I come show

5:59

yeah, put that respect her name,

6:02

you know. But we're talking about going

6:04

out with it could be a group of friends,

6:06

and you always have that friends that's always acting crazy. So

6:08

let's talk about trust and how trust factors

6:11

in two different types of relationships, like your

6:13

friendships that you might have, or maybe

6:16

situations with your siblings or

6:18

even with your own family, like your relationship

6:20

with your father or you know, things

6:23

like that. How does trust play a factor when it comes to

6:25

you having these relationships?

6:27

Um, it's like, at this point in my life, you know, reaching

6:31

that level of fame and notoriety and

6:33

success, you got to make sure

6:35

that the people that you keep close to you deserve

6:38

to be around you, you know. And I'm struggling

6:40

with that myself. Like they say, like it's lonely

6:42

at the top. I didn't really understand what

6:45

that meant until like I started making it

6:47

right. Um So, like I actually kind

6:49

of stick to myself because it's hard to trust people, you

6:51

know what I'm saying. You never know, like, um,

6:54

I fly you out to Atlanta and you

6:56

know, spoil you for a whole weekend just because you're my

6:58

friend, but whole time, like if you could

7:00

flip a switch, you would be in my shoes

7:02

and I would be in your shoes. Like you know what I'm saying, and that

7:04

that goes on a light. But my

7:07

friends tend to be very genuine, and

7:09

especially my family. Um

7:12

but yeah, trust plays the biggest issue. What

7:14

about with women? Because we did see those tweets that

7:16

you were putting out about your exes

7:18

and yeah, yeah, I was just being silly that

7:20

day. Actually maybe maybe felt

7:22

it a little. Yeah, maybe something did provoke

7:24

me. Maybe it wasn't that long

7:27

ago, so you know it wasn't it was like maybe

7:30

something that day I pondered,

7:32

tell us what I just I

7:35

don't know, so I know I was drinking. Yeah,

7:41

please help yourself. We got you. I thought we agreed.

7:43

It wasn't going to say that word. Yeah,

7:48

we'll have some. Don't have a little drink because

7:51

it was his birthday. By the way, I

7:56

hungover birthday. I

7:58

do one for her. I want to and we don't

8:00

worry. We got all your boys who are in the room. They're gonna have

8:03

some shots. Got

8:05

some hennessy on the way, Did you tell us what

8:08

year you were born? I just had to sit here

8:10

and really like, did he just say? Yes?

8:12

He did? It?

8:15

Was? What

8:18

were we doing at ninety five? Man? Listen, I

8:20

had my baby in ninety six, so I probably could

8:22

be your mama. Now, hold on, you

8:27

got to grew up with her daughter. Am

8:31

I married? No? But I

8:33

do have a twenty two year old daughter. M

8:36

she's cute too. What am I really still trying to figure

8:38

out how old that was at that? Yeah

8:41

it was not nine. I'm more coming. Don't worry. I

8:44

would feel a little junior year in high

8:46

school. I might still be sung o for me.

8:49

Just still drunk? Right, yes, okay,

8:51

so I'm still drunk. So what kind of girls do you

8:53

like bart um and

8:56

has your taste changed from when you were younger?

