On this episode of Ask The Experts, Alka Sharma talks about how people self-sabotage themselves, their success, & their happiness and how you can look out for the signs so you don’t fall into the traps.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• This is where we fall into that trap of self-determining what’s going to happen. The rearview mirror of a car is smaller than the windshield. People who are growing are not sabotaging themselves because they spend very little time looking in the rearview mirror than looking forward. People with a growth mindset are looking forward and are present where they are.
• When you focus on what you lack in life, business, relationships, this is what you’re projecting into the future at a subconscious level & you’ll self-replicate that lack. This a symptom of somebody who is self-sabotaging something in their life. If you want to have something you must give up on something, that’s the law of reciprocity.
• Most people, when we get a little taste of success at anything, like a new business you’re endeavouring to get into or success in your life in general, we start sabotaging. We are on a relentless pursuit of success. Stop doing those behaviour patterns that make you do less of the thing that got you to the success and stop your progress.
• You are the sum of the 5 people you hang around with. Observe those people, see yourself, see how much of your conversations are good, quality conversations, what are the skillsets that you bring?

BEST MOMENTS

‘By constantly looking back you’re limiting yourself.’
‘Comparison is the thief of joy. Don’t compare yourself to other people, it’s negative.’
‘When you can learn to live in your lane you’re going to have a life that is worth so much more.’
‘The more the people in your life can help to elevate your growth, the less likely you are to sabotage your life.’

ABOUT THE HOST

Alka Sharma is a Real Estate Investor. She has a zest for life, helping her clients gain knowledge insights into property investing. Alka takes her time to make sure her client’s needs are met.

Alka is an accomplished, professional ballroom dancer having competed both nationally & internationally.

Alka is grateful for all her experiences that have shaped her today as successful Entrepreneur, Real Estate investor.

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