In this episode, Apollo and Niu discussed how to calm each other down when we go through hard time in a relationship. Niu, as a semi tech nerd, shared his experience of comforting Apollo when both of them were upset. Apollo and Niu both consider understanding each other is one of the most important part in their relationship.

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在这期播客里，阿波罗和牛讨论了对亲密关系中「哄人」这个主题的看法，牛作为一个第一次谈恋爱的科技宅男，分享了他从不会哄人到「理智哄人」的心路历程，阿波罗和牛都认为相互理解和体谅是感情中必不可少的一部分。

Shownotes:

- 哄人很难

- 五个月不哄人，是一种什么样的体验？

    - 钻牛角尖

    - 哄人是一个感情中非常重要的学问

- 牛回答哄人的步骤

    - 四个步骤

- 牛分享自己如何从一个不会哄人的男生到一个相对会哄人的好男友

    - 双方态度特别重要

- 阿波罗和牛讨论关于男女之间的差异

    - 光哄不能解决问题