9:00

Um, lack of better words, I've

9:02

always like had bad girls, like you

9:04

know, like I've always had like

9:06

the baddest at the baddest in my opinion and

9:09

in other guys opinion. Like so it's not

9:11

like once I start getting famous, I'll

9:14

start coming out the closet with exotic women. And you

9:16

know, it was always like that, like you always

9:18

pull up to see me with something like oh damn, like that's how

9:20

you coming so

9:23

um, they always pay attention, Like you know,

9:25

I'm big on fashion. You know, I look at I'm

9:28

gonna look at your outfit first kinda and

9:30

then um, you don't see potentially

9:33

people though, like you might look at the alpha and be like, okay,

9:35

I gotta jump. But

9:38

I'm young, know maybe it all change as

9:42

of right now, it's just be like, no, I'm not off that, like because

9:44

it's like I'm thinking about who you are as a

9:46

person and deciding to wear that. You know, some

9:50

people also just don't have that, you

9:52

know what I said. You can always tell a man by the by

9:54

the shoes that he wears, like gonna

10:00

stand too close straight

10:08

up what would

10:10

you saying, I'm sorry you were talking about. Yeah,

10:13

the women. It's like you can always tell a man about the shoes

10:15

that he wears. I can always. I feel like I can tell

10:17

a woman by the way she dressed, you know, So

10:19

what are some things that women should look far as far as how they

10:21

addressed, Like what what's a well dressed

10:23

one? It's not necessarily a brand or anything, but you

10:26

have to be like I have to look at your style,

10:28

like I need to see that you have style, you know what I

10:30

mean, Like you have some class about you. But

10:32

at the same time, you hit the club and you tee

10:35

up. You know, you can kind of I can always kind

10:37

of sense that from the way a woman dressed

10:39

the finest fashion over and

10:43

that's not even I think fashion says a

10:45

lot about your personality. It does, Yeah, I

10:47

think so. But then sometimes we have off

10:49

days. Oh yeah, even

10:52

the off days, it's still like you gotta at least be you

10:56

know what I mean. Yeah, I

10:59

think you can tell a lot about a guy too by the way

11:01

that he dresses. And we've definitely been with some fixed

11:03

rappers. I have to like

11:10

some of my friends have had boyfriends that

11:13

I've been like, he

11:15

can't dress for ship, like I

11:17

have to have, Like I agree with

11:19

the dressing thing. I think like that might

11:21

be up there with looks like I have to

11:23

like you have to be attractive and you have to

11:26

know how to drive. I definitely did it guys who couldn't

11:28

dress, but I didn't

11:30

want to say because

11:33

it was back to the point where I would like before

11:36

we went out together, I would have to like overview his outfit,

11:38

like because

11:41

he would were like rid snake

11:43

skin from head to toe, like on his hat,

11:45

on his jacket, on the shoes, like

11:51

that's just weird. It was

11:53

weird, Like he would be in monochronamic

11:55

all the time, like it will be like a color of today, like today's

11:57

color is purple, and it just got purple, was

12:00

max Because that's even worse dress

12:03

and because

12:05

obviously he was dressed like that when you met him, like

12:13

a snap. Alright,

12:16

so given so me and g G

12:18

don't care that much about dressing. I care, No, it's

12:21

a I feel like it's a bonus, like if

12:23

I dress, it's a bonus. But I definitely remember

12:25

when I was younger, I dated this guy and he would

12:27

always buy these shirts from J. C. Penny. They didn't have

12:29

to like wrinkle free shirts. No, he

12:32

didn't have to iron him. But

12:34

he had one of those jobs where he had some weird stuff.

12:37

You don't iron your shirts. He

12:40

worked for you

12:43

work for. Nothing wrong with a respectable job.

12:45

Nothing's nothing wrong with that. You

12:48

were like thirteen and he was a busch driver. Just

12:51

know how old were So I just made that

12:53

up. I was about twenty

12:55

six years old, okay. But his shirts

12:58

were always like wrinkle free and jeans

13:00

would be like mad wife. Weird

13:04

combination of Andy's

13:07

kind of like you gotta cut him

13:09

up to at the battle. Don't know that Jesus

13:14

Christ, do that cuff

13:16

your gene at the bottom, the y gene.

13:19

Chicago used to cut him. Oh

13:21

yeah, yeah, back in the day they What

13:25

about your own relationship with your father? Since we're

13:27

talking about trust and relationships, how's your relationship

13:29

with your dad? When my father passed when I was nine

13:31

years old. He dad in two thousand four. Um

13:35

so, um, yeah. I didn't

13:37

grow up with the father in my life. My mother was

13:39

my father. She had to become my father. So but

13:42

me and her like that's we talked

13:44

about everything, like yeah, my mother has

13:46

been my father in my life. Did she talk to you about

13:49

your dad, like give you memories? And absolutely

13:52

absolutely, what I mean, not

13:54

even not only her, Like I'm still um,

13:57

Like I told you his best friend it's

13:59

Lorence Takes for father. So Uncle Larry

14:01

me and him still talk and Uncle Sterling, the guys

14:03

who were best friends with my father, And yeah,

14:06

it's just a lot of stories. I know so much about my father

14:09

and they tell me I have his same mannerisms like everyone

14:11

who when I'm around they said, like I can't

14:13

be around you because I'm gonna crowd so

14:16

much. You know, Yeah, you feel

14:18

like he's a guardian angel. I know a lot of times people

14:21

feel like they have when a parent

14:23

passes or sibling, they feel like they have a guardian

14:25

angel watching them. Yeah. I usually didn't believe in stuff

14:27

like that, but like, yeah, I sit up and talk to my

14:29

father all the time, like I'm talking to him after

14:32

this, like yeah we really did it twice the breakfast

14:34

clear absolutely,

14:37

And then to even know that you're a season, You're

14:39

the next season of the Shy, You're going to have a pretty

14:41

big role on that, so you know, at

14:45

least we know that you're gonna make it to the end

14:47

of season two, right,

14:50

and then and then and then season three

14:54

happen and want

14:57

to know what happens? Yeah, Jack

15:00

Survivan, you know he just you know, if

15:02

something would have happened to Jake, What how do you think if

15:05

you had to write that character, right and something happened

15:07

to Jake? What do you Jake? What do you think would happen to redg

15:10

Oh? He would um if y'all don't like him

15:12

now, it's like, y'all don't

15:14

really hate It's gonna be Russ everybody

15:19

like everybody the first

15:22

Yeah, everything, everyone has to die

15:24

your prom day, everybody

15:29

with the character of Red Snitch on somebody, if they

15:31

if he knew who did it, if say, something happened

15:33

to his brother and he knew who killed him, with Red Snitch

15:38

not at all, he would hand himself.

15:41

He would go take care of that right away. You go get Big

15:43

Mike hop in the car and yeah, go take care

15:45

of that. What about some love

15:48

scenes for redg

15:51

On this season? What

15:54

do you mean what about him? I mean gonna

15:57

we're seeing them in a little bubble tub. Hand

16:02

I had a bottom Hennessy at one hand. It

16:06

was going down in the Katie Pool. It made me want to Katie

16:08

Pool. You're

16:10

gonna see something. You'll see You'll see red shirt

16:13

off again. That's all I can say. That's just a

16:15

shirt off, a BUTTOCKX or

16:17

something to That's

16:21

how I can say. Sally Richardson directed

16:23

that episode. Shout out Sally, Oh, Sally Richardson.

16:26

That's she comes to the juice bar. Sure

16:28

done. But if you

16:30

had to get like booty naked

16:34

naked, it's

16:36

like it's always a close set when it's like one of those

16:38

intimate saying So it only

16:41

really be the director in the cinematopic everybody

16:44

that watches it. Yeah,

16:54

what about children? You don't have any kids yet, right, so

16:57

do you think about that? You

17:00

know, I have a lot of nieces in their few so I don't

17:02

need any children like me. You're

17:04

looking forward to it because you know that's one of the big story

17:07

lines down there too. We see Emma trying to get his life together

17:09

and be amouther to his son. Have you ever had

17:11

a scare and thought maybe you were going to have a kid.

17:14

Yeah? Once, Yeah, in the past. I was seventeen

17:17

eighteen at that point in my life. I was

17:20

just like so crazy, like I'm

17:22

like, I need to keep her in my life forever. Like

17:25

that's a guy, like

17:28

yeah, we'd be tripping, we'll

17:30

be doing but like yeah, I remember, like I was talking to

17:32

my homie from college and he was like I remember you being eighteen

17:34

telling me like I have to get her pregnant so she

17:37

can just be in my life forever. Like see,

17:40

people don't realize that it's

17:45

guys who will put holes and condoms themselves,

17:47

like you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah, I

17:50

think I've broken a couple of hearts. I

17:52

could say, do you feel bad about it? Yeah, I

17:54

mean I do feel bad, But at the same time, I'm real about

17:56

it. And I've always been like open about it, Like this

17:59

is not don't fall in love like you

18:01

know, because I don't. I'm not consistent,

18:04

you know. So you tell a girl that don't

18:07

fall in love with I'm just I'm

18:09

telling I let him know, like because I'm not on that what

18:12

you're on, you know what I mean, Like I'm not ready

18:14

to be committed to you. And and

18:16

like especially now it's like I'm twenty

18:19

four. I think this is kind of the age where girls

18:21

are kind of like ready to have

18:26

families. Yeah, here

18:28

that she said, you guys shouldn't be you gals. All

18:30

right, Now, let's get back to the show, and let's talk about

18:32

the character of Brandon right and him and

18:34

his girlfriend. Could you imagine breaking up with somebody

18:36

and then seeing them with somebody else and then getting back

18:38

together with them in my life? Never,

18:42

in my life, never, that

18:44

was so embarrassing. They were broken up. Nah.

18:47

Nah, and the end, I remember,

18:50

wait till you mean no, No,

18:55

I'm just like, no, you're making Brandon like a little

18:57

bit too mad

18:59

of that. I was so mad when I saw that, because

19:01

like, I don't read the script only like really

19:04

focus on my acting, so I want to see

19:06

it as an his opinion, like

19:08

y'all. Like, so when I saw that, I was

19:10

like, what what? Like,

19:14

Yeah, I couldn't believe it, Like, no, that would never happen

19:16

to me, though, that's what you

19:18

say. Now you're gonna have bad karma because

19:20

you said it. Could never know. I mean, but at least

19:22

they were bro they were broken up. But I'm not gonna go back

19:24

with you. Let me just say, they ain't gonna say that. We didn't go ever to be

19:26

cool and I'm never talk to you again. But as far as me

19:28

us being boyfriend and girlfriend again, No, But what

19:31

did she do wrong? They were broken up. I

19:34

didn't even do anything like if we want to go back

19:36

to the shop, even do anything like he

19:39

was helping a little boy like you kick me up,

19:42

even gave him a chance to explain stop

19:44

three times. She

19:47

wouldn't give him a chance to She didn't want to just

19:54

you know, like, yeah, she does a phenomenal job.

19:57

Because I don't like, I

20:00

can't stand. But he liked her booge

20:02

nous. It felt like because it was different

20:04

from where he was probably you know you don't

20:06

like boogie girls. No, I

20:12

mean I think that. I

20:14

wonder what's gonna happen with their relationship on this new

20:16

season because they are back together. But can

20:19

he trust her? Like, would you tell him if that was your boy

20:21

in real life? Can he trust

20:24

his after knowing the backstory? I would

20:26

say, yeah, bro, your your boost? That's that's

20:28

the word we use in Chico. What

20:31

is that popped bogus? Your bulls?

20:34

No, Like that's a bullist

20:36

relationship. She's boost And

20:38

yeah, no, you think she did something

20:41

that was that bad? To him though, I mean, it

20:44

seemed like she doesn't understand lawyer to run

20:46

so deep with me. It's like if you really

20:49

was in love with me and all of that, like that wouldn't

20:51

have happened, Like it would have took at least, especially

20:53

like how I feel about myself, it's gonna take years, like

20:57

shake a man's hand, like you know what I'm saying. Like, so

21:00

it's like with me, it's like, no, that's over with you.

21:03

I made the right decision. What happened

21:05

everything else for a reason, And the reason

21:07

behind this is so I can catch you being a goofy with this

21:09

other guy and you never have my attention ever. Again,

21:12

moving on quickly is weird, and they say,

21:14

like what's the saying, Like the best way to see somebody

21:16

is to pretend you're not watching them, and

21:19

that's when you see. I think she showed

21:21

her true colors, Like, I mean, the moving on

21:23

is one thing, but how he said no,

21:26

But that's how he said. And you're the guy that keeps calling like

21:28

it was disrespectful. We were just

21:30

together for years together, We

21:32

had not that was crazy that she brought him to

21:34

that block party that she

21:38

did not need. She

21:41

did not need to be there him weight and everything,

21:44

like come on, yeah, but I mean

21:46

it's yeah, no,

21:49

that was a disrespectful party. Now, when you break up with somebody,

21:51

you are not supposed to bring them to your

21:53

ex boyfriend's block party unless you're trying

21:55

to set them up to get robbed or get beat up

21:57

or something like that. Don't need a lot. Aready

22:00

said she hadn't even

22:02

been there. Her character, um

22:06

was from the North Side of Chicago, Like you're

22:09

not even with me, Like you know what I'm saying. But you know,

22:12

she trying to show off that that guy,

22:14

That's what it was. She was trying to make him jealous.

22:17

You think, so it had to be because what you're

22:19

doing over there, and she just goofy

22:21

like that. Alright, youngragulations

22:25

on season two of The Shot, which starts April

22:28

seven, and season three because you're gonna live right,

22:33

cheers lying as spies.

22:37

Now, let's talk about this getting back into dating

22:39

thing, right, because Data is trying to get back into dating. We all

22:41

know how tough that is for guys. How

22:44

tough is it for you? Like, if you haven't been dating

22:46

for a while, you've taken a break to jump

22:48

back in What advice do you give because guys

22:50

have a harder time I think admitting when they're a

22:52

little heartbroken, or like going to

22:54

their friends and saying, oh, you know I missed

22:56

my girl. Yeah yeah,

23:00

yeah we were friendly. Move a lot. Um

23:03

you know what that means? Friends, your movement. I

23:05

can imagine, Okay, a lot of guys

23:07

front day movement act like um

23:10

o, don't yeah, like she want me the wife. I ain't

23:12

on that. I ain't. I got my brother be friend this movie.

23:14

But let me just say that he'd be friends perfect my

23:16

brotherly friends moved like he would do a lot, like when

23:19

he'd be like, bro, like she want me the wife? Like I'm not on

23:21

that, Like when really you are madly

23:23

in love with this woman and you should really accept

23:25

that and just y'all make it happen.

23:27

You know that is so true because guys talk

23:29

to us so different than they talk to their boys. They

23:33

really do like yeah to y'all's just like I

23:35

just I've never felt this way. I don't want me to be in

23:37

my life, like you know what I'm saying, Like I

23:40

really see you as my wife, keep a

23:43

really wife, like come on, ain't nobody on that

23:46

like you know, like I'm just trying to hit and

23:48

just you know, but too good.

23:50

You know, I don't

23:54

forget, so

23:57

you'd be pretending to like you're not into the

24:00

girl that much from my try

24:02

nothing from my move as much as I can, I'll tell you, like, yeah,

24:04

bro, I'm on that, like that's me. Can't

24:08

come over as much as anymore, you

24:12

know, yeah, because I've lived with like three different women

24:14

in my life playing

24:17

But that's why I'm glad everything. I got

24:19

all that stuff out of my system. So now I'm good, you

24:21

know what I mean? That quick? Was

24:24

it that you needed a place to stay, because you know guys will

24:26

do that to two of the women

24:28

live with me? Actually yeah, because I have a

24:30

heart was at the same place? Did

24:34

you change the man? I have a problem with that, like,

24:37

did you change them? If I just move another

24:39

motherfucker? Was one person? Not

24:42

at all? It wasn't. But I've definitely lived with two

24:44

women. And my

24:47

cousin had to let me know one day. He told me, like, excuse

24:50

me, my cousin. He was like, bro, you're married,

24:52

bro, And I was just like, bro, I'm not married. What are

24:54

you talking about? He said, Bro? You live with her,

24:57

you're married, and I'm just like, I don't understand. I didn't really

25:00

stand what he's saying. He's like, Bro, every decision you make, you

25:02

have to consult her about that, Like you know what I'm saying, Like, you can't

25:04

just jump if I tell you come to Atlanta with me, You're gonna

25:06

have to check in with your woman, you know what I'm saying that.

25:10

It's like, yes, it is, like it's not even just check in,

25:12

but it's just like you gotta go through somebody, be respectful

25:15

and don't live together. You still kind

25:17

of have to do that. Like if you're in a relationship, but

25:20

if you're in a committed relationship, be married regardless.

25:22

Like that's just because

25:25

it's because it's like everybody is human and we're

25:27

gonna have these emotions and feel the way we're gonna

25:29

feel. You shouldn't do that. I feel

25:31

you shouldn't be doing that. I feel like you shouldn't be talking like that

25:33

because you're your mind, you know what I'm

25:35

saying, And it's like, that's that's

25:37

your wife. It's no, there's

25:39

a big difference between marriage and being

25:42

in a relationship in a committed relationship

25:44

and the committed in the committed relationship finances

25:48

is what makes a difference than marriage

25:51

relationship because this people that's married, they don't act

25:53

like they're married at all. That's

25:59

dating and that more married than people that's married. Right

26:02

right, I know some single married people.

26:05

Do you ask a girl like to be your girl? Do you

26:07

say, hey, um, will you be my girl?

26:09

Just it just happen, happens. And that's to

26:11

answer your question. I would tell guys to be careful

26:14

because like myself, I find

26:16

myself in a relationship, not be like how

26:18

am I in a relationship? How

26:21

did this happen? But I did that to myself. I allowed

26:23

it. I prolonged the situation, you know what I'm saying.

26:26

And I also said I love you too.

26:29

Once you say I love you, and it's

26:34

like, you know, you know, unprotected

26:36

sex is involved. It's really like, I

26:38

think we should have a conversation now now

26:40

that you said that and you say, how did I end

26:42

up in a relationship? I feel like nowadays

26:45

like we skipped the party that we're supposed

26:47

to be doing, and I think we should sit down

26:49

and have that conversation like we've been

26:51

together, you know, hanging out for a minute.

26:53

Why don't we take this a little more serious? And I

26:55

don't want you to see anybody else. If that's

26:58

okay, I'm not gonna see nobody else even But

27:00

is that still a committed relationship because

27:02

people still act like, well, we're just I'm not seeing

27:04

nobody else. But I don't want to give it a title.

27:07

At least have the conversation and be forced

27:09

into it, like well you know that you ain't you

27:12

know what happens. What happens is they introduce

27:14

you to somebody as, oh, you know my girlfriend and

27:18

girlfriend girlfriend,

27:23

but like, no, I

27:28

don't like his friends, we're just friends. Were

27:30

cool, we cool? Has that happened

27:33

to be with a girl and she's introduced you as her man like,

27:35

oh you know my boyfriend bart she

27:38

said him that would be playing

27:40

yourself no, like unless

27:42

it was not until it was at that time. But

27:44

you don't have the conversation. I

27:49

mean, okay, So as far as to your date,

27:51

would you date a girl because you said two women live with you

27:53

who didn't have it all together? Are

27:55

you saying what I dated a woman who doesn't have it all together? Yeah?

27:58

Who's like you more have to help her

28:00

out. Yeah, I feel like I could build them. I

28:02

can make it, you know what I mean at this point in my life. So

28:05

yeah, absolutely drink that. Absolutely.

28:08

Yeah I got that from Meek Meal too. I'm

28:11

not that you build them, make I

28:13

feel I feel that that way. Like, but at

28:15

the same time, you want to accept a woman for who

28:17

they are, you know, and if she still

28:21

but why couldn't she know? Yeah, right, that's

28:23

what you mean. Actually, Like if she was like struggling, like financially,

28:26

still living at home with her mother and I'm not on it, that's

28:29

where's her drive? Because that's the thing. If she

28:31

had a job and was trying to get out. Talk

28:33

about if you if if I know that you're passionate

28:36

about something and I believe in you, then

28:38

absolutely, But not being an Instagram mother,

28:40

you know what I'm saying, Not being an Instagram mother. Some

28:43

of them get paid very well. You

28:46

respect that, you know what I'm saying. You respect that check. But other

28:49

than that, it's like you don't want I wouldn't want that to be my

28:51

girlfriend, Like you know what I'm saying. But you have

28:53

a problem with your girlfriend being on Instagram sexy?

28:56

Yeah you would, Yeah, what if

28:58

that's how you met her. I

29:01

don't that probably most likely wouldn't

29:03

end up being my girlfriend if I met you through Instagram

29:06

find a slid in your d M. Now I'm not I'm not interested

29:08

in dating you or you just that's

29:11

an everlasting thing. That

29:13

is, you're very you have a large

29:16

sense of sex appeal. I mean I have a large sense of sex appeal,

29:18

and she's very appealing to me. And that's why that provoked

29:21

me to That's why I certain girls like why do you like

29:24

show that? Like why don't you like kind of perk up

29:26

your breast sometimes when you take pictures do

29:28

this and that? Like do you want that attention? Because

29:30

some girls will leave you on red, you know, and

29:33

some girls will be like, don't disrespect me and be like you

29:35

got some big boobs or you got a fat

29:37

ass or something like that. But you're

29:40

putting it out, don't you want It's a compliment,

29:42

right, I'm complimenting it, you know at the end

29:44

of the day. But you know what, that's

29:50

that's very corny. Now that's not me. I'm just I'm

29:52

just talking general examples. But no,

29:54

I don't. I don't usually slide in d M. Yeah,

29:57

I don't, especially now like I got the blue check

29:59

verification. Boy,

30:05

I can't like this. One time, I think I

30:08

just replied a heart emoed you

30:10

to a fan and she immediately screenshotted

30:12

it and posted it. That's sweet,

30:14

but it's like you right, It's

30:16

not that she was excited, but she

30:18

was excited at where she and you just

30:23

you don't do anything that bad. Actually, do you want

30:25

to put that on Twitter? Somebody but said something of

30:27

course, But at the same time, it's like you

30:29

can't. You can't be too quickly to slapping the DM because

30:31

that can get screenshotted to you know what I'm saying, And

30:34

you're trying to be thirsty like the DM

30:36

is great for business. Though I contacted you and got

30:38

you to come up with I

30:40

definitely you s M.

30:44

He said it was going to be in New Year because I was trying to get it on the

30:47

show before. Okay,

30:51

who is off limits when it comes to dating and flirting?

30:53

Though? Are there people that you feel like are off limits? Anybody

30:58

can get it? Get you gonna get this? Could

31:00

you feel with that guy Antelo Bassett? That

31:03

off absolutely? Who have I slarted with? I

31:05

fled with Tiffany hottish. Okay,

31:07

I can see that. She's

31:10

fun very funny. Yeah, but now

31:12

like yeah, anybody can nobody's off limit.

31:15

What about Oprah? Could you play with Oprah? I

31:17

love but not like

31:20

not like what

31:23

flirty you

31:25

would have feel like? Yesecually,

31:27

hopefully she watches my show and she loves my

31:29

work and one day I meet Oprah. But you got

31:31

a good at this work. Now,

31:37

did you have a childhood crush when you were growing

31:39

up, like somebody that you were watching on TV and

31:41

you were like, I gotta cry. I like her. That's

31:44

my ideal woman. We

31:50

met, she's so sweet.

31:53

Did you ask her out? No? Her

31:56

man wash That's right. She does a little boyfriend?

31:59

Little boyfriend? How

32:01

you made people feel less than boyfriend?

32:04

It was cool. I'm just playing. I'm being silly. He was cool. But

32:07

but if it doesn't, I love growing

32:10

up. Still. He's gonna be in that striper

32:12

movie coming out, And that's

32:15

a fantasy, right there, come true for

32:17

you. You're

32:20

going to see that. You know it absolutely.

32:23

What's your favorite date spot in Chicago? Remember

32:25

when we was in Chicago, we did live service in Chicago,

32:28

and we first of all, Chicago has

32:30

some of the best food and some of the restaurants

32:33

that you'll have amazing. So if you could give us some great

32:35

date spots to go to. What's your favorite places? I

32:38

just recently went to a spot on State Street called

32:40

Quartinos. That's a very nice spot,

32:42

Um, Cortinos Quartinos. Yeah,

32:44

okay, UM, give

32:49

us some, don't He's gonna give us, that's

32:51

what. Just be careful

32:54

now, you know it's

32:56

a great place called so Late Okay, so

32:58

the best soulful that's good

33:01

to me. So yeah did he did? He son has

33:03

been there every All the stars come to so Late when they

33:05

come to Chicago. Definitely go to so Late. Um,

33:08

but don't give us something pure spots. They'll give us some low

33:10

spots, some low spots. Yeah, um,

33:15

I go to Tavern in the Park. Yeah

33:17

that's that's true. All right, that sounds fansy. Now

33:21

I'm about to be back in Chicago soon, so I'm gonna

33:23

make sure I write all these down. Yeah, sure, hit

33:25

me up, No, I definitely will. Alright,

33:28

So the shy I think I'm

33:30

the most excited person in the room. No you're not. No, you're

33:33

not. Believe

33:39

me. And that guy, we

33:42

gotta you know what, we should have a watch party,

33:45

so we're gonna watch it together. Yes,

33:47

watch are you on the first episode? We got to make sure

33:49

before we put this watch Okay, he's on the first that

33:55

I can't wait. No, But seriously,

33:57

congratulations because I know it's been a journey and I know you

33:59

have some music on this new season of The Shy. Yes

34:02

I do um, Yes, I said um.

34:05

And it actually was recorded at home in my apartment. Actually,

34:08

now you got a studio, Yeah, I got the studio at the Crib.

34:11

At the at the Crib, my

34:13

homie, Daniel Brelan out of Atlanta, flew

34:16

him in. We knocked it out, did four songs

34:18

within the weekend and submit it

34:20

all eleven of my tracks to the music supervisor

34:23

for The Shy, and they just went to a woman. They

34:25

selected a song called Simplicity Congratulations

34:30

like a sexy song. It's so sexy. What's simplicity

34:32

about um? Especially

34:34

like just talking about um

34:38

in a guy's respective who's in a committed

34:40

relationship and who's just just telling the story

34:42

to this woman about just how she just makes everything so

34:45

simple and just everything is just so special

34:47

when you come around and when

34:56

you write that song about Um

35:00

was really for the guys, like, yeah, I

35:02

wrote that for me actually not even for women,

35:04

just for for me and to like kind of feel that

35:06

when they write just like sure that like

35:08

your draft just writing home, it's just like, yeah, you

35:11

know, we need that good energy make a

35:13

man feel good about themselves and a woman because

35:16

it's just real, Like the lyrics is just yeah,

35:18

finally at

35:21

home. I don't have any explicitly

35:24

I'm looking for. I

35:26

don't I don't have too much explicit

35:28

lyrics really at all. And in all of my music

35:31

it's really you know, you would think that I'm like

35:33

at least in my forties, like the way that I talked, Yeah,

35:37

I mean my mother is in her late sixties

35:39

right now. So it's like I grew up listening to Stevie

35:41

wanting Smoky. She's

35:44

so proud Terry

35:47

Faye black Men. She certainly she

35:49

probably loves watching the shows

35:52

like she'd be she'd be tweaking

35:54

off the show like and then when you did this, like

35:57

but let me tell you what she's like,

35:59

you cold let me take because I ain't know when you was

36:01

going. Yeah, she go on like

36:03

you're my biggest fan, like definitely was

36:06

the last time you've got a girl home to meet your mom? It's

36:08

been a while. Did she like

36:11

your girlfriends or she ye, she's such

36:13

a sweetheart, so like yeah, but she she's

36:15

to the point like she will even have a full conversation

36:17

with you, build you up as a as

36:19

a woman and all of that, just have a cold conversation

36:21

with you and still may not even like you. I was just like,

36:25

yeah, yeah, like you tripping. Yeah, And

36:28

she's always right. My mother is always

36:30

right, Like she's the realest person on what

36:33

if she was like, girl, my sonbar is

36:35

no good. Let me just tell you what. But nothing

36:37

real that she would say that, like she but she never

36:40

played that, you're not gonna bring one woman in here

36:42

and then thank you for no. She never played that

36:45

if Like I almost slipped and said the girl

36:47

day, miss

36:54

nobody. I'm good, I'm good on

36:58

the boy, you're young sory

37:01

teller like so I like to tell stories, but I must slip up

37:03

and Saturday. But anyways, um yeah,

37:06

any of the songs that you wrote, the eleven songs about

37:09

her, not at all.

37:11

It's not her about her, no simplicity.

37:14

Um, I was kind of someone in a relationship

37:16

when I wrote this song. But yeah,

37:19

to be honest, yeah, it's always someone in the back of your

37:21

head you think about. But um, and

37:23

like, once I listened to the lyrics myself,

37:26

you know, with an unbidis opinion, Like yeah, it's

37:29

kind of like, oh girl, who you what you do? You

37:33

think it's easier for what you do to be in

37:35

a relationship, but to be single, to be single,

37:39

But now experiences

37:44

that you're having right now, it's good for you

37:46

to be single. Enjoy yourself, enjoy your

37:48

life, get to know yourself and and and

37:50

all of that before you try to create

37:52

something with somebody else. That's what I'm glad. I got

37:54

all of that out of my system. Like I've lived with multiple

37:57

women, had committed relationships even though I was

37:59

young, but it was still the real deal there, you

38:01

know what I mean. So I'm good now. You

38:03

have had girls fight over you, absolutely

38:06

fighting over that. Girls

38:08

kissing over me actually different,

38:11

like we're going to fight,

38:14

Like we had a conversation

38:16

with you. You I can't believe you would even do that.

38:18

She's so I get a call, I mean

38:21

a video they ain't slowing down at the club.

38:23

Whoa Okay, alright

38:28

already it was like, don't call us no more,

38:31

get out here to

38:34

give my attention. Of course we know strick

38:36

ladies. You were like, where y'all that right

38:38

now? I

38:42

didn't I'm pull up. I

38:46

didn't live life to you know. I didn't. I didn't

38:48

do some stuff. So maybe a few

38:50

months back then I would have even

38:53

eager to just and I just relaxed

38:55

and chill. Yeah, yeah,

38:57

something to my sister like look at these

39:00

look at them, look at these homes, look

39:04

at these lovely young ladies. Absolutely

39:08

well, but we appreciate you so much for this shy

39:10

takeover. So time the shot is back. You

39:12

are a regular now serious

39:15

regularly, a serious regular that

39:17

we're happy to see that you're going to be all over. We're gonna

39:19

be looking forward to see what's how you're gonna take care of your little

39:22

brother Jake, how you're going to hold it down. And my

39:24

single will be releasing um early

39:27

April, early April around around

39:29

from the shot. You know, there's a different single. This single

39:31

is called No Simplicity be airing you.

39:34

You will hear that episode seven. I believe

39:36

I can hear that. My single,

39:39

my official single, Don't Get it twisted, twisted

39:45

crazy. I

39:50

know you're saying the title. Yeah, keep

39:52

that between

39:56

Okay, okay, calm down, don't

39:59

get it twisted. And yeah, we're gonna put that

40:01

out my team, Private Stock, Myshurst and

40:03

lou Um. Yeah

40:05

it's magic though, it's magic, hear

40:10

it. Just like, listen to this new artist. Don't say it's rich

40:12

from the Show're not gonna believe

40:14

you. What's your artist's

40:17

name? Okay,

40:19

Bartie at the

40:22

singer then at that moment, because

40:24

I don't want people to always remember that

40:26

I started off as an actor the platform

40:29

and that is also my true passion. But I love

40:31

music. They're going to be on stage

40:33

with a shirt off, take

40:37

it, take a shirt

40:39

off and all of day. They're not ready for that. Just

40:43

artist like

40:46

that. Let's keep that artist

40:50

partist. That's fire, alright,

40:53

let it. Thank you so much, bart

40:56

We appreciate you so much. And people can follow you bart

40:58

the Actor. No, no, you can follow my Instagram

41:00

page. Act like bart acts like

41:03

Underscore that that was real brand, act

41:05

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like Barton. Thank you, Barte, thank

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